Second Date Update - Girl Code
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00:00Well, Mark sounds like a fun guy.
00:01He sounds like he's cool.
00:02He sounds like he stopped this date through with Natalie at 79.5 QIK doing our 7.15 second date update.
00:09I felt good.
00:10I thought he had a good vibe to him, didn't he?
00:11Yeah, I mean, he said that she was really pretty, she was smart, and he said they had a great conversation.
00:17They even talked about going out again, but so far he hasn't heard back from her when he reached out to her.
00:23Smart, but not intimidating.
00:25Smart, not using big words.
00:27Smart.
00:27Yeah, that's what he did say.
00:27Which he thought was funny.
00:29That was hilarious.
00:30I know.
00:31She didn't use too big of words for me.
00:33That's great.
00:33That's right.
00:33I love it.
00:34All right, well, listen, we're going to try to call Natalie right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:51Hello?
00:52Hi, good morning.
00:52Is this Natalie?
00:53Yeah, this is Natalie.
00:55Hey, Natalie.
00:55Good morning to you.
00:56This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
01:00Good morning.
01:02Hi.
01:04How are you doing?
01:07I mean, I'm doing okay right now.
01:10Okay.
01:10Well, I don't know if you've heard our show before.
01:14I would assume you have.
01:15Who hasn't, really?
01:16Oh, my God.
01:18No, but if you have heard our show before, we do something called the 715 Second Date Update.
01:23Have you heard us do that before?
01:24Yes.
01:25Okay.
01:25We talked to people about dates they went on.
01:27We actually wanted to ask you about a date you went on.
01:29Would that be okay if we did that on the air?
01:34Yeah.
01:35Okay.
01:36I appreciate it.
01:38We want to ask you about this guy, Mark.
01:39We heard you guys met online, and you guys went to the Green Lemon.
01:43You guys had a great time there.
01:44He said you were very beautiful.
01:46He said you were very smart.
01:47Had a great job.
01:49Made him feel comfortable.
01:51He felt like he was impressed by the fact that you treated the staff well, and you just seemed like a kind person is what he said.
01:59And he's been really looking forward to seeing you again, and I guess he has maybe talked about a potential second date, but he has heard nothing from you when it comes to setting up that next date and kind of wants to know what's going on.
02:10So we were hoping you could help us out, Natalie, in letting us know what's going on.
02:15Oh, wow.
02:16Well, I mean, it was really nice of him to say all those nice things.
02:20I don't know.
02:20I just feel bad for his ex-girlfriend.
02:25Do you know his ex-girlfriend?
02:27No, I don't know her, but I kind of feel like I do in a way because he talked to me a little bit about that relationship.
02:37Oh, boy.
02:38So he's just gotten out of a seven-year relationship, and I mean, like two weeks ago.
02:45Oh, wow.
02:46And I just, yeah, yeah, right there.
02:48That is my reaction as well.
02:51And I just, I feel like he's already dating.
02:54Like they were living together.
02:55They were together for all that time.
02:57And it ends, and two weeks later, he's on the dating app out there in the world.
03:02Like, I don't know.
03:03I just, I feel like it's disrespectful to her.
03:05It's so, like, typical guy to just end a relationship and just immediately go out with the next person he sees.
03:11Yeah, you know what?
03:13I understand what you're saying, and I get that because, I mean, obviously you can have, you know, feelings.
03:19You got to kind of do some closure and whatnot.
03:20I get that.
03:21But I do feel like it's a case-by-case situation.
03:23Yeah.
03:24You can't control who you meet when you meet them sometimes.
03:26But so you said they were dating for seven years and they just broke up like two weeks ago?
03:31Yes.
03:32What do you, you don't think that maybe they're actually really broken up?
03:35They're still breaking up?
03:36I just don't think she's, I don't think she thinks he's emotionally available.
03:40Yes.
03:41That.
03:41I mean, I'm no psychiatrist.
03:43I'm just saying.
03:44But, I mean, how is he talking about his ex?
03:46Was he, like, remorseful?
03:48Was he sad?
03:49Was he emotional when he was bringing her up?
03:51Good news, Lana.
03:52We actually have him on the phone.
03:54Yes.
03:55Oh, my God.
03:56Natalie, we wanted to tell you that as well.
03:58We actually have Mark on the phone.
03:59Maybe he can shed some light on this for all of us.
04:02I get what you're saying completely, Natalie.
04:05Mark, are you there?
04:06Yeah, I'm here.
04:07First, I'm sorry for even bringing up my ex.
04:10It is fresh, so that was my fault.
04:13But, to be honest with you, whatever I do after a seven-year relationship is my personal business.
04:20And that relationship was on the decline for more than a year.
04:23We went to couples therapy.
04:25We tried our best.
04:26Wow.
04:26But the relationship wasn't working.
04:28You should be more focused on me and you and not focused on her.
04:31You don't even know this girl.
04:32You don't know how maybe she mistreated me or maybe things she did to me in the relationship.
04:38I apologize that you think I'm judging you, but you're saying, like, your previous relationship has nothing to do with a relationship coming.
04:45It has everything to do with it because things happened in that and it goes with you.
04:49So, yeah, I absolutely deserve to have some sort of knowledge.
04:53And I'm just, like, girl code here.
04:55Like, I'm trying to give her a little bit of respect and not just be like, oh, whatever.
05:00I'm going to go jump on this guy.
05:01You know, who cares how she feels?
05:03Like, I don't want her to be any more obsessed than she already might be.
05:06Well, let me ask you a question, Mark.
05:08I mean, not to bring up your ex, but do you know if she's dating anyone right now?
05:11No, but I really don't care if she's dating anybody.
05:14That's none of my business.
05:15We broke up officially.
05:16We're done.
05:17I don't bring emotional baggage into a new relationship.
05:20I don't do that.
05:21Okay, but I don't want to be somebody's rebound.
05:24And I just, I don't want to be with a man who's just going to, like, be done with me and be like, bye.
05:30And no matter, we spent seven years together, let's say, and then you just leave two weeks later and move on.
05:36Like, I just, that doesn't work with me.
05:38What's a good time frame, Natalie?
05:40What a month?
05:41What two months?
05:42Case by case.
05:43That's what I'm saying.
05:44I mean, yeah, I guess, like, case by case, but seven years, I mean, you would think that at least a few months would be sufficient.
05:51I mean, after a breakup, you've got to work on stuff yourself, too.
05:55You shouldn't even, like, figure out what happened.
05:57Natalie, let me ask you a question.
05:59I know, I mean, he's not proposing right now.
06:01Would you be willing to go on another date to get to know him more and maybe see where he's at, maybe have a better understanding of what's going on?
06:10It just doesn't really work for me.
06:12I don't want to be a rebound.
06:14I think that it's just too soon.
06:16Okay.
06:17Well, Mark, you heard what Natalie had to say.
06:19This is just not a situation that, and maybe it's not even a situation.
06:23This is not something that she wants to kind of enter in right now.
06:26She thinks you have to go work on yourself, Mark.
06:27Well, no, but you know what, Mark?
06:29I mean, if you're in a good spot, congratulations.
06:31That's great, man.
06:31That's not always the easiest thing to do right out of a relationship.
06:34So, you know, kudos to you.
06:36We appreciate you reaching out to us, and we wish you luck, man.
06:40Yeah, thank you.
06:41Natalie, I don't agree with anything that you said, so I just want to say that.
06:45It's always a good start to a relationship.
06:46All right.
06:48Well, listen, Natalie, thanks for coming on as well.
06:50You guys have a great day, okay?
06:51Okay.
06:52Thanks.
06:52You too.