Second Date Update - Seeing Red
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00:00Well, Adam has reached out today on the Second Date Update, commercial-free New Country, 99.5QIK.
00:05He wants to see Becca again.
00:07They went to a cool spot.
00:08Yeah, they went to Woody's, that place down, I think it's in Bradenton.
00:11It's right there on the Manatee River.
00:12Really cool spot.
00:14Yeah, he said the date went really well.
00:16I asked if she seemed like she was into him, and he was like, yeah, as far as I could tell.
00:20Yeah, he's like, my body language.
00:22Mm-hmm.
00:22She seemed to be having a good time.
00:23So he was studying it a little bit, but it hasn't heard from her since the date.
00:27So that's kind of a bummer.
00:27Made sure she made it home okay.
00:29He did get a response with that, but that was it.
00:31So we were able to get a hold of her, and we got her on hold.
00:35She's agreed to talk to us.
00:37So let's do this right now.
00:38Becca, are you there?
00:39Hi, I'm here.
00:40Hey, Becca.
00:41We know we called you kind of out of the blue this morning, and we know that this is kind of a big ask.
00:46So we appreciate you saying yes to talking to us on the air about a date you went on.
00:51And this is about Adam.
00:53And we heard, you just heard us talking about it, and we heard you guys had a great time together.
00:59But he can't seem to set up another date with you, and maybe we can help out.
01:03If there's something going on, maybe we can work it out.
01:05But what's up?
01:06Why have you not gotten back to him?
01:08Um, oh boy.
01:11So he's like a nice guy and all, but like there's just, it just turned out to be kind of bad for me because he, it's just, he has this gross, I hate to say this, but he has this rash.
01:25He has a rash?
01:27Yeah.
01:27Wait, what?
01:30How do you know?
01:31Oh, well, it was obvious.
01:34It was like all the way from like the back of his neck, down like his face, down like the front of his neck, down to his arms.
01:44And it's just like, yeah.
01:46Are they allergic to something?
01:47I don't know yet, but like, there were just like these gross, disturbing, like blisters.
01:55And I'm just like grossed out.
01:58I'm trying to eat and I can't even focus.
02:03And like, I feel bad.
02:04I just, I don't want to be shallow or anything, but I'm kind of, I mean, come on.
02:09And I'm kind of a germaphobe anyway, so, you know, I just, yeah.
02:14And you never asked him about it?
02:16Well, no, I was, no, I mean, I thought, you know.
02:20And he never said anything about it.
02:21He never acknowledged it?
02:23No, he did not.
02:24Oh my God.
02:25White elephant in the room.
02:26There you go.
02:27With the white blister in the room.
02:29Exactly.
02:31I mean, Becca, we want to let you know that we do have Adam on the phone with us as well.
02:37Oh my God.
02:39No, you don't.
02:40We do.
02:41And, you know, you were honest.
02:43We asked you why you weren't getting back to him.
02:45That's what you said.
02:47Sorry, girl.
02:48Adam?
02:49Oh my God.
02:51Yeah.
02:52So, first of all, yeah.
02:53I wish you would have definitely asked me about it.
02:57It's just something that happens.
02:59Like, I just break out sometimes when it's just like a high pressure situation.
03:04Like, if I get really nervous.
03:06Sometimes it happens when I'm out in the sun.
03:10And, you know, to be honest, like, Becca, I was nervous.
03:13Like, I was really nervous for our date.
03:15I was really intimidated by you.
03:16And I was just a little bit nervous.
03:18And, you know, that's what happened.
03:22I wasn't like, I'm sorry.
03:24Like, I wasn't trying to gross you out or anything.
03:26It's not like I don't take care of myself or something.
03:28But that is just not, like, a normal rash.
03:31That is not like some, you had, like, blisters.
03:35That just does not, like, happen all of a sudden.
03:39No.
03:39Well, I mean, it didn't happen all of a sudden.
03:42Like, it happened the day before.
03:44It just happens to my skin.
03:46And, like I said, when I'm nervous, I have pressure.
03:49And, like, I can't control it.
03:50There's nothing I can do to control it.
03:52Oh, man.
03:52Only not be as nervous sometimes.
03:56Does this happen to you a lot on dates?
03:58I mean, yeah.
03:59It's definitely happened on dates.
04:00Sometimes it does.
04:01Sometimes it doesn't.
04:03You know, like, I was just really nervous for this one.
04:07Yeah, okay.
04:08I mean, listen, if you can't control it, you can't control it.
04:10I mean, that's, it is what it is.
04:12Becca, again, what, I mean, was he a gentleman on the date?
04:16Was he a nice guy?
04:18I mean, let's look at the positive here.
04:20Well, sure.
04:20He was a nice guy.
04:22He was a gentleman.
04:23But, like, that's just not okay.
04:25It just, I felt like it ruined the date.
04:27And it grossed me out.
04:29And that's just, I feel, again, I feel bad about it.
04:32Well, you said you didn't want to be shallow.
04:33It sounds a little bit shallow, though.
04:35I mean, because he can't help this.
04:37I'm sorry.
04:38I just, I am a germaphobe, and I'm not going to, I can't, I couldn't look past it.
04:43So you wouldn't be willing to go back out with him?
04:44Because maybe he would be less nervous this time.
04:46No, I'm sorry.
04:48It just, it kind of messed me up, as far as this person goes.
04:51I apologize, but no.
04:54All right.
04:55Well, Becca, thanks for coming on with us, and we appreciate your time today.
04:59Okay.
04:59Sorry about that.
05:02Hey, Adam, I'm sorry, man.
05:04Wow.
05:05Yeah, you listen.
05:06Let this one go.
05:08Again, this is not something that you can help, and I'm sorry this happened, but, yeah,
05:12let's just cut our losses here on this one, you know?
05:15Yeah.
05:16All right.
05:17Yeah, I guess that's it.
05:18Thank you, guys.
05:19You got it, man.
05:20That's so bad.
05:21Hang in there.
05:22All right.
05:22Thanks, guys.
05:24Yeah, I feel, ah, that's a bummer.
05:27I feel bad for him.
05:28I feel super sad that we did that, because I wish she would not have said that.
05:33Well, I mean, he wanted to know, and that's the kind of risk you take when you come on,
05:38so you got to kind of be ready for anything, but I don't know if he was, I'm surprised he
05:42didn't say, like, hey, listen.
05:43He should have.
05:44He should have, like, hey, listen, I just broke out.
05:47I just can, I mean, I can tell.
05:48Right.
05:49I mean, because you can tell if you're, like, got a rash on you.
05:52Yeah.
05:52He should have said something to her.
05:54He'd be like, next time we go out, it probably won't be like this, because I won't be as
05:56nervous, so.
05:57Right.
05:57He tried to play it off.
05:59Ah.
05:59On the other hand, I can understand, you know, somebody who gets grossed out easily by stuff
06:04like that.
06:05I don't know if I would want to be sitting on a date with somebody and, you know, having
06:09stuff all over their neck.
06:11I don't know.
06:12I might be kind of grossed out, too.
06:13So, I get it.
06:14I can't, I don't blame her.
06:16Yeah, either way, that was pretty rough.