Second Date Update - The Reunion
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00:00Alright, so a little different today on the 7-15 Second Date Update.
00:03Commercial-free, new country, 99.5 QIK.
00:06So, Justine has reached out to us about a date she went on with an old boyfriend.
00:11They dated like nine years ago in college.
00:13They both went to UT.
00:14Go Spartans!
00:15Anyway, what did you think of her?
00:17First impressions.
00:18She sounds great.
00:20She sounds smart.
00:21She was talking so highly of him.
00:24It sounds like she's really into him.
00:26And, I don't know, I mean, you already know the person.
00:28So, you kind of already know what you're getting into.
00:30And, it wasn't a bad breakup.
00:31No.
00:31When they broke up.
00:32That's a big thing.
00:33Because, I mean, obviously there was drama back then.
00:35Right.
00:35He was thinking this might spill over.
00:37Alright, so we're going to try to call Dean right now and see if we can get him on the phone.
00:54Hello?
00:56Hi, is this Dean?
00:56Yeah, who's this?
00:59Hey, Dean.
00:59Thanks for picking up this morning.
01:00This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
01:07Okay, what's up, guys?
01:09I'm not sure what this is about.
01:10Yeah.
01:11Well, let me try to fill you in real quick.
01:12This is actually about someone that is from your past.
01:16And, it's actually someone you dated back in college.
01:19Do you think you know who we're talking about?
01:21Oh, man.
01:22Yeah, I think I do, unfortunately.
01:23You guys talking about Justine?
01:25Unfortunately.
01:26That's not a good word.
01:27Justine sounded super sweet.
01:29She told us that you guys went on a date to J. Alexander's, and you guys kind of reconnected
01:33on social media recently, and you guys hung out, and you guys even kissed at the end of the date?
01:38Yeah.
01:38I mean, it sounded like things went really well.
01:41So, what's the deal?
01:44Man, this is super awkward.
01:46Okay, so, obviously, you guys are putting me on the spot a little bit here.
01:49So, yeah, we did go out again.
01:52She's a nice person.
01:54It's just that things weren't the same.
01:57You know what I mean?
01:57Like, it just didn't click for me.
01:59I didn't feel good about it.
02:01You know, it's just the spark wasn't there anymore.
02:04We did date in college, and we did break up, and we thought we'd give it another chance.
02:08But for me, it just wasn't there, man.
02:11Really?
02:13Yeah.
02:13It was one of those things where I realized why we broke up in the first place.
02:16But you guys kissed on the date, man.
02:18Obviously, you were feeling something on the date, right?
02:20Yeah.
02:21Honestly, I shouldn't have not done that.
02:23I kind of regret doing that, but I wanted to just make sure that it wasn't there.
02:28And honestly, the kiss confirmed it for me, that there was nothing there.
02:32I fell out of love.
02:33It's just not there for me anymore.
02:36Oh, you fell out of love?
02:37Like, this is what you're talking about?
02:38This is why you guys originally broke up?
02:40That's right, yeah.
02:41Okay.
02:42This is going to be kind of brutal.
02:45We actually have Justine on the phone with us, Dean.
02:47That's how we got your phone number, if you were wondering.
02:50I want to bring her back on here.
02:52Uh, Justine?
02:54Yep.
02:55Oof.
02:56That is so different than what I experienced on our date.
03:01Like, we are so compatible.
03:03We have a real connection.
03:06We both want a family.
03:07We're both, like, established in our careers.
03:10And it's just, like, I definitely felt a spark.
03:15And, you know, it's like, if you don't feel that spark yet, then, like, let's just...
03:21Why don't you just say you'll give it another chance, you know?
03:24I hear you.
03:26I really do.
03:27And I think you are a wonderful person.
03:29Like, you're incredible.
03:31And I know you're going to make someone happy one day.
03:34It's just, for me, the connection just was not there.
03:37I don't know what else to say.
03:40You know, you can go on another date, sure.
03:42But I know the same outcome is going to kind of happen.
03:46You know, I probably shouldn't have kissed you.
03:48And I really, I apologize if it led you on.
03:51But I also wanted to see and feel if there was something more.
03:55And after the kiss, it kind of solidified for me that, you know what?
03:59This ain't it.
04:00I love the fact that he knows what he wants and he's communicating it now.
04:04I mean, guys don't usually talk like that.
04:07So this is, I think this is a plus.
04:09Well, not for Justine.
04:10No.
04:10How could I feel such a big spark and such a real connection and you not feel that?
04:17Like, I feel like the way that you're describing that you don't feel it is the way that I do feel it.
04:25I'm just kind of confused.
04:27And I wonder maybe if, like, we can chat after this radio call.
04:31Because I just don't really understand why we wouldn't go on another date.
04:37But I do hear you.
04:38I mean, again, like, you're having these feelings.
04:42And this is, you know, but I'm not having them with you.
04:45Does that make sense?
04:45Like, I'm not there with you.
04:48So if you get on another call, it's not going to change anything.
04:51This is dead in the water, Justine.
04:53I'm sorry.
04:54Hey, guys, I think we're going in circles here a little bit.
04:56Yeah, I hear you, though.
04:57I hear you.
04:58I hear you.
04:59All right.
04:59Well, Justine, you got your answer.
05:01Not the one you wanted.
05:02Yeah, I got my answer.
05:03Not the one you wanted, obviously.
05:05Yeah.
05:06Dean?
05:06I still think the world of you.
05:08And I'm just going to process this, you know?
05:12Okay.
05:13All right.
05:14Well, Justine, thanks for reaching out.
05:15Thanks for coming on with us.
05:16We appreciate it.
05:17We know it takes a lot to come on the air with us.
05:19Dean, thank you for your time as well and your honesty.
05:23And I wish you both well.
05:25Okay.
05:25Sorry, Justine.
05:26Bye-bye, guys.
05:27Have a good day.
05:28Ooh, brutal.
05:29That's a tough one.
05:30Oh, man.
05:31The reunion.
05:32That's rough.
05:32The reunion at UT is going to be awkward.
05:35Yeah, y'all.
05:36I'm just saying, man.
05:37Oh, that was...
05:38She just plattered.
05:40She put it all out there, and it just was shot down.
05:43But, like I said, I mean, at least he was honest about his feelings.
05:47Like, listen, I'm just not feeling it.
05:49Because if you kiss somebody and you don't see fireworks, you don't have butterflies in
05:52your stomach, you're not going to go out with them again.
05:54It was kind of unfair to say, oh, I'm going to see...
05:56Let me see if I can get any sparks here by kissing you again.
05:59Isn't that what dating's all about?
06:00Well, not kissing everybody is not what dating's all about.
06:03For some, it is.
06:04Okay.
06:04You got to feel the butterflies.
06:06All right.
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