Second Date Update - Sunday Dinner
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00:00Well, Carter sounds like a great guy.
00:01He said he's never connected with a woman like he connected with Jennifer.
00:04Yeah, absolutely.
00:05And, you know, he said she laughed at his jokes.
00:09Always important.
00:10Yeah, absolutely.
00:11And they had a great time.
00:12So he's now wondering why she's not calling him back.
00:15So it sounded like a great date.
00:17Yeah, it did.
00:18We actually have her on hold.
00:19You've talked to her off air.
00:20I have.
00:21So let's bring her on.
00:22She's agreed to talk to us on the air.
00:23Jennifer.
00:25Hey, you guys.
00:26Hey.
00:26Thank you so much for agreeing to come on with us.
00:28I know this is a very big ask and it's weird and kind of awkward.
00:32We want to talk to you about a guy you want to date with.
00:36And his name is Carter.
00:37Do you remember Carter?
00:39Yes, I do.
00:40Okay.
00:40Let me just tell you what Carter told us.
00:42Okay.
00:42He said you guys met on Hinge.
00:43You guys went to BJ's.
00:44He said he's really never connected with somebody like he connected with you.
00:47Had a great time.
00:49I thought you had a lot in common with him.
00:52And the bottom line is he really wants to see you again.
00:55But he hasn't been able to get a hold of you to set up another date.
00:58And I guess you kind of just been blowing him off and not responding to him.
01:02And he kind of wants to know what's going on.
01:04So what's the deal?
01:05Because he sounds like a nice guy.
01:07He is a nice guy.
01:08We really did have a good time.
01:10It's just, you know, I get the sense that he's just moving way too fast.
01:15Way faster than I want to go.
01:17Okay.
01:18What do you mean by that?
01:19Well, I mean, not only did he say, you know, let's hang out again.
01:25That would be one thing.
01:26But he already invited me to his Sunday family dinner.
01:30And I thought that was moving way too fast.
01:34I mean, why would I be meeting his family after one date?
01:37I mean, it's nice, though.
01:39I mean, he must like you a lot to invite you there.
01:43Yeah, and every family is different.
01:45I mean, I don't know if it's casual or whatever.
01:47I think it's nice they get together.
01:49But I just think it's a little too early to include me in that.
01:52And the other thing is that his mom actually reached out to me on Facebook
01:56and sent me a direct message.
01:58And I was like, who is this person?
02:01So, I mean, they're very nice.
02:03I'm glad they get together and everything.
02:05But, like, that's just too much too soon.
02:07We've only been out once.
02:08I mean, several times I could understand, I guess.
02:11Hold on.
02:11Let's back up a little bit.
02:12So, his mom reached out to you?
02:15She did.
02:16What'd she say?
02:16Oh, man.
02:17She had to invite me.
02:18She said that she'd already heard so much about me
02:20and wanted me to join their family dinner.
02:22And I thought, wow.
02:24I mean, it's really nice, but it's too much too soon.
02:27That's a lot, yeah.
02:28Yeah, that is a lot.
02:29Again, I have to go back to, I think that's cool that he thinks so highly of you.
02:32But having his mom reach out to you is a lot after one date.
02:37Okay, well, I think we both can agree, Jennifer, that he's a nice guy, right?
02:41Yeah, for sure.
02:42Okay.
02:42Well, we actually have him on the phone with us.
02:45Oh.
02:46And that's how we got your number.
02:48And I want to give him a chance just to respond to what you had to say
02:51because he heard that.
02:53Hey, Carter?
02:54Yeah.
02:55Is that all true?
02:57Your mom reached out and you're having her over for family dinner
03:00or inviting her at least?
03:03Well, I mean, yeah.
03:04I mean, I guess I may have jumped the gun.
03:05I just, I don't know.
03:06I guess I thought that maybe she was feeling the same way I was feeling.
03:10And, you know, after the day and, you know, I'm close with my mother and my family
03:15and I talked to my mother about it the next day
03:17and my mother suggested inviting her over for Sunday.
03:21And I didn't really think that, you know, that would be too much too soon.
03:24I just kind of thought, yeah, that's a great idea because she's awesome.
03:28And I don't, I'm really sorry.
03:31I didn't realize that I was being so, I'd given you so much pressure.
03:37I just didn't, I didn't mean to do that.
03:39I mean, it was nice of you.
03:41I just feel like it's too much too soon.
03:43And it's, I don't want to move that, that fast.
03:46It just seemed like, you know, a little overwhelming.
03:49I totally understand that.
03:51And again, I'm sorry that my mother reached out to you.
03:53I, you know, she suggested it and I just, I guess I was kind of just a little starstruck
03:58by the whole thing and, and thought that, you know, I don't know.
04:02Did you know your mom reached out, Carter?
04:05I did know.
04:06I mean, I, you know, obviously I gave my mom her name so she could find her and, you
04:11know, my mom said, well, she's not responding to you.
04:12Maybe she'll respond to me.
04:13I, you know, and I thought, oh yeah, that's a great idea.
04:16I don't, I don't always, you know, think things through, I guess.
04:21That's all right.
04:22Jennifer, what if you guys did something more casual and maybe we put the whole meet
04:27in the family on hold?
04:28I mean, if Carter was cool with that, I mean, would you be willing to hang out again?
04:32I just, I feel like there are already all these expectations.
04:35Like maybe, you know, from Carter and his family.
04:38I mean, how do we move slow when they already know all about me and they're already like
04:42expecting me to come over and meet them?
04:43I mean, could we move slowly?
04:46Absolutely.
04:46I promise you that.
04:48Like you won't even meet my, you don't want to meet my family.
04:50You don't have to meet them for a year.
04:51Well, I guess we could take a slow go and have a drink.
04:55Yeah.
04:55I mean, yeah, I would be down for that as long as we could just, you know, yeah, grab a drink,
05:00kind of get to know each other a little bit and, and put the rest of it off.
05:04That would be fine.
05:06Hey.
05:07All right.
05:07Here we go.
05:09I love that idea.
05:10Okay, great.
05:11So let's do this.
05:12We'll set it up for you guys.
05:13We'll pay for it.
05:14And we want to make sure this is a, it's very casual and no families involved, Carter.
05:21And you just get to know each other a little bit.
05:24Okay.
05:25All right.
05:26Sounds great.
05:27Carter, you're cool with all the rules?
05:29Absolutely.
05:30Absolutely.
05:31All right.
05:31Awesome.
05:32I love it.
05:33All right.
05:33We did it.
05:34We did it.
05:35All right.
05:35Very nice.
05:36Well, I'm going to put you both on hold.
05:37We'll get all your info and then we'll set you guys up.
05:39Okay.
05:40Okay.
05:42Yeah.
05:43You know what she said though, was there's already these expectations out there.
05:46That's going to be tough.
05:47It is going to be tough, but he did sound like a great guy.
05:49He sounded like a nice guy and he's just bragging about this date.
05:52He went on to his mom and you know, his mom, maybe they'll like, don't you know, come on,
05:56let's meet her type gang.
05:57I mean, got to take it slow.
06:00They are going back out again.
06:01How do you feel about this?
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