Second Date Update - Tough Crowd
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00:00All right, so we got Andrew, who has reached out to us, trying to get on another date with Bree.
00:05And he seems like a pretty straightforward guy.
00:08And he seems like he really has thought about this date that he went on with Bree.
00:11He said he's been on enough dates to know when a girl is into him and everything.
00:15So he's like, I really thought she was.
00:17But he has no idea what happened on the date and why she's not calling.
00:20And we've heard that before.
00:21Oh, we have.
00:22Okay, so we're going to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
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00:41Beep.
00:42Hello?
00:43Hey, this is Bree.
00:45It is.
00:45Who's this?
00:46Hey, Bree.
00:47This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
00:50How you doing?
00:52What?
00:55I'm good.
00:56How are you?
00:57We're great.
00:58Hey, would you have a couple minutes to talk to us on the air?
01:01We wanted to ask you a couple questions.
01:03Oh, my God.
01:03I mean, sure.
01:05Yeah.
01:06Okay.
01:07Well, I appreciate that.
01:08We want to actually ask you about this guy that you went on a date with to Jackson's.
01:13His name is Andrew.
01:15Oh, okay.
01:17That went sour fast.
01:19I was going to say, yeah.
01:19What happened there?
01:20What happened?
01:21I mean, this guy seems, he was talking about how beautiful you were and how great of a date
01:26it was, and he thought you were really, you know, you're hitting it off, but it hasn't
01:31heard anything from you since the date.
01:33Wow.
01:35I can't believe we're even talking about the same person.
01:39That is not my experience of that date.
01:42Okay.
01:43What was it?
01:45He was a jerk.
01:47I don't know how else to say it.
01:48Like, from the moment it started, he was, like, cracking, I guess he thought they were
01:55jokes.
01:56They were not funny.
01:57He was just belittling everything.
02:01Like, the first thing he said was a belittling comment about my outfit, and, you know, he said,
02:08oh, is that how you wear your hair on dates?
02:10What?
02:11Are you kidding me?
02:13Yeah, like, do you think that makeup is impressive, or just, like, every little thing, it was
02:19like he had to belittle.
02:22It was just, it was wild, and the whole time he was just having fun at my expense.
02:27I kept giving him looks, like, hoping he'd get it, but it never stopped.
02:32It was literally the entire conversation, if you could even call it that.
02:36And I was just like, can we be an adult for a second here?
02:39Like, do you even want to be here?
02:41Because I certainly don't.
02:42Did you say that, or did you, that was the look you were giving him?
02:45That was the look I was giving him, and I was not laughing along with his joke.
02:51I was, you know, doing a lot of, like, clearing my throat and trying to change the subject,
02:55and, you know, I'd ask him about himself, and it would almost immediately turn back to
03:02me.
03:02Um, I, you know, ordered, like, a chicken plate, um, and he was like, you're gonna eat
03:10all that on a date?
03:12I just, I couldn't even eat my food without being belittled.
03:16Did he realize what he was doing, though, to you?
03:17Yeah, I don't want to defend him by any means, Brie, but would he laugh this off after he
03:23said something, or was he really trying to be rude?
03:25He, he would laugh it off, sure, but, like, at a certain point, when I am not laughing,
03:33I am not responding in the same way.
03:35You're rolling your eyes, and you're turning your head.
03:38Oh, a lot of eye-rolling, believe me.
03:40Okay, I think I kind of know what she's talking about, because guys have a tendency to do this
03:44sometimes, or they think they're funny, and they're not.
03:47Well, I'm super serious, so I'm confused.
03:49I'm looking right at you, JR!
03:51What's that?
03:51Um, okay, well, Brie, this is a for-real thing.
03:58We have Andrew on the phone with us, and I want to bring him back on, because that was
04:01not the vibe that we got from him by any means, but I get what you're saying.
04:05Um, Andrew.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Kind of a bad approach, huh?
04:10Well, I mean, I thought it was obvious that I was joking.
04:15I, well, you better laugh.
04:17Yeah, that's just laughing.
04:18Like, like, don't, don't women like guys with a sense of humor?
04:22Yeah, but women also don't like bullies.
04:26I mean, that's not the same thing.
04:28Well, I, I'm sorry, I, I didn't feel like I was bullying you, I was just joking.
04:34I thought you were cool with it, and, you know, I was just talking with you like I would
04:39talk with my friends.
04:41Well, that's...
04:41I don't know you like that.
04:44Like, I'm not one of your buddies.
04:45Don't talk to me that way.
04:46I'm, I'm a girl you're on a first date with, and I should be treated as such.
04:51I'm sorry that I made you feel uncomfortable, uh, with my joking.
04:55And maybe, you know, that's just the way that I am, though.
04:58I, I like to joke around with people, and, uh, you know, if I went too far, I'm sorry.
05:03I, I can, I mean, I could, I could be more serious.
05:07Um, the fact that you even are saying, if I went too far, I'm sorry, if, no, I think
05:14you're not an adult ready for a serious relationship.
05:17So, no, you're, you're rude.
05:20It wasn't funny.
05:21It was just mean.
05:22And I can't believe you didn't pick up on any of the unbelievably obvious signs that I
05:26was putting out there.
05:27So, uh, hard pass for me.
05:31Really?
05:31Okay.
05:31I, I just thought maybe because he says, sorry, Bri, that he, you might be able to hit
05:36the reset button.
05:37No.
05:37And plus he's calling us.
05:38He really wants to go out with you.
05:39That's kind of a big deal to call us.
05:42Is it?
05:43Like, I'm sure it's maybe a great gesture, but ultimately it's still putting me in an uncomfortable
05:51position.
05:52Okay.
05:53So his goal at the end of the day is to make me uncomfortable is what it seems like.
05:56And I'm not going to entertain that.
05:58No.
05:59All right.
05:59All right, Andrew.
06:00It's her call, man.
06:01We tried.
06:02I'm sorry.
06:02A second date's not going to happen.
06:04You know, I mean, to be honest, she sounds like she just takes herself way too seriously.
06:08So that's fine.
06:10We're probably not right for each other anyways.
06:12Okay.
06:12Oh, wildly not.
06:13I don't even have time for this anymore.
06:15I'm going to go.
06:16All right.
06:16We'll let you go.
06:17Thank you, Bri.
06:18Thank you, Andrew.
06:18You guys have a great day.
06:19Boy.
06:20Ooh.
06:21It's a tough one.
06:22That was tough.
06:23Because I like to joke around, but belittling somebody, you know, and nonstop on a first
06:29date is not a good look at all.
06:32No.
06:32I wouldn't give you the time of day, so I don't blame her.
06:35Would you give him another chance, Zoe?
06:36We want to know 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:41He did say sorry.
06:42So hit us up.