Second Date Update - Surprise DM
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00:08Right now, though, second date update.
00:10Trying to help out two people.
00:11Get them matched up on another date.
00:12We'll see if we can make that happen for Alicia and Brett.
00:16We have Brett on the phone.
00:17We have him on hold right now.
00:18Alicia was not able to get a hold of him, but we were.
00:20Thank you, Kevin.
00:21Good work.
00:22And let's bring him on and just see if we can get some answers out of him right now.
00:26Brett, you there?
00:27Hello, this is Brett.
00:28Hey, Brett.
00:29Appreciate you taking the time to talk to us.
00:32And I know you talked to Kevin off the air, and he kind of told you that he wanted to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:38Right.
00:38Yeah, so we want to talk to you about this girl, Alicia.
00:43Oh, man.
00:44You know, that particular Alicia is clueless.
00:47Let me tell you right off the bat, man.
00:50She's clueless?
00:51Yeah.
00:52Yeah.
00:53That, I mean, I had a great time and everything until I got home and I got a DM and my Instagram from her.
00:59And it basically actually said verbatim, great time, but not as good looking as I thought.
01:06That was it.
01:07She sent that to you?
01:09Yeah.
01:09I mean, why would anybody send, why would she send me that?
01:12Why?
01:13Why?
01:13Yeah.
01:14Oh, that's mean.
01:17Okay.
01:18Let me just get this straight.
01:18So you go on the date, you go home, you check your Instagram, you have a DM from her.
01:24And what does it say again?
01:25It said, great time, but not as good looking as I thought.
01:29That's it.
01:30Nothing else.
01:31Oh, my gosh.
01:32Well, I mean, I don't know why she'd be reaching out to us.
01:35Not making sense at all.
01:36She was not like, because she said she was into you.
01:38She had a great time and she wants to see you again.
01:41And I guess you said that as well on the date, but now it makes sense why you haven't reached out to her.
01:46I thought things were great.
01:47And then I got home and saw that.
01:49And I'm like, what the heck?
01:50I wouldn't call her either.
01:51Yeah.
01:51Yeah.
01:52I get it.
01:53Well, here's the deal.
01:54This is going to get more awkward.
01:55Brett, we actually have Alicia on the phone with us and I'd love to bring her back on and get her take on this.
02:00Because that is really weird.
02:01Oh, boy.
02:03Do you care if we bring her on real quick?
02:06I do not care at all.
02:07Okay.
02:09Alicia.
02:10Hello.
02:11Yeah.
02:12What are you doing?
02:14You sent him a DM and said you're not that good looking?
02:19I think that was an accidental DM and I'm really sorry.
02:23Well, but I mean, you're calling us to go on a date with this guy.
02:27But apparently you meant to send this DM to somebody else saying that you're not that attracted to him?
02:33I mean, I meant to send that to my friend and it accidentally went to him.
02:39But, I mean, I did have a great time and I think you're really funny.
02:44And it was a good time, I thought.
02:47I just don't know how she can just talk as if that didn't offend me at all.
02:53You know what I mean?
02:54Like, let's just blow that part off and continue being nice to each other.
02:58Come on.
02:59Alicia, you're obviously disappointed in the looks department when it comes to me.
03:06How could that not offend me?
03:07How could you think that that wouldn't offend me?
03:09Well, looks aren't everything.
03:11I wouldn't take it too personal.
03:13I mean, I had a great time, you had a great time, and I think we could continue having a wonderful time together.
03:21And, I mean, what are you talking about?
03:25Look, I don't want to go out with someone who isn't attracted to me.
03:29I mean, I don't even think you know what you want.
03:33I don't really care that much about looks.
03:38You have a great personality.
03:40Right, so you're not attracted to me, and I should be fine with you being okay with my sense of humor when we go out if we're dating.
03:48I want mutual.
03:49That's what I want.
03:50I want mutual attractiveness.
03:52Well, I mean, I just don't think that attraction is always just physical.
03:58I'm not into you.
03:59You just seem clueless, man.
04:01You just seem awfully clueless.
04:03I apologize, but I can't be with someone like that.
04:06Wow.
04:06Yeah.
04:07Well, it sounds like this DM, Alicia, did some damage, obviously, and I kind of get where Brett's coming from in this case.
04:15I mean, if you tell someone that they weren't as good-looking as you thought, that is kind of a bummer to hear.
04:20So you can kind of tell or understand why he'd be bummed out about that, right?
04:24Yeah, I mean, I get it.
04:26But I wouldn't let it affect my whole life and my whole relationship situation.
04:33But was it a mistake, or did you send that to him?
04:37It was a mistake.
04:39Okay.
04:40You meant to send it to somebody else.
04:41Yeah, to my friend.
04:43Yeah.
04:43Okay.
04:44All right, Brett.
04:44I'm just going to leave this up to you, man.
04:46I heard what you said already, but I'll ask you still.
04:48Is this going to be a deal-breaker for you?
04:52Yeah.
04:52Talking about mistake, yeah, I think the whole date was a mistake for me.
04:56Okay.
04:57Oh, man.
04:57All right.
04:58Sorry that happened.
04:59Well, Alicia, you heard what Brett had to say.
05:01I'm sorry that happened.
05:03I'm sorry you guys aren't going to go back out again.
05:05This doesn't sound like a match, but I wish you both luck, okay?
05:09Good luck.
05:11Wow.
05:12I still don't think that she realized the damage that she did with that DM.
05:16Well, she kept saying, oh, looks really aren't everything.
05:20It's not a big deal.
05:21And I'm like, oh, my God, stop.
05:23Here, take this shovel.
05:24You're just digging yourself deeper into a hole.
05:26Yeah, big time.
05:27Oh, my gosh.
05:28Yeah, she was kind of pissed.
05:29I felt really bad for him.
05:31Yeah.
05:32But I don't think he really cared, though.
05:33I don't think he cared either.
05:34I think he had enough confidence to be like, whatever, just check.
05:38All right, let's see what you think about this.
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