Second Date Update - The Unwanted DM
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00:00Well, Melissa, she sounds very nice.
00:02She described a great date with Eric.
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00:07It's your second date update.
00:08It sounded like things really went well
00:09and that she's thought about this date
00:10of like what possibly could have gone wrong.
00:12She was very thorough in her, you know,
00:16description of everything.
00:17So I asked her straight up,
00:19is there anything you can think of?
00:20And she said, no.
00:21She goes, we didn't, nothing happened on the date.
00:23We didn't talk about anything weird.
00:24She's like, no, but she, I said, okay,
00:26we'll call and find out.
00:27And she's like, yes, please do.
00:28All right, we're going to do that right now.
00:29Let's see if we can get Eric on the phone.
00:45Hello?
00:46Hey, is this Eric?
00:48Yeah.
00:49Hey, Eric.
00:51How you doing?
00:52This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
00:55How you doing?
00:56I'm doing okay.
00:58All right.
00:58I know we're kind of catching you off guard this morning.
01:00We want to see if we could talk to you on the air.
01:03And it's actually about a date you went on.
01:05Do you have a couple minutes to talk to us?
01:08Okay.
01:09This is so random.
01:11Sure.
01:12All right.
01:12Well, I appreciate that.
01:13We want to talk to you about a girl named Melissa.
01:15I guess she has metonmatch.com.
01:17You guys went to Grillsmith and Wesley Chapel.
01:20Had a great meal together.
01:22Tell you what, she called you a complete gentleman.
01:24Said you were pulling the chair out for her.
01:26You opened her car door as you walked into her car after the date.
01:30Things went well as far as conversation goes.
01:34Even a kiss on the cheek at the end of the date, which she thought was very sweet and, you know, not too forward or anything like that.
01:40All things seem to be leading to another date.
01:42But she has not heard from you and has not gotten any responses from you.
01:46We kind of wanted to know what was going on.
01:47Um, yeah.
01:50Well, there's definitely a reason that I didn't contact her.
01:54Okay.
01:54What's the deal?
01:55I got a DM from her husband.
01:59Whoa.
02:01I can see why you're not going back out with her.
02:04Wow.
02:05Okay.
02:05What did he say?
02:06Uh, he was basically kind of inquiring about, you know, who I am and who do I think I am kind of thing.
02:15How did he find you?
02:17I had no idea and that's the problem.
02:19Uh-oh.
02:20It was very strange.
02:22You know, if this is like something.
02:24Yeah, hello?
02:25Yeah, I'm sorry.
02:26Eric, we actually have Melissa on the phone with us too.
02:29Melissa.
02:30Melissa, what's this about?
02:31You said it's my husband?
02:34Yeah.
02:34Okay, no, no.
02:37I told you I had previously been married, but no, I don't have a husband anymore.
02:43We're not together.
02:44I don't understand how he would have contacted you and why in the world he's saying he's my husband because we are not together.
02:52We've been done for like six months.
02:54I told you.
02:55Well, not according to this person.
02:57He's very much believes that he is still engaged in some sort of relationship and that I am somebody who should not be in the middle.
03:07I didn't bother to respond.
03:09No, that's infuriating.
03:12Melissa, is this something that your ex has done to you in the past?
03:15Do you feel like he thinks it's over between you guys?
03:18Definitely over.
03:19Like, there's a divorce lawyer already, like, you know, in the mix of everything.
03:24Like, we're going through that whole process, but we're not together.
03:26We haven't been together for, like I said, like six months.
03:29Well, yeah, but how did your husband or ex or whatever he is find out about Eric?
03:34I mean, that's weird.
03:36Yeah.
03:37I'm going to have to find that out myself because I have no idea about that.
03:41Do you think he has like access to your Match.com profile?
03:44Or access to her phone?
03:46He's somehow, but I mean, like, we're not living together anymore.
03:49Like, obviously, there's a reason why we're, you know, filed for divorce because he's crazy.
03:56So, like, I'm sorry, Eric.
03:58I don't know why he did that or how he got a hold of you, but I assure you, we are not together.
04:04Yeah.
04:05Well, I mean, it sounds like you got a lot on your plate over there to deal with.
04:10I'd say.
04:10Well, like I said, though, like, we're done.
04:13Like, he's not on my plate anymore.
04:16So, Eric, since, you know, obviously she doesn't want to be with this guy, you want to go back out with her?
04:22Get right to it.
04:23I mean, I try to say this with all respect I can.
04:27I really steer clear of these kind of situations.
04:31If it's like this at the beginning, I mean, this is too much drama right now.
04:37That's a good point.
04:38Well, Melissa, I mean, it sounds like if you're telling us everything that your ex is still trying to involve himself in your dating life or your personal life.
04:47So, yeah, that's obviously probably a conversation you're going to want to have.
04:50You know, you got to see kind of where Eric's coming from, too.
04:52He kind of got caught in the middle of this and didn't know anything about, you know, this ex of your, well, knew that you had been married before, but didn't know that your ex was still kind of in the picture.
05:02At least it seems like that.
05:04Yeah, I mean, obviously he's still trying to ruin my life in some sort of way continuously, but like I said, though, we are not together.
05:13The lawyer is getting everything taken care of, and I don't know why you couldn't give me a chance just knowing, hearing from me and trusting and understanding that we are not together.
05:24He is not my husband.
05:26He will never be my husband again.
05:28Like, can you not try and give me another chance since we had such a great time?
05:33It's just too much for me.
05:34I'm really sorry.
05:35Like, it's just too much, so I think it's better just to stop it early.
05:38All right.
05:39Well, listen, Eric, I appreciate you coming on with us.
05:42Melissa, I'm sorry this is kind of the answer we got, but you kind of see where Eric's coming from.
05:47I do wish you luck in everything going on in your life, and thanks for coming on with us today.
05:52All right.
05:53Yeah, thank you.
05:53Thanks, Eric.
05:54Best of luck.
05:55You too.
05:56All right, guys.
05:58I feel bad if Melissa honestly didn't know that, but I will tell you,
06:02that I would do the exact same thing Eric is doing.
06:05I would run for the hills if that was happening.
06:07You have to.
06:08Yeah, you're not going to get him.
06:09You don't want that drama.
06:10Yeah, you're not going to get him, because you don't know what this guy is.
06:12You don't know what his background is or any of that kind of stuff,
06:15but she might want to change some passwords on her phone or computer,
06:18because I'll bet you he's got access to some of her stuff.
06:21All right.
06:21Well, where are you at on this?
06:23How would you have handled this?
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