Second Date Update - Like Father, Like Son
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00:00Commissioner from New Country 99.5 QYK, it is Lana and Kevin in this morning.
00:04JR, of course, if you did not hear yesterday, they had their baby girl over the weekend.
00:10So obviously he is with them this morning and probably will be for the rest of the week.
00:15Right now we're doing the second date update and we just spoke to Eddie on the phone and told us about his date with Tanya.
00:21They went to some cool place in St. Pete and then he said they were really having a great conversation.
00:26Lasted like three hours.
00:27Yeah, and he said that she was a good listener and obviously had a good conversation if it lasted that long.
00:33Right.
00:34But obviously something's going on because she's not now returning his calls.
00:38So he asked us to help out and see if we can get her on the phone, which we have done so.
00:43OK, yeah, you got a hold of her and she's agreed to come on the air with us, right?
00:46OK, well, let's bring her on.
00:48Good morning, Tanya.
00:49How are you doing?
00:50Hi, good morning.
00:51I'm fine.
00:52How are you?
00:53Good.
00:53We appreciate you coming on the air with us.
00:55Sorry to give you a call this early in the morning, but I wanted to see if you'd be comfortable talking to us about this guy, Eddie, that you went out on a date with.
01:03We just have a couple of questions we wanted to ask you.
01:05OK.
01:06OK.
01:07Well, we got a chance to talk to Eddie and he told us about this amazing date that you guys had really connected.
01:12And he's been trying to get a hold of you to ask you out on another date, but you're not responding back to him.
01:17So we just kind of want to know what's up.
01:19You know, I really am not getting a good vibe from his childhood.
01:26And his dad, to me, just seems like a guy that can't commit.
01:29So I have a problem with that.
01:32OK.
01:32Can you explain a little bit more like what's going on with this?
01:35What happened in his childhood?
01:36Yeah.
01:37So we talked at dinner about his family, you know, both of our families.
01:43And he told me that his parents split up when he was pretty young.
01:47I don't remember exactly when they got divorced, but he was young.
01:50And his dad had women just like bouncing in and out of the house.
01:55His dad was like chasing a bunch of women when he was married.
01:59And he's had four wives.
02:01It just doesn't seem like, yeah.
02:05And it's not a good look.
02:08He just obviously doesn't seem like a person that can commit.
02:11And Eddie grew up with his dad.
02:14So I hate to assume this.
02:16I really do.
02:17But to me, it seems like he has the same mentality of his dad because that was his, you know, role model growing up.
02:25And I don't know, it worries me that the path that his dad took, you know, not being committed to a woman for his entire childhood just seems like the path is down, too.
02:36Because Eddie hasn't had a girlfriend in a while.
02:38And he just doesn't seem that serious.
02:42Interesting.
02:43Yeah.
02:44His dad just seems like a bad person.
02:47And frankly, I don't really want to waste my time, you know?
02:50Well, I mean, yeah, I can see where you're kind of getting an idea there.
02:56But that's his dad.
02:59Here's the thing, Tanya.
03:00So Eddie was the one who got a hold of us.
03:02He wants to go out on another date with you.
03:05So obviously, I think you're wrong about that.
03:08I think maybe he does want to commit.
03:11So I'm going to bring Eddie back on the phone right now because he just kind of heard what you had to say.
03:16And I want to dive further into this.
03:17Eddie, are you there?
03:19Yeah, I'm here.
03:20So you heard what Tanya had to say.
03:23So I feel kind of bad because this is obviously all about your dad, but doesn't really reflect you as a person.
03:31Yeah.
03:32What are your thoughts on that?
03:33Yeah.
03:34I mean, those are all of that's all my dad.
03:37Like, that's not me.
03:38Like, I just I feel like you kind of got to be kidding me.
03:42Right.
03:42I mean, like, because my dad does what he does, that means that I'm going to do.
03:48I just feel like you just kind of jump into some conclusions.
03:51Like, I just feel like that's really unfair.
03:53Like, what my dad does is his business.
03:57And like, Tanya, if I wouldn't have said anything to you about that, you wouldn't have even known.
04:02And I'm sharing this stuff with you and it's being used against me.
04:07Like, I didn't realize that you were on the phone.
04:12Um, and I know it's, it sounds horrible and I'm just seeing that the odds just aren't good.
04:20Like, they're not in my favor.
04:23And you talked about, you know, how you didn't even have to mention on the first date, but eventually I would have found out.
04:29And that kind of stuff is really important to me.
04:32And I told you, my parents are still together and they celebrate their anniversary and they're committed to each other.
04:38And that's what I grew up with.
04:39And the fact that your dad was your role model and he was running around behind your mom's back just makes me feel like you could be easily persuaded.
04:48And I really don't want to look back in a year after you cheated on me where I have this feeling about how this could have gone, you know, and I'm just, I don't want to get hurt.
04:59Tanya, the guy hasn't even done anything wrong.
05:01Yeah, don't you think you're jumping to some conclusions?
05:04I mean, he's not, he's a role model in some ways, but not in others.
05:08I mean, like, this is the thing is like, you know, I really felt comfortable with you opening up and like, women are like, oh, why don't men open up?
05:18Like, this is like, this is what I did.
05:19I opened up, I communicated, I shared my life.
05:24And then it's like the second I said something, it was used against me.
05:29I mean, come on, like that.
05:30You're just jumping to conclusions.
05:32You're just taking your theories and you're just running with them.
05:35I mean, like, that's just so unfair.
05:38You can't treat people that way.
05:40I just have a bad feeling.
05:41I'm sorry that like, that you feel like you can't open up to girls and stuff.
05:46This is just a situation, you know, I need to trust my gut.
05:51But this is about his dad.
05:53It's not about Eddie.
05:54I mean, shouldn't you give Eddie a chance?
05:56I really don't want to look back after knowing what I know and think, okay, wow, I just spent a year of my life and now I'm heartbroken.
06:06And he's like father like son.
06:09Ooh, okay.
06:09I don't think it's really fair to do to Eddie because you're not even giving him a chance.
06:14You're just basing this all on his dad's actions.
06:18I mean, can you give him another chance?
06:20You want to go out with him on another date?
06:22No.
06:23Well, Eddie, we called her.
06:26We tried.
06:27We tried.
06:29Unfortunately, kind of stinks.
06:31I mean, you're opening up to somebody and then, yeah, it kind of backfires on you.
06:35So, sorry that this one didn't work out for you, but thank you for going on the air with us, Tanya.
06:40We do appreciate it.
06:42And, Eddie, thanks for your call.
06:43Yeah, thank you, guys.
06:45Huh.
06:45Well, I mean.
06:46That's a tough one.
06:48And, you know, he might be the greatest guy ever and his dad may have no effect on him whatsoever, but she doesn't even want to even think about it.
06:57Yeah, really unfair, I believe, for her to do.
07:00But I want to know your thoughts.
07:02I mean, what are you thinking?
07:03Is she right on this one, or is she completely being unfair?
07:08I mean, I don't know.
07:09You side with Eddie.
07:10You side with Tanya.
07:11Give us a call and let us know your thoughts.
07:13800-992-1099.