Second Date Update - First Time For Everything
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00:00Well, he sounds a little nervous, but we are trying to help out Brendan this morning in the Second Date Updates, commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:07One of the things that we were talking to him about is that he waited a week. He didn't call her for a week.
00:12After the date, yeah.
00:13After the date. I kind of think maybe that's too long. I mean, if some guy didn't text me right away, I would think that he didn't like me.
00:19So, I don't know. Maybe that's what's going on here, but who knows.
00:22Let's try to call Laura right now.
00:30Hello?
00:43Hi, this is Laura.
00:45Yeah, this is She Who's It.
00:47Hey, Laura. It's good to hear your voice. This is actually JR, Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
00:55You guys are on the radio.
00:57That's us.
00:58Wait. Am I on the radio?
01:00Is that okay? Can we talk to you, actually?
01:04Yeah, I hope I won something.
01:06Well, you may have won something, but we do want to talk to you about a date you went on with this guy, Brendan.
01:11Do you remember Brendan?
01:13Um, yes.
01:15Yeah, Brendan told us about your guys' date at Velartas in Newport Ritchie.
01:19Yeah.
01:19And I'll tell you what, this guy was gushing about you when we talked to him.
01:22And now, um, is a little confused, because I guess he reached out to hang out again, but got nothing from you.
01:30We were just wondering maybe if there's a reason for that. Could you fill us in on that?
01:34I mean, gosh, he's super, super, super sweet. There's no doubt about it.
01:39But I don't think, you know, we're in that. That's basically it, I guess.
01:44All right.
01:46Well, I mean, but why?
01:47Yeah.
01:47But why now?
01:48I mean, I guess, like, you know, the one thing that kind of really threw me off is that, you know, he's never had a girlfriend in his life before, ever.
01:58Like, never even kissed a girl.
02:01Oh.
02:02And I'm just, you know, I was shocked when he told me that.
02:06And I guess just where we are in our lives, where I'm at in my life, it's like, I don't think that would, you know, I don't think I'm the right fit for him, and vice versa.
02:17And, yeah.
02:18How old of a guy is he?
02:20We're both late 30s.
02:22Okay, and he's never had a girlfriend, and he's never kissed a girl.
02:25Interesting.
02:26He told you that?
02:28Yeah.
02:29All right.
02:29Well, Laura, this is something that was a turnoff for you?
02:33Because, I mean, I guess the opposite end of the spectrum would be he's had 100 girlfriends.
02:36Right.
02:38Well, that's true.
02:39I didn't think about it like that, right?
02:40And I have dated guys that I'm like, oh, my God, you're such a sleazeball.
02:45You know?
02:48Are you just worried because he's not going to be experienced in this area?
02:52You know, it's just like, there's so much to learn when you're dating.
02:56And it's like you have to kiss a lot of toads or frogs, I guess, before you find your princess or your prince.
03:02And it's just kind of about that lack of experience.
03:05There's like emotional maturity that is part of that, you know, that equation.
03:09It's a major component.
03:10And you get that only by kind of, you know, the dating game.
03:14All right.
03:15Laura, we have Brendan on the phone with us.
03:18Okay.
03:19And that's how we got your phone number.
03:21I want to bring him back on because he's been in the dark about this.
03:24But now we've heard why you're not getting back to him.
03:26Brendan.
03:28Yeah.
03:28Hello.
03:29Is what she's saying true?
03:31First off, never had a girlfriend?
03:34No.
03:34I mean, I've been I've been close.
03:36But I guess, yeah, we've just never made it official.
03:40I have I have kissed one girl, though, just to be clear.
03:43Well, good for you, man.
03:45That's awesome.
03:46Brendan, is this is there a reason for this?
03:49I don't know.
03:51I guess I guess I just get interested and then they lose interest or they just lose touch.
04:01So, yeah, I don't I haven't gotten.
04:04So it's not because you don't want to.
04:06It's because it just hasn't happened.
04:08Yeah.
04:09Yeah.
04:09I mean, I I would love to especially, you know, if Laura is willing, I would love to just to try, you know, to to see where it goes.
04:19Oh, Laura.
04:20I mean, this guy sounds like a really nice guy and he sounds like he's really into you.
04:24And what about hanging out with him again?
04:26Um, I mean, like I said, I mean, I just think it he just needs to kind of I don't know, maybe a little emotional, personal growth would help.
04:36I don't know.
04:37I mean, he's a really sweet guy.
04:40Well, if I may, um, Laura, you know, I wish you just, you know, just give me a chance because, you know, it could be a plus.
04:49You know, I've never I've never been a bad boyfriend.
04:51So I can be I can be whatever you want me to be.
04:56You know, we can figure that out together.
04:59I just be you.
05:00You don't be don't be someone else for me.
05:03Yeah.
05:04No, I sorry.
05:05I didn't mean it like that.
05:06I just I I see a future with you.
05:09So, um.
05:10Wow.
05:10Oh, and I, you know, I don't say that often.
05:14So I guess what I'm saying is, if you would please just just give me one more date, maybe.
05:21Laura, you got a lot of people listening right now.
05:23I just want to let you know.
05:24And I guess guys are like a really nice guy.
05:29Oh, I mean, you know what?
05:32Yeah, let's try it.
05:33We'll go one more date.
05:35We'll try one more date.
05:36Yeah.
05:37Awesome.
05:38Let's do it.
05:40You should have seen the shock on Lana's face.
05:42Yeah.
05:44That is fantastic.
05:45Let's do it.
05:46Dude, keep being yourself.
05:47You sound like a very genuine, nice guy.
05:49Make sure you show that confidence, too, man.
05:51And what we'll do is we'll put you both on hold.
05:54We'll get all your info and we will set you up on another date and we will pay for it as well.
05:58Great.
05:59All right.
06:00Yeah.
06:00Yeah.
06:01Thank you so much.
06:02I'm very, very, very, very excited.
06:05OK, great.
06:06Very cool.
06:06This is awesome.
06:08All right.
06:08Hang on for me.
06:09Hang on.
06:11Oh, man.
06:13Poor guy.
06:14I didn't know where we were going with that one.
06:16I mean, I was wanting another date for him.
06:17But at the same time, I just was like, yeah, but where's the confidence confidence?
06:21He called us.
06:22That's a big step to call us.
06:23Good point.
06:24So.
06:25All right.
06:25Well, it's going to be OK.
06:27Would you have given him another chance?
06:28Do you think they're in a good spot?
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