Second Date Update - Family Feud
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00:00Well, Phil, he sounds a little bit nervous when we talk to him.
00:02It's a second date update right now.
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00:06But he does sound like a nice guy, and he sounds like he really has thought this date through.
00:10Well, they agreed to go out on another date.
00:13So she was on board.
00:15He was on board.
00:16Everything sounded great, but apparently she's not calling him back.
00:19She's like blowing him off now.
00:21Let's see why that is, because we do have her on hold, and we were able to track her down.
00:25Let's bring her on right now.
00:27Amanda?
00:28Hi, guys.
00:29Hey, Amanda.
00:30Thank you so much for agreeing to come on with us.
00:32Kevin told us that you've heard us do this before.
00:35You know that we do a second date update, and this would be one of those right now.
00:39And we wanted to straight up ask you about this guy, Phil, because we heard you guys went to Park and Rec in downtown St. Pete.
00:46And he said that you were laughing the whole time.
00:48You guys were both laughing the whole time.
00:50And then the last time he talked to you was when he dropped you off at home, and that was it.
00:56And I guess there was talk of another date, but that has not happened.
00:59And there's been no communication about it.
01:01So I guess you just want to know why.
01:03Well, I have to say that it was probably one of the best dates that I've had in such a long time.
01:10And it just felt like good to laugh and just like have a good time.
01:13So everything went really well at the date.
01:15And on the drive home, he took a call.
01:19He was like, hey, I've got to take this call.
01:20I've been waiting for it.
01:22And on the call, he was just like so short and curt and rude and kind of like tap dancing along like being nasty almost to the person.
01:33And I was like, wow, who is he talking to?
01:36Because this wasn't the guy that I just went on this amazing date with.
01:40And so he finished the call or whatever, and then he apologized.
01:43He's like, I'm so sorry I had to take that call from my mom.
01:47And I was like gut punched.
01:49And I just said to him, I was like, that was your mom?
01:52And he said, yeah, that was my mom.
01:54We don't really get along.
01:55And so, you know, I have like a complicated relationship with my parents.
02:00And to me, it was just like red flags were just like like a Kleenex box of tissues.
02:06It was just like I was playing back all the things that he was saying and like how nasty.
02:10And I honestly thought I was like, if he's going to talk to his own mother like this, how is he going to talk to me when I don't do something that he likes or, you know, just anything?
02:21And so, I don't know, I just thought this isn't the same person.
02:26It almost felt like a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde scenario where it's like you're this great dude, you know, at dinner.
02:32And then the next thing you know, it's like sleeping with the enemy, you know.
02:35And I just felt like there's a line for me, you know, to have such a volatile relationship with your parents.
02:44It's not to sound like I came from like a perfect household or anything, but I just have that like relationship with my parents where there's just a certain level of the way you speak to your parents.
02:57Even if you're mad, like you just don't get that nasty.
02:59And I just just didn't feel comfortable going on a second date with someone that talked to his mom like that in front of me.
03:06Wow, that's a lot.
03:07Yeah, but I can I can understand maybe where she's she's coming from.
03:11You know, I'm surprised you took the phone call.
03:12So that's interesting to me, too.
03:15Yeah.
03:16OK, well, let me let me just say this, Amanda.
03:18You've heard us do this before.
03:19You know that we got your number through Phil and we actually have Phil on the phone with us.
03:25Phil.
03:26Yeah.
03:27First of all, Amanda, I heard everything you said.
03:30I don't think it's fair.
03:33You don't know my situation.
03:35You don't know my parents.
03:36I feel like you're judging me.
03:37And that's a little unfair.
03:39My mom is my mom is very intense.
03:42It's extremely critical.
03:43And I I don't have a great relationship with my mom.
03:47I mean, I hate to say this, but she's not the best of people.
03:50And, you know, not everyone gets along with their family.
03:53And I don't see why I need to be put under a magnifying glass now because of my relationship with my parents, with my upbringing.
04:02And, you know, you're looking down at me and judging me now because I don't have this perfect relationship that it seems that you do with your your mom.
04:10And, you know, for me, I just thought it's better to distance myself from them for my own sake, my own mental health.
04:17I'm a better person this way.
04:19Yeah, it's a long story.
04:20And that's fair.
04:22And, you know, it's like a catch 22 feel like it's like part of me wishes that you didn't take that call with me in the car because I wouldn't have seen that side to you.
04:32But my mom was calling me all day.
04:34She was calling me all day.
04:35So I figured, let me just take it now and get get it out of the way.
04:39It's a very intense relationship.
04:41Hey, let me ask you a question, Amanda.
04:42You know, obviously you understand not all families are the same and all that.
04:46I mean, is this something that's going to keep you from going out with Phil because, you know, he did treat you really well and you had a great time.
04:52You said it's one of the best states you've been on.
04:55It's going to keep you from seeing him again.
04:57Unfortunately for me at this point in my life, like I just I'm looking for a partner that isn't like dismissive of their family.
05:05And like I do want like one big happy family.
05:07And don't get me wrong.
05:08Every family is not perfect and they have their stuff.
05:10But that is not the mother-in-law that I'm looking to have in my life.
05:14You know, I just don't think that this is going to be a good fit.
05:17But you deserve someone.
05:19All right.
05:20Well, listen, Phil, it sounds like a man is going to pass on another date.
05:25It just is what it is.
05:26I'm sorry that that's the way things are going.
05:29But I do appreciate you reaching out to us, Phil and Amanda.
05:32Thank you for your time as well.
05:34Thank you, guys.
05:35Thank you, Phil.
05:35OK, thank you.
05:36All right.
05:37Take care.
05:38Yeah, I feel like that was a little judgmental on Amanda's part.
05:40Not every family is the same.
05:41Oh, yeah.
05:42And, you know, who knows down the road, maybe think things could change for Phil's family.
05:47I mean, doesn't really sound like it.
05:49But why give up a great guy just because he doesn't get along with his family?
05:53A lot of people don't get along with their family.
05:55And maybe Phil would have got along with got along with her family.
05:58And that would have been a happy thing for her.
06:00But she saw it as a red flag.
06:01Would you have seen this as a red flag?
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