Second Date Update - Go Big Or Go Home
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00:00Well, Steve's bummed out this morning for the second date update, commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:05He has not heard back from his date. That's how this goes.
00:08And we are going to try to help him out because we have his date on the phone with us because we were able to get a hold of her.
00:15Let's just bring her back on right now, Lana. Let's just try to get some answers right now.
00:18Erica, are you there?
00:20Yeah. Hi, guys.
00:22Hey, Erica. Thanks for agreeing to talk to us on the air today.
00:24I know you're probably super confused on what this is about.
00:26It's actually about a date you went on with this guy, Steve.
00:30We heard you guys went to Bricks 33 in Trinity.
00:34He said it was a great restaurant. You guys had a great time.
00:36The big thing for us is that you guys actually talked about going on another date.
00:41And you said, yeah, sure. Hit me up. I got a couple things coming up, but I'd love to see you again.
00:44And actually, the date ended with a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
00:48But no word from Erica since that date, since Steve's been trying to get a hold of you.
00:54What's going on?
00:54Yeah. So Steve is a really nice guy.
01:00We did have a nice time on our date.
01:03And I just, like, I don't know how to say this.
01:08But, like, I just feel like Steve, his body and his lifestyle isn't going to kind of line up with me and my lifestyle.
01:21Did you say his body?
01:22What do you mean by that?
01:26So, you know, his profile picture, he looked very different from what his profile picture was on the dating website.
01:36And I understand that, like, nobody looks exactly like their profile picture.
01:42But he just, like, the guy that I saw online just really looked like he was in shape.
01:48And he, like, you know, he led a very active lifestyle.
01:51And the guy who showed up just, I mean, it looked like he gained some weight.
01:57And I totally get it.
01:58Like, we all were gaining weight during the pandemic.
01:59But the pandemic has been over for a while.
02:03So I do feel like, you know, I mean, you can just kind of, you know, get yourself, you know, lose that kind of COVID weight.
02:10So I just feel like, you know, I really like to, I like to be active.
02:16I like to, you know, go to the beach and go to different pools.
02:19You know, I like to go bike riding.
02:21I like to go jogging, hiking.
02:23And I just don't know that's something that, like, Steve can keep up with.
02:26You know, he just doesn't seem like he's into that kind of stuff.
02:29Wow.
02:30Okay.
02:31Yeah.
02:32You guys asked.
02:33No, I know.
02:34We did ask.
02:34We did ask.
02:35We did ask.
02:36So did you talk to him about doing these activities?
02:40I mean, maybe he is into these activities.
02:42I mean, when I was asking what he was into, he really didn't have, like, much to say about what his lifestyle.
02:48You know, like, when we were out, you know, I hate to say it.
02:51But, like, I know, like I said, he gained some weight.
02:54But, like, he had kind of a beer gut.
02:56You know, he had, like, three or four beers and, like, a ton of food.
03:00You know, so it's, to me, like, if you are trying to take care of yourself, you need to make that a priority.
03:06And I just feel like that's not really his priority.
03:09And I understand that.
03:10Like, that's his life.
03:12I think a lot of people like to lead a healthy lifestyle.
03:15But when they have a chance to go out on a date, you kind of let those, you know, those rains down a little bit.
03:21You just, you know, you splurge a little bit because you're going out.
03:23But I do think, like, on a first date, you do have, you want to bring your best self forward.
03:29And, like, maybe then you can kind of just sort of peel off the layers.
03:32Like, you know, he just kind of came in, like, looking a little sloppy, kind of showing that he doesn't really care about his looks or, like, his appearance.
03:40And I just think that's, like, I really do take pride in, like, my appearance, you know.
03:45So it just, it was just a little offsetting, off-putting, you know, for who I saw online versus who I saw, like, on the date.
03:54Okay.
03:54Okay.
03:55Well, Erica, I'll tell you this.
03:56You know, we did ask.
03:57We did want to know.
03:58But the reason we did ask is because Steve asked.
04:01And we actually have Steve on the phone with us.
04:03And so we got to hear what you had to say.
04:06Steve?
04:07Yeah, yeah.
04:08You know, honestly, I'm just a little astounded.
04:11I can't believe it's 2023 and I'm getting fat shamed on the radio right now.
04:15You know, first of all, I don't even, wouldn't even say, like, I got, like, a beer gut.
04:20I mean, I'm not, you know, living a completely sedentary, lazy lifestyle.
04:27And, you know, what you see is what you get.
04:29I mean, I get it.
04:30You know, you want to put your best foot forward.
04:33A lot of people say that on the first date.
04:35But, you know, I more so prefer your authentic self forward.
04:39If you are saying about putting your authentic best person forward, then you need to take a photo of yourself, what you look like, how you're going to appear on a date, and put it on your profile.
04:49Don't put a picture from, like, I don't even know how many years ago that picture was taken from.
04:53That picture is not even that old.
04:54And you're no size zero anyway, okay?
04:56Like, I mean, let's really, yeah.
04:58All right, J.R., let's get in on this.
04:59I am a healthy body weight.
05:02I am a, I'm in good shape.
05:03Yeah, and so am I.
05:05Like I said, I play, I'm in my softball league.
05:07You know, I take care of myself.
05:10I go to the gym occasionally.
05:14Like, you play softball, but really it's just drinking beers.
05:17Like, that is not, like, working out.
05:20I mean, that's the kind of softball I like.
05:22Hey, guys, let me jump in here real quick.
05:24I think that we're kind of just going back and forth and throwing daggers at this point.
05:29I'm not sure Steve still wants a date, but I mean, I'll.
05:31No, no, no, I don't.
05:33It's clear that, you know, you're a lot shallower than I thought you were, so I'm not interested.
05:39That's great, because I wasn't interested first.
05:41I didn't call you back or text you back for a reason.
05:44Like, you brought this on yourself.
05:45You wanted to know, the radio wanted to know, like, so here it is.
05:48Like, I'm sorry, I'm not attracted to you.
05:50All right, Erica, thank you for coming on with us and letting us know what's going on.
05:54Steve, thank you for reaching out, and we got some answers, guys.
05:58Thanks, guys.
05:59Yeah, thanks.
06:00All right, take care.
06:02I mean, they seemed great for each other.
06:04Yeah.
06:06My goodness.
06:08Wow.
06:09That was pretty rough, but again, we did ask, but she could have said that in her way, right?
06:14Well, yeah, but she was honest, though, which was, you know, nice.
06:19And she's like, listen, you know, if you're going to be out there in the dating world,
06:23you need to look like your profile picture.
06:24That's just bottom line.
06:25That is true.
06:26Let's see where you guys are at on this.
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