Second Date Update - Too Bossy
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00:00All right, Cassie has hung out with Jake multiple times, and this last time, they went to his company's holiday party.
00:08It's commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:10Now, what's important to note is that this was not like a big sit-down formal thing.
00:16This was a happy hour at a bar.
00:17Yes.
00:18Okay, so it was casual, and she said, I was a little nervous about that, but the fact that it was casual, I was down to go.
00:23I had a great time.
00:24I didn't drink too much, and I can't figure out why now, when she communicates with Jake, it's kind of like one-word answers, or it's every other text he'll respond to, that type of thing.
00:35He's just, she's in the dark about it.
00:37So we said we'll try to call him.
00:39If we can get him on the phone, we'll try to get some answers.
00:41Let's do it right now.
00:54Hello?
01:00Hi, good morning.
01:00Is this Jake?
01:02Yes, this is Jake.
01:03How may I help you?
01:04Hey, Jake.
01:05This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:08How are you doing?
01:10I'm doing good.
01:12Good.
01:13Hey, man, do you think we could talk to you on the air for a second?
01:18I've heard of the show, so I'll be on the radio.
01:21Yeah, is that cool?
01:23Okay.
01:23Okay, well, we want to ask you about a few dates you've been on, and it's with a girl
01:28named Cassie, and we heard you guys hung out together, just one-on-one, twice, and then
01:33the third time, you invited her to your company holiday party.
01:36She said she had a great time there, and you guys were all good, but now, and since that
01:42party, it's been really hard to get a hold of you, and really hard to hang out with you
01:46again, and she kind of just wants to know why.
01:49Yeah, so I thought it was going to go better.
01:53Than it did, but it was kind of a disaster, and kind of embarrassing.
01:58Yeah, it's just like, it really wasn't for me, and it really turned me off.
02:02And this is something that happened at the holiday party?
02:05Yeah.
02:05Yeah.
02:05Like, I guess to get into it, I introduced her to my boss, like, kind of when we got
02:11there, and I thought we were just going to, I would just, like, introduce her to a bunch
02:16of my coworkers, but she kind of never left his side for the rest of the night.
02:21Your boss's side?
02:22Yeah.
02:23And she was, like, flirting with him, and even when I tried to, like, pull her away, she
02:27stayed next to him, and she basically talked his ear off, and was super flirty, even, and
02:33I thought it was just super inappropriate.
02:35Like, even my coworkers, even to this day, are, like, they're, like, noticing that she
02:39was super flirty.
02:40So, I just didn't want to mess up, like, my work situation.
02:44You know, it just wasn't a good look, so I was just trying to avoid her, if that's...
02:49Got it.
02:49Now, you say that she was being flirty only with your boss, or just being, that's just
02:54her personality, and she was being flirty with everybody?
02:57I didn't get to introduce her to anybody else.
03:00She just literally stayed with the boss the whole time, until the very end, basically.
03:06And were you kind of just standing there watching this whole thing?
03:08Yeah.
03:09I, I, even, even after the date, I, like, I was, like, really awkward at the office,
03:14because I was, like, I don't even know what to say to my boss.
03:16I don't know.
03:17I didn't bring it up to him or anything, but it was just awkward in the office, so it's
03:20just, the whole situation was kind of a disaster.
03:23Okay.
03:24That could be uncomfortable.
03:25I could see how that might be something that would be, kind of, throw you off.
03:29We do have Cassie on the phone with us, too.
03:32That's how we got your phone number, and we do want to bring her back on, because I think
03:36she's going to be kind of surprised by your answer here.
03:38Cassie, you there?
03:40Okay.
03:41You invited me to your work party, and I don't know anybody but you.
03:46You introduced me to one person who was your boss, and then you went off and started talking
03:52to your friends and left me with your boss.
03:55I don't know what you wanted me to do.
03:56I don't know if you wanted me to just, like, I don't know, ignore him, sit by myself.
04:00But anyways, like, I wasn't really flirting with him.
04:04I was talking you up to your boss the whole time.
04:09Like, I kind of thought I was just helping you out.
04:13Yeah.
04:13I, first of all, like, I introduced him to you, and I thought you'd just say hello, and
04:18we'd walk off together, but you just stood with him.
04:21Yeah, he was talking to me.
04:23Okay, yeah.
04:24Like, oh, I'll be right back.
04:25You literally, like, walked away, started talking to other people, and just, like, left
04:29me there.
04:30Like, it was awkward for me, but I, you know, assumed you'd come back.
04:35So I was like, well, you know, I'll do him a favor.
04:38I'll be, like, the coolest girl ever.
04:39I'll help him out.
04:40And I was telling him.
04:42I didn't do that either.
04:43Like, the second thing is, I don't need to, you know, like, help me score points.
04:47Like, I've worked there for a while.
04:49I just wanted a date, and I didn't want to get super uncomfortable the way I did.
04:54I think that's very weird for you to get super uncomfortable about that.
04:58I didn't give him my number.
04:59I didn't go home with him.
05:01I left with you.
05:02I wish I could have spent more time with you that night.
05:04I came back, and I even said, I tried to change the subject, try to get in, because you
05:09were talking to him so much.
05:10I tried to get you to come get a drink with me, to come get some food.
05:13And you said, oh, I'll just be a second.
05:15I wasn't trying to blow you off for him.
05:17It was like I got into a conversation.
05:20Am I wrong?
05:20Again, I thought I was helping you out.
05:22So you're jealous, because you thought I was flirting with your boss, and that hurt your
05:28ego.
05:29I don't agree.
05:30I think you're literally trying to basically have a date with my boss and not me.
05:35Wow.
05:35Okay, and I think that's stupid.
05:37I just think that's ridiculous.
05:38Well, Jake, she is saying that she's into you.
05:40She did call us and tell us that she's into you.
05:43Maybe there was a misunderstanding here, and she just kind of was trying to hold her own
05:46at this party.
05:48Would you be willing to give her another shot and maybe hang out one-on-one?
05:51Absolutely not.
05:52If I take her to a family function in the future, what's she going to do?
05:55Flirt with my dad?
05:57I don't know.
05:59It's just a red flag for me.
06:01All right.
06:01Well, Cassie, you heard what he had to say?
06:03Yep.
06:03I'm sorry it's not going to work out with Jake, but I do appreciate you coming on the
06:07show with us.
06:08Yeah.
06:08I mean, at least I got my answer, not what I was hoping for, but at least I know, because
06:14that's the other thing.
06:15Jake, you could have just told me.
06:16You could have told me what was going on.
06:18I wouldn't have wasted my time or embarrassed both of us on the radio.
06:21So, thanks.
06:22All right.
06:23Jake, thanks for coming on.
06:24Do you have a good day as well?
06:26Yeah.
06:26No problem.
06:28All right.
06:29Well, I think we all got kind of our thoughts on this, but I want to get yours first.
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