Second Date Update - 10-4 Over And Out
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00:00Trying to help out Ryan this morning on the 715 second date update has not heard back from Layla since their date.
00:05We have her on hold, though. We want to bring her back on. Kevin's tracked her down.
00:09Let's bring her on right now. Layla, are you there?
00:12Yeah, hi.
00:13Hey, Layla. I do appreciate you agreeing to come on with us. I want to say that up front.
00:17Let me just tell you what we heard from Ryan.
00:21We heard you guys went on a great date to Red Mesa.
00:25He said that you have a very contagious personality, someone that you want to be around.
00:30He was really looking forward to seeing you when he got back from, I guess, a work trip.
00:33He was going to be gone for a week.
00:35And he got back. He reached out to you.
00:37And after saying that you'd be open to going on a date, you have not responded at all to him to set up that second date.
00:44So we're just trying to figure out what's going on.
00:48Yeah, Ryan.
00:50Did he tell you what he does for work?
00:52No, he did not.
00:53Well, he's a long-haul truck driver, and that's why he was gone for the week on the road.
00:58He mentioned that he drove a truck for work when we were together.
01:05I just figured he meant local, you know, UPS, Amazon, whatever.
01:09It just didn't dawn on me that he was a long-haul truck driver.
01:13And I think that that makes a difference.
01:15You would mention that to somebody, but whatever.
01:17But the thing is, if you do that job, you have the schedule that, you know, you're going to be gone a week, two weeks, whatever.
01:26And then so how is the relationship going to work like that?
01:31I just am not interested in an on again, off again.
01:35Oops, you're back in town.
01:36Oh, now we can go out.
01:37Oops, now you're gone for two weeks.
01:39I just didn't want to deal with that.
01:43And I don't know.
01:45You know, you just hear so many stories about truck stops and crap that goes on there.
01:50Do you?
01:51You hear a bunch of stories?
01:52I have.
01:53Okay.
01:54I just don't want to be having to put myself in a position where I have to trust somebody implicitly to not be, you know, doing anything behind my back when the temptation might be there.
02:07And then, you know, just have that kind of, it's kind of a long distance relationship.
02:12It is.
02:13He's either there or he's gone.
02:15Yeah.
02:16Okay.
02:16Well, but Layla, I mean, Ryan sounded like a complete gentleman to us.
02:20And just judging by the few minutes we talked to him, I mean, it sounds like he's really into you.
02:25And I feel like if he had, let's call it a bunch of girls on the side, I don't think he'd be reaching out to us trying to get a hold of one girl being you.
02:32I just am not interested in that kind of a relationship.
02:36So I just figured right off the bat, let's let it go.
02:40Well, why didn't you tell him that, though?
02:42Because I thought, oh, I don't want to get into, yeah, but, yeah, but, yeah, but.
02:48So what can I tell you?
02:49All right.
02:50All right.
02:51Well, good news.
02:52Yeah.
02:53We've got Ryan on the phone with us, Layla.
02:55Oh, yippee.
02:56Yeah.
02:57And I want to bring him back on.
02:58Ryan.
02:59Hey, Layla.
03:01Hey.
03:02I got to tell you, I didn't get this vibe from you at all on the date.
03:08I don't know.
03:09You didn't say anything about my truck driving then.
03:11I didn't think it was a big deal at all.
03:15Well, no, I thought you were local then, and it was only until afterwards, like, you know, figured out that you weren't.
03:22So, yeah.
03:22I mean, I told you I was going out of town for a week.
03:24But, yeah, I get what you're saying.
03:26I just, I can't imagine why it'd be a big deal.
03:30I don't know.
03:30I just thought you'd kind of judge me by our date and not by that.
03:34I just feel like you're either here or you're gone.
03:38And so my, all of our, whatever activities we would do is going to be all based on your schedule when you're here.
03:44And then you're gone.
03:45And then am I supposed to be, like, you know, not doing anything, waiting for you?
03:49You know, I just don't want to have that kind of relationship.
03:53And I get that you're a long-haul truck driver.
03:56And, yeah, it probably makes you a hero in other people's eyes.
03:59But I just don't want any part of it.
04:00I don't want to worry about what you're doing on the road.
04:03I don't know.
04:05I don't.
04:05I mean, everyone's got a life.
04:07You know what I mean?
04:07You're going to have to, no matter what, people are not available 100% of the time.
04:10I do my job.
04:12It's just work.
04:13I'm not doing anything weird at my job.
04:15I'm actually alone the whole time.
04:18And I would love someone cool to come back to.
04:20I don't think I'm going to be the person who's going to be waiting for you to come back.
04:25Okay.
04:26Yeah, I don't really know what to say.
04:29Well, Leila, let me ask you a question.
04:30I mean, he seemed like a really nice guy.
04:32You've said that a couple times.
04:33I mean, wouldn't this be worth giving a shot to?
04:35Like, give an opportunity.
04:36I mean, he's doing a job that's a tough gig, for sure, from what I know about it.
04:41And he seems like he's really into you.
04:43I mean, wouldn't it be worth giving this guy a chance?
04:47No.
04:48No.
04:48All right.
04:49Super casual about that.
04:51Damn.
04:52Ryan, I think what you do is great, man.
04:54Obviously, a very important job to this country.
04:57But I guess Leila is just not down for it.
05:00So, Leila, thank you for your time.
05:02I appreciate your honesty, I guess.
05:04And, Ryan, thank you for your time as well.
05:06And I wish you well.
05:08Yeah, sure.
05:09Thanks.
05:09Thanks for helping us sort this out.
05:11Yeah, you got it, man.
05:12Have a good day.
05:14What was that about?
05:15He sounded like such a nice guy and just a hard-working guy just trying to make a living.
05:22I was weak on Leila's part.
05:24I was weak.
05:25Nice dude.
05:26Did nothing but...
05:27And he said, hey, I'm going to be back in a week.
05:29And she said, okay, cool.
05:30But then had a problem with what he did?
05:34That's a hard job.
05:36And we had a lot of guys that drive semis that listen to this show.
05:39Yes.
05:40And it's...
05:41I'm in shock of that response to that type of career.
05:44And you hear what happens at truck stops?
05:47Okay, lady.
05:49What?
05:51I'm watching too much Netflix.
05:52Yeah.
05:52She, I mean, wow.
05:56This is, like you said, this is a guy that's just, he's working hard.
06:00And she should have been upfront and honest with him about it.
06:03You ask that question.
06:04You go, well, why didn't you just tell him that?
06:06And she's like, whoa, I don't know.
06:07She's a woman who needs a little bit more of attention.
06:11Well, the other thing that she said that I thought was interesting was, oh, you know,
06:13I just don't want to be in a relationship where I have to, you know, trust somebody.
06:17What?
06:17Huh?
06:18What?
06:19Huh?
06:20Hmm.
06:21800-992-1099.
06:22800-992-1099.
06:25I can't see a lot of people backing up Layla, but I want to hear from you right now.
06:27Hit us up.