Second Date Update - Mr. Right Now
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00:00Joey said something to me that we don't get a lot on Second Date Updates.
00:03He goes, listen, I got some self-awareness.
00:05I know if something were to go wrong or if I said something dumb on the date or something happened.
00:11He goes, I've heard you do this before.
00:12So I appreciate that.
00:14I appreciate the self-awareness.
00:15Yeah, 100%.
00:16So he's, I mean, they had a great date.
00:18They went to Rock and Brew.
00:20It's kind of like a casual place.
00:22So nothing super serious.
00:24And I mean, he says, I really need help, you know, on the radio.
00:27He goes, I want to do an old-fashioned radio.
00:30No call.
00:30Okay.
00:30Here we go.
00:31He wants our help to ask her out.
00:33We're going to see if we can do it right now.
00:35We've got to call Jessica.
00:52Hello?
00:53Hi, good morning.
00:53Is this Jessica?
00:55Yes, it is.
00:56Hey, Jessica.
00:57Sorry to bother you this morning.
00:58This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:03How are you doing?
01:05Oh, my gosh.
01:06I'm good.
01:07How are you?
01:08We're good.
01:09I'm going off that reaction.
01:10I'm guessing you've maybe heard our show before.
01:13I have, yeah.
01:14All right.
01:15Appreciate it.
01:15Maybe you've heard something that we do called a second date update where we talk to people about dates they went on.
01:21And there's actually a date that we want to talk to you about.
01:24Would that be cool?
01:25Uh, yeah.
01:28Okay, cool.
01:28Thank you for being down for that.
01:30Uh, we want to talk to you about Joey.
01:32We heard you guys went to, uh, Rockin' Brew.
01:34You guys met on a dating app.
01:35Uh, he said it was a fun, happy hour.
01:37Honestly, he, he said you're better looking than your pictures.
01:41He was really thinking that you were the total package and had a great time with you.
01:47Thought you had a good time as well.
01:49Wants to see you again.
01:50Wants to do something maybe a little more formal this time around.
01:52And we thought we'd try to help make that happen.
01:55So, I mean, can you tell us a little bit about your date with Joey?
01:58Oh my gosh.
02:00Um, it was really great.
02:03I don't know if I'm really interested in, in, like, going on another date just because I'm just not really looking for anything serious.
02:13And, you know, he was super sweet.
02:15He was cute.
02:16Um, and I, I, I do kind of get the feeling that he is looking for something more serious than what I'm willing to commit to right now.
02:24So.
02:25Well, Jessica, you just said, like, the nicest things about this guy.
02:29And now you're like, I don't know if I want to see him again.
02:31I mean, what, what is, what's that about?
02:34Did you tell him that you weren't looking for something serious?
02:36I mean, has he been pressing you?
02:37I mean, what, what's the deal?
02:38No, I didn't, I didn't say that I wasn't looking for anything serious.
02:43I, I, I honestly cannot even remember what I have on my dating profile.
02:48It's kind of something that I've put up there to just, like, meet new people and kind of take the, you know, the pressure out of, like, meeting new people or going to new places and having someone to, like, you know, do stuff with off of me.
03:01Um, this is going to sound awful, but I'm really just looking for Mr. Right now.
03:08I'm not on, I'm not on a, you know, Mr. Right, like, quest.
03:13So, okay.
03:14I know, that sounds awful.
03:15I cannot believe I just said that.
03:17Well, he didn't say anything about something super serious.
03:20He actually is, um, well, he's on the phone with us.
03:23I should tell you that.
03:24And he, he just wanted to ask you out on another date and I want to bring him back on right now.
03:29Joey, you heard what Jessica just had to say.
03:32You want to respond to that?
03:33Yeah.
03:34Well, first, thanks for picking up.
03:36It's nice to hear from you again.
03:38Hi.
03:38Hi, Joey.
03:39Yeah, I, no, I mean, no, no pressure at all.
03:42Just, uh, you know, we don't have to race into some kind of serious relationship or something.
03:48I'm happy to just go out with you again and, you know, just see where it goes.
03:52Um, I'm not gonna lie, I'm feeling a little pressured since I'm on the radio being asked
03:57on a second date that I'm kind of ambivalent about, not because of you, not because the
04:02date wasn't good, but just, you know, I don't want to go out on another date and then there's
04:08another date, another date.
04:10And I'm, I'm, I'm really just, you know, I don't want, I don't want to disappoint you.
04:14I don't think this is really going to go the way you want.
04:17I definitely don't want to hurt your feelings.
04:19Like I said, I'm happy to do whatever you want.
04:21I don't want you to feel uncomfortable.
04:23I just want to see you again.
04:24No, I do kind of feel a little on the spot.
04:28Like, I don't want to, you know, leave you on, you know, I know maybe I'm just having
04:32like commitment issues right now, but I just feel like, you know, maybe it's like we met
04:37at another time or something like that, that it would be more of a connection, you know,
04:43like a, one that I could actually commit to that.
04:46Like I would have my full attention, but you know, I'm not, I'm not avoiding your calls
04:51or anything like that.
04:52I'm just, um, just kind of busy just doing my own thing.
04:56And I don't want that to be something that you feel like is your fault or, you know, is
05:02any way taken away from you as a, you know, lovely human being.
05:05And, you know, Joey, obviously Jessica is making it very clear that she's not looking
05:10for a relationship.
05:11So I would ask you, um, if you are looking for a relationship, is this a road that you
05:16want to go down?
05:16Because it doesn't seem like there's, well, it's kind of seems like a dead end a little
05:20bit.
05:21No, I am happy to see her again and whatever circumstances she wants, that she's made it
05:28very clear that she's not wanting a relationship and that's fine.
05:32You know, we can see each other some more and whatever happens, happens.
05:35Okay.
05:36Well, Jessica, I'm going to leave it up to you and we would be glad to set you up.
05:41We'd be glad to pay for the date.
05:43Would you be willing to hang out with Joey again?
05:47Um, that's a super kind offer.
05:50And I mean, Joe, are you really okay?
05:53Like relating when there might not be an actual relationship at the end of this journey?
05:58Yeah, I'm fine.
06:01Okay.
06:02I don't know if this is a good idea or not, but we are going to put you guys on hold.
06:07We are going to set you guys up on another date and you guys can see where it goes.
06:12And Joey, you know where she's at.
06:13Jessica, thank you for coming on with us.
06:15Joey, thank you for your time.
06:17And hold on for me, okay?
06:18Okay.
06:19Thanks.
06:19Yeah, that's not a good idea.
06:24But I'm saying he's going down Heartbreak Road.
06:28For sure.
06:30Let's see where people are at on this.
06:31800-992-1099.
06:34800-992-1099.
06:36Is this a good idea or not?