Second Date Update - This Date Was Lit
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00:00Katie sounds very sweet this morning on the Second Date Update.
00:02It's commercial-free New Country, 99.5 QIK.
00:06I will tell you that they went to a place that you've been to, right?
00:09Oh, the Ritz and Ebor, yeah.
00:11You see a lot of bands and stuff there.
00:13Right, and she said that that did not hinder them getting to know each other, though.
00:15They actually danced a little bit and all that, so that was fun.
00:18Yeah, and she said he picked her up.
00:19They drove together, so they kind of talked there, too.
00:21And she said she had a really good time.
00:23She was very flirty with him, so she definitely was telling him that she liked him.
00:29And she kind of thought he liked her back, but he's not getting back to her for another date.
00:33All right, so we're going to call him right now.
00:46Hello?
00:51Hey, is this Phil?
00:53Yeah, who's calling?
00:54Hey, Phil, sorry to bother you this morning.
00:56This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:03All right.
01:04Good morning.
01:05Not random.
01:06Hey, man, real quick, and I'll just give it to you straight.
01:09We want to talk to you, actually, about a date you recently went on,
01:13and it's about a girl, or it was with a girl that's really into you,
01:17and we wanted to ask you a couple questions.
01:18Would that be okay?
01:19We're on the air, too, by the way.
01:20I've got to put that out there.
01:21Yeah, I guess so, sure.
01:25Okay, I appreciate that.
01:26We are talking about Katie, and Katie told us that you guys went out in Ybor to the Ritz Saw Band.
01:35You were a gentleman, picked her up.
01:37She said you guys were talking a bunch on the way there and on the way back,
01:40and I think she even sent you a text post-date saying, like,
01:44hey, cutie, let's hang out again or something like that.
01:46Those are her words, not mine.
01:49And now she hasn't heard from you since then and didn't get a response,
01:53and she's just trying to figure out what's going on.
01:55So we thought we'd ask you straight up, why are you not trying to see this girl again?
02:00Yeah.
02:01Look, I mean, the short of it is it actually does kind of stink because she was really cool.
02:06She was a really pretty girl, and we did have a really good time.
02:11But when I was driving her home, we were just, you know, we were talking,
02:17just everything just going as normal.
02:19And completely out of the blue, she just popped out a cigarette, lit it up in the car,
02:25rolled down the windows, did not even say anything, did not ask anything, was just smoking.
02:31She just lit a cigarette up in your car?
02:34Yeah, and that's the thing.
02:36It really took me by surprise.
02:38Yeah.
02:38She didn't ask.
02:40I'd be upset if somebody did that to me.
02:42Yeah, well, I mean, you know, on top of everything else, I mean, it just stinks up the car.
02:46And, I mean, even when people think, you know, you're going to roll down the windows
02:49and that gets rid of it, it really doesn't.
02:51It's really unfortunate.
02:52I don't do the smoking thing.
02:54I, you know, teach their own, but I can't date a smoker.
02:57So I'm just, you know, I don't think it's going to work out.
03:00And did you say anything to her?
03:02Like, hey, put that out.
03:03You know what?
03:04At the moment, it was just such a surprise.
03:07I just didn't even know how to appropriately react without just yelling or anything like that.
03:13So I just kind of let it happen.
03:15Well, I mean, that's pretty cut and dry.
03:16I mean, don't date a smoker and don't light up a cigarette in my car.
03:20I mean, that's, I kind of get why you would be not getting back to her.
03:24Yeah.
03:24We do have her on the phone with us, I will tell you, because that's how we got your phone
03:28number, Phil.
03:29I want to bring her back on because we're kind of on your side with this.
03:33Katie?
03:34First of all, I'm not a smoker.
03:37I'm like one of those people that if I've had a couple of drinks, I like having a smoke,
03:41you know?
03:42That's a smoker.
03:43But I don't understand why you thought it was just okay to light up a cigarette in somebody's
03:48car.
03:49I opened the window.
03:52It's not like it's smelled in his car.
03:54I don't know what he's talking about unless you have like some, you know, I don't know,
03:58supersonic nose or something.
04:00I don't know.
04:01But I just, yeah, I really didn't think anything of it.
04:05If you had a problem with it, you should have just said something like, oh, sorry, I don't
04:10like people smoking in my car or sorry, I don't date smokers.
04:14If you're lighting up a cigarette in somebody's car, I'm not going to tell you right there,
04:18hey, I don't date smokers.
04:19What am I going to drop you off on the corner?
04:21No, I mean, whatever.
04:23Like, you don't have to say that, but you can just say like, don't smoke in my car, please.
04:27And then I would say like, oh, gosh, I'm so sorry, you know?
04:30How could you not know that?
04:32Do you see?
04:33But listen, listen to the asking.
04:34You're asking me to be courteous to you, who should have been courteous to me asking
04:39to smoke in my car.
04:42You're a smoker.
04:43Okay.
04:43You can't, you can't say, well, I only smoke every now and then.
04:45I just smoke when I drink, but okay.
04:48That's a smoker.
04:49That's just, I don't know what, if I, if I put on rollerblades, you know, once in a
04:53year, it's like, okay, well, I know how to rollerblade.
04:56I don't know.
04:56It's just someone else.
04:58I don't think.
04:59That was a good analogy.
05:01Okay.
05:02A big part of relationships is communication, right?
05:06Yes.
05:06And I, I, I would expect that if you're going through your life, just expecting other
05:13people to communicate everything to you when you have a problem with something and the other
05:19person doesn't like, that's really, that's, that's not going to go very well for you.
05:23So, oh my God, Katie, you're so close.
05:25No, no, it's just something to reflect on.
05:28All right.
05:28Let me jump in here.
05:29Let's just communicate together.
05:31All right.
05:31Uh, is this going to be a deal breaker for you, Phil?
05:34Yes.
05:35It's a deal breaker.
05:36Yeah.
05:36Katie, I wish you the best of luck.
05:38Definitely.
05:38But I can't do some others.
05:39No.
05:39All right.
05:40Katie.
05:40No.
05:41He is not looking for another date.
05:43I'm sorry.
05:44We couldn't make one happen, but I think it's pretty cut and dry.
05:47Yep.
05:48All right.
05:48Thanks guys.
05:49All right.
05:50Thank you, Phil.
05:51Was she deflecting the entire time?
05:54I think so.
05:54She just kept putting it back on him, back on him.
05:56It's like straight up.
05:58The first problem here is that you just thought, oh, I want to take the liberty of assuming
06:03everybody's cool with me doing this.
06:04Who in their right mind would think it would be okay to just light up in somebody's car?
06:08Just ripping a heater in someone's car?
06:11I mean, really?
06:13I don't know if anybody's going to be backing her up on this, but I'll ask.
06:15800-992-1099.
06:18800-992-1099.
06:20Hit us up.
06:21Let us know what you think.