Second Date Update - The Flirt
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00:00All right, Zach is in the dark here because he has not heard back from Holly, but I'll tell you, he walked into a pretty tough situation for a first date.
00:08Yeah, her and a bunch of her friends, he went and met them at the patio because she was like, hey, can we just kind of do like a group date or whatever first?
00:14Just, you know, safety reasons.
00:16She doesn't know this guy, which is smart.
00:17I mean, I don't have a problem with that, but yeah, he kind of was there with her and her friends.
00:22But he said that they seemed to like him and things went well, and now he tried to reach out to set up a one-on-one date.
00:28He didn't hear anything, and now he's kind of just trying to figure things out.
00:32Well, we were able to get a hold of her.
00:35We've got her on hold right now.
00:36I want to see if we can talk to her.
00:38Let's do it right now.
00:39Holly, are you there?
00:40Yeah, I'm here.
00:41Hey, Holly.
00:42I know you talked to Kevin off the air, and thank you for agreeing to come on with us.
00:46You just heard us talking about your date right now with Zach.
00:50You know, the odd things really gelled and that you guys all really got along well, but he hasn't heard from you since that day.
00:57What happened?
00:58Yeah, he gelled with everybody.
01:01You could say he gelled a lot with my friends.
01:04Is that a bad thing?
01:06Kind of.
01:07He was really flirty with all of my friends, and I didn't super appreciate that.
01:13At one point, I looked over, and he had his arm around one of my best friends.
01:18He was buying them drinks.
01:19He was dancing with them.
01:20And I was thinking, what the heck are you doing?
01:22He's obviously oblivious to the fact that he's on a date with me.
01:26There were no boundaries.
01:28Like, he wasn't flirting with me.
01:29He was flirting with my friends.
01:31Hold on a second, though.
01:32You've got to put him in a situation where you asked him to go out on a group date, and you brought a bunch of your girlfriends with.
01:38But he's not there to date my girlfriends, though.
01:42True, but he's probably trying to impress you and them.
01:44Okay, when you look over and see that your date has his arm over one of your friends and hasn't done that to you, hasn't touched you, hasn't been flirting with you, like, I don't know, maybe he's a player.
01:56I don't know what his deal is, but it didn't feel like he was on a date with me.
02:00It felt like he was on a date with all of my friends.
02:02And he wasn't being intentional about getting to know me.
02:05He was flirting with my girlfriend.
02:07Like, nobody wants to be in that situation.
02:10Holly, let me ask you a question.
02:11Did your friends say anything about this?
02:13Did they say it was too flirty?
02:15I think they could maybe see that.
02:17Okay.
02:18Like Lana was saying, kind of a tough situation for him because he's walking into this, and it's you and all your girlfriends, and that can be kind of a...
02:26Intimidating.
02:27Intimidating and weird, you know, trying to act a certain way, but also trying to impress you.
02:33Holly, I want to tell you something.
02:34We have Zach on the phone with us.
02:37No, you don't.
02:38Yeah, we do.
02:38And that's how we got your phone number.
02:41I want to bring him back on because I really don't think that he was trying to flirt with your friends if he's calling us.
02:45Right.
02:46Zach.
02:47Yeah.
02:48Holly, wow.
02:49I can't really believe what I'm hearing.
02:51I had no intention of making you feel that way.
02:54I really didn't.
02:55I mean, how do you explain, like, dancing with my friends in the dance floor and not dancing with me?
03:00I mean, it wasn't like a slow dance, you know?
03:05I really wasn't hitting on any of your friends.
03:08And I was just trying to, like, get to know them.
03:10It wasn't an easy situation for me.
03:12Holly, I guess, I mean, the reverse side of this coin is the fact that he could have been very shy and you had to try to entertain him the whole time.
03:19Right.
03:20With your friends right there, too.
03:21I mean, that could have been kind of an uncomfortable situation for you, right?
03:25I mean, we could put hypotheticals all day long, but we have to talk about the reality of the situation was that I felt like I was the only one that wasn't being flirted with on our date.
03:36Like, I wasn't trying to make you feel like that.
03:39I really wasn't.
03:40I just wanted everyone to like me.
03:42That was it.
03:43I mean, I wouldn't have called the radio station if I didn't want to try to fix this, right?
03:47I mean, I care about you.
03:49I wanted to try to get another chance.
03:52I just wanted to try to prove myself to you.
03:54I really didn't mean to make you feel that way.
03:57Holly, what do you think?
03:58Honestly, I'm thinking, like, if we do go on another date, then you've got to make me feel like I'm the only person in the room.
04:05It was your idea, though, for you to guys go out with all your friends.
04:10I just didn't know it would go like that.
04:12All right.
04:12Well, let's get past that part.
04:14Would you be willing to go on a one-on-one date now with Zach?
04:20Yes.
04:21Oh, look at that.
04:22Here we go.
04:23Okay.
04:24Wow.
04:24That's great.
04:25That's great.
04:26All right.
04:26Well, awesome, guys.
04:27Well, we'll do this.
04:28We will set you up on another date.
04:31We will pay for this date, and we will check with you guys afterwards and make sure everything went well.
04:36That sounds amazing.
04:38All right, Holly?
04:39Okay.
04:41All right.
04:41Hang on for me, okay?
04:42Okay.
04:43All right.
04:43One sec.
04:44I can understand doing a group date because she doesn't know the guy.
04:48Right.
04:48But then she wants all of her friends to meet this guy.
04:52She brings them along.
04:52Maybe she shouldn't have brought A so many.
04:55And left the pretty ones at home.
04:57I don't know.
04:57Well, I mean, it is one thing to look over and see, you know, your date with their arm around one of your friends.
05:03Correct.
05:04I get that.
05:05But that's just a hard situation to be in.
05:07He was probably trying to impress her friends because ultimately it's her friends going to be like, no, that guy was a dud.
05:13He was super boring or whatever.
05:15Or like, no, that guy was so much fun.
05:17We had a good time.
05:17He was buying me drinks all night.
05:18What a cool guy.
05:20Well, they are going back out.
05:21But let her know where you're at on this.
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