Second Date Update - "Pre"Mature Convo
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00:00Well, Will is direct to the point.
00:02He said, yeah, we hung out, we went to dinner, I'm out.
00:05That was it. That's pretty much what we got from him.
00:07It's commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK, your 715 second date update.
00:12And we are going to call Rachel right now, who has not gotten back to Will since their date.
00:30Hello?
00:33Hi, this is Rachel.
00:34Yeah, this is Rachel.
00:36Hey, Rachel. Sorry to bother you this morning.
00:38This is actually J.R. Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
00:43The Country Station?
00:44That's us.
00:45Good morning.
00:47Good morning.
00:48I know we're catching you off guard right now.
00:50Would you have a couple minutes to talk to us?
00:52We'd be on the air. Would that be all right?
00:54What is it about?
00:56Oh, it's actually about this guy, Will.
01:00Okay.
01:01Do you remember going out with a guy named Will?
01:04I do.
01:05Okay.
01:05Yes.
01:06Well, I guess you guys went to Seasons 52.
01:08He kind of summed it up for us and said that you guys had a great time together,
01:13had a great conversation,
01:15and even afterwards, the conversation spilled out into the parking lot by your car.
01:21He made sure you got home okay,
01:23and that was the last communication he had with you,
01:26but he wants to see you again.
01:27And he's just kind of confused why he's getting the cold shoulder now.
01:31So is there a reason?
01:34I mean, yeah, of course there's a reason.
01:37I mean, I just, you know, I just didn't think we're probably the right fit.
01:41Why?
01:42I mean, basically, he's, you know, quite a few years older than me,
01:48which honestly doesn't really bother me,
01:50except for the fact that he's had a lot more time in his life to have experiences,
01:56which he felt the need to speak incessantly about.
01:59And basically, I mean, you know, on our first date,
02:03he starts talking about, you know, how he's divorced
02:07and how important prenups are to protect yourself, you know,
02:11before you get married.
02:13And it just was kind of negative and just, like, not what I'm looking for.
02:19Like, I really want someone who's, like, not so jaded
02:22and speaks so much about, like, their ex, especially on, like, a first date.
02:27Like, he just seemed dated.
02:29Well, bringing up a prenup on a first date is quite an interesting tactic on his part.
02:34But if he's been, I mean, he sounds like he said he's just divorced.
02:37Is that what you said?
02:39I think just divorced, yeah.
02:41So, I mean, he probably could be going through a hard time.
02:44Well, he could, but do you talk about that on a first date?
02:46If it's something that's important to you.
02:47Okay.
02:48Well, here's the deal, Rachel.
02:50We actually have Will on the phone.
02:51I want to bring him back on.
02:52He didn't tell us that.
02:54He didn't tell us much, actually.
02:56So, Will, you there?
02:58Yeah, I'm here.
02:59All right.
02:59So, Rachel's on the phone with us.
03:00You just heard what she had to say.
03:01Were you talking about your ex and prenups and all that?
03:05I mean, yeah, because she was asking about my marriage,
03:08and I told her about the divorce I was going through,
03:10and I was just letting her know, like, everything that was going on,
03:14because it's a very lengthy process.
03:16And so, yeah, we started talking about that and about the process,
03:20because she asked.
03:21Did you ask about that, Rachel?
03:24I mean, I only asked because he brought it up,
03:26and, like, I was curious when he got divorced or, like, when he was getting divorced.
03:31A valid question on a date.
03:33Yeah.
03:33I mean, yeah, I just wanted to kind of give you, like,
03:35a background of what I was going through in my life and stuff like that.
03:38I didn't think that hindered the conversation any.
03:41And, I mean, I think a prenup is important.
03:43And, like, if I were to get married in the future, like, I would want to sign one.
03:46I don't really see a problem with that.
03:48I mean, was it necessary to tell me that, like, we're probably not getting married,
03:53so I don't really care.
03:55I mean, yeah, no.
03:56I mean, I just, like, whenever I'm dating somebody,
03:58I date somebody to look for a future with them.
04:01And so I wanted you to know.
04:03We went on one date.
04:05I'm sorry, what?
04:06I didn't hear you.
04:07We're not dating.
04:07We went on one date.
04:09Like, it was intense.
04:11Yeah.
04:12And, I mean, I'm an intense person.
04:14I'm sorry if that scared you away.
04:16Like, I just, I don't see what an issue is with talking about what's going on in my life
04:21when that's kind of what a first date's supposed to be about.
04:26Yeah.
04:27Yeah.
04:28All right.
04:29So, obviously, you had a bad divorce then.
04:33Is that correct?
04:34I mean, yeah, but, I mean, it happens, you know.
04:37We just didn't click as romantically as we thought we would.
04:40It just didn't work out.
04:42Well, I'm just saying, I mean, obviously, you just want to protect yourself for the next time,
04:46and you're just going into the next relationship with all this stuff up front.
04:51You go into anything with past experience.
04:54I mean, that's how you have smarter choices.
04:57I'm not saying it's wrong.
04:58I'm just, I mean, it's okay.
05:00It's okay to go into a relationship with that like that.
05:02Well, is it okay with Rachel, though?
05:04Yeah.
05:04It might not be okay with her.
05:06Right.
05:06I mean, Rachel, what are your thoughts on this?
05:08I mean, that's why I didn't call you back.
05:10Like, it's too much for me.
05:13Okay.
05:14Just a little bit.
05:14I understand, because, I mean, you've never been married, and you're younger, and you don't
05:18understand, and you don't really have that experience.
05:21And so, I understand that you really understand the conversation.
05:26Are you, like, talking down to me?
05:27I also haven't been divorced, which I'm actually really proud of.
05:31So, I don't think you know more about life because you've been divorced.
05:36I mean, I was just educating you in an area that I have a little more expertise in.
05:41Oh, you're educating me.
05:42Thank you so much.
05:43I don't need an education on that, because I'm not going to get divorced, because I'm not
05:46going to marry people like you.
05:47Oh.
05:48Here we go.
05:49What do you mean by people like me?
05:52Like, it's like, you're going to teach me about life on one date.
05:55Like, I'm not interested in that.
05:56That's definitely not what I want.
05:58I'm not going to teach you about life on one date.
06:00I was trying to give you my experiences on something recent that was happening in my life.
06:05I'm sorry that you didn't understand that, and that went over your head.
06:07Well, you're the one who's calling a radio station trying to get me to respond, and I was
06:12trying to be nice, and I just let it be.
06:15I'm sorry that I put in effort.
06:18Okay.
06:18All right.
06:19Well, I'm going to jump in, guys.
06:20I think it's pretty clear that you guys aren't going to be a match.
06:23Rachel, Will, thanks for being on the show this morning.
06:26You guys take care, okay?
06:28I appreciate it.
06:28You guys have a wonderful evening.
06:30Thank you, guys.
06:31All right.
06:31See you.
06:32Evening.
06:32Yeah.
06:33Where are we?
06:34I mean, I was kind of understanding of him.
06:36I don't think you should be talking about a prenup on the first date.
06:39No.
06:39But then he did start talking down to her at the end there.
06:42That got a little bit.
06:43Right.
06:44No, he totally did.
06:45But I know a lot of people that have gone through some ugly divorces, and they're like,
06:51I'm never doing this again without protecting myself.
06:54Well, I get that.
06:55But that's not a first date conversation.
06:56I don't know.
06:57What do you think?
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07:00800-992-1099.
07:01I'd love to hear what you think about this.