Second Date Update - 'X' Marks The Spot
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00:00Well, Anna sounds super sweet.
00:01She went to a holiday party with Trent.
00:05It was one of his buddy's holiday parties, and she got invited.
00:08She was a little nervous to go, but she said it went well.
00:10Yeah, it wasn't the first time they hung out, though.
00:12This was like the third or fourth, I think it was.
00:14But I asked her if she was dressed appropriately.
00:17She said she didn't drink too much, so the obvious things.
00:20But she's like, I told him I was going to.
00:22She reached out to him, and he hasn't even texted her back.
00:24So she just wants some help trying to figure out what went wrong.
00:27Okay.
00:28We did get a hold of Trent.
00:29We do have him on hold.
00:30Let's bring him on.
00:31He's agreed to talk to us.
00:32Trent, you there?
00:34Yes, I'm here.
00:35Trent, thank you for doing this, man.
00:37We wanted to talk to you about Anna.
00:40We want to set you guys up on another date.
00:42I mean, is that possible?
00:45Well, I don't think so.
00:48She crossed some lines, crossed some boundaries at the party,
00:52and I don't think it's going to work.
00:55What would she do?
00:56Well, you know, my buddy threw a party, and, you know, my ex was there.
01:03And Anna was hanging out with her the whole night.
01:05We were, like, best friends.
01:07Oh, I thought you were going to say that she, like, went off on your ex.
01:10No, it was just awkward.
01:12You know, I'm there with my date, and my date's hanging out with my ex,
01:15and they were chatting the whole night.
01:17It was just really awkward.
01:19Why would you bring a new date to a party where your ex was at?
01:22Well, I didn't know she was going to be there.
01:25We have lots, lots of mutual friends.
01:28I did not know she was going to be there.
01:30So I just think it's very strange that she's hanging out with my ex the whole time
01:35and, you know, choosing to speak to her all night long.
01:38It's just really weird, really awkward.
01:41Let me ask you this.
01:42How do you think she felt?
01:43Because she's walking into a party where she didn't know many people,
01:47and she's got to kind of make the most of a situation,
01:49especially if your ex is there, right?
01:51Well, it's not like I knew she was going to be there.
01:53Well, I'm saying Anna.
01:55I mean, Anna's got to kind of make the most of the situation, too.
01:58I mean, she could have just said hello, and that was it.
02:00And, you know, I had a lot of my friends there.
02:03I mean, but of all people, she goes towards my ex,
02:06and she's just hanging out with her.
02:08I mean, she could have talked to anyone.
02:10How long ago did you guys break up?
02:12Like two years ago.
02:13Okay, so this has been your ex for a while.
02:15Yeah, but an ex is an ex.
02:17Yeah, but do you guys not get along, though?
02:20Because after two years, you would think you'd be kind of...
02:22Well, depends on what the breakup was all about.
02:25That's true.
02:26Yeah, well, that's another story.
02:27But, you know, an ex is an ex, and, I mean,
02:30she didn't have to be all buddy-buddy with her.
02:32It just was really uncomfortable and awkward.
02:34All right, well, listen, Trent,
02:35we have Anna on the phone with us, too.
02:37Oh, great.
02:39That's how we got your number.
02:41Anna?
02:42Yeah, I'm just, like, so confused,
02:44because, like, you invite me to a party.
02:47We go.
02:48Your ex is unexpectedly there.
02:51I tried to make the most of an awkward situation.
02:55I feel like we were...
02:57She was really nice.
02:58Like, so I don't understand what the problem is.
03:01I'm so confused.
03:03It's really awkward.
03:03It's not...
03:04That's kind of enjoyable to me.
03:05I feel like I'm the one that should be feeling weird here,
03:09and I was relieved that she was so cool
03:12and that we could, like, talk and hang out.
03:14If I was going to a party where your ex was,
03:17and you're there,
03:18and I would not go up to him and start talking to the guy.
03:22I mean, that would...
03:22I know that would probably not be awkward for you
03:24if the shoe was on you.
03:26I mean, don't act like I made, like, a beeline for her.
03:28Like, I mean, and also, like, I would be mortified
03:31if I brought you to a party that my ex was at.
03:33Like, I think I would have just handled the whole thing differently.
03:36Like, if you knew you had, like, mutual people in common,
03:39like, you'd think you would have warned me or something.
03:41I don't know.
03:41Like, whatever.
03:42To flip the script feels a little bit weird.
03:44I don't think I would have reacted the way you're reacting right now, but...
03:48You didn't make a beeline,
03:48but you were spending about at least a couple hours talking to her.
03:52I mean...
03:52Yeah, I mean, yeah, she ended up being really cool,
03:55and you were hanging out with your friends,
03:57and it seemed like everybody was just having a nice time,
04:00and it seemed like it was okay.
04:02You guys going to start hanging out now?
04:04Did you exchange phone numbers?
04:05Oh, my God.
04:06It's not that serious.
04:07Like, we weren't...
04:08It's not serious.
04:09Now, that would be weird.
04:11We weren't even really talking about you.
04:13I mean, obviously, like, we talked about you a little bit.
04:16Like, you know, she brought up that you were really nice.
04:18She said really kind things about you.
04:20I thought you would have been, like, happy that, you know,
04:23like, that it worked out.
04:25I don't know.
04:26I don't know.
04:26Macy seemed really cool.
04:27I'm really...
04:28Are you on a first-team basis with her?
04:30I mean...
04:31Yeah, I mean, I met her at a party.
04:33Obviously, I would know her name, right?
04:35Well, Trent, what did you want her to do, Anna, to do?
04:38I mean, it could have been drama,
04:40which would have ruined the whole party for everybody,
04:42and Anna was cool about it.
04:44So, I feel like this is a plus, not a...
04:46Yeah.
04:47Not, like, a strike against her.
04:48You should be happy.
04:50You know, just a hello.
04:51That's what I would have...
04:52I don't know.
04:54Okay, this is kind of strange.
04:56Anna, did you talk to her to try to get some info from her about him?
05:00No, no, not at all.
05:01I mean, I said hi, expecting it to be weird,
05:05and then it actually wasn't weird,
05:06and, you know, I knew that they hadn't been together for a while,
05:10and they have all these mutual friends,
05:11so I figured, like, oh, this is way in the past.
05:14Like, this is cool.
05:16This is chill.
05:17And then she just ended up, like I said, like,
05:18she just ended up being really cool.
05:20Like, you know, I was like, oh,
05:21it actually kind of made me feel better.
05:23Like, oh, okay, so he is a good guy.
05:25Like, I'm, you know, great.
05:28And I was kind of relieved, and then, yeah,
05:30I thought everything was great,
05:32and I didn't want to follow him around like a...
05:33Good guy.
05:35You had to hear that from my ex.
05:36Okay.
05:37That's good.
05:37I mean, I just...
05:39We've only hung out a few times.
05:40Like, is that crazy that, like,
05:42your unexpected ex is at a party,
05:44and she confirms that you're cool?
05:46Trent, this can't be a deal-breaker for you, dude.
05:48I mean, this...
05:49Anna sounds very nice.
05:50Right.
05:51She made the most of a situation
05:52that could have been super awkward.
05:54You got to be hanging out with her again, right?
05:56Are you willing to hang out?
05:58This is a deal-breaker for me.
05:59I can't believe this.
06:02She crossed a boundary,
06:03and it's just, like, crossing a line
06:06into, like, my past is just weird.
06:09Wow.
06:10Anna, I got to say,
06:12I'm on your side here,
06:13and I think you made the best of this,
06:15and I'm sorry it's not going to work out with Trent,
06:17but maybe you're better off.
06:19No offense, Trent.
06:20Just saying it's not a match.
06:22Honestly, like, the immaturity alone
06:25is probably...
06:26I think I just kind of dodged a bullet.
06:28And you made a new friend.
06:29Yeah.
06:30That's good.
06:31There you go.
06:32All right.
06:33Well, listen, thanks, guys, for coming on.
06:35You guys have a great day, okay?
06:36Thanks.
06:37You too.
06:38All right.
06:38See you.
06:38What is his deal?
06:40I mean, think about what a disaster that could have been.
06:43That could have gone really, really bad,
06:46and she totally...
06:47Was mature about it.
06:48Mature about it and was cool about it.
06:50I mean, here's two girls that, you know,
06:52obviously they're a common denominator.
06:53They dated the same guy,
06:54but they have no reason to hate each other
06:56or be mean to each other.
06:57Who cares?
06:58They don't even know each other,
06:59and they were just making friends.
07:01He...
07:01Yeah, this is dumb on his part.
07:04All right.
07:04I got to hear what you think about this
07:05and what you have to say
07:06about kind of how Trent reacted right there.
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