Second Date Update - BFF
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00:00It is a second date update right now. We are trying to help out Steven this morning, who wants to see Amanda again after their date.
00:06They went to the Toasted Monkey, which is a good place to hang out.
00:08Yeah, they were partying, but he said, you know, he thought maybe, you know, the drinks were flowing too much.
00:12But he goes, no, I mean, we really weren't. And she kissed him at the end of the date, so obviously she liked him.
00:17That is a good sign that things were going well.
00:19Yeah, they were messaging back and forth and stuff for a while, so yeah, she's definitely into them.
00:23All right, so we have her on hold right now. Let's bring her on. Amanda, you there?
00:29Hey, yeah, I'm here.
00:30Hey, Amanda, thank you for agreeing to talk to us this morning. I think that's really cool of you.
00:34I know this is a random phone call, and it's kind of like I'm putting a lot on you right away, but we do appreciate it.
00:42And we want to ask you about a guy named Steven.
00:44I think you just heard us talking about your guys' date at the Toasted Monkey.
00:48He said he had a great time with you, said you were beautiful.
00:51He thought about the date over and over in his head, but can't figure out what went wrong,
00:57because apparently something did, because you haven't talked to him since the date.
01:01Is there something that happened?
01:03I mean, no, the date was really fun.
01:06I really enjoyed hanging out with him.
01:08He's really chill, like, you know, but I just think he might be a little too busy for me,
01:14so I'm just going to leave it.
01:17It's not a big deal.
01:18It was one date.
01:18Like, I had a good time.
01:20He was a perfect gentleman, but I'm just going to, I'm not really, I don't think we're into the same things.
01:26I don't think we have similar, I don't think we have enough in common, I guess.
01:29He's just, like I said, he's just a little too busy.
01:32When you say too busy, what do you mean by that?
01:34Like, did you ask him to hang out and he couldn't hang out or what?
01:36Uh, no, I was out with my girlfriend, um, a few days, like, after the date, and we were at Caddy's,
01:44and I saw him with another girl, and, um, which again, like, you know, we went on one date.
01:52It's, like, that's fine.
01:53I don't, you know, we're not in a relationship, but I just, like, just didn't really feel really good,
01:57because they were, like, literally all over each other.
01:59Oh.
02:00That's not really how I date.
02:01Like, I don't really play the skill, like, it's, like, too stressful for me.
02:04I'd rather just, like, date somebody, like, one at a time, rather than, like, feeling like I have to compete with somebody.
02:10So I just, you know, that's fine.
02:12Again, one date, so, like, he can do whatever he wants, but it's just not my thing, so.
02:17Yeah, no, I get it.
02:18I mean, last thing you want to do is see the guy that you went on a date with, and he's all over some other girl.
02:23You didn't walk up to him and say anything?
02:25Uh, I was going to, but then my girlfriends were like, ah, there's no point.
02:29Just forget about him, and then we just, like, went to another area of the bar.
02:33Yeah.
02:33But, I mean, they were, like, all over each other.
02:36Like, they clearly were more than friends.
02:37Oh, yeah.
02:38I don't blame you.
02:39I wouldn't call him either.
02:41All right.
02:41Yeah, I was just like, all right, no, next, thanks.
02:45That's pretty cut and dry.
02:46Yeah.
02:46Amanda, I get that, and I get that you would feel that way.
02:49I just want to tell you something.
02:50We do have Steven with us on the phone, and he is, you know, wanting to see you again.
02:56Would you be willing to let us bring him on right now and just have him give his side of the story?
03:00I mean, sure.
03:03I don't think it's really going to change anything, but, I mean, it's already there, I guess.
03:07Sure.
03:07All right.
03:08Steven.
03:09Yeah, I'm here.
03:10Amanda, you have this totally wrong.
03:12You're totally, I know it seemed like one thing, but it was not that at all.
03:16She's an old friend of mine, and we're just, like, very comfortable with her.
03:20Like, you know, we'd be with each other, I mean.
03:22There's nothing, like, romantic whatsoever.
03:24I mean, come on, like, don't, okay, fine.
03:28No, no, I promise.
03:30You have no idea.
03:31Like, we're just friends.
03:33Why are you all over her, then?
03:34Yeah, like, don't treat me like I'm dumb.
03:36Like, I'm not stupid.
03:38I've been around the block.
03:38We've known each other forever.
03:40We're just comfortable around each other.
03:41We're not, like, there's nothing romantic.
03:43She's like a sister to me.
03:45Okay.
03:45If she was your sister, then the way you were texting was a little inappropriate.
03:51No, no, we're just really comfortable.
03:53We're just, like, relaxed around each other.
03:55It's not like that.
03:57I promise you.
03:58I promise.
03:59I mean, I think it's pretty understandable what kind of idea I got.
04:03Like, that was pretty sketchy.
04:04I'm just, like, I'm not dumb.
04:06Like, you know, like, I saw what I saw.
04:08So.
04:09Why would I go through all this to talk to you?
04:11I would be on a date with her if I wanted to be with her.
04:15I don't, I, she's not, she's just a friend.
04:17I called you on the radio, you know, to try to get another date with you.
04:20I took you out.
04:21I want to see you again.
04:23You're the one that I'm interested in.
04:24Does your friend know that you're dating?
04:28Of course.
04:29I was telling her all about the date.
04:31Oh.
04:31We were going on, and I was going on and on about how amazing you are.
04:35Are you with that?
04:36Are you like that with all your girl friends?
04:39No.
04:39She's just a friend of mine.
04:40But, like, you know, we've just known each other forever.
04:42We've known each other forever.
04:43Who makes out like that with their friends?
04:45They weren't making out.
04:47They just said it all over each other.
04:49No one said anything about making out.
04:51Oh, okay.
04:51Sorry.
04:52Right, Amanda, no one was kissing anybody, right?
04:55No, no.
04:55It was just like they were, like, throwing their heads back and laughing, like, some, like,
04:59rom-com montage.
05:00It was like, and I was just like, all right.
05:03So, I was like, these two are having a blast.
05:05It's not like that.
05:06I'm telling you.
05:07I want you to meet her.
05:09But she's cool.
05:09She's one of my friends.
05:10I have friends that are guys and friends that are girls.
05:14I mean, if I was there with a guy doing the same thing, what?
05:17You wouldn't have thought he and I were in a relationship.
05:20You're just, you know, saying that because she's a girl.
05:22I mean, Amanda, would you be willing to hear Steven out some more and go on another date
05:27and maybe meet the BFF?
05:29Just give me another date.
05:30Yeah.
05:30I really like you.
05:31I mean, I mean, I really like you, too.
05:34But, like, I just, it just sort of gave, it was, like, major red flags.
05:38But I, you know, I guess if you are, like, being sincere about this, then, like, yeah,
05:46I guess I would give it another shot.
05:48Really?
05:49Here we go.
05:49Wow.
05:50Look at that.
05:51That's great.
05:52Yeah.
05:52I mean, everything in me is saying to not, but we had a good time.
05:57So, I guess I'll, you know, try it out again.
06:02Well, there you go, Steven.
06:03You're getting another date with Amanda.
06:05That's great.
06:05Thank you guys for having me.
06:06Wow.
06:07Look at that.
06:08Holy cow, girl.
06:10All right.
06:10Well, Amanda, I want you to hold on from me.
06:13Steven, I want you to hold on from me.
06:14We're going to get all your info.
06:15We're going to set you guys up on another date.
06:17We're going to pay for it.
06:18And we're wishing you guys luck, okay?
06:20Yeah.
06:20Better be someplace nice.
06:21Hang on for me, okay?
06:25Yeah.
06:25All right.
06:26All right.
06:26Hang on.
06:27You buying it?
06:28No.
06:29No.
06:30I think she's going to find out the hard way.
06:32You don't, I mean, you go out with some guy, you guys hit it off, and then he's at
06:36the bar a few, a different bar a few days later, like all over some girl.
06:41I mean.
06:42Yeah.
06:42I think we need to define what all over is.
06:44We don't know.
06:45That's what I'm saying.
06:45But like what that looked like to her.
06:48I mean, was it just talking?
06:49Was it just laughing?
06:50Were they being touchy-feely?
06:52That's what's tough about this, because we were there.
06:54I mean, maybe if she meets this girl and she'll find out the truth, or who knows?
06:59I don't know.
06:59I don't think I'd give him another shot, though.
07:01All right.
07:01Would you ever give him another shot?
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