Second Date Update - The Workout
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00:00We're trying to help out Ben this morning on the 715 Second Date Update.
00:03He can't get a hold of Jennifer since their date.
00:06They had kind of an unorthodox style date, but let's just do this.
00:11Let's just try to call Jennifer and get her on the phone right now
00:14and see if we can get some answers for Ben because he can't get a hold of her.
00:30Hello?
00:34Hi, is this Jennifer?
00:36Yes.
00:37Hey, Jennifer.
00:38Hey, sorry to bother you this morning.
00:40This is actually J.R. Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
00:44Oh, well, hi.
00:46I was like for a minute, like, oh, it's going to be like a spam call.
00:50I was about ready to be like, this isn't her, but hi.
00:52Yeah, hey.
00:53Okay, so you've heard our show before?
00:56Like every day, yes.
00:57I appreciate it, so we thank you so much.
01:00Do you know something we call a 715 Second Date Update?
01:06Yeah, I feel like I know exactly who you're calling about, too.
01:09Really?
01:11Okay, well, who do you think we're calling about?
01:13Name Ben.
01:14That is correct.
01:16I'll just tell you what we know about Ben.
01:19Ben said you guys met at the gym and then had a gym date where you guys worked out together.
01:24And then I guess since that date, that gym date, which apparently didn't go so well because
01:30he hasn't heard from you, he's trying to figure out what's going on now because he wants to
01:33see you again and he's just confused.
01:36Yeah, well, I mean, let me just start off by saying, like, he's a bit of a gawker and
01:42I noticed him for a while, like, watching me work out at the gym.
01:47But then he came up to me and, like, talked to me or whatever.
01:49And I decided that that was, you know, I mean, it's a weird thing to do at the gym sometimes.
01:54So I kind of, like, gave him credit for it.
01:56And I was like, I'll just give this guy a shot, you know, or whatever.
01:59So he did ask me out, but he asked me out to, like, work out at the gym.
02:05He's a total meathead.
02:06We started working out.
02:08And, like, I thought, like, it would just be kind of, like, work out, do our thing and
02:11kind of have some good, like, banter and just kind of get to know each other and have
02:14to be, like, light.
02:15But, like, this guy legit was, like, trying to, like, critique my moves, trying to, like,
02:21tell me my form wasn't right, was, like, talking to me about, like, counting macros and, like,
02:27legit, like, busted out his cell phone and was like, girl, if you work with me, like,
02:31let me just show you these progress pics, you know?
02:34Let me show you what I, like, did for this, like, mother of four, you know?
02:37And after her tummy tuck and, like, just, like, telling me all this stuff.
02:41Is he a trainer?
02:41No, he's just, like, a dude at the gym.
02:44Like, it just was, like, too much.
02:47So he's all in.
02:48Yeah, this is his lifestyle.
02:49He's a gym guy.
02:51A thousand percent.
02:53And, like, working out with him on this, like, so-called, like, little date session thing
02:57just made me feel, like, all kinds of yuck about myself.
03:01Like, instead of pumping me up, he made me, like, feel so critical about my body.
03:05And it was, like, everything you don't want, like, a partner to do.
03:08So, like, I immediately was, like, no, like, this guy's got to go.
03:12And you guys, to be honest, like, I haven't even gone back to my gym since I was going to say.
03:16I mean, you work out there.
03:18You haven't seen him since?
03:20I legit started doing, like, a little routine with my girlfriend and her, like, condo gym.
03:26It sounds like you don't want to see Ben again.
03:29But I do want to tell you that we have Ben on the phone with us.
03:32I, you know, I knew, I listened to the segment.
03:34I knew, like, and, yeah, hi, Ben.
03:36You're probably, like, heard me just dog you.
03:38But I'm sorry, bro.
03:39Like, it was, you're too much.
03:41Oh, I was just trying to do some, I was trying to help you out.
03:46I mean, I think the thing is.
03:48Help me out.
03:48You made me feel, like, so bad about myself.
03:51I mean, no, but that's not what I, how, that was not what I meant to do at all.
03:55I just know that you're, like, you know, you're at, like, a seven on fitness, on fitness.
03:58And, like, you can get up to, like, a ten easily because you, like, your form was so
04:02close on so many other things.
04:03Oh, my God, wait, hold on.
04:04Like, this is not how you try to go on a date with somebody, by, like, assessing their fitness
04:09level.
04:10Is this a gym class?
04:11The advice that I'm giving you, like, I mean, that can totally take it to another level.
04:15I think you could even, like, compete.
04:18There's just so many things that you're so close to.
04:21And, I mean, I just, I thought I was helping you.
04:24Maybe.
04:25Are you done?
04:25Ben, are you, so you're not a trainer, but you kind of are acting like one a little bit,
04:30right?
04:31Well, I mean, I could be a trainer.
04:32I've got the, I've got the technique and the talent to be a trainer.
04:36I just, I do Instagram stuff.
04:38I, I'm a branded ambassador, you know, so it's, like, I'm on the, I'm right on the cusp
04:43there.
04:43But mostly, I just try to help people who need, like, seem like they need a little help.
04:47And, you know, just a little goose.
04:48But were you trying to look for a date or were you trying to look for a client here?
04:51Right.
04:52No, no, more, it was a date.
04:53It was a date.
04:54I mean, I was just also, I mean, this is just what I'm passionate about.
04:56So, I thought that, like, you know, we could, that would be a good thing to, you know, kick
05:01it off.
05:02Clearly.
05:03You're clearly so passionate.
05:05I feel like it consumes you.
05:07I feel like, I mean, the minute you said something about a macro, it's like, bro, I was, like, gone.
05:13Like, if I wanted a trainer, like, no offense, I would have hired one.
05:16All right.
05:17So, here's the deal.
05:19Ben, I got to ask Jennifer something right now.
05:21Jennifer, what if you guys did something that had nothing to do with the gym?
05:25They are, no.
05:25Before you even, no, no, no, no, no.
05:27I can't even, I don't even feel like I could go out to dinner with him because he would sit
05:30and pick at what I was eating and tell me about the calories or how I shouldn't have the
05:34chicken prepared a certain way.
05:35Or do I know what kind of sauce is in the dressing?
05:37I just, I just, I can't.
05:39So, that's a no?
05:40Yeah, that's a hard no.
05:41That's a big no.
05:42Ben, you heard what she had to say.
05:43I guess this just wasn't an approach that she was looking for.
05:46And it just didn't work out this time.
05:47I'm sorry that we can't get you another date.
05:50I wish you luck, man.
05:51And Jennifer, thanks for your time.
05:52Well, thank you.
05:54Thank you, guys.
05:55All right.
05:56Thanks a lot.
05:58Did she have her pre-workout already?
06:00I mean, I don't know who dodged a bullet there.
06:04More.
06:04Dumb idea for a first date.
06:06That's for sure.
06:08But, my goodness.
06:09Yeah, I think Ben may have dodged the bullet.
06:13That's what I'm saying.
06:14Ben, I mean, again, Ben, not a good idea for a first date and then to be critiquing a woman's
06:19workout, especially unsolicited.
06:21Not a good idea.
06:22However.
06:23However.
06:25Woo!
06:25She was something.
06:27She's awake.
06:28She's awake.
06:29We woke her up for sure.
06:30All right.
06:31I'm lost right now.
06:32800-992-1099.
06:34800-992-1099.
06:36Want you to weigh in on this right now.
06:38Please do.
06:39But here's Morgan Wallen's new one.
06:41It's called One Thing at a Time on 995QYK.