Second Date Update - In A Pickle
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00:00Well, it sounds like they had a fun date.
00:01Marissa and Toby is who we're talking about right now on the second date update as we try to match them back up.
00:06It's commercial-free new country, 99.5 QYK.
00:10Toby is, though, lost about why he has not heard from Marissa since the date.
00:14Yeah, well, they went to go play pickleball.
00:16We asked him a bunch of stuff like, was it too competitive?
00:19Was it too hot outside?
00:21I asked if he was, you know, taking pictures of her mid-pickleball swing or whatever, and he said no.
00:26So he said he's wracking his brain.
00:27He can't figure out why she ain't calling him back.
00:29All right.
00:30Well, we were able to get a hold of her.
00:31We got her on hold right now.
00:32Let's just talk to her.
00:33She's heard what we had to say.
00:35Marissa, are you there?
00:36Yeah.
00:37Hey, Marissa, you just heard us kind of recapping your date with Toby.
00:41But this guy wants to see you again, and he can't figure out why he hasn't heard from you.
00:45So we want to kind of know what's going on.
00:48Oh, that guy's a clown.
00:50No.
00:52He's a clown?
00:52What did he do?
00:54You know, the date was going really well.
00:58And then he made this comment, and I was like, what?
01:02Well, we want to know what the comment was.
01:04Did he tell us?
01:05Is it safe to say on the radio, though?
01:08Oh, yeah.
01:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:09We were in the middle of playing pickleball, and he goes, oh, you move pretty well for
01:15a bigger girl.
01:16Oh, he screwed.
01:17Yeah.
01:18And boy, no.
01:19He did not.
01:22Yes, he did.
01:23And I was there like, I'm sorry, what did you say?
01:26And he just, you know, kept playing.
01:28And it's like.
01:29Did you hit him with the pickleball racket?
01:31I was going to say.
01:32Did he get smacked with that racket?
01:34Did he get it?
01:34Wow.
01:35No, I didn't.
01:36I was just in such shock that someone would say something like that.
01:39I get it.
01:40Wow.
01:40Yeah.
01:41Oof.
01:41Yeah, not smart at all.
01:43Dang.
01:44Did you, what'd you say?
01:46I was just so in shock that I didn't say anything.
01:49You know, like, who says that?
01:51Yeah, exactly.
01:52Oh, man.
01:53Well, I totally get why you're not calling him back.
01:55I wouldn't either.
01:56Well, I kind of want to talk to him about this.
01:59And we have Toby on the phone with us, Marissa.
02:01Can we bring him back on and ask him?
02:03Please, please, please, please.
02:04Yes, please.
02:04So he will leave me alone.
02:06Oh.
02:06Okay.
02:07Toby, you got an uphill battle here, man.
02:09Did you say that?
02:11No.
02:11I mean, I don't know, I guess.
02:14But, like, that's definitely not what I meant.
02:16Like, I didn't mean, like, big, you know?
02:18I'm just like, you know, Marissa, you're, like, athletic.
02:21You're not, like, an itty-bitty, like, tiny, little, fragile girl.
02:26That's all I meant.
02:27Oh.
02:27Oh.
02:28So girls are supposed to be little and fragile?
02:31No.
02:32And I'm not, so I'm a bigger girl?
02:35No, it's not.
02:36Wow.
02:37You're, like, you're, you know, you're not out of shape.
02:40Like, that's not what I'm saying.
02:41You're not, like, a bigger girl.
02:43You're just not, like, mousy, you know?
02:45Like, you're athletic.
02:47You're not winning points here.
02:49Yeah, I mean, I work out and stuff.
02:51And I've just never been called bigger because, I mean, there's no way.
02:55I work out and all that stuff.
02:58And I'm not.
02:59Then I, look, man, I misspoke.
03:02I used the wrong phrase, man.
03:04Yeah, you did.
03:05I just apologize.
03:05Yeah, you did.
03:06I had a really good time with you.
03:08Like, and I'm hoping you can forgive me and just acknowledge that it's kind of a slip-up.
03:13And maybe we can go get dinner and, like, put all this behind us.
03:17Like, what do you think?
03:18No.
03:19No.
03:19I mean, if mousy and little and fragile is what you're looking for, then I'm not that.
03:25And, you know, I just don't like all this focus that you've got on body type right here as far as, like, what I'm not.
03:35So, yeah.
03:36I think you've got some issues that you've got to work through before, you know.
03:41That's a bad choice of words, Toby.
03:43Yeah.
03:44Yeah, I guess.
03:46I mean, I'm not really that, I don't know.
03:49I'm not really that, like, body focused.
03:50I mean, Marissa, he did call us trying to, you know, get a date with you.
03:54So, no forgiveness there?
03:56Good try.
03:57No, because all I'm hearing out of his mouth is body judgment, body judgment, body judgment, body judgment.
04:04And, no, thank you.
04:06Okay.
04:07All right, Toby.
04:08Well, we know where we messed up here.
04:09It was pretty clear.
04:10Sorry that you didn't use your words a little bit more careful next time, I think.
04:17And we do appreciate you reaching out to us.
04:20Marissa, thanks for coming on.
04:22You guys have a great day, okay?
04:23Yeah, you too.
04:25Thanks, guys.
04:25I appreciate you.
04:26Appreciate you, Ed.
04:27Yeah.
04:28I mean, dead in the water, as soon as he said it.
04:30Do you forgive somebody who says that?
04:34I mean, I don't know if I could.
04:35I guess you could forgive someone, but maybe on the first date.
04:38And now you're thinking all the time he's always going to compare you to something else.
04:41Or he's always going to be thinking that you're a bigger girl.
04:43Yeah, I don't blame her.
04:46Not at all.
04:46I don't blame her one bit.
04:47Oh, man.
04:48Yeah, talk about screwing yourself over big time right there.
04:53All right, 800-992-1099.
04:56800-992-1099.
04:58Is there any coming back from that whatsoever?
05:01We want to know.