Second Date Update - Went For a Scroll
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00:00Trying to help out Danny this morning on the second date update. He feels good about their date doesn't know what's going on though
00:06I actually gave her a kiss at the end of the night as well on the cheek. So that sounded good
00:11So we're just gonna do what we do. We're gonna try to call Kayla right now. Let's even get her on the phone
00:30Hello? Hi, is this Kayla? Yes. Hey Kayla, this is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK. How you doing?
00:38Um, okay. All right. Hey, do you remember a guy named Danny that you went on a date with?
00:46Yeah. Okay, well, we wanted to see if we could ask you a couple questions about that date. We heard you guys went to the World of Beer. Danny told us you really hit it off. Also told us that there was even a peck on the cheek.
00:58But now he can't get a hold of you and he's trying to figure out why.
01:02Uh, yeah. So, okay, I feel weird being put on the spot, but he is not getting a hold of me because I don't really want him to get a hold of me.
01:10Uh-oh, what happened?
01:12Um, I just, you know, did a little social mediating, as I like to call it. I always like to kind of, you know, get to know somebody I might be dating, like on social media and see what kind of vibe they put out there.
01:25Sure, we all stalk our potential boyfriends, right. I get it.
01:30Okay, yeah, we could use the term stalk. But, um, yeah, I just, there was just some stuff on his social media where I was like, okay, like, pause, pump the brakes, like, not so much. You know what I mean?
01:43What did you see on his social media that made you want to pump the brakes?
01:45Well, um, tons of pictures of his ex-girlfriend.
01:50Like, recent photos?
01:52No, I mean, when they were dating, but I just feel like the fact that his social media has a ton of pictures of her makes me think maybe he's not over her.
02:03I don't know. I mean, I feel like when you break up with somebody, it's pretty normal to then, like, take some of the pictures off.
02:10Well, let me ask you a question. Like, how long ago were these photos posted? Because you obviously can see dates.
02:14I mean, I don't know, maybe, like, a year ago or so.
02:16A year ago? And you're worried about these photos?
02:20I mean, she's really pretty. I just want to put that out there. And, like, all the photos is, like, very, like, beachy, I'm on the boat, bikini, kissy, kissy. Like, it's just, like, a lot of, like...
02:31Well, I mean...
02:32I don't know. It's not like Christmas. It's like, we're making out on a boat, you know? Like, we're at, you know, CPP, hanging out at, you know, like, the beach bar. It's just, I just feel like he's hung up on her.
02:42All right. Well, Kayla, I'm going to tell you this. We have Danny on the phone with us. That's how we got your phone number. And I want to bring him back on, because he has no idea why you haven't gotten back to him. He does now. He's heard what he had to say. Danny.
02:55Yeah. That's pretty strange, I think.
02:59Can I ask how long ago you guys broke up?
03:01It was over a year ago.
03:03So, basically, you have not posted any photos since you guys broke up?
03:06No. I haven't talked to her in, like, 11 months.
03:09That was a long time ago.
03:10And it was only because she left something at my house that she needed.
03:13I don't know. It was a clean break. I don't hate her.
03:16I just feel like if you want to start a new relationship with somebody, it's pretty disrespectful to have pictures of your ex-girlfriend on your social media.
03:23Like, I don't have... If you go on my social media, I have deleted all pictures of my recent ex.
03:28Are there a lot of recent exes?
03:30Like...
03:31Well, I mean, does it matter?
03:34I mean, it seems like it's... On my side, it's going to.
03:38Because here's the thing, too. I know that my mom is going to probably go on your social media.
03:42Like, if I tell her, like, oh, I'm this really great guy, and we're, like, dating, like, first thing my mom's going to do is go and scroll your social media.
03:48And then she's going to be like, well, why are there pictures of him with this bikini girl, like, all over his social?
03:53Like, what the heck?
03:53I'm not going to go back and, like, spend all that energy trying to rid... Like, find and rid every shred of evidence.
04:03It's a lot of work.
04:03Oh, really? So, basically, you're saying you're putting your ex-girlfriend before me, basically, is what you're saying?
04:08Oh, boy.
04:09Yes, yes.
04:10Wow.
04:11Wow.
04:11Wait, wait, wait.
04:13Danny, are you being sarcastic by saying that?
04:15No, because if it's... I mean, I'm sorry I called you guys, but I'm glad I got this information. It's cool. I think we're going to agree on not going on a second date.
04:27But you don't talk to your ex at all, right?
04:29No, like I said, I haven't talked to her in, like, 11 months, and it was only because she left something in my house that she needed for, like, work or something.
04:36Okay. And these photos are just something that you don't look at, obviously, because they're scrolled. They're way down on your Instagram feed.
04:41It's part of his life.
04:42At least we can both agree on something, that this is not going to go down, and, yeah, like, you're not somebody I would want to date anyway, because I feel like you're hung up on your past.
04:51Wow.
04:52Holy cow. Were some pictures on social media a year ago?
04:56I mean, I...
04:57I mean, were you scrolling, like, the big boxes or, like, the grid?
05:02It must have taken you, like, an hour and a half to get that far down.
05:07Wow.
05:07I mean, that was just a red flag. For me, that just shows lack of respect for a future partner.
05:12All right.
05:12I have heard a bunch of red flags.
05:14You can go have some wine and calm down.
05:17Oh, wow. All right.
05:18All right, Kayla.
05:19Thanks for coming on with us.
05:20Danny, thanks for coming on with us.
05:22Wow. Okay.
05:22You guys have a good day.
05:23Sorry it didn't work out.
05:24Well, I love you guys.
05:26I love you guys, so thanks for having me on the show.
05:28You guys do.
05:29I love you guys, too.
05:30But, yeah, Danny can just take a flag.
05:31What's happening right now?
05:32Don't worry, I'm not going to talk to you about it.
05:33You guys have a great day.
05:35See ya.
05:37Whoa.
05:38I wanted to hang up on him.
05:40That would have been awesome.
05:41I don't know.
05:43I have to.
05:44I'm on Danny's side on this one.
05:45I still have all my pictures of my ex-husband still up on my social media.
05:49I don't care.
05:50It's part of my life.
05:51It's part of my history.
05:52And that's, you go back and you look at memories and you remember different things.
05:56You erase all those pictures.
05:57You can erase all those memories.
05:58Well, obviously she was doing some major stalking because she even admitted, yeah, they're from
06:02like a year ago.
06:03It's not like he just recently broke out with his ex or whatever.
06:06And like you said, that's easy to get to when somebody doesn't post a lot.
06:09Right.
06:10Like on Kevin's Facebook, you can get like six years ago in like two seconds.
06:14That's true.
06:15That is true.
06:16No, that's a lot to be scrolling through, but I don't think you need to.
06:22All right.
06:22I want to see where you're at on this.
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