Second Date Update - Dress To Impress
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00:00It is the second date update right now.
00:02David has reached out to us.
00:03We've talked to him about his date with Lexi.
00:05We are going to try to set them back up on another date right now.
00:09Lexi is on the phone with us.
00:10Let's just bring her on right now.
00:12We've got her permission to talk to her on the air.
00:14Lexi, you there?
00:15Yeah, hi.
00:16Hey, Lexi.
00:17Thanks for agreeing to do this.
00:19Hopefully, this will end well.
00:21We wanted to ask you about your date with David.
00:23We know you guys went to Stonewater, ate there on the water, had a great time.
00:27And he said he felt like things were easy as far as getting to know you and hanging out with you and all that.
00:33Like, it just went well.
00:35And he felt like this was leading to another date.
00:38But he hasn't heard from you since that first date and kind of wants to know what's going on.
00:42So we thought we'd ask you straight up, what's going on?
00:45Well, first of all, it's kind of weird to me that he felt like everything was great on the first date
00:52because I felt so awkward the whole time.
00:57Oh, he did not pick that up at all.
00:59Well, yeah.
01:01I mean, I'm glad that I hid it, I guess.
01:04I mean, I was really uncomfortable.
01:07So I'm glad that I didn't make him uncomfortable, I guess.
01:11But I don't know.
01:13What happened?
01:14He was just not who I thought he was at all.
01:17What do you mean by that?
01:18I mean, he's just like a completely different person than his profile.
01:21Like, just not at all.
01:24Well, in what way?
01:26So he met me there.
01:28I wasn't sure it was him because here's this guy who's wearing, like, rhinestone jeans and, like, a fishnet shirt.
01:38I don't know.
01:38Wait, did you say fishnet?
01:39Yeah, yeah.
01:41It was like a fishnet shirt over a t-shirt and...
01:45Well, it was on the water.
01:46Yeah.
01:49Sorry.
01:50Yeah.
01:51No, it was, like, really bizarre.
01:53I don't know.
01:56I was like, oh, is he in a 90s band?
01:59Like, I did not...
02:00I was just going to say, is he in a band or...
02:03You know, I don't think so.
02:06I mean, I feel like that would have come up before we met.
02:09Yeah, if you were in a band, that would come up.
02:11Yeah.
02:12We definitely, like, messaged each other a lot.
02:15So, like, I felt like I knew him.
02:17And then when we were there, I just, like, didn't know who this human being was at all.
02:23So you had a problem with what he was wearing, basically?
02:26I mean, okay, yeah.
02:27I guess I do.
02:28I don't mean to be judgmental, but I just...
02:31I don't want to date someone that dresses like that.
02:37I don't want to date somebody.
02:39Well, I mean, I'm trying to sit there.
02:41I mean, so there's a t-shirt with this?
02:44Yeah, he's got a fishnet shirt, but a t-shirt underneath.
02:48I'm trying to picture you.
02:50Oh, well.
02:53And then rhinestone jeans.
02:55So it just was a lot.
02:56Yeah, they were, like, weird, almost like a textured jean that was, like, colored.
03:02And I don't know.
03:04It was a whole show.
03:06I was like, what do you mean?
03:07He also has black nail polish on.
03:10Nail polish?
03:11Which, yeah, which, you know, I'm kind of like, all right.
03:14I just was not expecting this from this dude who dresses like a, I don't know.
03:20I thought, I assume dressed like a, I don't know, like a normal dude.
03:24All right.
03:26We do have David on the phone with us, Lexi.
03:30Okay.
03:31And I want to bring him back on real quick.
03:34David, you there?
03:35Yeah.
03:36I'm hearing everything.
03:37I'm just so embarrassed right now.
03:39I'm really embarrassed.
03:40And Lexi, Lexi, those are not in my rotation.
03:45Those clothes were like, I followed some advice from my friends, my girl, you know, pause friends.
03:51You know, they were telling me the latest trends, have it on Insta, just followed their advice.
03:57And I'm so embarrassed.
03:59They said, I look good.
03:59They said, this is what you should do to dress up, to impress you.
04:03And I got some bad advice, honestly.
04:06I should have stuck with what I usually wear.
04:08And it's not me, okay?
04:11Uh-uh.
04:11Were they playing a practical joke on you?
04:14Like, did you look the answer in the mirror?
04:15I mean, I'm going to have to talk to you about that now.
04:17Yeah.
04:18I'm so sorry.
04:18How did you feel like that was your authentic self, wearing that outfit, though?
04:22Like, what?
04:24Look, I asked my advice for other things, but I just, I wanted to impress you.
04:28I was so impressed with your profile.
04:29And I wanted to, like, really try something new, you know, because I wanted to just, I was willing to listen.
04:34And they filled my head with all this bad advice, okay?
04:37David, I was definitely impressed, but not in the right way.
04:41Okay.
04:41Wow.
04:42Okay.
04:42Well, let me ask you this, Lexi.
04:44Let's put the clothes aside.
04:45Was David a gentleman and a nice guy?
04:47I mean, yes, but it was just really awkward.
04:54I didn't know how to be myself because I didn't know who he was.
05:02Do you know what I mean?
05:02But what about doing a do-over here?
05:04Now he knows that he was out of his lane on this and he didn't feel comfortable.
05:07He was trying to do something to impress you.
05:08What about hitting the reset button here and going out with him and he'll just, you know, wear what he normally wears.
05:14And you guys can actually get to know each other.
05:16Would you be willing to do that?
05:18I don't think so.
05:19I don't mean to be harsh, but I just sort of feel like David doesn't really know who he is.
05:26And maybe he needs to figure that out first.
05:29Wow.
05:30You know, look, I'll just go back.
05:32I'll just go back, get my regular rotation and clothes on, just try it again.
05:35Like, I can change all that.
05:36Look, I'm, I'm, I'm, I, it's bad advice.
05:39That's the thing, David.
05:40Like I, David, I don't want you to change who you are for me.
05:45This isn't working.
05:46Like it doesn't, I'm not into it.
05:49Okay.
05:49So I guess we can leave it there.
05:51All right.
05:52Well, we'll leave it there.
05:53David, I'm sorry.
05:54You got some bad advice.
05:55Sounds like, or maybe someone else would totally dig it.
05:58I mean, this is just Lexi's preference and I'm sorry it didn't work out.
06:02Lexi, thanks for your time today.
06:04David, thanks for coming on and you guys have a great day.
06:06Good luck, David.
06:07All right.
06:08All right.
06:08Yeah.
06:09Hey, same to you.
06:10And I'll just head, head, head, head back to the drawing board.
06:12Yep.
06:12I guess.
06:13Yep.
06:14Bye.
06:15Oh man.
06:16I mean, I felt bad for him.
06:17I'm calling my friends that gave me that advice.
06:19That's for sure.
06:20Yeah.
06:20Yeah.
06:21But come on.
06:21I mean, you got friends that are like, here, put this fishnet tank top on and put a t-shirt
06:27underneath it.
06:28Yeah.
06:28I mean, he went way outside what he normally dresses like, it sounds like.
06:33Yeah.
06:33And that backfired.
06:35Yes, it did.
06:36I'm literally trying to just picture this in my head.
06:39But I think Lexi was a little harsh though.
06:42I think she's looking for a leader, not a follower.
06:44Oh, okay.
06:45All right.
06:46Let's hear what you got to say.
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