Second Date Update - Face Time
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00:00All right, trying to make love happen today between Brian and Marissa.
00:04It is the second date update, commercial-free, new country, 99.5 QIK.
00:08They've been on a couple of dates.
00:10Brian says, hey, I don't date a lot, so when you find someone you like
00:14and then you don't hear back from them, that's kind of discouraging, and I get that.
00:17A hundred percent, but we've got to find out what it is, why she's not calling them back.
00:21So we do have her on hold right now.
00:22She has agreed to talk to us.
00:24Marissa, are you there?
00:25Yeah, I'm here.
00:27Okay, thank you so much for coming on.
00:28We do appreciate that.
00:30And we do want to try to set you back up with Brian.
00:33You just heard us talking about your guys' date, but he's having trouble getting a hold of you.
00:37What's going on here?
00:38Yeah, you know, I actually find this pretty hilarious.
00:42It's funny that this guy has time to talk about this now,
00:47but he doesn't have enough time to actually talk to me on our date.
00:51What do you mean by that?
00:53What I mean by that is that on both of our dates that we've been on,
00:58he has been, he has taken FaceTime calls from his son, both dates,
01:05and like not just little short son calls him, oh, is everything good, hang up.
01:11No.
01:11Like long, drawn out, these FaceTime calls go on for at least 10 minutes.
01:16I mean, at least, what it feels like much longer than that.
01:20I think it's very rude and embarrassing and no boundaries at all.
01:26And he basically acts like I'm not even there, and it's just a waste of my time.
01:30I'm not, you know, I'm not into that.
01:32All right.
01:32And Marissa, let me ask you this.
01:34You're cool with him having kids, though, right?
01:36This is not a kid thing.
01:38This is the fact that he's taking a FaceTime call.
01:40Of course, I'm fine with the fact that he, I knew he had kids before he even agreed to
01:44meet him the first time I met him, you know?
01:46Right.
01:47But I do believe that you only have so many chances to make a first impression,
01:51and the lack of respect for my time is clearly not making a good impression.
01:56Like, I get that he has a kid, but I'm not telling him to bring his kid on the date with us,
02:01you know?
02:03I just, these calls, like, I wish you could hear the calls.
02:07They're not anything, even about anything.
02:10Like, I think one of the calls was about the kid talking about his homework and then,
02:15like, a show he was watching, and then another call was literally him showing him, like,
02:21this Lego statue thing, script creature that he built.
02:26And I was just sitting there.
02:27To me, it's like there's no respect for my time.
02:29Okay.
02:30I don't know.
02:31It's just, if the kid can FaceTime, he can clearly shoot a text message, like,
02:36Dad, are you okay?
02:37Or, Dad, I need help.
02:38Or whatever.
02:38Like, and these calls weren't because the kid needed him, you know?
02:42Okay.
02:43I mean, you had to be there to understand it, but I really felt like it was a disrespect
02:47of my time.
02:48Okay.
02:48I got you.
02:49Got it.
02:50Well, Marissa, as you can probably guess, we have Brian on the phone with us.
02:53Of course.
02:54Brian?
02:55Yeah, I mean, I definitely took a phone call from my
03:00nine-year-old, you know, who missed his dad.
03:04It might have been five minutes.
03:06I'm a little bit shocked because, I mean, she was, like, I wasn't, like, I didn't walk
03:12away.
03:12I mean, it was right there.
03:13I was on the phone with him.
03:14It was a few minutes.
03:15And, you know, he's my son.
03:16Like, he's nine years old.
03:17And it's kind of ridiculous that she would be blowing me off about that.
03:21I think, you know, I guess she could kind of be an adult and call me and say, hey, no,
03:25I don't appreciate it.
03:26Or maybe discuss it with me instead of just blowing me off.
03:30That was my time on our dates, right?
03:34And I felt like you just sort of disrespected me.
03:38And you had no thought for that.
03:39I shouldn't have to tell you that.
03:41That shouldn't have to be something that I need to tell you.
03:44You know?
03:45He is nine years old.
03:47It's not like he's a 16-year-old kid.
03:50I mean.
03:50Okay.
03:51Yeah.
03:51Okay.
03:52He's eight or nine.
03:53That's that.
03:53You know, I don't, I think he's a good age then.
03:56Like, he never, he didn't actually ever, like, truly need you on any of those calls.
04:00I heard them myself.
04:02You know?
04:03Like, you were talking about Legos.
04:05Okay?
04:05So then, like, you could have also sort of said that you needed to go and that you'd be
04:11home in a little bit.
04:12It just kind of turned me off.
04:13And that's just not really something that I am interested in getting in the middle of.
04:19Brian, she said it's not enough.
04:21Obviously, we get it like if it was an emergency and your son needed to get a hold of you.
04:25It sounded like it wasn't an emergency.
04:27Do you get kind of where she's coming from at all?
04:29Where it's kind of like, all right, well, he's just talking to talk with his son.
04:33And I get that you have a close relationship with your son.
04:35So that's not what I'm faulting you for by any means.
04:38Yeah.
04:38I just think things could have been discussed a little bit better than just blowing me off.
04:44So, I mean, with that being said, you know, I can see how this would ever work out.
04:48But, you know, I'm okay now.
04:49So I'm happy that we found out the issue.
04:53Oh, okay.
04:53So you're just going to withdraw from the situation altogether.
04:57Yeah.
04:58Yeah.
04:58I mean, it's just I don't want to be a jerk.
05:00So I'm not going to say anything to be a jerk.
05:02And I'll say, okay, you know, I probably should have handled it better.
05:07But for someone to go to the extreme of just not talking to somebody about it, that's pretty, that's like a nine-year-old, you know.
05:15Oh, wow.
05:16All right.
05:16Well, Marissa, thank you for your time this morning.
05:19We were going to try to set you guys back up, but it sounds like Brian's not interested in doing that.
05:23And you said that you're not really interested in that as well.
05:25Yeah.
05:26No, I'm okay.
05:27Okay.
05:28All right, guys.
05:29Well, good luck with everything.
05:30You guys have a great day.
05:32Thanks.
05:33Okay.
05:33Thanks.
05:34You got it.
05:35Take care.
05:36Yeah, that's tough because you want to be there for your kids.
05:39And, you know, he's doing the thing where he's going on a date.
05:43Yeah.
05:43He's got a son at home that wants to get, wants to show him Legos or whatever and wants to FaceTime him.
05:49And, you know, it'd be kind of weird to ignore that call.
05:52Yeah.
05:52Because then the kid's like, why is dad not picking up?
05:55Exactly.
05:55Then it could be a bigger issue.
05:57Yeah.
05:57So it's just like, that's a tough one.
05:59That is a tough one.
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