Second Date Update - Not a Happy Ending
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00:00All right, so Brian has reached out to us today because he went on a date with Jillian.
00:03He even said, I feel like I've been taking advantage of a little bit because he did a very creative thing for a first date.
00:09Yeah, he went to a spa and says they were drinking wine, got massages.
00:14I mean, what girl doesn't want to go to a spa?
00:16I think this is an amazing idea, and I love it.
00:19He had mentioned that she has a stressful job, and she was working a lot.
00:23I should say that this is not somebody she just met on the Internet.
00:25They do have mutual friends.
00:27Right, right.
00:28So there you go.
00:29I love this idea.
00:30I think it's great.
00:31All right, so we have Jillian on hold with us right now because she has not been talking to Brian since this spa date.
00:36We want to bring her back on right now and see if we can get some answers from her.
00:40Jillian, are you there?
00:41I'm here.
00:42Hey, Jillian, I know you're probably very confused right now of why we want to talk to you on the air.
00:49Yeah, a little bit.
00:50Okay.
00:51Well, you probably just heard us talking about your date, and we thought, man, what a creative date.
00:55Take you to a spa.
00:57Have a relaxing time.
00:58But I guess since this date, Jillian, Brian has not heard from you and is very confused on why.
01:04We were wondering if you could tell us why.
01:07Gosh, I can't believe we're calling you about this.
01:10Yeah, we showed up to the spa.
01:14It was beautiful.
01:15It was so lovely, and I felt like, you know, I was going to be pampered.
01:18That was a nice feeling.
01:20I go into the dressing room.
01:21I, you know, get into the robe and the slippers.
01:24They get us into this really pretty, like, waiting area.
01:27They offered us a glass of wine, and it was really, really lovely.
01:32Yeah, it sounds nice so far.
01:35I've never been to a spa, so we're all going to live vicariously through you and Lana right now.
01:39But go on.
01:39Waterfall in the background and the music.
01:41Yeah.
01:41So I guess the girls who were working there, I guess he called them ahead of time and already set everything up,
01:49so it was, like, kind of a surprise.
01:51But they asked if we were ready for our massage, and I thought that that was a little bit weird,
01:57but I went with it, not really thinking anything of it.
02:00So a nice couple's massage, then.
02:02Yeah, it was in the same room.
02:05It was a couple's massage.
02:07I'm, like, standing there in my robe.
02:08I have, like, a towel wrapped around me, but, like, I don't know this guy.
02:13And all of a sudden, I'm, like, standing in a towel in a room with him, and it's dark, and it's, like, uncomfortable.
02:20And, like, I don't know you, sir.
02:23Sir.
02:25Wait, wait.
02:25But you know him a little bit, though, right, through mutual friends,
02:29or you guys have never hung out in, like, a group ever?
02:32I mean, I have seen him, like, once or twice in passing,
02:36but I've never really had so much as, like, even a conversation with him.
02:41And now you're having a couple's massage next to him.
02:44That's happening.
02:45Wow.
02:45Yeah, but it's not like you're naked or anything.
02:48I mean, you have to, like, take the towel off underneath the sheet,
02:53and when they fold the sheet back, they, like, move the towel.
02:55And so it's just weird.
02:57Like, this stranger is lying right next to me.
03:00I'm, like, uncomfortable.
03:02And the massage was great, but I was so uncomfortable the whole time.
03:06I couldn't hardly enjoy it.
03:08Right.
03:08I'm surprised you didn't get up and leave.
03:10Well, I thought about it, but I didn't want to be rude.
03:13And so I just, I stayed, and it was awkward, and I don't know.
03:18So afterwards, I thanked him, and then I went home,
03:23and I just don't feel comfortable going out with him again or being in contact.
03:29I don't know.
03:29It was just weird.
03:30Huh.
03:30Okay.
03:31I mean, I can see it.
03:33I mean, when you think about it, a total stranger laying in the same room,
03:38just in a towel.
03:40Yeah.
03:40Yeah.
03:40I can see.
03:41Maybe if you had your own room and not doing a couple's massage,
03:46we would be having a totally different conversation.
03:49Exactly.
03:49Because ultimately, we're not a couple.
03:51I don't know him.
03:52That's a good point.
03:53I would have responded much differently, I think, if I had had a separate room.
03:58Well, we have him on a separate line.
04:00We actually have Brian on the phone with us as well, Jillian.
04:05And I'm sorry you felt uncomfortable.
04:07Brian.
04:09Well, I mean, it was the date.
04:12I figured we could talk while we were in the same room.
04:14I'm not trying to do anything weird or anything.
04:16Those professional people are the professional thing.
04:19Have you had a massage before?
04:20Yeah, I've had a massage before.
04:22And then you have to know that there's no talking during the massage.
04:25So, like, I can't even get to know you, really.
04:28The waiting room didn't last that long.
04:31Not long enough to be comfortable.
04:33Well, we can, like, feel out each other's vibes, you know?
04:34Like, I wasn't trying to, like, sneak a peek at your back.
04:37We're not, like, the good stuff's covered up still, you know?
04:40Like, it's not anything weird.
04:42But it is weird, and I don't know.
04:44I don't know that you're not trying to sneak a peek.
04:46I don't know you.
04:47I mean, I thought we had, like, enough mutual friends that you would be,
04:50I don't know.
04:50Like, we've got enough mutual friends.
04:52Might as well get naked.
04:53That's what we're talking about.
04:54Yeah.
04:55Hey, look, they do this kind of stuff in France all the time.
04:57Like, I think that's a regular shirt.
05:00All right.
05:01That might have to be the best explanation.
05:02I have a very European mindset, okay?
05:04Like, I think that it's just, it's just me.
05:07You know?
05:07I spent a bunch of money on this.
05:10I was trying to stand out.
05:11I thought that this was creative.
05:13Like, I'm just kind of, I feel kind of taken advantage of, you know?
05:15Like, you could have told me before that you didn't feel comfortable,
05:17and you could have gone home.
05:19I did go home.
05:21I know, but before.
05:22You took what I paid for and then went home and then never spoke to me again.
05:27I am grateful, but I don't think that for a first date it was a great idea.
05:32So, if it's a European thing, then maybe you need to date a European girl.
05:36I don't know.
05:37It's not for me.
05:38Is this going to be a deal breaker for you, though, Jillian?
05:40I mean, you did go through with the massage.
05:42I'm just asking.
05:43I mean, sure, but he's not entitled to anything after that just because he bought me a massage.
05:49But also the way he's responding and getting defensive and not even being willing to see my side of things
05:55and understand why I was uncomfortable, absolutely not.
05:58I will not be seeing this person again.
06:00All right.
06:01Hmm.
06:02Well, Brian.
06:02I feel like you're not.
06:03Yeah, I mean, I feel like she's not really seeing my side of things, too, but.
06:06Well, I would agree with that 100%.
06:09All I can say is a very interesting date, and I'm sorry it didn't work out and didn't lead to another date,
06:15and I wish you both luck.
06:18All right.
06:18See you guys.
06:19Good luck.
06:19Thanks for coming on the air.
06:20All right.
06:21See you guys.
06:22I mean, that's pretty presumptuous on his part to do a couple's massage.
06:26Your face is buried in that head hole thing.
06:30And so you don't even see the other person.
06:34Your eyes are closed the whole time.
06:36So you would have been comfortable with that situation.
06:38I probably would have.
06:40It was a free massage.
06:41On a first date.
06:42It was a free massage.
06:44On a first date.
06:45See, that's what he was saying, too.
06:46He was like, I feel taken advantage of it.
06:48You just want to.
06:49You now have a problem with it after I paid for it and it already happened.
06:53I guess this comes down to whose side are you taking on this?
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