Second Date Update - The Roommate
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00:00And we are trying to make another date happen for Jody, who reached out to us.
00:04Yeah, they went to the Triple J, she said, and had a really, really good time.
00:07I did ask her.
00:08She drank too much and didn't too many shots, and she said no.
00:12Yeah.
00:12But she really wants to see this guy again.
00:14Right.
00:14And so we have him on hold right now, and we are going to try to see if we can set that up between the two of them.
00:20Rick, you there?
00:22Hey, what's up?
00:23Hey, Rick.
00:24Thanks for agreeing to talk.
00:25We sound really pumped up.
00:27Thanks for agreeing to talk to us.
00:28I know this is a weird ask, and I appreciate it.
00:31Yeah.
00:32And we just want to talk to you real quick about Jody.
00:34I heard about your guys' date and that you guys hung out, and she had a lot of great things to say about you.
00:40Really wants to see you again, and we're going to see if we can maybe help her out with that.
00:45So what's going on?
00:46You haven't talked to her since your guys' date?
00:48No.
00:48Well, I mean, I wasn't really expecting this call, first of all.
00:52But, yeah, look, we had a good time.
00:55She's a nice girl.
00:56I liked her.
00:57But it's really just about her living situation.
01:01Her living situation?
01:02Yeah.
01:03Well, she lives with a...
01:05She has a guy roommate.
01:08Oh, okay.
01:09Oh, she lives with a guy?
01:11Yeah.
01:11Well, like, and so she told me that, like, halfway through dinner.
01:15So?
01:17She's living with a dude.
01:19Okay.
01:20So what?
01:20Well, I mean, that could be a problem for some people.
01:23People may not feel comfortable with that.
01:25No, it's not like I'm jealous or anything, but that's just something, like, I'm not, I'm not cool with.
01:29Like, anybody that, like, the girl lives with the guy, like, that's just not, that's always going to be in my mind, and I don't, like, I'm not comfortable with that.
01:37Like, I think that's pretty obvious.
01:39Now, is this person an ex of hers, or?
01:42I don't know.
01:43I mean, I don't know.
01:44But, uh, I don't know if that doesn't really matter, right?
01:47Okay.
01:48Well, hey, yeah, I'm just, we're just trying to get all the info.
01:50Yeah.
01:51Yeah.
01:51I mean, if they were, if they're an ex, if it's an ex, yeah, that matters.
01:54But if it's, like, her best friend's brother, then it shouldn't matter.
01:58Well, we're going to find out.
01:59Listen, Rick, we, I get where you'd be hesitant about that, and that could be a kind of a weird situation.
02:03I totally get it.
02:04Um, we do have Jodi on the phone with us, and I'd like to bring her back on.
02:08Maybe we get some more info from her.
02:10Yeah.
02:12Jodi, you there?
02:13Hey, I'm here.
02:14I'm here.
02:15So, Jodi, is this, can we ask, is this an ex of yours that you live with?
02:19No, no.
02:20This is just a friend, not an ex at all.
02:23Never dated.
02:25Yeah.
02:26I've lived with him for about.
02:27No, it doesn't really matter.
02:28It really doesn't matter.
02:29It's just, like, I've, it's pretty clear.
02:31Like, it's, like, an obvious, like, thing, like, most people would agree with me.
02:35Like, I don't.
02:35No, man.
02:36But, you know, the thing is, it's platonic, okay?
02:39I've lived with him for five years, and he's a really good friend of mine.
02:43There's nothing going on.
02:45I'm just, I'm kind of baffled.
02:46Like, why would you immediately assume that there is something going on?
02:51Come on.
02:52Like, why would you?
02:53I'm kind of offended.
02:54No, I don't know how you can, like, date a guy and think that they're not going to be uncomfortable with the fact that you live with another guy.
03:01Like, I like you.
03:02I think you're, you're, you know, but you're a nice person, but I'm, that's not something I'm going to, I don't want to mess with that.
03:08Look, are you, are you really kidding me right now?
03:11Like, in all these five years, I've lived with him.
03:13No, why is this weird?
03:14Like, I.
03:15Yeah, but nobody has had a problem with it but you, okay?
03:19I've lived with him for five years and all this time, not a single one person has had a problem with it.
03:25No one's had a problem with it.
03:27You're the first person.
03:28So, you versus everybody else, like, what's the difference here?
03:32I'm pretty sure that most people would not be comfortable with that.
03:35I know I'm not.
03:36He's a dude.
03:37Oh, my God.
03:38Oh, my God.
03:401950s fall.
03:40They want their prude back.
03:42He's the truth.
03:44If you've had that many dates and nobody said anything about it, that's probably why you're still single, to be honest, and I'm really not.
03:50Oh, my God.
03:51Oh, dude, like, no.
03:53I feel like, okay, first, yeah, I feel like I'm talking to a completely different guy than the guy I was on a date with.
03:58I like that guy.
04:00This guy?
04:01I'm, what?
04:02You set this up to call me.
04:04You know, this is the reason why, like, it's pretty obvious.
04:06This is real for you, but you're being real, but that's not real for the rest of the world.
04:10Like, you've got to switch your perspective or something.
04:13You're the one that's going to end up alone because, come on, like, really.
04:16I'm not about to leave my friends, my good living situation.
04:20I'm comfortable.
04:20I'm calm.
04:21It makes me happy, and if you're going to be seeing me, you're going to want what makes me happy, and I don't want someone that does anything less than makes me happy.
04:29Oh, yeah.
04:30See, there you go.
04:31I hope it makes you happy right there.
04:33There you go.
04:34Oh, my God.
04:35Go back to your little world.
04:36That's fine.
04:36Bye-bye.
04:37Okay.
04:38Ask the question.
04:39No, I don't have to ask the question.
04:40Jody just said bye-bye, so I don't think.
04:43Oh, my gosh.
04:44I do not think she wants to see Rick again.
04:46Okay.
04:47Nah.
04:48All right.
04:48Well, Rick, I know we kind of caught you by surprise this morning, but I do appreciate you coming on and kind of giving us your take on things.
04:56What's that?
04:57I said it is the reason why she's single.
04:59Sorry, y'all.
05:00I don't think that's the only reason.
05:02Whoa.
05:02Oh, jeez.
05:03All right.
05:03Well, I appreciate you both coming on.
05:05You guys have a great day, okay?
05:07Mm-hmm.
05:09Wow.
05:09I was kind of like on her side for a second there, and then all of a sudden, she went.
05:14Yeah.
05:15And I think that that's a huge reason maybe why he doesn't want to go out with her.
05:20He might have made that part up about living with some dude.
05:22Well, I do feel like that would be an interesting dynamic.
05:25You'd have to really be okay with that.
05:27Absolutely.
05:28Yeah.
05:29I mean, it would be tough.
05:32But this has been a deal breaker for you.
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