Brothers, when your wife shares her problems—STOP trying to ‘fix’ them! Here’s what she really needs from you (and how it transforms your marriage)."
💡 In this video, you’ll discover:
✅ The #1 mistake men make when listening to their wives (Hint: Your "solutions" hurt more than help!)
✅ What ‘quality time’ actually means to women (It’s NOT about quantity!)
✅ The Prophet’s ﷺ example of emotional support vs. "fixing" problems
✅ 3 simple phrases that make her feel heard INSTANTLY (Replace "You should..." with THESE)
⚡ Critical Insight:
"Women don’t want mechanics—they want witnesses. When you listen with love, she gives love back MULTIPLIED.
💡 In this video, you’ll discover:
✅ The #1 mistake men make when listening to their wives (Hint: Your "solutions" hurt more than help!)
✅ What ‘quality time’ actually means to women (It’s NOT about quantity!)
✅ The Prophet’s ﷺ example of emotional support vs. "fixing" problems
✅ 3 simple phrases that make her feel heard INSTANTLY (Replace "You should..." with THESE)
⚡ Critical Insight:
"Women don’t want mechanics—they want witnesses. When you listen with love, she gives love back MULTIPLIED.
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00:00It means attention.
00:02Undivided quality attention.
00:06So, you're working five days of the week,
00:09you have that Saturday night free,
00:11and you want to go and you want to watch a television match,
00:14you want to watch a cricket game,
00:15you want to go and play some basketball,
00:16you want to do this and that.
00:17That is quality time.
00:20And you have just shown your wife,
00:22when you have quality time,
00:23you don't want to spend it with her.
00:25So what does that mean?
00:26You never go out with the guys?
00:27No, of course you have to go out with the guys.
00:29But understand, when she's asking for time,
00:32she wants quality time.
00:34And this also when she comes to you to help,
00:36to come for advice,
00:37she wants some issue to solve.
00:39One of the biggest problems that men have,
00:41is they think as if the woman is coming to him
00:45to solve her problem.
00:47So immediately he'll say,
00:48Oh, you did this wrong, you did that wrong,
00:50you should do this, you should do that.
00:51And that is not what the woman wants.
00:54What does the woman want?
00:55The woman wants a...
00:57The woman wants a loving ear,
01:00a sympathetic ear.
01:02She wants somebody to listen to her problem,
01:04to be sympathetic to her,
01:06not necessarily to solve her problem.
01:09This is quality time.
01:10To express that whatever she went through,
01:13was frustrating, was problematic,
01:14and inshaAllah, they will work it out.
01:16You have to give what the woman wants,
01:19and in return she will give what you want.
01:21When the man gives love,
01:23has the man has a strong vision.
01:25She likes a ziehen.
01:27She likes to fall spirituality,
01:28They'll be vampire anxiety,
01:29and she believes they love it.
01:30The bully,
01:32she likes to think that
01:33The child,
01:35she likes to clarify the same responsibility.