If someone neglects Allah's rights, can they truly uphold your daughter's? Learn how to identify a righteous spouse—beyond outward piety—by focusing on Akhlaq (character), honesty, and true Taqwa (God-consciousness). Practical tips + Islamic guidance inside.
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00:00If this person is unable to give Allah Almighty his basic rights,
00:03what makes you think he's going to give your daughter her rights?
00:05Honestly, use it as a benchmark.
00:07It solves so many issues
00:09and it gives you an indicator of the person at hand,
00:11regardless of the smiles and what they may say about themselves.
00:14What is your understanding of a righteous wife, righteous husband?
00:17Is our understanding of a righteous spouse that Allah wants from us
00:20is a woman who is in a black abaya from head to toe?
00:24Is the religion in your eyes just the mazahir?
00:27Mazahir, outward appearance but no makhabir.
00:29No internal quality.
00:32Part of the deen is akhlaaq, is manners.
00:35Religion is not cheating people with regards to their wealth,
00:39not conning them out of their money.
00:40How can we ensure that the person we are looking to marry is a righteous person?
00:43One of those things that we can do from a practical perspective is make dua.
00:46Oh Allah, give us from our spouses and from our children
00:50those who will be the coolness of our eyes.