"When Aisha (RA) asked 'How much do you love me?', the Prophet ﷺ didn't say 'You already know' - he gave an answer that saved their marriage forever. Here's what every husband needs to learn..."
💞 In This Video:
✅ The "tight knot" hadith - The Prophet's ﷺ poetic love language we've forgotten (Dar al-Qutni)
✅ 3 marriage-saving habits you can start TODAY:
Daily "I love you" (yes, even after years!)
Specific praise for her efforts ("This meal was amazing!")
NEVER missing anniversaries (yes, it's mustahab!)
✅ Why scholars are WRONG about anniversaries being bid'ah
✅ The "knot check" technique - How Aisha (RA) used it after arguments
⚠️ Warning: Take your wife for granted, and watch love unravel like a loose knot!
💞 In This Video:
✅ The "tight knot" hadith - The Prophet's ﷺ poetic love language we've forgotten (Dar al-Qutni)
✅ 3 marriage-saving habits you can start TODAY:
Daily "I love you" (yes, even after years!)
Specific praise for her efforts ("This meal was amazing!")
NEVER missing anniversaries (yes, it's mustahab!)
✅ Why scholars are WRONG about anniversaries being bid'ah
✅ The "knot check" technique - How Aisha (RA) used it after arguments
⚠️ Warning: Take your wife for granted, and watch love unravel like a loose knot!
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00:00And he gave a beautiful, metaphorical, poetic expression.
00:03He said, my love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
00:09My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
00:12So then in the future, sometimes if they would have a bit of an issue, a bit of an argument,
00:16one of the two would remark, how is the knot right now?
00:19How is the knot right now?
00:21And Aisha would say this when the Prophet ﷺ sometimes got irritated.
00:23How is the knot?
00:24So he would smile, he would say, as strong as it ever was.
00:28Right?
00:28And this hadith is in Dara Qutnik.
00:30Now the point being that the words, I love you, are something very important.
00:34But not just, I love you.
00:35Praising her and what she does.
00:37Husbands, never take your wife's actions for granted.
00:41Suppose she is cooking and cleaning most of the time.
00:45Never take it for granted.
00:47Always, once in a while, come and compliment her.
00:49MashaAllah, that was great.
00:51You know, I really appreciate what you're doing for me.
00:53Those words, they go a long way.
00:55Your wife realizes, you know what, he's not taking me for granted.
00:58Very important.
01:00Praise her looks when she dresses up, when she does something extra special for you.
01:04Never take it for granted.
01:06Husbands, you all know the big danger of forgetting anniversaries.
01:09Right?
01:10You all know how dangerous that is.
01:11Why do women want you to know their anniversaries?
01:15Because it makes them feel you still love them.
01:18Makes them feel he still remembers me.
01:20He still cherishes me.
01:21And celebrating anniversaries, honestly, I believe there are some scholars,
01:26they say it's haram bid'a.
01:27SubhanAllah, quote me.
01:28Celebrating anniversaries is mustahab.
01:31It is encouraged in our religion.
01:32What greater thing to do than for the husband to tell his wife.