The 3-Step Prophetic Plan:
1️⃣ The Ultimate Dua for Spouses (Quran 25:74)
Arabic: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ
Meaning: "Our Lord, grant us spouses and children who will be the coolness of our eyes."
Key Tip: Many happily married couples trace their barakah to this daily dua before marriage.
2️⃣ Istikhara: The Reality Check
Myth Buster: No dream needed! Allah guides through:
Sudden clarity in decision-making
Doors opening/closing naturally
Pro Tip: Pray it before emotions cloud judgment (e.g., after first meeting).
3️⃣ The Background Check Most Skip
Investigate:
Deen in Action: Does he pray Tahajjud? Does she fast Mondays/Thursdays?
Akhlaq Under Stress: How do they treat service workers?
Financial Integrity: Halal income or "flexible" standards?
1️⃣ The Ultimate Dua for Spouses (Quran 25:74)
Arabic: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ
Meaning: "Our Lord, grant us spouses and children who will be the coolness of our eyes."
Key Tip: Many happily married couples trace their barakah to this daily dua before marriage.
2️⃣ Istikhara: The Reality Check
Myth Buster: No dream needed! Allah guides through:
Sudden clarity in decision-making
Doors opening/closing naturally
Pro Tip: Pray it before emotions cloud judgment (e.g., after first meeting).
3️⃣ The Background Check Most Skip
Investigate:
Deen in Action: Does he pray Tahajjud? Does she fast Mondays/Thursdays?
Akhlaq Under Stress: How do they treat service workers?
Financial Integrity: Halal income or "flexible" standards?
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00:00One of those things that we can do from a practical perspective is make dua now if you are not a married person
00:04Particularly and even if you're married make the Quranic dua
00:07Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa thurriyatina qurratu a'ayun
00:11Oh Allah give us from our spouses and from our children
00:15Those who will be the coolness of our eyes and ask many of those brothers and sisters who are living some of the happiest days
00:21Of their lives today. They will tell you we used to make this dua
00:25Religiously back when we were still bachelors. Dua, second thing when marriage gets a little bit more real
00:29Right? Istikhara, the prayer of consultation. Learn how to pray it
00:33If you are not sure. Pray it over and over again and don't wait for a dream. Don't wait for a vision. Number three,
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