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💝 "Men vs. Women: The Gift-Giving Difference in Marriage!"
💰 Husbands: If you had $1,000 to spend on your wife in a year, should you save it all for one big gift—or split it into small, frequent gestures? The answer might surprise you!

🔹 Why women crave frequent gifts (even free ones!) over rare expensive ones
🔹 How the Prophet ﷺ taught us the power of hadiyah (gifts) to sustain love
🔹 The 80/20 rule for gifts: Small, thoughtful gestures + occasional big surprises
🔹 Practical examples: What "small gifts" actually look like in daily life

💡 Key Insight: A 5 flower every Friday
5. Flower - EveryFridaydoesmoreforyourmarriagethana. 1,000 necklace once a year. Start small, and watch her heart soften!

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Transcript
00:00And giving hadiyah, another difference between men and women.
00:03Us men, if our wives had, let's just say,
00:07a thousand dollars that they're gonna get in a year for a gift for us,
00:10us men, we would want that she saves that thousand to that one time of the year
00:15and gives us that expensive watch or that tool set or that whatever it is.
00:20We want the expensive gift even if it's once every blue moon.
00:24Fair enough.
00:25Men, wives are not that way.
00:27They want frequent gifts even if they're free.
00:30A gift that shows you are thinking about them.
00:33And us husbands, we need to understand our women,
00:37of course they all love the expensive stuff as well.
00:39But if we have a thousand dollars,
00:41take a small amount for the big gift and the rest of it divide by maybe 20.
00:46And every two weeks, every week just give something small.
00:49And that small gift will sustain the love.
00:53Yes, once in a while you need the large gift, the wedding anniversary.

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