Farmer Wants A Wife Season 3 Episode 8
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00:01Previously on Farmer Wants a Wife.
00:04Oh, here they come.
00:06Sexy.
00:07We're all here for this camping extravaganza.
00:12Last season's farmer Nathan shared some key advice.
00:16Trust your gut. You know where you want to go to.
00:21I feel like something's just like a little bit off.
00:23Leading to some unexpected goodbyes.
00:26It's hard when you want something so bad, so.
00:31But following their gut brought other couples closer.
00:35I do have a big crush on you.
00:37Did you see that fish jump over there?
00:39That was definitely one for the butts.
00:42I do like you.
00:43Thank you, too.
00:45Re-kiss.
00:47Look at their faces.
00:49John and I haven't had enough quality time for me to feel comfortable.
00:53It's all just like a lot.
00:54Tonight.
00:55Oh, look at the baby!
00:56The promise of love is within reach.
00:59That was phenomenal.
01:00On the last solo date.
01:02I think he's like me from the beginning.
01:05Do you see me fitting in with that lifestyle?
01:08As our farmers need to make their biggest decision yet.
01:13Who will be their final two?
01:16It's make it or break it situation.
01:18If this would be a problem now, it's gonna be a problem later.
01:20My feelings for Jay are stronger than I ever thought they would be.
01:23I, like, wish I felt that way, but I'm not there.
01:27I feel like we have a lot of similarities.
01:29We could be each other's person.
01:31I just feel like you don't pursue me.
01:34I can't pick all three, that's the thing.
01:44We are nearing the end of this quest for love, and our farmers must soon decide which final two ladies they can see a future with.
01:52But first, they have one last romantic solo date.
01:56Time that will help them to make that very difficult choice.
02:00The dates will all take place here on the ranch where they've been camping.
02:13So before they pair off, I'm taking the farmers off to one side.
02:17Well, how are you feeling about today?
02:22You've got your solo dates coming up.
02:25Feeling good about it?
02:26Yeah, I think for me, at this point of process, you know, I gotta get some good questions answered.
02:30Getting real, three ladies left.
02:32That's for sure.
02:33Oh, yeah.
02:34Yeah, and soon to be two.
02:36Yeah.
02:37Yeah.
02:38I think now it's kinda getting a little more serious for sure.
02:40Yes.
02:41Do you see the potential here for really a long-term thing?
02:45Absolutely.
02:46Yeah, and, like, there's potential for all three of them.
02:49That's why, like, I'm like, I don't really want to be in my shoes right now.
02:53Okay.
02:54I encourage you to think about it carefully before you make this next big decision.
02:59Yes, ma'am.
03:00Thank you, Kim.
03:01Thanks.
03:03While the farmers head off on their dates, the ladies who weren't chosen are still at the campsite.
03:11Packing it up.
03:13From John's farm, Juliana had been hoping for the solo date.
03:17Hi, ladies.
03:18Hi.
03:19Can I join you?
03:20Of course.
03:22You look lovely dressed.
03:24You guys look great, too.
03:25So, Juliana, how is it going for you?
03:27Yeah, um, I'm a little bit conflicted on what to do.
03:30Yeah.
03:31Um, cause, I mean, I think that this is the last one-on-one in my understanding.
03:35Mm-hmm.
03:36And there was no, like, urgency to choose me.
03:40Um, Claire well deserves that spot.
03:43She's been here since day one.
03:45She's been really patient.
03:46Mm-hmm.
03:47But I also know on the back end, if someone wanted that to be you, they would-it would have been you.
03:52Right.
03:53Um...
03:54Um...
03:55So you're trying to decide if you should even stick around at all?
03:57Yes.
03:58Yeah.
03:59It might be worth sticking it out just to see how that date goes.
04:03Yeah.
04:04Okay.
04:11John and Claire's date is the first to get underway.
04:15He's taking her roping.
04:17What's the end goal of this?
04:18Uh, just get a workout.
04:20Okay.
04:21Have some fun.
04:22Love being around Claire.
04:23She's super funny.
04:25I think it'd be good for her and I to get to know each other on a more personal level.
04:29Hold it like this.
04:30And then you just wanna, like, open up the knot a little bit.
04:34Make it a little bigger.
04:35Yeah.
04:37I feel good.
04:38I'm so excited.
04:39I do really like John.
04:40He's so nice and charming.
04:43You want the wrist to kind of flip the entire rope behind you.
04:47Okay.
04:48I do think John has helped me come out of my shell.
04:51So I'm really excited to get some more one-on-one time.
04:56Yes.
04:57Really?
04:58That's it.
04:59Now what do I do?
05:02Got him.
05:03Nice.
05:05Make sure it's only in your wrist, not your whole arm.
05:10Hey Claire, that was phenomenal.
05:14Today could possibly be a turning point for me and John.
05:18After you.
05:20We'll probably have to have some deep conversations, so that makes me a little bit nervous.
05:25We just haven't really done that before, so I don't know how well we align on everything.
05:28I think it would be interesting to just tell you about like my totem pole of my values and my views and stuff.
05:37Sure you'd probably share similar.
05:39We'll see.
05:40We'll see, but it starts with like faith, family, work.
05:44I mean, what's yours?
05:45Is that an order?
05:47Yeah, that's an order.
05:48Yeah, I didn't grow up religious at all.
05:52I get it.
05:53Like I get why people are religious.
05:56It's just, I'm not.
06:01Yeah.
06:05Would you, is that something you'd like be interested in learning about?
06:08Yeah, I'm like always open to learning more, but like you and I grew up, you with religion and me like without it.
06:16Right.
06:17And I think we both turned out to be kind people.
06:19Yeah.
06:20It happens all the time.
06:21It's just like, we're in the same spot.
06:22It's just the avenues of getting there were probably different.
06:27So what are you looking for?
06:30Just in like a.
06:31Well, the go-to answer has been somebody, one, who's willing, willing to be a mom.
06:38And then two, somebody who's willing to let me be a man.
06:44I'm very traditional.
06:47What are you looking for?
06:49I've been in a long relationship and I think I know exactly what I want after that.
06:56And really now what's important to me is just like genuine like kindness and caring.
07:03And like, I don't have to worry about him not wanting to stick by you.
07:09Have you felt that with somebody?
07:11Mm-hmm.
07:13That they didn't want to stand by you?
07:17Okay.
07:19That would be tough.
07:20Yeah.
07:21For me, this is where, you know, commitment and love comes into play.
07:24Mm-hmm.
07:25Once we're a partnership, it's like we're for each other.
07:29I agree.
07:33I think that it's quite obvious that John and I have some pretty big differences.
07:39But I think we got to the same values just with a different path.
07:44And the more he's himself, the more I like him.
07:47It's been a pleasure, Claire.
07:48It's been a pleasure.
07:49Thank you for taking me finally.
07:52I do like you.
07:53We'll be honest.
07:54So.
07:55I like you too.
07:57All right.
07:59I was having a blast with Claire.
08:01But that just goes to show, you know, the old saying of opposites attract really does hold credence, which definitely surprised me.
08:07It's not something I was really, you know, looking for in a relationship, but it's also may be something that I didn't know I needed.
08:16I'm excited to see where it's going to go and definitely have a lot of thinking to do.
08:20She definitely made it harder on me.
08:29On the other side of the ranch, Colton is taking Keely on their solo date.
08:34Are you excited?
08:35Yeah.
08:36Super excited.
08:37See you ride around on this thing.
08:39I picked Keely because I see a lot of potential with her, but she's just, she's kind of reserved.
08:44Like this, I hope, helps her open up a little bit more because she is, she is an amazing girl.
08:50Turn up, Colton.
08:52There we go.
08:54Oh, look at the baby!
08:57Back?
08:59You look good.
09:01Do I?
09:02Yeah.
09:04I'm finally getting my horse back right.
09:06This is what I've always dreamed of.
09:11You're doing good.
09:12Am I?
09:13Yeah, you're looking so good.
09:15I'm having so much fun.
09:17You look like you're out of a movie scene.
09:20I feel like there's a lot of pressure on this solo date.
09:25You know, it's the last one, and I care about Colton very much.
09:31Do you see me fitting in with that lifestyle?
09:34Uh, yeah, definitely.
09:35You look very natural.
09:37Like, you just, honestly, you look so pretty.
09:40Do you see yourself, like, maybe living this lifestyle, or?
09:44Definitely.
09:45This is all I've wanted.
09:46This is the lifestyle that I really want for my future kids, too.
09:50I feel the same way.
09:52I can definitely see a future with him, but right now I feel like he doesn't know my whole backstory, which is pretty important, and he deserves to know.
09:58I know you want to talk to me.
09:59I know you want to talk to me.
10:00What do you want to know about me?
10:01I do want to talk to you.
10:02You know, this is something that is a big part of my, like, life and my journey as to, like, how I am even here today.
10:16Are you familiar with polycystic ovarian syndrome?
10:19PCOS?
10:20Mm-mm.
10:21The things that you face are weight gain, cysts on your ovaries, insulin resistance, and infertility.
10:31I haven't shared this with any guy because I haven't dated since, like, my diagnosis or anything.
10:35So I'm just so nervous and afraid of, like, what he is going to think.
10:40And I just want him to understand.
10:42I feel like it's going to be kind of like a make it or break it situation.
10:46Um, is it like, like, I just, I just don't know.
10:52And I do want to know.
10:53So, it's not saying, like, oh, I won't be able to have kids at all.
10:57It's just more or less saying it's going to be a little bit more difficult.
11:01Mm-hmm.
11:05Here's how I think about it.
11:07Um, I am so blessed with my son.
11:12Like, more blessed than I deserve.
11:15If I am blessed enough to have more, open arms.
11:19But if I don't, I'm not going to question it one bit.
11:23I'm, I'm okay with it.
11:26You know?
11:27Like, genuinely okay with it.
11:28Like, I'm not, I'm not worried.
11:34Knowing Colton is okay with, you know, the possibility of infertility just, um, soothes all my worries.
11:41I was so scared to share that with him because I just know that he loves kids.
11:45And I just feel so strongly for him right now.
11:48I feel like I finally got to.
11:49I, yeah.
11:50A soft part of you.
11:51Definitely.
11:52Definitely.
11:53Um.
11:54It took me a minute, but I knew I could get there.
11:57I feel so connected to Keely right now.
12:01It's like a rope is around both of us.
12:03I am lost for words, to be honest with you.
12:08I'm so happy that you're here.
12:11And I'm just, I'm over the moon that we got to go ride some horses.
12:15And darling, this is more than anything I felt before.
12:21Honestly, look how pretty this is out here.
12:23It's just a sign.
12:24But I didn't think I'd find someone who is worth the weight of all the years of my heartbreak.
12:33But I know now I found the one I love.
12:42The last ever solo dates continue around the ranch in Texas.
12:57Jay is going fishing with Rissa, the lady chosen by his mom.
13:01Oh!
13:02We had something to own it, for real.
13:04I think that Jay is such a beautiful person.
13:08Are you ready for this?
13:09I'm ready for it.
13:11But I think what's at stake tonight, we get to see finally if we really get along,
13:16and if we can make this work in the long run.
13:18Oh, we just bird nested.
13:20I don't think we'll be eating sushi by tonight.
13:23Yeah, I don't think I want to fish anymore.
13:25The biggest thing I want to learn about Rissa is she's ready to actually settle down.
13:29Especially as a farmer, you can't just get up and leave all the time.
13:32We've got responsibilities.
13:33I like to travel, and I will continue to do that in this life.
13:37So I really want to see if settling down is something that she really wants to do.
13:40Right now.
13:41So how important is family to you?
13:44Family is super important to me.
13:46Yeah.
13:47You know, my parents did divorce when I was five.
13:50I think because of that, it is important for me to, like, go for a marriage, though, that will last.
13:58Yeah.
13:59I definitely don't think marriage is something to play with, you know?
14:02Right.
14:03Because it's a lifetime ahead with that.
14:05What are some other things that, like, you like to do?
14:08I feel like I'm a very simple man.
14:10I like to just really spend time with people that I love and everything.
14:15You say you, like, travel a lot and stuff like that.
14:18Yeah.
14:19How do you, like, feel about traveling?
14:20Do you still like to travel a lot?
14:21I'm always going to be a traveler at heart.
14:23Yeah.
14:24You know, I would definitely want to take, like, our family traveling into new places.
14:28Yeah.
14:29And creating, like, new memories.
14:30Would you be open to traveling?
14:34I am more of a homebody, you know what I'm saying?
14:38And, like, it's so hard to travel just because you got so much going on at the farm.
14:42Like, you got animals to take care of.
14:43Yeah.
14:44You just don't want to.
14:45You got a lot of animals.
14:46Yeah, exactly.
14:47It scared me a little bit when he said, like, that he was a homebody because I'm not really a homebody.
14:52I don't really want her to change what she loves to do for me.
14:55Because I feel like if this would be a problem now, it's going to be a problem later.
14:59And now it's like I'm in a rock and a hard place.
15:04Nothing like a country summer days like no other ride through.
15:09For his last solo date, farmer Matt is taking Chelsea axe-throwing.
15:14See what you're made of here?
15:16I'm like Chelsea from the beginning.
15:18We both kind of had some walls up a little bit.
15:20But it's pretty straightforward with her last night.
15:22It's like, hey, I like you, you know?
15:23Yeah, I think you're so pretty, you know?
15:25That's sweet.
15:26So, yes, I do have a big crush on you.
15:29I'm hoping that that kind of drops on walls a little bit and we can kind of find out if she feels the same way.
15:34So, have you ever been axe-throwing before?
15:36Uh, no, actually, I have not.
15:38Me neither.
15:39Did you play sports growing up?
15:41I played soccer and rode dirt bikes and that kind of stuff.
15:43Oh, gosh, so nothing with your hands?
15:45Uh, well, I do farming.
15:47I don't know if you know that.
15:48So, pretty good with my hands.
15:51I think he's like me from the beginning.
15:53I just had that intuition.
15:55And I do find myself falling from that.
15:59But I think, at this point, we both need to step up to the plate and show a little bit more emotion.
16:04I need to see your skills.
16:06What happens if I don't make any?
16:08I'll have to rethink a lot of things.
16:10Oh, well.
16:13I'm in trouble.
16:16You got one more shot.
16:20Oh!
16:22I like it.
16:23I've never been axe-throwing, but I was an all-state softball player.
16:29So, I think I'm about to kick his ass.
16:31I think it's time to call it quits on that.
16:43Oh, but I did still win.
16:44Did you, though?
16:45I feel like within the last 24 hours, things have progressed a lot with us.
16:49And that's what I was hoping would happen.
16:51What did you think about what I said last night?
16:53First of all, when I said I really liked you.
16:55Um, yeah.
16:58No, I really appreciate that.
17:00I will say it's, like, definitely getting difficult for me, just with how serious it's getting.
17:05I haven't been in a serious relationship in a little bit.
17:09How long?
17:10It's been, like, a year and a half.
17:12Um, but it was kind of traumatic for me because my heart was completely in it and his wasn't.
17:20And so I do have kind of a wall up, but just know it's something that I'm working on.
17:26Well, I kind of really, I kind of appreciate that.
17:29Yeah.
17:30Normally I feel like I move a little slower with those kind of things.
17:32And so I'm trying to speed things up here.
17:34Yeah.
17:35Uh, which is difficult for me.
17:36But, like, when I get to that point where I know it's, like, my wife, like, I don't think that's going to be a problem between us at all, you know?
17:42I want to find something like my parents have.
17:44They've been married.
17:45I think it's 44 years they've been together.
17:48I don't know.
17:49Good things take time, you know?
17:50Yeah.
17:51I prefer it that way, honestly.
17:52Yeah, same.
17:53Um, I don't know.
17:54I feel like I kind of, like, just get you in a way, you know?
17:57Yeah.
17:58I don't think anyone else around here maybe gets us.
18:00No.
18:01But I think we get each other.
18:03I don't want to get too mushy here, but, uh, I just, I really like her a lot.
18:07We just connect really well, and I can see things really happening with us.
18:11So, uh, so now, great.
18:14I like you.
18:15You know that?
18:16I know.
18:17Yeah.
18:18It makes it whole.
18:19The whole thing makes it harder with all this.
18:21She didn't have a mic on me.
18:24Yeah, me too.
18:26I don't know.
18:27We're still getting filmed.
18:28Mm-hmm.
18:29God.
18:30Huh.
18:31I don't know.
18:32Interesting.
18:33Interesting.
18:34Should we go up in this little arena box here?
18:37Could be.
18:38Could be.
18:49I'll pretend that never happened.
18:51I might pretend, but I'll still be thinking about it.
18:53You have lipstick all on your...
18:57Dang.
18:58It's well worth it.
19:00You have lipstick everywhere.
19:02I like that.
19:04He made a move on someone.
19:05I didn't think it was gonna be me.
19:07Hell.
19:08Definitely not me.
19:09I am optimistic that I will find love here.
19:14And if Matt feels a connection, then maybe it's meant to be.
19:26At the Texas ranch, Jay is on a date with Rissa.
19:31And things have taken a turn.
19:33My current state with Rissa, you know, is like surface level.
19:36Everything is good.
19:37But I kind of see some things that, you know, just don't really be lining up.
19:42How you feel about tonight?
19:44I feel like showing a lot of bases that I was kind of wondering.
19:48I definitely think we got to know each other a little bit more for sure.
19:51I'm just so conflicted right now as far as like, you know, kind of already build connections with other people in the house.
19:58Yeah.
19:59We only days away from whenever I got to just pick one.
20:04The only thing that I really had like concerns with, you know, was like traveling.
20:09That's something that you love to do.
20:11And like really big part of your life and everything.
20:13For me, I wanted that farm life.
20:15You know what I'm saying?
20:16Like that I had growing up.
20:17And like I knew with traveling, something might happen.
20:20An animal might get sick.
20:21Yeah.
20:22Or a cow get out the fence or something like that.
20:24So it's definitely something you kind of got to be like, can I picture myself doing this?
20:27Like, you know, for the rest of my life.
20:30Yeah.
20:31I don't want to have to make somebody conform or change to my ways.
20:36Like you want them to be who they are.
20:39I feel like it'd be better if we just kind of, you know, ended right here.
20:46You know, beautiful person, beautiful lady, inside and out.
20:51And I know you'll find the right person for you.
20:54I do understand like your farm is the love of your life.
21:01And I respect that.
21:03I'm feeling a little disappointed.
21:05You know, I definitely think that we had a connection there.
21:08But he knows his farm more than me.
21:11So he can decipher better if I would be a good fit.
21:16All right.
21:17Safe travels.
21:19It's always tough.
21:20We have to let somebody go, especially someone, you know, as good as Rissa.
21:23But now I can really fully focus on Grace and Karina.
21:26And really find out, you know, who my future wife could possibly be.
21:35With the trip to Texas over, everyone has returned to the farms.
21:40After traveling back to the farm together, Claire's date is coming to an end.
21:45I'll walk you to your quarters.
21:47You're so kind.
21:48I've really enjoyed this time with Claire.
21:50Her and I feed off of each other very well in terms of humor and conversation.
21:55Just had a really good time.
21:56Good night.
21:57Good night.
21:58Good night.
22:01Oh.
22:02Yeah.
22:03Good night.
22:04Yeah.
22:05First kiss with Claire was, uh, pretty nice.
22:06Just something about her.
22:07Yeah, I don't really wanna talk about it.
22:10yeah first kiss with claire was uh pretty nice just something about her yeah i don't really
22:18want to talk about it i'm just so glad you exist good night claire
22:26i found the one who makes me want to be better jay sent rissa home so now he's the first farmer
22:36down to his final two ladies karina and grace i wonder if the ones had babies i don't think so
22:44i don't think so i think rissa coming in made me realize i really like jay i am happy that we're
22:50down to two and get to figure it out pretty soon hi girly my feelings for jay are stronger than i
22:57ever thought they would be i want to be really hopeful but i do think that i'm trying to protect
23:05myself in the same breath on the other farms there are still three ladies vying for love oh my gosh
23:16tell us about your day it was the most beautiful like day i've ever been on it was really i don't
23:23think matt knew what he was getting into no he did not step up to the plate morning hey there i'm
23:31assuming that pretty soon we're going to go from three to two and it's scary because we're running
23:37out of time for it to turn romantic so if it's going to it's going to have to get there fast now
23:43it's feeling a little more serious at john's his three ladies are in two different places this
23:53morning i saw juliana sitting out in the yard doing something in a book and i figured it would be good
23:59to check in on her now that i've built solid foundations of relationships with claire and lily
24:06being in her position that's probably pretty tough how are you doing hi what are you doing out of here
24:13alone distracting myself from my thoughts and flanks to joku thanks how are you
24:24it's getting more like serious for everyone um including you right now reality is i did come in late
24:33and we don't know each other like we haven't had time this is tough coming in especially at the time
24:40you did like how the cards have played out in this situation the right decision for me is to leave
24:51i think that would be fair to who you have left and what you would like to do well it'd be fair to them
24:56it'd be fair to you and it'd be fair to me i think that's just the the best end goal here
25:03so um okay well i guess we'll wrap this up with a nice good old-fashioned hug help me up
25:16i have a lot of layers to me so in order for me to truly feel comfortable with someone getting to
25:21know me you need time and that is something john and i lack i do not regret anything i really really
25:27truly wish him the best he's a great man
25:33all righty i think juliana was very honest with me and i credit her for that
25:39bye bye john adios juliana i thought there's not a thing wrong with juliana but you know sometimes it
25:45just doesn't work i don't know where it all just fell apart john is now the second farmer with only
25:54two ladies remaining colton and matt still have three ladies on their farms so i need to help them
26:01focus on which two set their hearts alight hey hey what's going on i got another letter from kim
26:10dear farmer matt dear farmer colton over the course of this journey you have opened your heart
26:16and your home to five ladies in the hopes of finding true love soon you'll meet their loved ones
26:22but because that's such an important step to take i only want you to do that with the two women
26:26you have the strongest connection with so tonight you need to decide who those two women will be
26:32best of luck kim
26:33well this is getting down to the wire and i gotta send somebody home you know after tonight we'll get
26:41two we're basically out of time here this could be a life-changing decision and you know i want to
26:47make the right choice and the girls so it is difficult it really is
27:04after tonight only two ladies can remain on each farm so as the farm work continues matt needs to figure
27:12out where his heart lies you all ready to get to work let's do it i just got a letter from kim
27:18saying that i gotta let somebody go tonight and i've got absolutely great options these girls are
27:22wonderful so it's tough so what exactly are these things finger limes it's a type of citrus that grows
27:28wild in australia basically very similar to a limiter lime but when you crack these open oh my gosh
27:34inside's full of these little pearls looks like a citrus caviar yeah that's what a lot of people call it
27:40all right let's get after it let's go girls off we go let's go girls jordan she's gorgeous she's
27:46definitely my type from day one i've always kind of felt that way um this is a really nice finger
27:50line picking outfit you know it's the best one i got i like it chelsea's um been a totally opposite
27:59experience from jordan just taking us a lot longer to get to where we're at now i think
28:03i told you it's like picking a rose bush it is i don't like it ow
28:09l.a you know she's been kind of like a friend throughout this process we've gotten really close
28:13and there's a spark but you know i'm trying to figure out like is that my wife you know
28:17how's it going in here let me check out your loot i was actually trying some of these are eating in
28:21there yeah what's going on with that i was eating them the whole time you're gonna get fired
28:26i don't know if he has more of a romantic connection with one of the other girls
28:31well like the basket does not match her outfit
28:35we're at the tail end of this whole situation i just need to make some tough calls tough work out here
28:41oh here we go colton is the other farmer with three ladies left so tonight he'll also have to make
28:55a tough decision hey ladies hello y'all ready to get to work yeah we're gonna go till up the arena let's go
29:05tell there's qualities about each girl that i'm like head over heels for which makes it extremely
29:12difficult for me to choose a path right now because i see a life with all of them let your foot off and
29:18then at the same time oh let it go let it go let it go let it go bailey she's a ton of fun to be around
29:26and we had an instant connection from the first night and she's comfortable in her own skin not bad not
29:33bad that's what i like a lot about her
29:39zoe you want to take a round all right
29:49my life with zoe i could see it being extremely adventurous you know going and seeing and doing
29:54a lot of things it's more about the penetration than the speed she's extremely smart and i'm just
30:02honestly having one of the best times of my life with her go for it just do it
30:10keely let's go keely she's honestly surprising me more and more she's just natural at a lot of
30:16things she's natural at getting along and it's it's hard not to like her
30:20i like colton a lot we had that connection in the beginning but i've seen that he's very flirtatious
30:28with the other girls and i don't feel like i'm being pursued i feel like i need more reassurance
30:36from colton in this moment so i feel like i just need to say the things that have been on my mind
30:41that was pretty good huh colton you want to go for a chat yes i do okay this way okay
30:58so i have been having a tough time i feel like my spark is just like slowly just like going
31:05i'm upset that like you aren't able to like see that what's what's uh is it like
31:14you don't like being here with all the other girls you don't like the situation i thought that
31:19i would be like okay with it but i don't know i'm really like having a tough time i guess
31:28i i get where you're coming from i haven't had an easy go at this either i've gone back and forth
31:36between y'all a whole bunch in my head and i i have a lot a lot of stuff i need to think about
31:43yeah
31:47can i talk with you more tonight it is pretty hard on these girls and i want to reassure that you know
31:54i was happy that she was here but i can't pick all three that's the thing
32:11wow it's so cute all for y'all pretty all for us jay and john are both down to their final two ladies
32:21and having just been on a solo date with claire john is choosing to spend some precious alone
32:27time with lily before they meet each other's families with lily there has been an attraction
32:32from the beginning you know she's a very genuine person but considering the fact that we are basically
32:38at the end i need to see if she aligns with me on morals and values okay so how how's everything
32:45going everything's going great it's like i can't tell if it's good for a human being to be going
32:51through something like this or if it's bad it's a lot one thing that you know i just think about
32:57during you know all of my days is that god has a plan for everybody um gives meaning to you know who
33:05you are and how you handle that stuff that's what life's all about yeah so i want somebody who could
33:10make me a better person whether that be physically mentally and spiritually yeah and um allow me to
33:15do the same for them that's super super important and what what i have to offer i think i i look for
33:21that in other people like what's your why what's your purpose what's your reason yeah that's that's
33:26special to me yeah i love that tell me about your family i would say my sisters are my rock my i love
33:35my parents i'm just like my mom and um my dad's been the best dad ever he is so dedicated to my mother
33:42he chooses her every single day and um that's something that's important like as you get older
33:47are you going to choose your partner every day because love might not always be there all the time
33:51it absolutely and i think as long as you stick to your morals and your values and what you think
33:56is right right it's gonna end well i'm definitely glad i got someone in one time with john i feel
34:02like him and i have the same core values a strong faith we could be each other's person and that makes
34:10me excited it was a beautiful date i definitely i feel like we have a lot of similarities yeah i think
34:17you're a special person and i see a lot of potential on us yeah i agree lily and i we look at the world
34:24kind of in a very similar fashion it just kind of feels natural on the other hand yesterday claire and
34:29i got along very well because we were different i have two girls that could possibly be the love of my
34:35life right now i don't know who i'm gonna choose it's almost impossible
34:43there's something magical to you decision time has come looks incredible tonight matt has to ask one
34:52lady to leave the farm i think at the beginning of this matt and i had that instant connection wow wow
35:02but now fruits of our labor i'm feeling nervous about where i stand with him well should we uh serve
35:10this up here yes that looks so good thank you thank you now that we're down to three girls left
35:16we are all emotionally invested at this time i think after matt and i's solo date i feel confident
35:24but i don't know what he's thinking cheers to you guys all being here like this has been a wild experience
35:31and like you guys are away from like everything you know um so like whatever happens like i'll
35:37always be appreciative of that every single time we have a conversation we're so comfortable with each
35:41other i love that that's what you want right you want to date your best friend i'm hoping tonight at
35:46dinner i get to open up a little bit more about that and if he's not on the same page then there's
35:51somebody else waiting for me if he is i'm ready to move forward
35:53matt do you want to chat for just a sec yes well looks like we're out of wine
36:01we're gonna grab grab some more oh thanks guys yeah we'll be right back
36:07bring back a couple bottles yeah don't hold out on us ladies we would never
36:12um yeah i just know that this process has been so crazy and i feel like you and i are good at
36:22like actually expressing how we feel to each other right like it's just comfortable and easy and i love
36:27that um but i think like i just really want to have a genuine conversation with you about where you're at
36:35with things like with me and if you really do see this progressing i don't know if anything to say to
36:44that i do a lot to say okay um like since like day one i'm like oh like we just immediately like yeah
36:54get along so well i just hope you know how much i love like everything about you yeah i have a special
36:59place for you i just hope you know how much i love like everything about you yeah i have a special
37:17place for you but um i feel like this is not going to turn into more of a romantic type thing
37:24and i just like wish i felt that way you know yeah i don't know i just i'm not there
37:32and i yeah i don't want to like be like unfair to you either you know
37:40uh um i told myself i was not gonna cry i think that's so sad because i'm gonna miss you so much
37:48i'm gonna miss you i'm gonna miss you you're always welcome here yeah um
38:02yeah i'm just really really proud of myself for putting myself out there
38:06somebody tell me how do you get back home when you're spinning hi jay thank you for being so
38:15incredible you know she really is such a cool person and we had a great time together
38:20it's so bittersweet ah thank you for the best experience ever truly i'm gonna miss you so much
38:27it was really hard sending her home there's times when it gets to you know and i just gotta remind myself
38:32the decision had to be made and just trust the process you know trusting god and trust my heart
38:42colton is now the last farmer with three ladies
38:46by the end of tonight he must be at two should it be cheers
38:56you know all three of these girls are incredible it's definitely making it tougher on me to make a
39:01decision i've had a great time with all of y'all me too it's it's definitely uh uh a weird thing to
39:10think about like what my life could be with each one of y'all i don't know they all seem good they
39:16all seem really good but it's just like which one you know yeah i don't know how you're gonna make that
39:24decision as much as i do like colton from our conversation after the farm work he said that he
39:35was still unsure how he's feeling and doesn't have an answer you want to go chat i do i do want somebody
39:43to be sure about me i'll be back in a little bit you know i want someone that's gonna choose me and if
39:49he can't do that i don't know so i have been like thinking a lot i'm just like struggling
40:01i just feel like you don't pursue me and i want to feel pursued i want to be wanted and i don't feel
40:13like i'm getting that here
40:19i totally understand i can't choose between the three of you right now i'm so damn indecisive
40:25it's you know if i was in your shoes i would probably be fed up with it as well it's like
40:29like can you not see that i'm a prize like i get it there's a lot of things about you that i really
40:36really like um but i still haven't made up my mind this is this is a lot
40:49it's hard because i know my feelings towards you and i do like you it's just like i love myself enough
40:58to be like you know what if you're still unsure like it would just be best
41:07for me to like send myself home
41:10i get it
41:23this sucks but i understand but i'm sad to see you go
41:27are you glad you came i am i'm definitely happy that i met you for sure i'm really happy that i met you too
41:40going into the conversation i was feeling more hopeful that he would say things that i wanted to
41:46be here but it gave me clarity to know that i am not what colton is looking for
41:52and he is not what i need it upsets me and it's hard but i have to choose myself
42:02it's fine i'm seeing you
42:03and never let it go
42:07bailey she's got to do what's best for her
42:10breathing slow