Therapy Thursday: Orlando & Meredith Have Your Weekly Therapy Session
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00:00Therapy Thursday. That's where we jump in. Any kind of issues you got, you hurl them out and Meredith MD is here.
00:06Oh, I'm ready to check in today. Orlando BGYN is here just in case you have anything that needs a specialist.
00:12Any healing? Any healing. I got you. All right. 888-429-0941. Whatever you got, we got it for you.
00:19And shout out to Demasman and Dover. All right. Let's see. This comes out of the 727.
00:24It says, Freaks, my child got brought home by the SPPD, St. Pete Police Department, for being in a car pulled over with a suspended license that he was in.
00:37It was 1 a.m. when I got a knock at the door. My child was sent to bed at 11 since it was a school night, by the way.
00:46Can't kill him. But what does a single mama do?
00:49Oh, well, I think we need to review certain laws. We need to make sure. We need to make sure. Talk about what happened.
00:57What were you doing up so late at night in the car? And there's got to be a punishment, right?
01:02Review certain laws. Yeah, that's what we need to do.
01:06No, we need to whoop his little ass. That's what you need to do.
01:10Well, yeah, but. You got to get some. You got to get some belt.
01:14Just a little bit about. I mean, maybe no bruise, but it's illegal. But I'm saying, like, come on. Put it this way.
01:20I bet you police officers full on know that they expect to be called back there because somebody about to put their hands on somebody.
01:28And there's many officers who've been like, listen, your mama is probably going to tear your butt up when we take you home.
01:33They understand that. But I mean, you can't do it where it's an abusive situation.
01:37But you also got to implement some cameras. You got to lock down your house.
01:42Yeah, you have to find out and you make them. You like you get out of this house unless you tell me how you got out this.
01:47Oh, because you got to tell them because, I mean, I had to tell my dad that when you open my window that gets out on their bedroom balcony,
01:55you could then step down off that balcony onto the rail for the basement and get out the back gate.
02:00He made me tell him how I got out the house. How you're sneaking out. Because I got busted.
02:06I was out and somebody saw me and told my dad, I saw your son out.
02:10And he was like, first of all, how'd you get out? And I'm like, I'm not telling you.
02:14He's like, you get out of his house if you don't tell me.
02:17And then the sensors will put on my alarm sensors will put them like when he turned on the alarm and you have to turn off the alarm and you can hear it.
02:25And he was like, all right. So he put the sensors on my window because they weren't any on there.
02:30And that fixed the problem. Yeah, there's definitely a punishment.
02:33We have to review things. But I also feel like education is really important here as well.
02:37I was educated with a much different time back then. You put your hands on the child. I got taken out.
02:43I have one. It says, hey, freaks, I need the both of you and your help on this issue.
02:47My sister and I are pretty close now, even though we've had our issues in the past.
02:50I guess that's common. But life is better these days.
02:53We both just started seeing a new a new guys and we've been sharing stories about our love life and notice that there's a lot in common.
03:01We found out that we're actually dating the same guy.
03:05He had been lying to both of us and we were both disgusted.
03:08Well, after dumping him, I just found out that my sister is still seeing him.
03:14Where's the loyalty? I'm so offended by this entire mess.
03:19We're not speaking anymore because of this.
03:22Oh, I don't like that part. Like, I mean, you don't want to lose your sister over the whole thing, but you tapped out and stopped dating him.
03:32She kept on. She must have liked him more.
03:34Yeah, but she obviously lied about it because she liked him more.
03:37Like, you can't be mad at your sister for liking him more than you.
03:42You were able to walk away.
03:43Like, she wasn't able to walk away.
03:45Where's the loyalty?
03:46Where's the blood? That's your sister.
03:48Right, exactly. You're picking a guy over him doing us wrong and me wrong.
03:52But you're picking a guy to be in between you and your sister.
03:56Don't let a dude come in between you and your sister.
03:58Be like, we better than that.
03:59How are you going to hang out?
04:00If you need him, then you keep him.
04:03Because I walked away from him for you.
04:06If you can't walk away from him for me, then you have to have him.
04:12And if you are, make her feel, like, don't make her feel bad, but make her understand.
04:15I walked away from him for you.
04:18You couldn't.
04:20She's choosing the ween over her sister.
04:22I mean, essentially, that's what's happening.
04:24How good is the ween?
04:25That's a good question.
04:26That man might have changed her life.
04:28That's true, but also, at the same time, if we both come to an agreement as sisters,
04:32like, oh, he did us wrong.
04:33Girl, I can't believe that he did that.
04:35We're both going to dump him and move on.
04:37And then we made an agreement together, and then you just went back on that.
04:41That's not good.
04:42That's not good, but it's not unheard of.
04:45You ever heard somebody say, man, we quitting our job tomorrow.
04:47You're going to quit, and you find out they didn't.
04:49Like, it's the same thing.
04:50It's like, yo, they made a deal, but that girl was more committed.
04:55Like, maybe you don't know they love lives.
04:56This one sister who gave it away might have a lot of options.
05:00This girl over here might be like, yo, this is the one.
05:03So you kind of got to let her, if she's choosing violence, then you choose that.
05:09Okay.
05:09But you're still my sister.
05:10Y'all, you got to stay sister.
05:12But people are upset about this in the text.
05:13I mean, yes, because you don't want somebody doing you the dirty like that.
05:16I know.
05:17All right, let's see here.
05:19Out of the 863.
05:20Says, my wife's company got sold to a new owner, and she's not feeling it.
05:26So she tells me she wants to quit her job and go to nursing school.
05:31I'm okay with being married to a nurse, but how do I say, are you crazy?
05:36Money is tight right now.
05:38You picking the wrong timing without sounding like an ass.
05:42Oh, my God.
05:42You know what, though?
05:45Transitions.
05:46We've been through transitions and radio stations either being sold or new management and all that.
05:51I would give it a little bit more time just to see if things can kind of slowly work themselves out.
05:56If you still hate where you work, I mean, nobody wants to be in that situation.
05:59A lot of people are.
06:00You got to make smart decisions.
06:02You can't just up and leave, and then you can't pay the bills.
06:05If you have a house, a mortgage, a whole family, you can't do that.
06:08If you're going to leave, let's make a plan.
06:10Let's do it together.
06:10Let's talk about it so you can educate yourself.
06:12I like that.
06:13The education part can come with sitting down with the bills.
06:16Sit down all your monthly bills on the table, and you and her sit there because maybe she's making this decision because she's just not aware.
06:22Sit down and look at the bills and say, hey, your money you're making from that janky company you don't like is providing for these things.
06:29School costs this.
06:31We can't afford that without that, so how are we supposed to live?
06:35And then y'all make a plan from that budget, but y'all sit down together so she can understand.
06:40And if it makes it look like she's being selfish, like, hey, I want to quit my job and go change careers in this bad time, then just inform her of what it affects.
06:49Yeah, because maybe she just doesn't understand at the moment.
06:51How good do you like spam?
06:53That's what you need to ask her.
06:55Beanies and weenies.
06:55How good do you like spam?
06:57Because we're going to be eating that every day while you're out here getting your scrubs.
07:01All right, Therapy Thursday part two.
07:03We got your texting call.
07:05Yes.
07:05888-429-0941.
07:10There's one that just came out of the 941.
07:12You talking about some sister to sister.
07:14It's some sticky, icky, icky.
07:16It's a mess.
07:17Okay, wow.
07:19This says, my baby sister moved into my house and three weeks later ran off with my husband.
07:25It's been a year and a half and they have a baby now, so my kids now have a cousin brother.
07:33I haven't been able to move past it.
07:35If he ever came back, I would take him.
07:38I don't want to still be in love with him.
07:41What do I do?
07:42They then texted, mind you, he left in the middle of the night with three kids and I was a stay-at-home mom for three years, so I had no money and he left me with nothing.
07:54Oh, my God.
07:57Okay.
07:57Have at that one.
07:58Okay.
07:58All right.
07:59Listen, I'm going to be your best friend for a second.
08:02Oh, hell no.
08:03You're not taking this man back ever.
08:05He's pretty much the worst person on the face of the earth.
08:08If every second you feel like you can kind of get back together with him or that you love him, you put yourself right back in those shoes where you wake up in the morning and there's nobody around you.
08:19There's no children.
08:20He left you in the middle of the night like a dog, like a disgusting, disgusting human being.
08:25Who treats somebody like that?
08:27You need to look in the mirror and get some more self-confidence.
08:29There are good people out here that would never do that to you, that would never treat you like that, and you deserve better.
08:34That's completely unforgivable.
08:36When they say, what's the old adage, like if somebody shows you who they are, believe them.
08:41Yeah.
08:42Like there's one thing that we always say about women and that you're so nurturing and that you're so soft and you smell good and all that stuff, but also that you forgive a lot better than guys do.
08:53Imagine if you did that with his brother and left the house in the middle of the night with his brother three weeks after his brother moved in.
09:02He would never take you back.
09:04Never.
09:04So the fact that you love him is understandable.
09:06The fact that you have a bond because of those kids and you see him and them, that's beautiful.
09:12But you can't trust this man.
09:14And you damn sure can't trust your sister.
09:17Like you, if he came back realizing he made a mistake, like.
09:22No.
09:22You still are like halfway thinking he might do it again.
09:26Right.
09:26Because he will.
09:28And he might.
09:29He might.
09:30Don't trust him.
09:31And honestly, you're better without him.
09:34Just don't keep putting yourself in that situation because he's going to circle back.
09:37If he's a person who's that impulsive, he's going to come back.
09:40It's not just impulsive, Orlando.
09:41That's plotting and planning.
09:43He was thinking about this for a really long time.
09:45He ain't planning too long.
09:45They were all together for three weeks.
09:47But to take the kids in the middle of the night, no.
09:50Hell no.
09:51Uh-uh.
09:51Uh-uh.
09:52No.
09:52It's not happening.
09:53Well, that's nasty.
09:54Yeah.
09:54Like, just love is love.
09:57But don't do that.
09:58Y'all almost made Meredith Cuss this morning.
09:59I know.
09:59I'm sorry.
10:00All right.
10:00I got one.
10:01Okay.
10:01Good morning.
10:02Freak show.
10:02They're coming in like crazy like that.
10:04I know.
10:05I have a fiance.
10:06And every time he's down in Tampa, he doesn't live down there.
10:10He ends up disappearing for two days.
10:13And it's been going on for about three and a half years.
10:16We've been together at this point.
10:18I don't know if I should give him one last chance.
10:21What's your opinion?
10:22Why is he disappearing?
10:24They don't.
10:24They don't say.
10:25I guess he.
10:26Listen.
10:27Come on.
10:27What's he doing?
10:28What are you doing in Tampa where your phone is off and I can't hit you up?
10:31For two days?
10:32Two days.
10:33And this has been happening for years.
10:34I mean, it could be anything.
10:36I know one of our close friends was doing that.
10:39And he was caught up in like a drug situation.
10:42He had to go to rehab and stuff like that.
10:44His wife would call us and they was missing.
10:46So it could be that.
10:48And then he would come back to sobriety like, you know, after a couple of days.
10:52But it would be two days that he was not in contact with his kids or his family.
10:57And that was just part of it.
10:59And they had that, you know, kind of discomfort.
11:01But it also could be somebody cheating on you.
11:05Yes.
11:05Like that could be something, too.
11:06So you don't know what it is.
11:08Whatever it is, it could bring something back to you that you don't want to have to deal with.
11:11Right.
11:11Okay.
11:12Here's what you do.
11:12What you do is you go buy an air tag.
11:14Okay.
11:14Put it on him somewhere.
11:16I'm serious.
11:16You want to find out what's going on and it's been years and he's lying to you and he's
11:19turning off his cell phone.
11:20Go figure it out.
11:21That that'll you'll figure it out.
11:23I don't know if an air tag is it or just, oh, you can hire, you can hire somebody to
11:27like have somebody follow him.
11:28A PI?
11:29A PI?
11:29Yeah.
11:30Like that.
11:30If you're losing two days and you just pop back up, I think I deserve to have somebody
11:35follow you to find out.
11:36Absolutely.
11:37Where you at.
11:38There are options for you.
11:39I don't know if the PI is going to be too expensive.
11:41Sometimes they're like $500 per day, but figure it out.
11:44It's worth it.
11:44Don't waste your time on people that are just evaporating out of your life.
11:48Like that's side chick action.
11:50It could be drug action.
11:51It could be you out doing crimes.
11:53It's something that you might be in the mafia, the Illuminati.
11:55I don't know what you're doing.
11:57I've somebody got to follow you.
11:58Yeah.
11:58Oh, hell no.
11:59All right.
11:59Wait.
12:00Now this is out of the A13.
12:02Oh, it says.
12:04Okay.
12:05It says I'm putting laundry away in my daughter's room and I find a bullet tucked away in her
12:12drawer.
12:13I'm blown away because my daughter is 15 and I don't want to freak out, but I'm freaking
12:18out.
12:19What the hell?
12:20Oh, she found a bullet in her daughter's drawer.
12:23Yeah.
12:24Yeah.
12:25A bullet.
12:26You know what a bullet is?
12:27She found.
12:27I know what a bullet is.
12:29It's a gun.
12:30She found a bullet.
12:31Oh my God, Orlando.
12:34Oh, shut up.
12:36No.
12:36Yeah.
12:37No.
12:39Yeah.
12:39You know.
12:41Is that worse?
12:42Wait.
12:42Cause I thought it was, I thought she was hanging with a, like some sort of bad kid.
12:46No.
12:46Like a gang member or something.
12:47There's no Glocks.
12:48And I thought she had a bullet.
12:49Yeah.
12:50Which I'm, when I read it, I'm like, oh my God, that's bad.
12:52So wait, so this is the, which one's worse?
12:56Something else is going off in the room.
12:57Which one's worse?
12:59I would absolutely have a conversation with her about this because it's okay to explore
13:04your body, but I want to know where you got this.
13:06Cause normally when you order these things or you go to a store, you have to be, at least
13:10when you order it at a store, you have to be a certain age.
13:13I want to know where you got this.
13:14Nah, you can't be, you can't, no, you, if you are, you are a baby.
13:20Guys can do it.
13:21You're not, but they old boys don't get toys.
13:24Well, they do make toys.
13:26Nah, listen, listen, listen, nah, there's rules to this, Linda.
13:29You cannot have apparatuses at a young age.
13:34You can't have that.
13:35You're not, you're not supposed to be.
13:36People are saying, Orlando, I'm dead.
13:38I just passed out when you said gun.
13:40I thought it was a bullet.
13:42I'm like, you found a round in your baby?
13:44No ammunition, no.
13:45Like, who you hanging with that you got extra bullets?
13:47We gotta have a conversation about this just because even for me, it was, it was much
13:50later in life when I was doing that with a device.
13:52That's what I'm saying.
13:53You got, cause you got grown.
13:55You got, you, you had your own nightstand drawer.
13:58Correct, yes.
13:58Like, you know what I'm saying?
13:59That's for you.
14:00It's okay.
14:00When you're 15 and you just learning yourself.
14:02Right.
14:03That's a handling business, handy business.
14:07You ain't gotta be bringing extra toys and different apparatuses and dolls and all that
14:12stuff.
14:12But you don't want to make her feel bad.
14:12That's adult stuff.
14:13She's, she's, you know, you don't want to make them feel bad about exploring their body.
14:16It is technically something that's semi-natural.
14:20Man, I don't even want to imagine.
14:23If I hear something like that in the room, they make noise.
14:27They do, yeah.
14:27So your 15-year-old's behind a door, mmm, sounding like she's giving herself a fade.
14:32Can we make one that doesn't make any noise, by the way?
14:34Can we not endorse this for a 15-year-old kid?
14:38I meant for an adult.
14:38But yeah, if I found it, I would absolutely bring it up.
14:41I would not touch it.
14:43But I'd be like, I don't know.
14:44Somebody just said, Orlando, get with the times, honey.
14:47That's 15 years old.
14:48Bro, come on.
14:49We can't give everything a pass.
14:51Yeah, but you were doing stuff at a young age.
14:53You were, you know.
14:54But what I'm saying is if you're, if you're, if you're discovering yourself.
14:57Yeah.
14:58Fine.
14:59That could be in a shower.
15:00That could be applying lotion.
15:02That could be whatever it is that you're just stumbling into whatever you got going on.
15:06Yeah.
15:07But you can't be bringing extra, like that's extra.
15:10That's grown-up stuff.
15:11Learn you before you start applying other appliances to it.
15:15Are you just going to take it away?
15:16Yes.
15:17Did you put it back in the drawer?
15:19Like, no, you take that out.
15:21And you're like, no, this is, this is adult stuff.
15:24Right.
15:25You don't know what you're doing with this.
15:27Yeah, yeah.
15:27No, I don't want you, what you're going to bring in next?
15:29A pet goat?
15:30Like, like, no, you don't, you don't get to do what adults do.
15:34You go in there and you figure it out with what we got.
15:37Go in there with the shower massager and go in there and take a bath and go figure it out.
15:42Somebody texted in at 302.
15:43I'm a guy and I was doing stuff at 15 with toys.
15:46So, I don't know if this is a new thing.
15:50Just talk about it.
15:51You can have an open relationship with your mom about stuff like this.
15:53Like, let's, let's talk and see where you're at.
15:55Why did you buy it?
15:56How'd you buy it?
15:57Did you go on Amazon?
15:57I want to know.
15:58And did I pay for this?
15:59Are you right?
16:00Did I pay for this?
16:02Or better yet, is it someone else's?
16:04I can't believe you.
16:04Because now I need to explain to you that you don't use somebody else's.
16:08We, yeah, you don't put that back in the drawer, damn it.
16:10You.
16:11It's not a, it's not a gun.
16:13It's not a bullet.
16:13That's why I'm thinking I almost wish it was.
16:18I mean, it would have been a much better conversation.
16:20Who you hanging out with when you got extra spare bullets around now?
16:23Orlando and the free show.
16:25Therapy Thursday is a wrap.
16:26All of y'all picking on me, I'm sorry.
16:27I thought it was from a gun.
16:28My bad.