1️⃣ The Dunya Trap:
Reject potentials for "low income" but overlook missed prayers
Demand designer weddings but don’t ask about anger management
2️⃣ The Devastating Consequences:
"Sister, your daughter’s on the phone—he hit her again"
"Brother, you ‘married beauty’… now she doesn’t know your rights"
3️⃣ The Prophetic Solution:
"Whoever comes to you with good Deen & character, marry them" (Hadith)
Real Deen Check:
Does he pray Tahajjud?
Does she know the rights of a husband?
Can either control their temper?
Reject potentials for "low income" but overlook missed prayers
Demand designer weddings but don’t ask about anger management
2️⃣ The Devastating Consequences:
"Sister, your daughter’s on the phone—he hit her again"
"Brother, you ‘married beauty’… now she doesn’t know your rights"
3️⃣ The Prophetic Solution:
"Whoever comes to you with good Deen & character, marry them" (Hadith)
Real Deen Check:
Does he pray Tahajjud?
Does she know the rights of a husband?
Can either control their temper?
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LifestyleTranscript
00:00So when it comes to the conditions about dunya,
00:03we're very rigid and uncompromising.
00:06But when it comes to religion, we're very lax.
00:08And then we wonder, subhanAllah al-azim,
00:10why a few months into this relationship or a few years,
00:13we get the phone call that your daughter has just been battered.
00:16She's been hit, she's been broken or bruised.
00:18Or he starts complaining, for example,
00:21that she has no idea about his rights in the house.
00:24And he doesn't feel like he's being treated as a king of the home.