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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04I just wanted to tell you that I'm 100% sure
00:00:06about my decision.
00:00:09Are you serious?
00:00:09Yes.
00:00:10In the past few weeks, we have been having so many ups
00:00:13and downs.
00:00:14And I think I can get back your trust by a proposal.
00:00:20Will you marry me?
00:00:23Yes.
00:00:25OK, Maddie has ordained herself a little.
00:00:28And I feel kind of bad for being a bitch.
00:00:31Mm-hmm.
00:00:32Oh, God.
00:00:37All right, enough of that.
00:00:38All right.
00:00:43You're always home.
00:00:44I'm always home.
00:00:46I think you should go more.
00:00:48For her to say that, I think was a little out of line.
00:00:52I've seen a different side of her.
00:00:54Would you say to her that she should leave the house?
00:00:57I just wanted to see her reaction, testing her patience.
00:01:00Are you testing my patience?
00:01:04Sometimes I feel like I'm not complete.
00:01:07I really want to have boobs.
00:01:09Have you told Sean that you think he wants breast implants?
00:01:12No, we didn't talk about that yet.
00:01:15Aaliyah fully transitioning into a woman could potentially
00:01:20be something he doesn't want.
00:01:21What do your kids think when you talk to them
00:01:23about your relationship with Aaliyah?
00:01:25Oh, they don't know I'm getting married.
00:01:27Wait, they don't know you're getting married?
00:01:29We have a big day to be meeting my sisters.
00:01:33Don't say big day.
00:01:34I feel more nervous.
00:01:35My sisters are all very strong women, very opinionated.
00:01:41Sarper does not have more than one chance for a first impression.
00:01:45I remember you saying he liked you better
00:01:47when you just kept your mouth shut.
00:01:48Sometimes I say I want old Shifanya back
00:01:51because she was so obedient.
00:01:53You know, when you miss the last exit before the bridge
00:01:58and you are in the bridge and you cannot go back,
00:02:00I feel that.
00:02:03I feel more things for you.
00:02:05I love you more, Ham.
00:02:07Oh, that's kind of a problem.
00:02:08I must stay with this relation for you.
00:02:12It's kind of hard for me to tell you this,
00:02:14but Ani said that she doesn't feel the same way about you as me.
00:02:19I haven't known Ani for 10 years.
00:02:20There's no way that she could hurt me
00:02:22as much as my wife keeping something like that from me.
00:02:37Sunset over canyons
00:02:39I can see the moonlight
00:02:41whenever I close my eyes
00:02:44I need to buy a portable bidet.
00:02:46Mati, no.
00:02:47I'm going to put it in your purse.
00:02:48Mati, no. I swear.
00:02:49You're going to try to put your butt washer in my purse?
00:02:52It's not butt washer, it's bidet.
00:02:53What is it?
00:02:55Let me wash my hands with it.
00:02:56Ew.
00:03:07So are you going to start?
00:03:08Start what?
00:03:09Looking for a dress and I need a suit.
00:03:12I just got my ring.
00:03:14I know, but we don't have to.
00:03:16Took you long enough to do that.
00:03:17Maybe I should have as much time to plan the wedding
00:03:19as you did to give me this ring.
00:03:20Oh my God.
00:03:21Please stop.
00:03:25So you're thinking it would be better to move it up?
00:03:27Yes, because we're going to save money
00:03:30unless you're worried about something still.
00:03:32No, I'm, I feel okay.
00:03:34I'm just, I think I'm a little bit stressed
00:03:36about trying to like move stuff up quick.
00:03:38Mm-hmm.
00:03:39Would you be able to work sooner
00:03:40if you, if we moved it up?
00:03:41Yeah.
00:03:42I think we also need to ask Dad
00:03:44if he's going to actually walk me down the aisle.
00:03:46What did Dad say when you asked him about marrying me?
00:03:50I think he was worried about the whole situation
00:03:54and how serious I am.
00:03:56He gave you the blessing-ish?
00:03:58Yes.
00:03:59But he's not going to do that?
00:04:01I don't know, I have to ask him.
00:04:03But I guess if he's not ready to yet,
00:04:05that would be a bit scary.
00:04:10You know, Dad's been like super sick.
00:04:12Mm-hmm.
00:04:13Mm-hmm.
00:04:14And he's going to get sicker.
00:04:16And it's important to me that Dad does that
00:04:18while he's here
00:04:19because I want him to be able to, um,
00:04:22give me to someone that he knows will take care of me.
00:04:25Mm-hmm.
00:04:28Did you got the glasses?
00:04:30Yeah, I got them.
00:04:31So if Dad doesn't walk you down from the aisle,
00:04:36would you call the bedding off?
00:04:39I don't think I could get married
00:04:41if Dad wasn't walking me down the aisle.
00:04:44Oh.
00:04:52It's a good date.
00:04:54You're good.
00:04:56Thanks.
00:04:59Let's go.
00:05:11Hey, Dad.
00:05:12You still alive?
00:05:13Yeah.
00:05:14Huh?
00:05:15Yes.
00:05:16I don't know.
00:05:17I would have never known.
00:05:18I left a phone next to you.
00:05:19I didn't see...
00:05:20What's going on, Maddie?
00:05:21I didn't see you-
00:05:22I didn't see your call, so...
00:05:25How you doing today?
00:05:26Doing good.
00:05:27She lose her phone?
00:05:32I didn't know she lost me.
00:05:33Let's go.
00:05:34I want to go.
00:05:35Cut off Maddie.
00:05:36I don't know.
00:05:38I'd have never known about their phone names.
00:05:40What's going on, Maddie?
00:05:41I didn't see your call.
00:05:42How are you doing today?
00:05:43Doing good.
00:05:45Did she lose her phone?
00:05:46I didn't hear it ringing.
00:05:47I saw where you called me, but it was when I pulled up.
00:05:49Yeah.
00:05:55What y'all been up to this week?
00:06:01Um.
00:06:06Maddie took me on a surprise.
00:06:09Oh, what?
00:06:10No.
00:06:10He didn't tell me.
00:06:11What?
00:06:12He said he showed you this.
00:06:13Did he show you this?
00:06:15Yeah, but it wasn't there.
00:06:18Huh?
00:06:18Yep, I got it.
00:06:20He did good.
00:06:21I didn't know he was going to give it to you that quick.
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:25He did.
00:06:26Yeah.
00:06:27Y'all don't think, I mean, they're going to know each other
00:06:30through and through by now?
00:06:32I think I'm sure about what I want.
00:06:36She wasn't sure, like, maybe a couple of days ago,
00:06:41but I think I could just prove it to her.
00:06:45You know, I'm always skeptical of people,
00:06:47and I don't let people in my life unless I know.
00:06:48They're skeptical of people.
00:06:49I mean, shouldn't I be too?
00:06:54You lied to me for two years.
00:06:55I didn't lie to you.
00:06:56I just said all the truth.
00:06:58I did not lie to you.
00:07:00Well, you thought I should be skeptical?
00:07:02Well, at least I'm telling you, I could have just
00:07:04run off to New Orleans or something like that.
00:07:05Well, you could.
00:07:06I mean, of course you could.
00:07:06I just don't understand if it's the best decision.
00:07:11I think it's the best decision.
00:07:15She's a grown person, so she's going to do what she wants to,
00:07:18but, yeah, I don't think it's long enough, you know.
00:07:20Might be some red flags that she's missing.
00:07:24Well, you know, I told you my concerns or whatever,
00:07:26but if that's what y'all wants to society to do, good luck.
00:07:37So will you walk me down the aisle if that's my decision?
00:07:49If you want me to, I'd love to walk you down the aisle.
00:07:51Thanks.
00:07:52Yeah.
00:07:53Yeah.
00:07:54I'll give hugs to dad, not a hugger.
00:08:01You better shake my dad's hand or something.
00:08:03Come on.
00:08:05Love you, dad.
00:08:05Thank you so much.
00:08:08I am relieved my dad is walking me down the aisle.
00:08:13We have so much to do and not a lot of time to do it,
00:08:16so I guess that means that Maddie's going to have
00:08:18to put up with me being crazy, kind of running around trying
00:08:20to get things done in, like, two weeks.
00:08:23Get ready.
00:08:24Yeah.
00:08:25It's going to get hotter.
00:08:26I just hope nothing goes wrong,
00:08:28because I'm the one who is just, like, moving everything up.
00:08:31I just hope everything goes right.
00:08:33I hope you enjoy it.
00:08:51Is that your favorite toy?
00:08:52It's a noisemaker from hell that kept me up all night.
00:09:10You're gonna go see your grandma.
00:09:12So you have to be a good boy, okay?
00:09:14Yes.
00:09:15He's a good boy.
00:09:17What is this?
00:09:19Oh, are you kidding me?
00:09:22What is that?
00:09:24This is your wand, mascara wand.
00:09:27Oh, my God.
00:09:28You might need this.
00:09:29You might want to add this.
00:09:30No.
00:09:31It's very clean and ready to go.
00:09:33Poor baby.
00:09:34Calling puppy protection services.
00:09:36I think he tried to steal my makeup.
00:09:38Yeah, yeah.
00:09:40Me and Aliyah are heading up north for, in our minds, it's our engagement party.
00:09:45Maybe to other people, it's a meet and greet.
00:09:47But regardless, it's gonna be a lovely venue, a lovely day,
00:09:51very opulent, very fancy.
00:09:53Then it's gonna be Aliyah.
00:09:57And then we'll get to see how everybody rolls with it.
00:10:00So in there, you've got more cosmetics than you have luggage.
00:10:06You look like you're, like, assembled enough to do all the background dancers for the next Academy Awards show.
00:10:12It's because you're finally taking me to meet your family.
00:10:16One might think it's tricky to throw an engagement party when nobody knows you're engaged.
00:10:22People are coming with various amounts of knowledge.
00:10:25Of course, my mom knows everything.
00:10:26God knows what she told her best friend.
00:10:28And, you know, I don't know what the gossip mill has done and how much people are in the loop or whatever.
00:10:32But I guess this is where they can, you know, get the full picture and do a Q&A.
00:10:38I think I hope that everything will work well and that you love me.
00:10:43Because I'm lovely, yeah?
00:10:44You're so lovely.
00:10:46I was hoping, like, good moments that we can, like, hang out.
00:10:50But I think we'll be more like we need to explain the things and talk about everything.
00:10:55You got lots of explaining to do, Lucy.
00:11:00You don't even know what I Love Lucy is, so it's wasted.
00:11:05Sean is always making jokes that I actually don't understand.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:11And the reference they have, it's, like, all older.
00:11:14I think a lot of my humor is dry humor and usually sarcastic.
00:11:18Do you know what sarcasm is?
00:11:20No, it's things that you're always doing and I don't care.
00:11:24I don't care.
00:11:25So, here we go.
00:11:29Our journey begins to Sonoma County.
00:11:34How are you feeling about taking me there, introduce me for your family?
00:11:41I can't wait for you to meet my mom because, you know, she can't wait to meet you.
00:11:45So, I'm excited for you guys to see each other.
00:11:48Do you think it's, like, warm there?
00:11:50It's north, northern California.
00:11:53It's worse?
00:11:54It's not crazy.
00:11:55It doesn't snow or anything.
00:11:58Actually, I really want to see the snow.
00:12:01I never saw it before.
00:12:03And I love, like, the fluffly clothes.
00:12:06The fluffy clothes?
00:12:07Yeah.
00:12:08Or the Michael Fufle clothes?
00:12:10What?
00:12:11Never mind.
00:12:13I don't like when you're doing, like, jokes with me and that we have, like, people around
00:12:23because I stay, like, poker face.
00:12:27Because you're making jokes and everyone is laughing and I'm just, like, I don't understand.
00:12:31I am an idiot here and poker face.
00:12:34Sounds like more poker faces.
00:12:36So, yeah, I should be able to make every joke I want because you just have the same expression
00:12:40on your face no matter what I do.
00:12:42You can make jokes but not about me.
00:12:45It's also my first time, like, meeting them.
00:12:48I don't have an idea who they are, so.
00:12:51You can just go all Brazilian on them.
00:12:53How dare you?
00:12:56You can't believe it.
00:12:59I'm going to another room.
00:13:04It makes me sad that Sean did not tell about me to people and to his family.
00:13:11And it's really frustrating that he's still, like, making jokes about it.
00:13:16I think when I'm doing the joking, then sometimes I'm actually making fun of her.
00:13:22cultural differences or age difference.
00:13:25It's, like, uncomfortable.
00:13:27When I meet his friends and family, I really expect him to speak up and to show that he's proud of me and our relationship.
00:13:41I want something serious and I want to live a serious relationship and I want to get married.
00:13:47But I think Sean needs to show me more.
00:13:51It'll be fine.
00:13:56It'll be fine.
00:13:58Okay.
00:14:02Ani letting Minnie know that she loves her and doesn't really care for me.
00:14:07My whole world's at stake here.
00:14:09To me, I'll be pausing right now because now you're a third wheel.
00:14:13I never imagined that I could lose the money to this, but, I mean, there's a sign that that's possible.
00:14:18You have a little bit of an anger issue.
00:14:23Yeah, but most of the guys have it.
00:14:25No, that's not true and that doesn't make it okay.
00:14:27They're all watching every little move and every remark he makes.
00:14:31This is intense.
00:14:33You have to learn how to make sure she kind of knows that she doesn't have anything to worry about.
00:14:38And being a man, period.
00:14:40You have to learn how to make sure she doesn't have anything to worry about.
00:14:42You have to learn how to make sure she doesn't have anything to worry about.
00:14:47Soon.
00:15:17Ani told the many that she loves her more than me and it took a many a few days to tell me that.
00:15:24It makes me feel hurt by my girlfriend and my wife.
00:15:29I care about both of them and for both of them to hide that from me, that's painful.
00:15:41Hey, what's up man?
00:15:42What's up man, what are you doing?
00:15:44Sure, you know, just chilling in Mexico.
00:15:48Oh yeah? Where's Amani at?
00:15:51She's still sleeping.
00:15:53Must be nice.
00:15:54Yep.
00:15:56Eric is my first friend I made in California.
00:15:59He actually has been in a polyamorous type relationship.
00:16:03So I know Eric, of all my friends, is going to look out for me and give me the advice that I need to get through this experience.
00:16:14So how things been?
00:16:15What's going on?
00:16:16Well, we went to a winery and there was quite a bit of commotion between the girls.
00:16:22Ani let a mini know that she loves her and doesn't really care for me.
00:16:30Yeah, that sucks.
00:16:32How are you feeling right now about that?
00:16:35That did hurt.
00:16:36You know, I'm not going to lie.
00:16:38Well, how does Amani feel about it?
00:16:40Have you talked to her like, you know, like I didn't really talk too much to Amani about it because I don't, I don't exactly know what to trust her with, you know?
00:16:48To me, I'd be pausing right now.
00:16:50I'd be pausing.
00:16:51I'd be like, hey Amani, let's reassess our relationship.
00:16:54You know, let's get back to solid ground with us where we're not jealous with each other.
00:16:59Because it sounds like there's some jealousy happening now a little bit as well.
00:17:02And once that starts happening, it's, delusions start happening, right?
00:17:06You start thinking weird and you start reading in between the lines of something that may not be there.
00:17:11Because now you're a third wheel in it, you know?
00:17:15When we got into this, it was fun and excitement and we loved the excitement.
00:17:20And I really feel like Amani's just caught up still in that excitement.
00:17:25Yep.
00:17:26Yeah, I'm not sure, you know, how much closer they're going to draw on this.
00:17:31I just feel like it's slowly getting away from me.
00:17:39Those two seem like they have it figured out between each other and I just don't with them yet.
00:17:44Yeah, that sucks.
00:17:47You know, man, you got to be careful because you could lose everything.
00:17:51Your family, your kids, you know, for this woman.
00:17:54It is kind of a scary road that you're sitting on, you know?
00:17:58You need to talk to Amani, definitely see where she feels about this and kind of start really being honest with each other.
00:18:06My whole world's at stake here.
00:18:08I have a happy family.
00:18:10I never imagined that I could lose Amani to this, but...
00:18:14I mean, there's a sign that that's possible.
00:18:18Definitely let them know that you're valid.
00:18:22Because you're valid, you're part of the relationship.
00:18:24That's not them, too.
00:18:25Dude, you're always the best, man.
00:18:27You're my buddy.
00:18:28I'm here for you.
00:18:29Much love, brother.
00:18:31Bye.
00:18:32It's good to know that my friend sees the same thing and I'm not crazy.
00:18:47I need to show concern because, you know, this may not be healthy, you know?
00:18:57Sometimes I say I want old Shikaina back because she was so obedient.
00:19:19I learned it a lot.
00:19:31I'm an overreactive guy, normally, but I'm a lot more calm right now.
00:19:38I can tell this Harper is nervous.
00:19:41Like, how can he not?
00:19:42They're all sitting across the table from him, asking him questions, watching every little move, every expression, every remark he makes.
00:19:51This is intense.
00:19:57Like, not physically, like, doing anything.
00:20:00No, nothing.
00:20:01I mean...
00:20:02Like, grabbing things out of each other's hands.
00:20:04We talked about you not having female clients.
00:20:07You shouldn't do it.
00:20:08You're dating an American girl now.
00:20:13I won't.
00:20:21I mean, I hope that she believes me.
00:20:25So you have a little bit of an anger issue?
00:20:27Yeah, I had it.
00:20:28I mean...
00:20:32No, that's not true and that doesn't make it okay.
00:20:34You're saying that you know that that's not right.
00:20:37Do you just make a point to not do it?
00:20:40If you are arguing with someone, you get mad, right?
00:20:43I mean, the action, the reaction is wrong.
00:20:46But, like, how do you make sure she kind of knows that without just your word?
00:20:49Like, being a calm man and being a man, period.
00:20:53Letting she kind of know that she doesn't have anything to worry about.
00:20:56Yeah, I understand what you mean.
00:20:58If you guys are going to get married, you're going to go through so many different phases of your life.
00:21:02You have to learn how to grow and respect and love the person that you're with day in and day out.
00:21:07I feel like, you know, in the matrix, you dodge the bullets.
00:21:12Everyone...
00:21:13Zayoni is really, Sarp, look at you. I'm turning down Shreya and Maria.
00:21:18Oh, my God.
00:21:19Even she kind of looks unhappy.
00:21:21Right now, I am on my own.
00:21:23I have a lot to prove to all of you guys because we didn't make a good start with you, especially.
00:21:32To be honest, I was thinking different that time, you know?
00:21:35I mean, I was...
00:21:38I didn't care what Shikaina's family thinks.
00:21:41I'm honest with you guys.
00:21:43I mean...
00:21:44Yeah.
00:21:45Tell her how long it had been.
00:21:46It's been like 10 days.
00:21:47Yeah, it had only been 10 days.
00:21:49I had no idea at that point.
00:21:52Like, for some reason, like, I thought it had been like six months or something.
00:21:55Our second meet was kind of...
00:21:58That was our second time meeting.
00:21:59And so those 10 days, we were just starting to uncover stuff.
00:22:04And then he met you right away.
00:22:06Yeah.
00:22:07Yeah, it was just a lot.
00:22:08Yeah, I was a little rude that time.
00:22:11But I'm always trying to progress to make her happy.
00:22:15To improve.
00:22:17As a sister, you are one of the strongest people I know through and through.
00:22:22And, like, if Sarper is lucky enough to keep your attention, then he deserves it.
00:22:26But I know that you're going to be okay because you're really strong and we love you.
00:22:30Thanks, Brian.
00:22:31I want you guys to be happy for me, you know?
00:22:34We are happy for you.
00:22:35Because I'm happy.
00:22:36That's why we want Sarper to put his best foot forward as well.
00:22:39It's going to take time.
00:22:40Just like trust takes time for anyone.
00:22:42Time.
00:22:43Time, yeah.
00:22:44And if you guys are choosing each other for a lifetime, there is going to be time for us to see it.
00:22:48Yep.
00:22:49And really accept you as a brother-in-law.
00:22:52I'm okay with that.
00:22:53I mean, diagonal interrogation, triple interrogation.
00:22:57You mean cross-examination?
00:22:59Cross-examination.
00:23:00I know it seems like the hot seat of interrogation for you, Sarper.
00:23:05And I appreciate you hearing us out to, like, mend the bridge of, like, what we've seen versus me and you in person.
00:23:13I thank you.
00:23:14And I apologize once more again for the Turkey visit that we had.
00:23:19I'm so regretful about that, really.
00:23:21It's okay.
00:23:22We've got a new start.
00:23:28Thank you for coming.
00:23:29It means so much to have you all here.
00:23:32And thanks for meeting with Sarper, finally.
00:23:34Yeah.
00:23:35Should we go?
00:23:36Yeah.
00:23:37Okay.
00:23:38Let's go.
00:23:39I don't know.
00:23:40With Sarper, there hasn't ever been, like, a real genuine feeling that I get from him.
00:23:44That's interesting.
00:23:45Yeah.
00:23:46And some of it did feel, like, very rehearsed.
00:23:49Like, he's, like, you know, really thought about, like, what he's saying and, like, how he's going to present himself.
00:23:56Yeah, I just hope that there's, like, actual change that happens, aside from, like, whatever words we're hearing today.
00:24:03My favorite.
00:24:04I love you.
00:24:07Love you.
00:24:08I love you too much.
00:24:09I love you girls.
00:24:10Love you.
00:24:11Love you guys.
00:24:12I love you.
00:24:15Overall, I feel like this time with my sisters was productive.
00:24:18They finally gave Sarper a fair chance.
00:24:21And now it's just going to take time, I guess, for them to really believe that he's a good partner for me and to see that these changes he's made are really going to stick.
00:24:31Sometimes I should say something I don't understand if they like it or not, you know?
00:24:36I know.
00:24:37I know.
00:24:38Well, I know what you're trying to express.
00:24:39Yeah.
00:24:40But they don't yet.
00:24:41So it'll take time.
00:24:43There are things that I have also wondered at one time or another about Sarper.
00:24:48You know, like, if I can trust him, if he is an honest person, if he will not cheat given his past, then he's going to have to prove himself on a lot of these things.
00:24:59OK, let's go.
00:25:00OK.
00:25:01Oh, Sarper.
00:25:02Another chapter.
00:25:06You know, with the wedding, having it here, it's going to be a lot for me to do.
00:25:10So I remember this little hall.
00:25:12And I'm thinking maybe we could go with that instead.
00:25:15But he also has to pay for that dowry.
00:25:18The dowry?
00:25:19Don't stop me with that.
00:25:20Can you factor in how much, you know, you're, like, supporting her?
00:25:25No.
00:25:27Like, lay off Gregory.
00:25:29You know?
00:25:30Give him a break.
00:25:32The bigger, the boom, the bigger, the bang!
00:25:35The bigger, the boom, the bigger, the bang!
00:25:39I'm going to check the eggs.
00:25:42This one here?
00:25:43What the heck?
00:25:45I need sheets it is.
00:25:50What's up, baby?
00:25:53Later.
00:25:57OK.
00:25:58You don't want to be cradled?
00:25:59OK.
00:26:00The bigger, the boom, the bigger, the bang!
00:26:01I'm going to hang out.
00:26:02I'm going to hang out.
00:26:03Globus in the house!
00:26:07Greg?
00:26:08Yeah?
00:26:09Hey.
00:26:10Am I disturbing?
00:26:11No, not at all.
00:26:12Oh, good.
00:26:13What are you doing?
00:26:14Nothing.
00:26:15I'm just getting ready for the day.
00:26:16What's going on?
00:26:19Oh, you took a shower?
00:26:20Yeah.
00:26:25I don't know why somebody needs two showers a day.
00:26:28Before she goes to bed, she'll take a shower, and then the shower in the morning.
00:26:33I'm like, how dirty is your bed that you need to take another shower?
00:26:37I always say, oh, the royal shower's coming in now, you know?
00:26:41Your room looks nice.
00:26:43I guess Joan had a big influence on that, because I've been trying to make you do this for years, clean it up.
00:26:49He's just lazy to do some stuff, but when he steps on it, yeah, he can do it.
00:26:57You're right.
00:26:58You can't be lazy, laid back, you know, sit on the computer.
00:27:02I mean, I'm not the only one here.
00:27:03Look at the garage, all right, for example, right?
00:27:05There's a lot of things we have in this house.
00:27:06Here we go.
00:27:07I'm not the only one.
00:27:09We've been working on the garage, right?
00:27:11Quite frankly, I'm not the only one, just saying.
00:27:13Quite frankly, yeah, okay.
00:27:15But besides all that, you know, with the wedding, having it here, well, it's going to be a lot of people, a lot for me to do.
00:27:27So, I remember this little hall, and your sister had the baby shower there, and I'm thinking maybe we could go with something like that instead.
00:27:38I don't know.
00:27:39I mean, I thought it would be pretty cool having it here, especially, I was thinking we let the chickens run around.
00:27:43I think, you know, it's a pretty unique experience, you know?
00:27:47I thought it would be pretty cool.
00:27:48But weather-wise, too, I mean, I don't know how it's, we never know how it's going to be.
00:27:53We got to rent tents and tables and chairs.
00:27:58So, would that be a big deal if you switch it up?
00:28:06Although Gregory wanted the wedding here, I would have probably been doing everything.
00:28:12You want to have the house clean, you want to have the backyard clean.
00:28:15I don't have a landscaper, I do everything here.
00:28:18You need tents, never mind a DJ.
00:28:21You know, you have to order the cake, and I don't think Gregory would have been on top of all that.
00:28:27It's got to be within the budget, you know?
00:28:30So, I actually did a little inquiry in this place and cooled up.
00:28:34Really?
00:28:35This place included everything, cocktail hour, food.
00:28:41I could probably make better food.
00:28:43Flowers, included photography, included DJ.
00:28:47And they offer a three-tiered wedding cake, too.
00:28:50You know, an official-looking wedding cake.
00:28:53So, I was thinking that was like a no-brainer.
00:28:59I think it's a little crazy, I really do.
00:29:01We've talked about this multiple, multiple times with her.
00:29:03I was preparing for the wedding at home, trying to make invitations, get everything going.
00:29:07And all of a sudden, hey, I went to a venue.
00:29:09I want a nice wedding, a beautiful wedding, but the situation we are in, I feel like we can save up that money so that we can get an apartment or save it for the house.
00:29:21Sounds expensive.
00:29:22Well, how much did you budget for a wedding?
00:29:24I budgeted for five.
00:29:26I mean, and that's, I'm pretty sure I could do it.
00:29:28Five grand for a wedding for 75 people for food and liquor?
00:29:31Food is not that expensive.
00:29:33But he also has to pay for that dowry before.
00:29:40The dowry?
00:29:42Don't stop me with that.
00:29:44Why he needs so many cows, I don't even know.
00:29:47But, Harangelo, that's my culture, that's my culture.
00:29:51Like, lay off Gregory.
00:29:53You know?
00:29:54Give him a break.
00:29:56In order to get married, I have to pay the dowry.
00:29:59Can you factor in how much, you know, you're, like, supporting her?
00:30:04Every day you go shopping for food and, you know, things she needs, and would that be able to be factored in, maybe?
00:30:11No.
00:30:13He has to show that he can take care of me.
00:30:17So if he can't pay the dowry from that start, then it means he can't take care of me.
00:30:21I think he's showing it right, you know, every day how he's taking care of you.
00:30:25There's a difference between what you think and what their culture and what they think is, you know what I mean?
00:30:32She thinks Greg doesn't have to pay dowry because Greg has invested much money in me coming here.
00:30:39But in Uganda, culture is culture, so if you don't follow the culture, you can't have the wedding.
00:30:44I went to Uganda, I fell in love with Joan, and this is what it's going to be.
00:30:47It's not going to change. It hasn't changed in thousands of years.
00:30:50It's not going to change now for me, Greg.
00:30:52The fact that I just have to keep repeating myself to her, it's very frustrating.
00:30:56So I'm only looking out for the best for you.
00:31:04Are there any decorations that represents you?
00:31:07What represents me?
00:31:08Your paintings! Like the one of me.
00:31:11Did you paint her?
00:31:12Yeah.
00:31:13Is it like a normal painting?
00:31:15A painting clear nude.
00:31:16Why haven't you told me that?
00:31:18To be honest, she's giving me bisexual vibes again.
00:31:22Women being together is totally wrong in my culture, and I'm not okay with it.
00:31:27Even in the glow of candlelight
00:31:33You're the brightest star that shoots across the sky
00:31:37Yeah, I just wanna see the world the way you picture
00:31:43I'm gonna call clear real quick.
00:31:49Hey.
00:31:50Hey.
00:31:51I'm headed that way.
00:31:52I'm just running a little behind, so I just wanna call and let you know.
00:31:54Okay.
00:31:55All right, bye.
00:31:56All right, bye.
00:31:57I love you.
00:31:58I love you, Mom.
00:31:59I hope you're okay.
00:32:00I'm just feeling a bit sick.
00:32:04Today we're going to look at the wedding venue.
00:32:19My friend Claire is gonna meet us there, and Maddie's not feeling too well because he has chosen to eat pork for the first time, so it's going to be interesting.
00:32:27You cannot find any pork in Iran because in Islam pigs are not like clean animals, but last night I tried to have pork belly.
00:32:44Not a good first start.
00:32:45Not a good first start.
00:32:46Ugh.
00:32:47It was, it was really bad, like.
00:32:48Why did you eat it to begin with?
00:32:50I mean, I would like to try new things, but, uh, I think it's the first and last time.
00:33:01Called a lot of different venues and everybody's booked up, so I'm really hoping that this one works out.
00:33:06So Maddie and I have decided to move the wedding date up.
00:33:10Yeah?
00:33:11Save money.
00:33:12Yes.
00:33:13Um, but it's definitely added a lot of stress to our lives, or at least to my life.
00:33:18There's not a lot of venues that are available with this short notice.
00:33:22The whole thing is crazy, but I guess we've done crazier things.
00:33:26Like, I've fell in love with someone across the world, so what's planning a wedding in a few days?
00:33:31Let me go look at it.
00:33:40Hopefully we can make it work, and hopefully they'll list it.
00:33:44I think it's really hard for Maddie to help me plan a wedding here, because he doesn't really know, like, how a traditional American wedding is.
00:33:51The only times that I've seen American weddings were in the movies.
00:33:55Yeah, and those are probably, like, super traditional, and I don't want that.
00:34:00Weddings in Iran are so different.
00:34:02Like, they're not co-ed.
00:34:03Like, the girls are in one room, the guys are in one room?
00:34:06Um, yes, totally different.
00:34:07So you dance with the guys?
00:34:09Yes.
00:34:10That sounds exhausting.
00:34:11You can hear them, but you can't see them.
00:34:13You have to talk through the wall.
00:34:14Hello.
00:34:15Yeah.
00:34:18Hello.
00:34:19Hey, how are you?
00:34:20I'm good.
00:34:21I'm Stevie.
00:34:22Hey, I'm Andrea.
00:34:23Nice to meet you.
00:34:24Nice to meet you.
00:34:25Yeah.
00:34:26So this is the space.
00:34:27This is the Mockingbird.
00:34:28Okay.
00:34:29Yeah, it's a small space.
00:34:30Okay.
00:34:31It's a very intimate venue.
00:34:32Okay.
00:34:33Um, this is the main common area, the interior space.
00:34:35Okay.
00:34:36But this is, this is, like, the thing.
00:34:40It's this beautiful courtyard space, right?
00:34:42I love it out here.
00:34:46Hey!
00:34:47Hey!
00:34:48Hi.
00:34:49Hi.
00:34:50This is Maddie.
00:34:51Hey, I'm Claire.
00:34:52Nice to meet you, too.
00:34:53Nice to meet you, too.
00:34:54Nice to meet you.
00:34:55Maddie.
00:34:56This is my husband, Whit.
00:34:57Oh, nice to meet you.
00:34:58And then this is our baby, Evie.
00:34:59Isn't she cute?
00:35:00Oh, she's so cute.
00:35:02Yeah.
00:35:03Hey!
00:35:04Hey.
00:35:05Hey!
00:35:06So, tell me what's your plan?
00:35:08What's the vision?
00:35:09So, um, I'm not thinking about having too many people.
00:35:12Only, like, close family and close friends.
00:35:15The ceremony and the reception?
00:35:16Yes.
00:35:17All together.
00:35:18If I didn't do it up here, then I could do it, like, over on this wall.
00:35:24And do, like, chairs this way.
00:35:27Yeah, you can rearrange those however you need.
00:35:29Okay.
00:35:30So, tell me again your time frame.
00:35:32Maddie, what's our time frame?
00:35:35Um, maybe two weeks or less.
00:35:38Oh, wow.
00:35:39Well, let me go check.
00:35:41Y'all talk, y'all look around.
00:35:42If you need pictures or anything of the venue space, you go ahead.
00:35:45Okay.
00:35:46I'll let you know.
00:35:47Thanks.
00:35:50I am a little worried that Stevie's rushing things.
00:35:54And I know that there's some things with his paperwork, I think.
00:35:58And so, I think that's why they had to move things up a little bit.
00:36:01But I would just want to make sure that this is definitely something that he's gonna, you know, be in the long haul for.
00:36:07Just because I feel like that would be so devastating for Stevie if, you know, this didn't work out.
00:36:12Do you think your family is gonna, like, do a video call for the wedding?
00:36:17Um, I don't think so.
00:36:18If they see, like, any signs of, like, alcohol and also having a co-ed party, they're not gonna be happy.
00:36:27Oh, my gosh.
00:36:28And they're, like, super religious.
00:36:30For sure.
00:36:31So it's not, it's not cool, but it is what it is.
00:36:34Yeah.
00:36:35Well, we're gonna make you feel welcome as much as possible.
00:36:37Yeah.
00:36:38For sure.
00:36:40So, are there any elements that y'all are gonna incorporate into the decorations that represents you?
00:36:47What represents me?
00:36:48Your paintings!
00:36:52You have so many beautiful ones.
00:36:54Okay, but what would I paint to bring you?
00:36:56Like the one, like the one of me.
00:36:59Just kidding.
00:37:00That's probably not appropriate for...
00:37:01Yeah, probably not.
00:37:02Did you paint her?
00:37:03Yeah.
00:37:04Okay, so is it like a normal painting that...
00:37:11No, I painted clear nude.
00:37:15Are you serious?
00:37:16Yeah.
00:37:18Why haven't you told me that?
00:37:19I didn't think it was a big deal.
00:37:23Because all the boobs and nude pictures that you painted were, like, online.
00:37:27So you just...
00:37:28People are sending me pictures.
00:37:29Oh, so you sent a picture?
00:37:31No, but people have done that before.
00:37:34What's the difference?
00:37:35Yes.
00:37:36Yeah, definitely.
00:37:37There's nothing weird going on.
00:37:38Yeah.
00:37:39With Claire.
00:37:43This is news to me.
00:37:44Stevie has told me that women would send her the picture of their body and she would paint them, like, topless or whatever.
00:37:54She has never ever mentioned that she has painted girls naked in person.
00:38:01We'll talk about it later.
00:38:03All right.
00:38:07Anyway.
00:38:08Anyway.
00:38:09Thank you for all your help.
00:38:10No problem.
00:38:11Sorry if I made it weird.
00:38:14Stevie has never ever kept anything from me and knowing that she was with her friend naked.
00:38:23It just blows my mind.
00:38:24To be honest, she's giving me bisexual vibes again.
00:38:26Women being together is totally wrong in my culture and I'm not okay with it.
00:38:36Well, double check the calendar and the day is yours.
00:38:41Good.
00:38:42We have a Vinny.
00:38:43Yay!
00:38:44That's great.
00:38:45That's exciting.
00:38:46Hola.
00:38:47Oh!
00:38:48Oh!
00:38:49Oh!
00:38:50I have a lot of unanswered questions when it comes to me and Aaliyah's relationship.
00:39:06So, to open it up to the family, I'm not looking forward to it, but I've held it off as long as I can.
00:39:13I have never cared what you've done your whole life as long as you're happy.
00:39:18Are you 100% happy?
00:39:19This street is super famous.
00:39:32People come from all over to do this street.
00:39:34Oh, it's so cool.
00:39:36And you know what the best part of this street is?
00:39:39Barbra Streisand did a movie and they filmed on this street.
00:39:44Here we go.
00:39:45Again.
00:39:46It's you.
00:39:47It's true.
00:39:48It's all we do now.
00:39:53There it is.
00:39:54The Golden Gate Bridge.
00:39:56Beautiful, yeah?
00:39:57It's orange.
00:39:59I thought it was red.
00:40:00Oh, it's kind of redy orange to me.
00:40:03It's definitely, it's not gold.
00:40:05I don't know why they don't just paint it gold, since that's what it's called.
00:40:11It's so nice.
00:40:14I'm really excited to show Leah around Sonoma County because there's so much natural beauty.
00:40:21And then all the vineyards and the wineries.
00:40:23And so it has a certain amount of elegance, but mixed in with nature.
00:40:29So we're heading more and more away from the city to the redwood trees.
00:40:38This part of California looks really different and it's like in the middle of nowhere.
00:40:44This kind of places reminds me horror movies.
00:40:51It reminds me horror movies that I really like and he hates.
00:40:54It always like quiet place and like nature in the middle of nowhere and like something bad will happen.
00:41:01Like the animals are dying, they don't know what's happening.
00:41:04They get something for the day of you.
00:41:09People would just like get out of the big city to the, the relaxed moment.
00:41:14But in the relaxed moment it's like not that.
00:41:16Someone you lose the arm or the leg and cannot run anymore.
00:41:21Always a pretty girl gets it.
00:41:36And we're here.
00:41:40Are you ready?
00:41:42Yeah.
00:41:44Come on puppy.
00:41:47I have been looking forward for this moment to meet Shawn's mom for so long.
00:41:53Since the beginning of the relationship, she was being always supportive and she respects me and the person that I am.
00:42:00And I just feel embraced by her.
00:42:02It's like she's like a mom for me.
00:42:10Hola.
00:42:12Oh my God.
00:42:13Look at you.
00:42:14Hi.
00:42:17Hi.
00:42:18So cute.
00:42:20Aw.
00:42:24That's so cute.
00:42:27It's being so loud.
00:42:29Oh my God.
00:42:30Is that really you?
00:42:31This is really you.
00:42:32It's me.
00:42:33I mean let me let me do this.
00:42:34Oh.
00:42:35It's beautiful.
00:42:36Look at the hair.
00:42:37It's very special.
00:42:39We are in contact for so long and talking and she always understands me.
00:42:43understand me, and we talk about you.
00:42:46What?
00:42:47How dare you.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:48By my back.
00:42:50I know a lot of things she told me.
00:42:54I want to welcome you to my home,
00:42:56and I know that you want to meet Wookie
00:42:59because we've talked about him so long.
00:43:01Oh my god.
00:43:02Here, come see Wookie.
00:43:06There's your dog.
00:43:07Oh my god.
00:43:09Now you've got a small dog.
00:43:10And oh, you know what?
00:43:12Long time ago, we talked about Christmas stuff.
00:43:15It's so nice.
00:43:17Christmas, Christmas everywhere.
00:43:20Sean's mom's house have a lot of stuff,
00:43:23and I can notice now how similar you are guys.
00:43:28They have the same obsessions.
00:43:30They have collections of coffee cups.
00:43:33Coffee cups.
00:43:34And the monks.
00:43:35And they have the monks.
00:43:37Or my mom has all the Christmas ornaments out.
00:43:39Now you can have my vision of too much stuff.
00:43:42You understand what I'm saying.
00:43:43Well, I think my mom has too much stuff,
00:43:45so I'll agree with you that my mom has too much stuff.
00:43:47So you get that view.
00:43:48And it's the view that I have of your house.
00:43:50Because I have like a fourth of what my mom has.
00:43:56And how are things going?
00:43:57You haven't been living together for that long a period of time.
00:44:03We call it our honeymoon period, because we're both moody.
00:44:08She's moody in the morning.
00:44:09I'm moody in the evening.
00:44:11Yeah.
00:44:13Oh, my God.
00:44:14I mean, here I am talking to you all night,
00:44:15and tomorrow is a huge day.
00:44:19See, everyone.
00:44:20Yeah.
00:44:21Oh, all these people that you don't know.
00:44:23Do you think they like me?
00:44:25Do I think they'll like you?
00:44:26Yeah.
00:44:27What's there not to like?
00:44:32Oh, I just write something.
00:44:36I have a gift for you.
00:44:37Not a gift.
00:44:38For me?
00:44:39You have the keys.
00:44:41Yeah.
00:44:42I get, and I will be back.
00:44:44Oh.
00:44:45Maxwell thinks you're leaving.
00:44:49Sean, are you nervous about tomorrow?
00:44:53I'm not nervous, I'm just, you know, part of me,
00:44:56the reason I don't think I really talk to people
00:44:58is because I don't want to hear their concerns,
00:45:01because they're not telling me anything.
00:45:05That you don't know.
00:45:05That I don't even, you know, mulled over a million times.
00:45:09You know, I just, I found myself with a few friends in LA
00:45:13when I told them, I got these weird comments
00:45:17and just about the whole transgender thing
00:45:20and their feelings about it.
00:45:22And it just made me like really shift my feeling
00:45:26about who I thought these people were, you know,
00:45:29like they were so, had such strong opinions about it.
00:45:35So I'd rather keep it in some bubble
00:45:37that I don't have to deal with, but.
00:45:40I have never cared what you've done your whole life
00:45:43as long as you're happy.
00:45:45And if you tell me you're happy, then that's all that matters.
00:45:53Are you 100% happy?
00:45:56Like, no, of course not.
00:45:58Like, who's 100% happy?
00:46:00I'm not expecting 100, but I don't want to be 60.
00:46:07I think my bigger issues are questions.
00:46:11And the hardest part of all of it is, you know,
00:46:14we've got the magical 90 days, which 60 days are up.
00:46:18Right.
00:46:19And I don't know if I can get those answers in 30 days.
00:46:27I'm hoping that the party's going to go great
00:46:28and everything's going to be well.
00:46:30But I have a lot of unanswered questions
00:46:34when it comes to me and Aaliyah's relationship in the future
00:46:37and if we should even have a future.
00:46:41So to open it up to the friends, the family,
00:46:45it is daunting for me.
00:46:48I'm not looking forward to it,
00:46:51but I've held it off as long as I can.
00:47:00If I told you that your significant other
00:47:04said that she doesn't love you, what would you do?
00:47:06She doesn't love you as much.
00:47:09A polyamorous relationship is understanding the balance
00:47:12and when it's not balanced.
00:47:14Amini's just not seeing the signs
00:47:16that our relationship isn't balanced.
00:47:18Remember the good days, Mike.
00:47:20How do you switch on me like that?
00:47:36There we go.
00:47:52It's best to be.
00:47:54Help!
00:47:54We'll see you again come up next week.
00:47:56I woke up seeing Matt on the phone, I'm thinking he's talking about me and his friend, he's talking about me and Ani and his friend, like, I wish he would talk to me, it was hard to wake up and not finding him in the bed, I don't think he's upset about Ani saying what she's saying, I think he's upset about me,
00:48:25I'm thinking this long you just say something about what Ani said.
00:48:52Eric.
00:48:54Hi.
00:48:55Got you.
00:49:01Um, I saw you in the morning, like you weren't in bed.
00:49:06Just thinking about last night.
00:49:08I can't, I can't accept how that went down.
00:49:21Do you, do you understand why?
00:49:22Like, if I told you that your significant other said that she doesn't love you, what would you do?
00:49:31She doesn't love you as much.
00:49:33Do you not see that the relationship is further with you and her, right?
00:49:38Because we're just very similar together, I guess.
00:49:42I told you women bond easier.
00:49:44Okay, okay, okay, my point exactly.
00:49:46Now that you bonded with her, try to bring me in, don't try to push me out.
00:49:51Amini is definitely blinded by her feelings for Ani.
00:49:58A polyamorous relationship is understanding the balance and when it's not balanced.
00:50:03Amini's just not seeing the signs that our relationship isn't balanced.
00:50:11We need to understand like really what's going on in her heart.
00:50:15I don't have access to it.
00:50:16You seem to have a little more.
00:50:18Help me.
00:50:19She told us many times, like, I want to make this work.
00:50:22I want to go to Guadalajara.
00:50:24I want to be part of this.
00:50:26Remember the good days, Matt.
00:50:27You kind of like...
00:50:28I remember the good days.
00:50:29Do you?
00:50:30We were looking up K1 visas.
00:50:32We were talking to lawyers.
00:50:33I did not, I did not.
00:50:34How do you switch on me like that?
00:50:38I'm here to try to say that I am still in this.
00:50:42But I need some help because it's not developing.
00:50:46You haven't said that to her that you still in here.
00:50:49I'm coming to you because I have that bond with you.
00:50:52And I am trying to develop that bond with her.
00:50:55I give her the most important thing in my life.
00:50:59I open up my family to her.
00:51:01That is the most important thing in my life.
00:51:03I have to dismantle a family structure that I've built for 10 years.
00:51:16Get a divorce.
00:51:17And I'm not sure if Ani understands the things that I've done for her
00:51:23or the things that I'm doing for her.
00:51:25But those are the things that I show my love.
00:51:27You know, like, I wouldn't be doing all of this because I didn't care about her.
00:51:31There's no relationship without you in it.
00:51:44I love you, baby.
00:51:46I love you.
00:51:50I don't want to feel like you're keeping something like that from me.
00:51:53I need to know that you have my back in this.
00:51:58Always.
00:52:00Always.
00:52:02I'm asking for your help to get through to her.
00:52:04On this side, this is the buffet area.
00:52:14And this is open bar all night?
00:52:16Open bar all night.
00:52:18Budget is everything.
00:52:20And I'm just so tired of this .
00:52:21I really am.
00:52:23You only do this once in a lifetime.
00:52:25Everything is very beautiful here.
00:52:27No.
00:52:28But...
00:52:31Here they come.
00:52:32Woo!
00:52:33Finally!
00:52:35Your hands are full!
00:52:37Most of my relationships have been with men until now.
00:52:41So there was already like, what?
00:52:44She's had a very short, open gay life.
00:52:48To be married in that situation, is it really the best thing for you?
00:52:51At this point, if I really let all the doubts creep in, I think I could get cold feet and not want to continue.
00:52:58I'ma get by.
00:53:02I'ma get by.
00:53:04Man, we gon' get by.
00:53:07Everything will be fine.
00:53:09Craig, you driving?
00:53:11Yes.
00:53:12Okay.
00:53:13It's the only one I trust.
00:53:15Can't even trust your mom?
00:53:17I'm kidding, I'm kidding.
00:53:18Always by my side.
00:53:19Got my girl in my ride.
00:53:20Everything is just fine.
00:53:22Yeah.
00:53:23Man, I'ma get by.
00:53:25We're going to the venue.
00:53:28Yes, I can't wait.
00:53:31Hope you guys like it.
00:53:33Hope so.
00:53:34Hope we are going to like it.
00:53:36I don't think we're prepared enough to have it in the house.
00:53:39And weather permitting too, that's another factor.
00:53:42Mm-hmm.
00:53:43So I think we'd be more beneficial all around to have it in a venue.
00:53:48I like a good wedding.
00:53:49Like, everything going perfect.
00:53:50And us having the wedding at home, it would have really saved us money.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:58I think it's very nice.
00:54:00I think they do everything for you.
00:54:02Cooking, cleaning up, serve the liquor.
00:54:06You know, from soup to nuts.
00:54:12Feeling a little tension on the way to the venue.
00:54:13My mom, she really sincerely wants us to have a good day.
00:54:16And I trust her in that.
00:54:18But budget is everything, especially with everything that's going on right now.
00:54:23Here we are. This is the venue.
00:54:26And I'm just so tired of this . I really am.
00:54:28I'm just ready to party.
00:54:30I'm ready to get wasted.
00:54:34Well, ladies first.
00:54:36Well, ladies.
00:54:38Fire, please.
00:54:40It's nice tiles.
00:54:41Hello.
00:54:42How are you?
00:54:43Hello, how are you?
00:54:44Nice to meet you.
00:54:45Lucille.
00:54:46Lucille.
00:54:47Joan and Gregory.
00:54:48How you doing?
00:54:49How's it going?
00:54:50Nice to meet you.
00:54:51A happily, lovely couple.
00:54:52Nice meeting you.
00:54:53Welcome to Marconi Manor.
00:54:55Very nice.
00:54:56It is.
00:54:57Yep, it's one of the, I think, nicer venues.
00:55:00Not because I work here.
00:55:01It's just where you do an awful lot of weddings.
00:55:04This is a bar right here.
00:55:05Yep, this is a bar.
00:55:06This is a bar area.
00:55:07A common bar area, yep.
00:55:08Nice.
00:55:09That's what I'm talking about.
00:55:10It's long, big.
00:55:11And this is open bar all night?
00:55:13Open bar all night.
00:55:14Yes, it is.
00:55:15People don't have to be pressured.
00:55:16You know, get that last drink.
00:55:17That's right.
00:55:18Bar's closing.
00:55:19That's right.
00:55:20That's right.
00:55:21So imagine we were in Uganda.
00:55:22We got married at Marconi Manor.
00:55:24Where would we put the cows?
00:55:25In the parking.
00:55:27The parking lot across the street.
00:55:28The groom also bought cows, so the cows are in the parking.
00:55:33So if you want to confirm, some people go and say, oh, my God.
00:55:38There's 10 cows.
00:55:39Yeah, yeah.
00:55:40That's crazy.
00:55:41We're here on this side.
00:55:43This is the buffet area.
00:55:44All the food is made in-house?
00:55:46Yeah, in-house.
00:55:47Wow.
00:55:48How much is that package?
00:55:50You should be able to do it for somewhere around $8,900,
00:55:55somewhere in there.
00:55:56Yeah.
00:55:57Yeah.
00:55:58Yeah.
00:55:59So why don't you folks just look around a little while,
00:56:01and I'll be in the office, and you can talk.
00:56:03Yeah.
00:56:04So, Joan, you like this idea?
00:56:06Yes, everything is very beautiful here.
00:56:10Yeah.
00:56:11It's just a lot of money.
00:56:12Yes.
00:56:13And I really need this job.
00:56:14Excuse my language, but I really need this job.
00:56:16But people pay way over this for a wedding.
00:56:18Yeah.
00:56:19I want you to enjoy, and, you know, I want a little fanciness,
00:56:23you know, and, of course.
00:56:25And you only do this once in a lifetime, and...
00:56:29It's a lot of money, Mom, you know what I'm saying?
00:56:31I don't know.
00:56:32You think you could pitch in maybe just $1,000?
00:56:35Yeah.
00:56:36Then your father and I will pay the rest,
00:56:38and you don't have to worry about anything.
00:56:40You're just walking and look beautiful.
00:56:42We really appreciate everything you guys do for us.
00:56:51But...
00:56:52I want you to have...
00:56:53We are becoming a burden, like, you know?
00:56:56No, you're never a burden.
00:57:04I'm very grateful for these things.
00:57:06I am, and it's amazing.
00:57:07You know, it's important.
00:57:08It's...
00:57:09You know.
00:57:10I don't...
00:57:13I don't...
00:57:14You don't make me cry, man.
00:57:15You know what I mean?
00:57:16Why am I going to cry?
00:57:17Why are we crying in the day?
00:57:19Right?
00:57:22If you have to depend on people, you're always a burden.
00:57:25Like, they have, like, to feed me.
00:57:26They have to take care of me.
00:57:27We are already staying in her house,
00:57:29so seeing her offering to pay for it,
00:57:31I'm like, wow.
00:57:33I know it's a big burden on her.
00:57:34My mom does work quite often.
00:57:36You know, you see how much she works
00:57:37just for the little money that she has or whatever,
00:57:39and for her to help us out, it's huge.
00:57:46I know you show your appreciation every day.
00:57:48You know?
00:57:51I'm getting emotional again.
00:57:53No, you do, Joan.
00:57:54You're always helping out, and...
00:57:56You know, and that's what families do.
00:57:57They give.
00:57:58You know, they give back.
00:57:59So...
00:58:00We're very appreciative.
00:58:01We love you, Mom.
00:58:02I love you.
00:58:03I love you.
00:58:04I'm a mom, and moms always look out for their sons
00:58:06and making sure that, you know,
00:58:08everything's just right for them.
00:58:11And I want him to have a special day,
00:58:13and I want Joan to enjoy herself as well.
00:58:16I'm sorry, Mom.
00:58:17I'm sorry to make you cry.
00:58:18I didn't cry.
00:58:19Just teared up a little bit.
00:58:20I want to make you cry.
00:58:21That's it.
00:58:22No, it's fine.
00:58:35So, hypothetically, if I was, say, a fiancé
00:58:39that was waiting for a fiancé
00:58:41to be ready for an engagement party
00:58:45that's already started,
00:58:47how long do you think said person would take
00:58:50to finish their makeup?
00:58:52I'm, like, ending here,
00:58:54but I don't want to rush.
00:58:55Okay.
00:58:56Love you.
00:59:05Maxwell, you're the only one that understands me.
00:59:09So we're getting ready for our engagement
00:59:14slash meet-and-greet party.
00:59:16I think people will be irritated
00:59:18that they have to wait so long for us.
00:59:20It takes a long time to get a certain someone together,
00:59:23but I'm not naming names.
00:59:26I mean, it harkens back to, like, another time for me.
00:59:29That's where it's, like, weird.
00:59:31The wife getting ready and doing all the things,
00:59:34but that I've been free of it for a lot of years,
00:59:38and now I'm back to square one.
00:59:41I think perfection takes time.
00:59:47Love.
00:59:48Yeah?
00:59:49I'm done.
00:59:50I'm done.
00:59:51But I need help with your dress.
00:59:52Of course.
00:59:53It's a big deal what's about to happen with this party.
00:59:57All right.
00:59:58Shoes, jacket, hair touch-up, and then we're out.
01:00:02It's kind of like a literal coming-out party.
01:00:04So, you know, gender reveal coming out,
01:00:08all those good things all together all at once.
01:00:14I think they know they are meeting Aaliyah,
01:00:17but I'm not sure they know what that means.
01:00:21Come on.
01:00:22I want to help you.
01:00:23Like, I've told some of them that there's somebody in my life.
01:00:27I want them to meet.
01:00:29Not specifically any gender or anything.
01:00:33I got you, as always.
01:00:35So I think there's going to be people that are going to push back.
01:00:38You know, just the way people are.
01:00:42Come on, big beast.
01:00:44Whoa.
01:00:45The feathers are flying.
01:00:46That's where they should be.
01:00:54You know I have cranberry in here.
01:00:56Oh, good.
01:00:57Cranberry in what?
01:00:58Well, you know, you can't taste the vodka.
01:01:04Oh, no.
01:01:05Oh.
01:01:06Yeah.
01:01:07Oh, here they come.
01:01:08They're here.
01:01:09They're here.
01:01:10The star.
01:01:12Whee!
01:01:15Not an hour too soon.
01:01:16Not an hour too soon.
01:01:19Your hands are full.
01:01:21I know.
01:01:22Dog.
01:01:23Hello.
01:01:24Gorgeous.
01:01:26Oh, my God.
01:01:27They were really, really late.
01:01:29Don't get me started.
01:01:35But everybody's happy for him.
01:01:42Hi.
01:01:43I'm Stacy.
01:01:44You look beautiful.
01:01:46Yeah.
01:01:47Hi.
01:01:48Hi.
01:01:49Nice to meet you.
01:01:50This is my daughter.
01:01:51Actual relative.
01:01:52Blood.
01:01:53This is my baby, Kayla.
01:01:55I have one question.
01:01:57Pronouns.
01:01:58What pronouns do you prefer?
01:01:59She and her.
01:02:00She and her?
01:02:01Yeah.
01:02:02Okay, great.
01:02:03She's scoring on every count.
01:02:05I want you to meet my son, Austin.
01:02:10Damn.
01:02:11He's playing hard to get.
01:02:12Yeah.
01:02:13Which is normal.
01:02:14Austin, Patrick, I'm coming for you.
01:02:16You can't avoid me.
01:02:18Want to bet?
01:02:19You can try.
01:02:20Hi.
01:02:27Hi.
01:02:28So nice to meet you.
01:02:31How's it going?
01:02:35An epic moment.
01:02:36It's good to be here.
01:02:37Now I'm meeting the family.
01:02:39Sean is always talking about you guys.
01:02:42Yeah.
01:02:43It's so awesome.
01:02:44Nothing good.
01:02:45Yeah.
01:02:46No, everything good.
01:02:47I know that Sean is distant from some of his family and friends.
01:02:52And even his kids.
01:02:54When did you guys get here, by the way?
01:02:56How long have you been?
01:02:57Together?
01:02:58No, no.
01:02:59Here.
01:03:00Yesterday.
01:03:01I think they were surprised, but at the same time, they looked happy to meet me.
01:03:10I have my mom by my side, but I have part of my family that they don't accept me.
01:03:16So it means a lot for me that all Sean's friends, family are being so warm and acceptable.
01:03:26How long are you guys here?
01:03:28I think we're here for a couple of days and then we'll have to go back.
01:03:31And then we're on the 90-day visa, so we have 90 days to either get hitched or send her back to Brazil.
01:03:41Beautiful way to put it again.
01:03:44I know.
01:03:45It's such a romantic.
01:03:46So poetic.
01:03:47I know it's a lot to ask the family to wrap their head around not only engagement, but there will be a wedding in short order.
01:03:57Here's to a healthy and happy journey.
01:04:00Thank you so much.
01:04:02And obviously, most of my relationships have been with men until now.
01:04:09So there was already some, you know, sort of like, what?
01:04:15So, Sean, I have a question.
01:04:17Oh, God.
01:04:18Here it comes.
01:04:19I mean, you know, we got invited.
01:04:21This is beautiful here.
01:04:23We're all friends.
01:04:24We all love you.
01:04:25But how come we haven't heard about this beautiful creature before?
01:04:34Anybody that really knows me well knows this about me, like, who's ever in front of my face in real life gets all the attention and all the information.
01:04:45And so if somebody is, like, not in that space, like, randomly, I'm not, like, telling everybody, oh, this is this, this is this.
01:04:53And I'm not even, like, you know, how everybody's, like, into the texting.
01:04:56Like, it seems so weird to me.
01:04:57Like, you know, here's my text.
01:04:59I'm engaged.
01:05:00I met somebody.
01:05:01I'm in Brazil.
01:05:02I mean, it just seems so randomly.
01:05:05You're a great texter.
01:05:08This is bull .
01:05:09No, I'm a great texter.
01:05:11In what way?
01:05:12Like, it seems weird to disclose your life in, like, a word or less.
01:05:16For Sean to come out of the blue and bring his new fiancee, this young bride, was a surprise to us, a surprise to me.
01:05:28So you're here on a 90-day fiancee visa.
01:05:31So how soon is your wedding?
01:05:33About a month away.
01:05:34Dun, dun, dun, dun.
01:05:36Wow.
01:05:37She's got 60 days down.
01:05:40Maybe immigration will come and take her away.
01:05:42I don't know.
01:05:46There's just something about that older youth combination, which I don't quite understand.
01:05:50And I think his children are kind of upset about it.
01:05:53But it's always, Sean will stick to what he wants.
01:05:56And that's, that's Sean.
01:05:59I'm so happy for you.
01:06:01I don't know what to say.
01:06:02But I'm a little concerned.
01:06:04She's so young.
01:06:05She hasn't had a career.
01:06:06She has anything behind you.
01:06:07You have everything behind you.
01:06:08What is, so your point is, what with the years?
01:06:12She's young.
01:06:14She's had a very short, open gay life.
01:06:18And she's still exploring that.
01:06:20And now she's a woman and she's exploring that.
01:06:25That's just so many new things.
01:06:27And, and to be married in that situation, is it really the best thing for her?
01:06:33And, and is that really the best thing for you too?
01:06:38I think for her, it's best that I am around and am involved in her life because I seem to be able to roll with the changes.
01:06:51Now, there could be a point where I can't or don't or won't.
01:06:55Well, Sean, a marriage is till death do you part.
01:06:58You know, it has this thing of forever.
01:07:00Yeah, it'll be like 10 years.
01:07:03Which is longer than most of my relationships.
01:07:06At this point, I just have to have the trust that things work out because if I really let all the doubts creep in and all the things that could go wrong and might happen, then of course I think it could get cold feet and not want to continue.
01:07:23I'm not looking for something that's going to burn out.
01:07:26Like I'm looking for something that's going to last.
01:07:29If there was more time, I would be taking more time.
01:07:32But there's not.
01:07:33So I have to just trust in my basic instinct that we are going to be okay.
01:07:38At the end of the day, the one thing I know I can count on is that change is going to be a part of our deal and part of our life.
01:07:47And I don't know, like, how much changes I can take.
01:07:51I'm rolling with the punches now.
01:07:53So there are concerns, but, you know, we'll have to see how it goes.
01:07:58Huh.
01:07:59Huh.
01:08:00Huh.
01:08:01Hmm.
01:08:05Just the other day, he was being such an asshole.
01:08:10And it was different, like, at his place when we were fighting because I could leave.
01:08:14And here I can't leave my place.
01:08:17I just went to book a flight and I chose my the seat, the date, everything.
01:08:29Ya iyi olsun, ya da ayrılalım, gideyim, gideyim.
01:08:42How do you feel babe, leaving your hometown?
01:08:45We accomplished what we came here to do and...
01:08:48Yeah.
01:08:49Yeah, I think it's been a good amount of time.
01:08:51What do you think?
01:08:52I love this place, you know.
01:08:54You love it?
01:08:55I'm so compatible.
01:08:56You're so adaptable.
01:08:58Oh, my geisha.
01:09:02Yeah, yeah.
01:09:03I love it.
01:09:04Yeah.
01:09:05I love it.
01:09:06I love it.
01:09:07I love it.
01:09:08I love it.
01:09:10Basically, I think that with my sisters,
01:09:18it's just kind of a wait-and-see thing at this point
01:09:20because you did say so many good things,
01:09:24but they don't care so much about, like,
01:09:27all the things you're saying.
01:09:28They care more about your actions
01:09:30and what you end up doing.
01:09:32So it's just going to take time.
01:09:35They need to see me consistently happy,
01:09:37never, like, devastated by you or upset.
01:09:41I understand everything, but we don't have years.
01:09:44We have 90 days to decide what we will do.
01:09:48So I wish it would be faster.
01:09:51But we cannot do anything, you know?
01:09:54My sisters brought up a lot of good points,
01:09:56and, you know, those points are kind of lingering in my mind
01:09:59because they're things that I've thought of before, too.
01:10:02Like, Sarpur can be a little bit reactive
01:10:04and he can be a little bit controlling,
01:10:06and we are not even halfway through these 90 days,
01:10:09and I'm wanting to see if Sarpur
01:10:11can maintain these changes that he's made.
01:10:13Ah.
01:10:15We will use that.
01:10:16That's cute.
01:10:16At home.
01:10:17We love a good costume.
01:10:19A lot of people can change for a day or a week
01:10:21or however long they need in order to get something,
01:10:24and then they fall back into their old ways.
01:10:26So it's really important for me to see if, you know, it sticks.
01:10:30How come I have the big suitcase with the small one?
01:10:32I'm a tough Montana girl.
01:10:34That's why.
01:10:36Bye, Montana.
01:10:48What is your problem?
01:10:50My problem is your face.
01:10:52My face?
01:10:54That... I know that face.
01:10:55Do you understand how f***y you sound right now?
01:10:58I just came home from working all day,
01:11:12and I cooked you a meal,
01:11:14and you just say f*** you.
01:11:15You say f***ing to me,
01:11:17and now you're leaving.
01:11:18f***ing this life.
01:11:19Okay?
01:11:21I really hate this life.
01:11:23Yeah.
01:11:23And I'm going back to my country.
01:11:34He again f***ed everything up.
01:11:38Because we have an argument.
01:11:39She sent me what I said.
01:11:42I won't let you drive my car.
01:11:44I am hard to live with.
01:11:45It is hard to live with my dogs.
01:11:47I didn't say such a thing.
01:11:49I feel myself useless.
01:11:51Everything piled up.
01:11:53That depression.
01:11:55And I said, it's enough.
01:11:57That's all.
01:11:57I mean, I just go downstairs.
01:12:00Don't talk with her.
01:12:01Let the time solve something.
01:12:03And this is where we are right now.
01:12:05We are not talking.
01:12:07Two strangers in the same house.
01:12:08Sarper and I are just not even speaking right now.
01:12:25He's sleeping on the couch,
01:12:26and it's so tense.
01:12:28It's so awkward.
01:12:30Things since Montana were fine.
01:12:32Like, we came back and everything was good.
01:12:37He was adjusting more to L.A. life.
01:12:39I took him to some parties in L.A.
01:12:41He loved them.
01:12:43It was just the other day that everything changed.
01:12:47He was in a bad mood.
01:12:48He was treating me like s***.
01:12:50He was being such an a**hole.
01:12:52It's like, I have made such huge adjustments
01:12:55for him to live here.
01:12:56Like, there's no room in my closet for my clothes.
01:12:59Like, I have all of his stuff hung up.
01:13:02And the whole thing with me packing right now
01:13:04is I'm planning to move my workspace out of here
01:13:08so that we can just live here.
01:13:09I'm like, I'm making big adjustments
01:13:11to fit him into my life here.
01:13:14And I just feel like he doesn't even appreciate it.
01:13:19And it was different, like, at his place
01:13:21when we were fighting because I could leave.
01:13:23And here I can't leave my place.
01:13:26Like, this is my place.
01:13:26I'm not just going to leave.
01:13:34Oh.
01:13:39Ne matter?
01:13:43Ä°yi yavrum.
01:13:44Sen nasılsın?
01:13:44İyi ki sıkıyorsun.
01:13:46Heh, idare ediyoruz iÅŸte.
01:13:48Anil mi?
01:13:49Gidip Şıkaynadın kardeşleriyle tanıştım.
01:13:51Montana'yı.
01:13:53Örnek davranış gösterdim diyebilirim sana.
01:13:55Ekstra.
01:13:57Ama ondan sonra abi,
01:13:58böyle bunlar tabi birikti ufak ufak bende.
01:14:01Bana saygısız davrandı.
01:14:03in a way of saying things.
01:14:18Yesterday, I just went to my computer to book a flight
01:14:22and I chose my seats, the dates, everything, just one button.
01:14:28And I thought, Sarp, don't be impulsive.
01:14:31Because if you do it, there is no turning back.
01:15:01If you do it, I will be able to get you.
01:15:04Then, you will be able to get me.
01:15:06Then, you will be able to get me.
01:15:08And then, you will be able to get me.
01:15:10I will be able to get you.
01:15:13I will be able to get you.
01:15:15Bye bye.
01:15:16It cannot continue like this.
01:15:21The next conversation that I will do with her has to be,
01:15:25we are OK, but we are changing, or it's over.
01:15:30If I go back to my country, I will burn everything.
01:15:34I will never remember if there is she kind or not.
01:15:38I promise to myself this.
01:15:42It's up there.
01:15:44It's up there.
01:15:51You should have told me.
01:15:52I've already done it.
01:15:53What do you want me to do about it?
01:15:54I can't get back in time.
01:15:55I really hate it when something is so OK for her,
01:15:59but it's not OK for me.
01:16:01You have never made me sure about you
01:16:04not being interested in the same sex.
01:16:06I'm not talking about this.
01:16:08All right.
01:16:19Well, I guess we're going to head out,
01:16:20because it's starting to get dark.
01:16:22But thanks for coming.
01:16:23Yeah, it was really nice to meet you.
01:16:26Yeah, same here.
01:16:35So if you've got any questions while you're planning,
01:16:37I'm guessing you're the one kind of planning a lot of logistics.
01:16:40I'm going to come in and do her day of.
01:16:41She's just my bestie says she'll help me with whatever.
01:16:46While we're at the wedding venue,
01:16:48Maddie realizes that I painted Claire nude.
01:16:51I can honestly immediately tell that he's not OK.
01:16:55And I'm trying to kind of deescalade whatever thoughts
01:16:59that he's having, but also protect my friend
01:17:02because she didn't do anything wrong.
01:17:06If you have any questions, call me.
01:17:08Absolutely, I will.
01:17:09Thank you so much.
01:17:10You're so welcome.
01:17:13OK, we're going to head out.
01:17:17It is so awkward.
01:17:19It makes me wonder if there will be a situation in the future
01:17:21where Maddie feels like he needs to tell Stevie,
01:17:24like, oh, you don't need to dress that way
01:17:26or you need to cover up more or something like that.
01:17:30And I just, you know, I just worry about that.
01:17:36Are we going to pull it shut?
01:17:44Are you mad?
01:17:45I don't know.
01:17:46Shouldn't I be?
01:17:47No.
01:17:48You shouldn't be.
01:17:50Don't you think you have hidden something from me?
01:17:53No, because I didn't feel like I was hiding anything.
01:17:56If it's bad, then I would, if I thought it was bad,
01:17:58I would have told you.
01:18:02So you don't think it was bad?
01:18:03No.
01:18:05I don't think that I've given Maddie any reason
01:18:07to be upset with me right now.
01:18:09So I'm really caught off guard by the way that he's acting
01:18:12because he's questioning who I am as a person.
01:18:15And I don't think that I've given him any reason to do that.
01:18:18I paint stuff like this all the time,
01:18:19so it's no different than what I normally would do.
01:18:23We just made it super awkward in front of Claire,
01:18:25and that's the first time she was meeting you.
01:18:27It caught me off guard.
01:18:28And I understand that, but I didn't expect it
01:18:30to catch you off guard.
01:18:31Had I expected it, don't you think I would have told you
01:18:33before you met her?
01:18:36So then you don't know me enough.
01:18:38Maddie.
01:18:39You should have told me.
01:18:41I've already done it.
01:18:42What do you want me to do about it?
01:18:43I can't go back in time.
01:18:44It's different than what you're used to,
01:18:46but it's normal for me.
01:18:47If I thought it was bad, I would have already told you about it.
01:18:49Don't keep secrets from you and hide things behind your back.
01:18:56Right now, I'm just thinking that, one, she has kept a secret.
01:19:00She can do it again, and she will do it again.
01:19:03And two is, I want her to be honest,
01:19:05because being bisexual is not OK in my culture.
01:19:08And it's not only about my culture, it's about my brain also.
01:19:12Like, I'm really worried about what if after our marriage,
01:19:16she says something like, I want something else.
01:19:19I want something that you cannot give me.
01:19:22You have never told me you would do it in person.
01:19:25You told me you were like,
01:19:26they just send me pictures and I would paint them.
01:19:29What is the difference if someone sends me a picture
01:19:32and I paint them, but I still see their picture
01:19:34versus I see them there and I paint them?
01:19:37I mean, I would think cross and line would be me painting a guy.
01:19:42And I don't do that.
01:19:43One, because I don't want to and out of respect for you.
01:19:45I don't do that.
01:19:46And I wouldn't do that.
01:19:47But you have never made me sure
01:19:51about you not being interested in the same sex.
01:19:55Oh my gosh, I'm not talking about this.
01:19:57This is ridiculous.
01:19:58I'm in a relationship with you and you just keep bringing it up.
01:20:01Stop. Stop it.
01:20:03Stop it.
01:20:05My problem is, you always give me a fake answer.
01:20:09OK, well, that's your problem that you
01:20:11can't take the answer that I'm giving you, not my problem.
01:20:13You just said my problem is.
01:20:14That's your problem, not my problem.
01:20:15That you're not listening to me.
01:20:16That it's not a big deal.
01:20:17So you're not going to say yes or no?
01:20:20No what?
01:20:21No, that you're not interested in girls.
01:20:24Yeah, no.
01:20:25Does that make you feel better?
01:20:31I'm not having this conversation anymore.
01:20:32I'm cold and I'm ready to get in the car
01:20:34and I think you're ever reacting.
01:20:36I'm going to the car.
01:20:37OK, well, I'm going to the car.
01:20:41I really hate it when something is so OK for her,
01:20:45but it's not OK for me.
01:20:47Like, it's totally not OK for me.
01:20:49I want to know before my wedding, before our wedding,
01:21:01that what type of person I'm getting married to.
01:21:05If we don't come to a conclusion or if I just keep getting
01:21:09the vague answer as the previous times,
01:21:12I think we need to postpone the wedding.
01:21:16Are we done?
01:21:17I don't know.
01:21:18Next time on Night to Date, Fiancee,
01:21:29somebody beeps at you, but I'm walking here.
01:21:32I'm walking here.
01:21:33Forget about it.
01:21:34Forget about it.
01:21:35Forget about it.
01:21:38I'm really excited to show you New York City.
01:21:40This is cool.
01:21:42Come on again.
01:21:43Should I be spending money?
01:21:44No.
01:21:45But you know what, man?
01:21:46It's New York City.
01:21:47OK.
01:21:49I will go the extra mile and make her feel good
01:21:51about our situation.
01:21:52I don't want you to go back to Uganda.
01:21:54I know that we have not had what you and Amidi have yet.
01:22:01I need to be with you.
01:22:04I have my husband on a date with another woman
01:22:07that I planned for.
01:22:09Do you remember the rules?
01:22:12Part of being in trouble.
01:22:18I just wish I could just do another contract on the boat
01:22:22and say, bye.
01:22:24I'm sure Jessica would be, like, kind of sad.
01:22:27But I also know that I'm miserable here.
01:22:30I think she'll be upset you're even thinking about it.
01:22:34I just have some questions about the bottom surgery.
01:22:37You mean bottom surgery?
01:22:38Yeah, progenital surgery?
01:22:39Uh-huh.
01:22:41If that's where we're going, you should tell me that now.
01:22:45Had you all talked about surgery before coming here?
01:22:47I stay home alone.
01:22:53I lost my friend.
01:22:56I lost my job.
01:22:57I lost everything.
01:22:58It's going to make me cry.
01:22:59The position you are in, as a woman,
01:23:03you are counting on him, and there are no guarantees.
01:23:07Should we talk?
01:23:12I don't have a clue how she will react.
01:23:16If we break up, you will cry for years for me.
01:23:20I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:23What?
01:23:24I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:26I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:27I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:28I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:29I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:30I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:31I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:32I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:33I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:34I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:35I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:36I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:37I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:39I don't even know if I want to get married.
01:23:41I don't even know if I want to get married.