Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:01Previously on Farmer Wants a Wife...
00:04Get me up, cowboy!
00:06...a surprise letter shocked our ladies.
00:09If it is clear that there isn't any chance of a future together,
00:13you should ask her to lead a farmer.
00:15So the farmer's friends were drafted in.
00:18100% hope to make a good impression.
00:20I'm going to be honest.
00:22I'm also used to being a girl.
00:23There's only one wheel in a car, so...
00:26I'm done. I'm not playing. It's not happening.
00:29And they gave their honest opinions.
00:32Julia, it's going to be hard for her to adapt to the country life.
00:36What do you think about Halay?
00:37Make sure it's a good relationship to pursue instead of just, like, friends.
00:41Vivian Lee, I didn't realize she's never been in a relationship.
00:44This is a beautiful day.
00:48Sparks flew for Colton and Keely.
00:51He's a great kisser.
00:52And Matt and Halay.
00:54I love spending time with you.
00:56I like spending time with you.
00:57We made a big leap tonight.
00:59But John...
01:00This is a tough process.
01:01...chose to send Chloe home.
01:04Now Jay must decide who will stay and who will go.
01:10I think you got a great personality and everything, but that's why I want to ask you now, like,
01:16do you really want to be here?
01:25In Alabama, Jay's the last farmer to decide who to send home.
01:29He's taken both Julia and Vivian Lee on a date to help him make his decision.
01:34I feel like with one lady, I'm attracted to her for sure, but she's not used to farm life.
01:40And then I have someone who really loves it, but I just don't have that chemistry there.
01:44Now, he has some serious questions for Julia.
01:47So what I really want to know is, like, is the country or the farm life really, like, for you?
01:54Are you worried I'm going to not last in Alabama?
01:57Well, I am, honestly.
02:03That's why I want to ask you now, like, do you really want to be here?
02:09Like, I'm looking for somebody to build a life with, you know, have kids, you know, move out to the country with me.
02:16Is that something that you'd be willing to do?
02:23If I didn't want to be here, I would have went home.
02:27Yeah, well, I definitely wanted just to ask that because, you know, I'm not a mind reader.
02:33I don't think you should be worried about me hanging out on the farm.
02:36I do really like you, and I'm actually kind of surprised.
02:40Surprised about what?
02:41That, like, I like this lifestyle and I like being around the animals and, like, the calmness of it.
02:48I feel like when you're in California, like, you always have to have, like, your guard up.
02:52Right.
02:53You always have to just be around, like, genuine, like, people, and it's just, like, wholesome.
02:57So you ready to settle down?
02:58Yeah.
02:59Yeah.
03:00Yeah.
03:01I just, I want kids, though.
03:02What about, like, marriage, though?
03:04You marriage first, or?
03:05Oh, I have to be married before I have kids.
03:07Yeah.
03:08Good to spend some time with you.
03:10I think you're an amazing person, you know?
03:13You're really funny.
03:14For real.
03:15Yeah.
03:16But I still want to ask, uh, would you want to stay here on the farm?
03:21I will stay here on the farm.
03:23Good.
03:24I'm happy.
03:25I'm glad.
03:26I'm grateful.
03:27I'm excited.
03:28I'm happy that he's asked me to stay on the farm with him.
03:31Give me a big hug right now, so.
03:32Fine.
03:33I'll give you a hug.
03:34Yeah.
03:35Having asked Julia to stay on the farm, Jay now has to make a decision about Vivian Lee.
03:41I am nervous, because I feel like I'm not ready to go home yet.
03:44How you doing?
03:45I definitely want to get to know Vivian Lee on a deeper level.
03:49She's great on the farm, but she's, you know, never experienced relationships before.
03:55Is she ready to actually settle down?
03:58How you doing?
03:59I'm doing good.
04:00How you doing?
04:01Good.
04:02What you want to talk about?
04:03Well, we haven't spent a lot of time together and things like that.
04:06And one thing you said that I do want to, like, revisit a little bit, like, you never really dated.
04:16I never really took men that serious.
04:19Like, I always was more focused on, like, my career, my studies, um...
04:23No, I get that.
04:24I get that for sure.
04:25I've definitely had my, like, heartbreak and, like, you know, but just nothing, like, super long-term.
04:33I'm at an age now where I want a family, you know? I want a wife.
04:38I'm trying to find that chemistry, that connection, and just you not being in a long-term relationship.
04:47Mm-hmm.
04:48I just don't know, like, if it's, like, you know, um, it's just something missing.
05:00Uh, you know, I feel like we'll be great, you know, friends or something like that.
05:10Mm-hmm.
05:11But, um, I guess this will probably be the, the last, the last night on the farm, so...
05:16Okay.
05:17What the hell's happening?
05:22Okay.
05:28Vivi, did they send you home?
05:33Yeah, I'm going home.
05:35Yeah, I feel like, yeah, we just, there wasn't that spark.
05:39Wait, stop. Oh, no. Oh, no.
05:43Okay.
05:47You .
05:50I think I'll stay here for a while.
05:54Everything happens for a reason, then I think I'm just gonna continue discovering myself.
05:58Good luck.
06:00We'll see where I end up.
06:02I knew trying to find my wife wasn't gonna be easy, but it definitely hits home in that moment.
06:10So I just know it's going to be, uh, a tough road ahead.
06:15Glippin' your eyes, got my seeing stars.
06:20Hopin', I pray you don't break my heart.
06:23It's a new day.
06:25And in California, farmer Matt still has all five ladies on his farm.
06:29But this morning, Halay was missing from her bed.
06:34And now the other ladies have unanswered questions.
06:37I got up at like 5.30 this morning.
06:39And I roomed with Halay, as you know, and she wasn't in the room.
06:44I checked with Chelsea, and she wasn't in there.
06:48I don't know where she could have been.
06:50My gut feeling is that maybe she was probably sneaking off.
06:57This is maybe see Matt.
07:01Yeah.
07:03Because I feel like they've been, like, eyeing each other differently, like, when we're around them.
07:10So I feel like it's possible.
07:13Where else would she have gone?
07:16Yeah.
07:17Right now, my feelings are strong for Matt.
07:21But it's already hard enough to get time with him.
07:24And now, with Halay sneaking out, I obviously hope that's not the case.
07:29Well, we'll see.
07:30I guess hopefully we'll find out.
07:31I've had such a bad track record with men.
07:35I need to trust the person that I potentially want to be with.
07:38If it did happen, then of course she's going to get to know him way more than all the other girls, including me.
07:45I need to find out if I can trust Matt today.
07:47Good morning.
07:48Good morning.
07:49How are you guys?
07:50In Missouri, Farmer John made the difficult decision to say goodbye to Chloe last night.
08:04Hi, guys.
08:05Feeling now that it's down to four.
08:07I feel like it's just different, you know, without the five.
08:10But it has to happen.
08:12Yeah.
08:13You can't be in love with all of us, so.
08:14Bingo.
08:15Reality's checking in.
08:16You know?
08:17Yeah.
08:18It's just a little tough.
08:19You can't keep four girls around to be your wife.
08:22And I don't believe in love at first sight, but I'll admit it.
08:25I dig Samantha a little bit.
08:27Her and I definitely have some chemistry.
08:29You know, she's just unpredictable.
08:31Yes!
08:32Yeah!
08:34Maybe that's gotten in the way of building a relationship with the other girls.
08:38And that's something I want to work on.
08:47In Alabama, there are four ladies left vying for Farmer Jay's attention.
08:52All right, ladies.
08:54Y'all ready to get your hands dirty?
08:56Yeah.
08:57All right, so we got Ricky down there in the hay bale area.
09:01What we're gonna do is, we'll pick him up, and then we'll take it back to the bar and load it in there.
09:05Okay, that didn't look heavy.
09:06The way he just picked it up, it didn't look heavy.
09:08Yeah, but look at him and look at us.
09:09Yeah.
09:10Okay, girl, come on.
09:11Today, I really wanted to get Jay's attention and get up close and personal with him.
09:15Oh, yeah.
09:16Let's go.
09:17You see these muscles? Let's go.
09:18I think it gives me a small advantage that I'm willing to get out there, get dirty.
09:23I'm about to be jacked after this, though.
09:25I know.
09:26This is a whole workout.
09:27Y'all see it.
09:28Tiana, I feel like she has a great energy about her.
09:31I was excited to see you today.
09:33I was like, I'm gonna work this up, too.
09:35I like listening to her talk and really excited to kind of learn more about her.
09:39Well, you a nurse and everything, so you know how to take care of people, huh?
09:43How do you think being a nurse and coming out to the farm gonna clash?
09:47I think it's gonna clash, actually, really well.
09:49Yeah?
09:50Lots of farm injuries and stuff I can help.
09:52Okay, yeah.
09:56I definitely think Tiana is starting to jeopardize how Jay and I connect.
10:01She tends to fill the conversation and exhaust it by being very theatrical.
10:06Ah, my hand is getting circulation cut off.
10:09She's been causing a lot of tension in the house and just making little jabs off camera.
10:14And I think she thinks she kind of has upper hand.
10:18Oh, no!
10:19That's great!
10:20So I need a little bit of one-on-one time with Jay just to get some reassurance.
10:25That was fun.
10:26Let's never do that again.
10:30In Arkansas, Farmer Colton is the first to reveal today's big announcement.
10:36You just have to get rid of everything in your hand.
10:38Three fours.
10:39They're all there.
10:40No.
10:41I said two fours.
10:42Ah!
10:43Yay!
10:45Okay, so I do have a surprise for y'all.
10:50We are gonna go to a country dance.
10:52Ah!
10:53Yay!
10:55Going to Tennessee.
10:56We're going to Tennessee!
10:57Yeah, you're the only 10 I see.
10:59Ah!
11:01I can't wait to get our little dancey dance on.
11:04Y'all need to throw up y'all boots and get ready to hit the dance floor, so...
11:07Woo!
11:08We're gonna go meet up with all the other farmers and all the other girls.
11:12Nice!
11:13That I cannot wait to do.
11:14Yes!
11:15I'm so excited!
11:16Let's get out there and let's have some fun.
11:19Ah!
11:20Ah!
11:21Oh, my God!
11:22Oh, my God!
11:23Damn!
11:24Oh, my God!
11:26This is, like, not my job.
11:28Let's do it.
11:29Oh, can I do something?
11:31Yeah, we'll get in the car.
11:32We'll look.
11:34I think I'm feeling good about me and John.
11:36We're going to Nashville!
11:39But I definitely think that John and Samantha have a great bond.
11:44I see sparks flying here and there.
11:47Do you need a minute?
11:48I'll pick it up for you since you can't carry it.
11:49No.
11:50Buzz off.
11:51I'll pick it up since you can't do it.
11:52No, stop it.
11:53I just think he hasn't really had any opportunities to really see me.
11:57I want John to spin me around that dance floor.
12:01We're going to Nashville!
12:02Yeah!
12:04Coming up...
12:05We're gonna have a barn dance.
12:07Romance hits a high.
12:09I think I'm gonna steal a kiss.
12:11Oh, God.
12:12But confrontations...
12:13The story don't make sense.
12:14It never did.
12:15...trigger drama.
12:16If you guys want to talk, just come to me.
12:19I definitely am someone who has a mind of their own.
12:21You basically called me a hoe.
12:23And it's all too much for one lady.
12:25I cannot do this.
12:36On the road to romance, Tennessee is the destination
12:40for our farmers and ladies' first big event, a barn dance.
12:45But first, our farmers have a chance to catch up.
12:48Good.
12:49How we doing, fellas?
12:50Good.
12:51How you doing, fellas?
12:52Good.
12:53Finally get to see the guys.
12:54Good to see you guys.
12:55Good to see you guys.
12:56I hope everything is going good on the farm, but you can never tell.
12:59Good.
13:00The ladies are also getting together to share their stories.
13:02She's excited.
13:03Me!
13:04Hi!
13:05Hi, guys!
13:07And I've brought along a very special Cupid in Arms
13:11to help steer the farmers in the right direction.
13:14My husband, Brad Paisley.
13:16Hey, guys!
13:17Hey, farmers!
13:18Hey!
13:19Hey!
13:20I'm Brad.
13:21What's happening?
13:22It's a pleasure.
13:23I've been listening to your music, the whole way up here.
13:24Oh, wow, really?
13:25Nice to meet you.
13:26Great to meet you.
13:27Yeah.
13:28So Brad and I have been married 20, do you know how long?
13:32No.
13:3421 years.
13:35And I'm from New York, and he's from the country.
13:37So we just thought that you can give him some advice.
13:41This is essentially what we did.
13:43I'm going to leave you with these guys.
13:44OK.
13:45And I'm going to go talk to the ladies.
13:47Bye.
13:47Love you.
13:48I love you.
13:48See you later.
13:51While Brad settles in with the farmers,
13:55I can't wait to find out what's happening with the ladies.
13:58So good to see you all.
14:00Everyone looks fantastic.
14:02You're all still here.
14:03That's a good sign.
14:05Good, good.
14:06How was it to see everyone again?
14:08It was so good, yeah.
14:10Fun to mingle to talk about our farmers.
14:12Yay!
14:15Are the girls in this from the city, from the country?
14:19Most of our gals live in bigger cities.
14:21I don't think any of my girls have been to Alabama.
14:24So it's definitely going to be different.
14:27I think it's a better match sometimes when vicariously
14:31you'll get to fall in love with the country again
14:33through them.
14:34Yeah.
14:35So when did you realize, like, she was one for you?
14:38When I saw Father the Bride in 1991.
14:41That was it, huh?
14:43So how many have come and gone already?
14:45I sent one home.
14:47I sent one home.
14:48I sent one home.
14:49I haven't sent anyone home yet.
14:51You haven't, really?
14:51No.
14:52Five?
14:53Five.
14:54You can't just pick five.
14:55Yeah, I know.
14:56These aren't baseball cards.
14:57No, no.
14:59Whoever it is that you start to find yourself
15:02really nervous around is probably the one.
15:06Yeah, that's a good way to look at it.
15:07Yeah, definitely.
15:08Oh, yeah.
15:09Well, good luck with all of it, guys.
15:10And you, you have a problem.
15:11But I do have a problem.
15:13Right.
15:14All right, guys.
15:15Right.
15:15It was a pleasure.
15:16Good luck.
15:16Thank you for the advice.
15:17Well, I mean, no pressure.
15:19This is only your life.
15:20That was awesome.
15:23Pretty sweet.
15:24That was actually good to hear, because I was definitely
15:26nervous.
15:27I went for the kiss of Grace.
15:28Yeah.
15:29I took her to one of my football games.
15:31It was really good.
15:32I really started to like her for real.
15:34Our date was really good.
15:35Was there any kisses yet?
15:37Girl, who's in you?
15:39I'm out, man.
15:41Is there any drama?
15:42Oh, thankfully, no real drama.
15:44So I ain't going to start a party if it ain't, you know?
15:48How are?
15:49My roommate went home.
15:50So like, the three girls are in the other room,
15:51so I'm by myself.
15:52So I've like, been feeling left out.
15:54I know that happened to me, but Kaylee came with me.
15:57That's what I'm saying.
15:58That's why I'm saying I feel left out.
15:59Like, I feel like, did y'all not like me?
16:02I feel a little bit isolated from the girls.
16:04All right, what's up?
16:06I'm really feeling like there's tension between us.
16:08It's a little uncomfortable.
16:11It's not really a fun place to live right now.
16:14No, it's not.
16:15Yeah.
16:16Tiana is just like, flaunting around the house.
16:18While we're all acting, like I'm an actress, we're acting.
16:20I'm like, Kay, but I'm being me.
16:21And then like, you're just putting on some show.
16:24I want to build this relationship with Jay,
16:26but I can't in the back of my head.
16:28Because like, I literally shut down
16:30when she's just going on and on.
16:32Grace, I know, feels the same way.
16:34I just don't like it, and I don't think
16:35it's like fair.
16:36Just stop.
16:37Like, you're annoying to be around.
16:38Yeah.
16:39Matt, what about you?
16:41Have y'all kissed any of the girls?
16:43Nope.
16:44You haven't kissed any of them?
16:45You haven't kissed no girls yet?
16:45What the crap?
16:46I'm a respectable young man.
16:47You guys have?
16:48I kissed two of them, actually.
16:49Oh.
16:50Two of them, actually.
16:52I kissed Bailey on the speed dates.
16:55And then I kissed her on the first date.
16:57And I got to kiss Keely, and I want to kiss her some more.
17:02Son of a gun.
17:03But I would really like to learn more about Zoe.
17:06Me and her got a lot in common.
17:07It's like, the way we talk and the way we think about things.
17:11How are you feeling about Colin?
17:13I really, really like him.
17:14And I think that him and I just have like,
17:16such a similar personality.
17:17OK.
17:18But we haven't really had that one-on-one time yet.
17:20And I would really like it.
17:21What about you?
17:22You, uh, petting girls?
17:24Kind of special?
17:25Samantha, I've spent the most time with her.
17:27She's not like the other girls in the sense that they're all in on,
17:29you know, trying to win me over, so to speak.
17:33How are we doing?
17:34So good.
17:35We're so good.
17:35You're amazing?
17:36So are sparks flying, or how are we feeling?
17:38Oh, yeah.
17:39Sparks are flying, for sure.
17:41But I'm just such a person that's like,
17:44I need so much time.
17:46Like, I need to know the ins and outs of every single part of you
17:49before I can decide if John and I are compatible,
17:51and if we do have a future.
17:52And like, I haven't had enough time with him to be like,
17:56oh, 100% you are in.
17:58Yeah.
18:00It doesn't have to be 100%.
18:02Right.
18:02Yeah.
18:03But do you feel like you could see the next step?
18:05I could see it.
18:07I for sure could see it.
18:08But he is very much someone that likes to sit in the driver's seat.
18:13Yeah.
18:14But at the same time, I am very much a girl that is also going to be in the driver's seat.
18:18And you have to be honest.
18:19I have to be honest.
18:20But that's kind of what I'm trying to get out of tonight is like, where are you at?
18:24Yeah.
18:25And if I'm not there, we have a big conversation to have.
18:30The stress and the emotional overwhelm is like really starting to get to me.
18:35I'm not at a point where I can definitely say that I want to be with him as of right now.
18:41And I've said from the beginning, if I don't think things are working and I don't think that he's my person,
18:46then I will not hesitate to leave.
18:48I just hope that John and I have a good conversation and it goes well.
18:52I think it's honestly tough.
18:54They see us giving attention to one more than the other.
18:56They're going to get jealous or emotional.
18:58And they're all together and they're talking about stuff.
19:00Exactly.
19:01Exactly.
19:02And, uh...
19:03Oh, boy.
19:04What's the real drama?
19:05That's what I want to know.
19:06You got five ladies still here, man.
19:07Well, that's probably the problem, keeping too many of them, you know?
19:10And, uh, we've had a little bit of drama at the house, so, uh...
19:15Oh, boy.
19:16One of the girls, Halei, left the house, like, early morning.
19:20And, uh, some of the other girls assumed that she was with me.
19:24Oh.
19:25Um...
19:26Was she with you?
19:31She wasn't.
19:32I just went home, went to bed, and then I woke up in the morning to, you know, all this stuff going on.
19:36So I was like, oh, my gosh, this is horrible.
19:38Basically, what happened is I left the house and took my journal and went down and, like, saw the sunrise, and it was beautiful and perfect, and I came back, like, right after the sun rose.
19:52Mm-hmm.
19:53And the girls were under the impression that other things were going on behind the scenes.
19:56Oh.
19:57I don't know what happened, guys.
19:58Like, what was going on?
20:00And I was like, listen, you wasn't playing Uno.
20:03You wasn't playing Twister.
20:05Maybe Naked Twister, but anything else other than that, like...
20:08You know, I think I need to really, like, talk to them tonight and just reiterate, like, hey, like, that's not going on.
20:15Come on, I'm not dumb.
20:17Stop.
20:18Someone's been sneaking out, and things are not really adding up.
20:23We're confused.
20:25We're hurt.
20:26We feel betrayed.
20:27So hopefully we get some honesty today.
20:30Oh, farmers.
20:31Come on over.
20:32Nice to see you again, ma'am.
20:33Good to see you.
20:34Where are the ladies?
20:37Holy smokes.
20:38Hello.
20:39You guys look incredible.
20:40Hi.
20:41How are you?
20:42Super cute.
20:43Looking good.
20:44Looking good.
20:45Looking good.
20:46Welcome, everybody.
20:47Tonight, we're gonna have a barn dance.
20:52And a very special couple is joining us.
20:53From season two, please say hello to Mitchell and Sydney.
20:55Oh!
20:56Oh!
20:57Oh!
20:58Oh!
20:59Oh!
21:00Oh!
21:01Oh!
21:02Oh!
21:03Oh!
21:04Oh!
21:05Oh!
21:06Oh!
21:07Oh!
21:08Oh!
21:09Oh!
21:10Oh!
21:11Oh!
21:12Oh!
21:13Oh!
21:14Oh!
21:15Oh!
21:16Oh!
21:17Oh!
21:18Oh!
21:19Oh!
21:20Oh!
21:21Oh!
21:22Oh!
21:23Oh, my gosh.
21:24Oh, my gosh.
21:25Hi, guys.
21:26What's up, y'all?
21:27Oh, my gosh.
21:28So, Mitchell and Sydney met last year on this show.
21:31I want you to join this life of adventure with me.
21:34Yes!
21:35Yes!
21:40It looks like you're still very much in love.
21:43Mm-hmm.
21:44Yeah, going really strong.
21:45So, is there one piece of advice that you would give everybody?
21:48Tonight?
21:49I would definitely say just go with your heart.
21:51It'll never steer you wrong.
21:52Mm-hmm.
21:53If you feel like you want to talk to somebody and open up about anything, I would definitely
21:59do it.
22:00All right, farmers.
22:02At the end of the night, you're going to select the lady that you would like to take on
22:06your next solo date.
22:08And we all know how important that time alone together can be.
22:12I really like Matt.
22:14But at this point, I really don't know what Matt's intentions are or what his feelings are.
22:19So, I would love to have the next solo date with him.
22:23Right now, I still haven't had, like, elongated one-on-one time with Jay.
22:27But I feel like my intuition is telling me that I am going to get the next solo date.
22:31But, I don't know.
22:33I think it's going to be me.
22:34So, everybody have a great time tonight.
22:37Put on those dancing shoes.
22:39And I'll see you later.
22:40Woo!
22:41Yeah!
22:42Nice!
22:43Let's do it!
22:44It'll be nice to see John in a loose environment so we can see if there is something between
23:03us.
23:04I am 100% in my element right now.
23:09I am a dancer.
23:10And Colton will be able to see my personality come out even more when I'm doing the things
23:14that I love.
23:15Say the Lord what's about a cowboy.
23:20Let's see if we can get some romance going in here tonight.
23:25How are you feeling?
23:26I'm so anxious.
23:27What?
23:28Are you talking about it?
23:29Not right now.
23:30You can talk about it.
23:31I don't want to say anything.
23:32What?
23:33Around the other girls.
23:34John, are you a slow dancer?
23:36Sure.
23:37Are you still there?
23:38Yeah.
23:39Let me show you something.
23:40Okay.
23:41Okay.
23:42Come here.
23:43I definitely am falling for Colton.
23:44I feel like we just have this connection from the start.
23:58It just feels like sparks whenever we're together.
24:03Now is my time to shine and nothing is going to stand in the way.
24:09I'm going for it tonight.
24:10Going for what?
24:11You.
24:12Going for me.
24:13I'm not here to make friends.
24:14If I'm going to be honest.
24:15I'm pulling you aside.
24:16I'm dancing with you.
24:17I think I'm going to steal a kiss.
24:18You don't got to steal one.
24:19You can just make one.
24:20Oh God.
24:21I would prefer not to really see him smacking lips with Bailey.
24:28It's really hard seeing other girls with Colton.
24:29I still want to be able to get to that deeper level.
24:31But if he does have that strong of a connection with Bailey, I don't want to feel like the second
24:35option.
24:36I definitely can see him being my future.
24:37I need to find out where his head's at.
24:38Are you having fun, really?
24:39Having so much fun.
24:40Are you okay?
24:41I am too.
24:42I'm feeling so giddy.
24:43If you can't talk, I don't want to have other girls.
24:45Are you okay?
24:46I'm leaving.
24:47You stay so bitter?
24:48You're okay?
24:49You're okay.
24:50I'm okay, I'm okay.
24:51You're okay.
24:52You're okay.
24:53I'm okay?
24:54You're right?
24:55You're okay.
24:56I'm still okay.
24:57I'm sure you're okay.
24:58You're okay?
24:59I'm okay.
25:00You're up.
25:01You're okay.
25:02You're okay?
25:03I'm good.
25:04You're up.
25:05And I'm so guilty.
25:06John makes me feel confident and beautiful and I can tell he really cares for me anytime I get to
25:13spend with John is really really special have you had one with Matt yet no you haven't have you had
25:28on the John now I came into tonight wondering how it was gonna go not being sure of anything I
25:38definitely am someone who has a mind of their own and I'm never ever ever just gonna chase someone
25:47right now I am needing to talk to him even though he is an amazing guy I just question whether we're
26:07as aligned as I thought and if it will really work
26:17the annual barn dances off with a bang cheers to my four beautiful women
26:30while the fun continues Matt has taken a step back from the dance floor I've been known to
26:44Qatar a few times here and there but uh I can't enjoy being here because the suspicions about
26:51me and play some of the girls are upset about it you know it's been weighing on me a lot we don't need
26:57this hanging over our heads so just rather get in there and talk about it and get it over with and
27:01move on well ladies I think we all need to talk you guys are ready for that this way I want to make
27:13sure that these girls know they can trust me and that we're all on the same page ready to figure this
27:19out honestly I do want to hear Matt out and I hope I can get the answers that I need in order to move on
27:26from this but if I don't sense some type of honesty I don't think I need to be here anymore some stuff
27:33obviously went down that we're all aware of but we can't like continue to move on with this obviously
27:38until everyone like feels good I think we would just really appreciate some honesty especially from
27:44you about what happened I mean nothing happened I don't know what else to tell you guys I could see
27:52why you think that and like why it looked like that but that's also not the case so
27:56like I really do like Kalei like she's been great and I've gotten to know her a little bit
28:02but not any more than you guys yeah and I mean I want to say to you guys like I'm hearing a lot
28:09of things from other girls and it's really hurtful like I know why I'm here and it is to have a
28:15relationship with Matt if you guys want to be friends with me or not I really don't care anymore
28:19like I know my heart I want to be grown adults about it if you guys want to talk you're like
28:26just come to me for real I'm glad we are getting to talk and just like get it out because we've all
28:34kind of been bottling it up inside Rachel you have anything to say the story don't make sense
28:42never did all I can say is just like please stay and let me like prove myself hopefully we can get
28:57back to just focusing on getting to know each other agreed it's been a little challenging it's
29:06interesting to see in a tougher situation how the girls conduct themselves you know I think Rachel
29:11had some trust issues going into this I won't ever trust me and I think we just need a little
29:16more time I don't really buy what he's saying I just feel like I just wanted the truth so I can't
29:22really put this to rest and move forward the barn dance should be a chance for everyone to connect
29:31but so far tonight Tiana has been on the sidelines are you doing you know I don't know if it's just like
29:39the insecurity of me or like whatever but it's like I just really left out like I haven't like
29:44felt that way since like high school yeah so I didn't expect to cry but you asked me just bringing
29:52up the past where like I felt like I was always left out and like I'm a middle child so it's been
29:57hard on me friends girls you have to make that extra effort you have to go the extra extra mile I
30:04know like thing you can do now talk about it and get it get it out in the air yeah why is she crying
30:10honestly it felt a little bit empowering to just talk to one of the girls that's a little bit older
30:16and wiser hi I was wondering if I could pull the ladies really quick I just want to address things
30:22like a woman not let this linger on anywhere past tonight I just wanted to like chat with you all
30:28because I feel left out since Vivian left and like I just feel you know out in the cold and I just
30:34do want to like wonder why that's the case or like yeah just want to like hash it out right now
30:43because I don't want this lingering I don't want this to be the energy in our house at all
30:46I'm not a confrontation person I don't enjoy conflict at all but after my date I had heard
30:54a comment being made that like oh like you wouldn't have wanted the one-on-one anyways because they
31:02don't make it to finals and that was really frustrating for me because that sounds like you
31:05think it's a game show and not like you're winning a husband at the end of this like it's not a game
31:11um and coming from like a super high high of the day and then hearing that made me not want to be
31:17friends with you if I'm being completely honest we're here for Jay and I feel like I can't talk
31:22to you about that at all I think Tiana is very calculated and I think that everything she does
31:28is with intention for me like just like little digs you've made like when we were listening to sexy
31:33red and like I Vivian are looking for the hose and then you told me to look in the mirror
31:37like that's not nice is anything gonna change between you and Tiana no nothing's gonna change
31:42between Tiana and I like I feel how I feel and I don't feel like I need to sit there and have a
31:47conversation with her like I mean it's like you basically called me a hoe I'm just like over it
31:53I'm hearing from like other girls that like you're saying that we're kind of like a click
32:05yeah I'm gonna be honest I did say that right that's wrong I'm sorry about that I think that
32:12was like an insecurity thing I just feel this energy you know what I mean it is hard just because I feel
32:20like personalities are a lot and sometimes I feel like I'm more quiet and I feel like even when we're
32:24all at group dinners you're more outgoing and you talk more and like we end up going quiet or not
32:30talking as much because you just like kind of I'm not trying to be a bitch but you like ramble and you
32:35like go on and then we're kind of just like sitting there quiet I'm not gonna like compete to get a word
32:40in I feel like you talk a lot I feel like Karina talks a lot and maybe like you guys don't feel that way
32:44about yourselves but I'm sorry if you guys got like the wrong I guess impression of my personality
32:49but you did call me a hoe
32:51yeah I'm sorry like 100% I'm gonna take accountability for that I think maybe I thought
32:59I was close to you enough to joke around with you like that I feel like I don't want to be like that
33:03towards any of you guys like I genuinely don't
33:06I think I'm like over this conversation right now no 100% I think we're just dragging it
33:14I don't feel like this is a game show so that was very weird to me
33:22um it definitely made me emotional um
33:29yeah am I allowed to go for a walk where do you want to go walk where do you want to go
33:36I don't know we can walk we can walk
33:38I cannot do this I know I know
33:43Jay doesn't freaking know because she's gonna go off crying to him like
33:48she's gonna sit there and like call me out personally like I'm a mean girl
33:53this is like a freaking lot
33:58it made me kind of want reassurance from Jay a little bit
34:06I think you guys talking about it is what he needed
34:09yeah
34:09so yeah
34:12I need to talk to Jay
34:15for bonds to strengthen the ladies need alone time with their farmers
34:24and Samantha has not yet had a chance to talk with John
34:28you guys kiss at all
34:29no we didn't kiss I didn't kiss
34:30oh
34:31he tried to kiss me I didn't kiss
34:32oh my gosh you need to
34:33you need to
34:34I'm just still very much like navigating it
34:39needing to be sure of yourself and your feelings
34:44everything is just getting to be a lot
34:48I think the pressure
34:51the pressure and the stress
34:54it's like really starting to get to me
34:56and hopefully I get to talk to him a little bit
34:59and get a clearer head on where I think this is going
35:03like I feel so calm and sure about it
35:09and I don't
35:10how you doing
35:15I'm good
35:16better
35:16it was a tough few days
35:18here all
35:19yeah I can't get through this
35:20look at her
35:21dancing with Matt
35:22I want to dance
35:25you said that to Matt
35:26he hasn't asked me yet
35:28so I love the shirt
35:29I did too
35:30it's like giving me 90s dad
35:31it is that's what I was going for
35:32like literally my dad would wear that
35:33and he's the coolest guy in the house
35:34yeah okay
35:34feel better about that
35:35seeing Matt dance with Halay
35:38it's like with this happening
35:40everyone is pretty much at a disadvantage
35:42I just don't think it's fair
35:44I don't believe Matt
35:47I feel like
35:48something happened between Matt and Halay
35:52obviously like in order for a relationship to flourish you need trust
35:59and right now I don't really buy what he's saying
36:03can I pull you for a chat
36:06sure let's go
36:07see y'all in a bit
36:08I honestly want to take Matt to the side and let him know how it feel
36:13because I feel like once we have a gut feeling
36:15there's like nothing to go against that
36:17do you have any fun tonight?
36:19yeah I had a blast with my friends
36:21yeah that's good
36:23yeah
36:23this is a hard conversation
36:28yeah
36:28so basically
36:30I want to pull you to chat
36:33because obviously like everything that happened
36:34um
36:36has caused me
36:38like doubt
36:39you know what I'm saying
36:40yeah
36:41I just don't like it
36:42and it doesn't give me like a good feeling
36:44staying here to try with someone that
36:47that I truly believe
36:50was with somebody else
36:52you know sneaking out and stuff
36:55so I don't see myself staying on the farm anymore
36:58I'm probably going to be leaving home tonight
37:04sorry
37:04yeah
37:05like I understand
37:11like the way things look and all that
37:13but uh
37:14you know not the case
37:15like in the past if I had like a girlfriend
37:17it's like
37:18when there's a problems
37:19and you can talk to like one girl
37:20it's like already really hard
37:21and then you add like four more onto that
37:23and I'm just like
37:24I don't really know how to handle this
37:25um
37:26I don't want anyone to feel like
37:28you know there's things going on
37:30that are not so
37:31yeah
37:31it's no hard feelings
37:36didn't expect Rachel to want to leave
37:44uh really
37:46hurts me in a way
37:47obviously there's some trust issues
37:50she couldn't really get past
37:51where'd you go
37:54talking to Matt
37:55okay
37:56I told him that
37:57I'm gonna leave the farm
37:59go let me cry
38:01Rachel
38:02what are we gonna do without our New York queen
38:07I'm trying not to cry right now
38:09but I love you
38:10I'm gonna leave the farm
38:13because
38:14I don't believe him
38:15I don't think that
38:17the person that I'm meant to be with
38:18is going to
38:20shatter their trust with me
38:21so early on
38:22sad to see her go for sure
38:25but really at the end of the day
38:28I'm looking for one girl
38:29and uh
38:30these girls are looking for me
38:31we love you
38:32I want to make sure that
38:34these girls know
38:35they can trust me
38:36because
38:37whoever I end up with here
38:39could potentially be my wife
38:40there's plenty of two-stepping in Tennessee
38:57and with the farmers choosing their next solo dates tonight
39:01the ladies are ready to put their hearts on the line
39:04it's getting cold
39:06but once I'm starting to dance
39:07yeah
39:08I'm gonna pop it
39:10pop it
39:11pop it
39:11drop it
39:12with Tiana making drama
39:14I think that it made me
39:16concerned about
39:17what Jay might think about me
39:19we have to call you today
39:20yeah
39:21okay
39:21Jay is really good at listening
39:24and
39:25he can also tell when something is making me upset
39:28alright
39:29this is cute
39:30yeah this is
39:30I don't know how we gonna get up here
39:33you wanna
39:33you want me to put you up there first
39:35no
39:35did you know
39:38the day the earth stood still
39:43is when I found you
39:46so how has everything been for you
39:49nothing like stress you out
39:51getting to you
39:52um
39:53a little
39:54what's going on
39:55um
39:56right after our date
39:58it was really good
40:00and I was coming off of like a really high high
40:02and then I had heard
40:03that one of the girls was like
40:05oh it doesn't matter
40:06like
40:07the first date
40:08like who cares
40:09it doesn't mean anything
40:10she's not gonna make it
40:11to the end or whatever
40:13and
40:15yeah
40:15so that was upsetting to me
40:17but
40:17who said that?
40:21Tiana
40:21I don't know
40:25I don't know why she would say something like that
40:27you don't hear from my mouth then
40:29you know
40:29don't let it get to you
40:30I don't really
40:31want somebody trying to come in here
40:34and
40:34dictate how I feel
40:36that comment
40:38freaked me out a little bit
40:40that date was really special
40:42so I don't want you to get that in your head
40:44that
40:44it don't matter
40:45of course
40:46I'm gonna be talking to four other girls
40:48or dating for other girls
40:49but like
40:50why
40:51can't that girl be you at the end
40:52so I don't want you to like
40:54have that mindset
40:54like
40:55cause I see this side of Grace
40:57where she's bubbly
40:58laughing
40:58smiling
40:59and other times
40:59I just see her quiet
41:01all to herself
41:01I'm like damn
41:02is she finna go home or something
41:03like
41:04no
41:04I'm scared
41:05no
41:06I don't want to go home
41:07nah
41:07nah
41:08I don't want you to go home
41:09I believe in magic
41:14magic
41:15are you
41:22good to go
41:24yeah
41:24let's do it then
41:26alright
41:27let's tear this dance floor up
41:29Jay made me feel a lot better about the situation
41:32with Tiana
41:33oh
41:34okay
41:35he was really reassuring
41:37I'm ready to move on
41:40and just focus on
41:41me and Jay
41:41as the night unfolds
41:48you're way better at this than me
41:50some connections are being strengthened
41:52I only have like two moves
41:54but others
41:55are faltering
41:57are you okay?
42:00thank God
42:01I just think that tonight
42:09my change of heart
42:12like
42:13I love so
42:15so so so many things about him
42:17and like where I'm at right now
42:20okay
42:21I just
42:22God
42:24it makes me so sad to say
42:25I just don't think I'm at the same point that he's at
42:28yeah
42:28I'm so insanely anxious
42:30because I don't want to hurt him
42:32okay
42:33my biggest fear in this
42:34is you regretting this decision
42:36like who knows
42:37if you stuck it out
42:39the relationship
42:39that you guys can create
42:40in a very slow manner
42:42after all of this
42:43you are stronger than you
42:46I got five more years on you baby girl
42:47and I am not
42:48a couple more heartbreaks
42:49and I think whatever is meant to be
42:51is going to be regardless
42:52yep
42:53the conversations
42:54are
42:55making me realize
42:57a lot of things
42:57I
42:59feel so strong
43:00in John and I's connection
43:02I would love to continue our relationship
43:04but
43:05I came into this saying
43:06if he did not meet my needs
43:09and he was not what I needed
43:10I would have no hesitation leaving
43:12and it's been a lot harder
43:16than I thought it was going to be
43:17because we hit it off instantly
43:18I need to talk to John
43:21because I don't know
43:22if this is the right decision
43:24for me to make
43:24and
43:25I don't have a lot of peace right now
43:28next time
43:30revelations rock the barn dance
43:33she's crying
43:35I did not see that coming at all
43:39passions ignite
43:40make me want to kiss you
43:41I'm a terrible customer here
43:43so
43:43oh you are
43:44do you want to try
43:45now this is a significant moment
43:48and the farmers
43:49make tough decisions
43:51there's a little more clarity now
43:53yes there is
43:54who will you be inviting
43:56on your next solo date
43:57I would 100,000%
43:59love to get this solo date
44:01I will be doing what I need to do
44:03to get my time with Jay
44:05so uh
44:06there's no way
44:10when you know
44:11let me know
44:12I don't know
44:13what a good time with bar
44:14but the hell of me
44:15so
44:16yeah
44:17yeah
44:19I'd like to make sure
44:21the bugs were
44:22as a cause
44:23I don't have to
44:24some of them
44:25if these are
44:27I don't want to
44:28the bugs
44:30or stuff
44:31or
44:34I just don't care
44:35I'm afraid