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00:00Five, six, seven, eight.
00:02Yes.
00:03OK.
00:04Good things coming closer.
00:07We are in love with each other.
00:09And we cannot wait to get married.
00:12Welcome to our wedding venue.
00:14Ooh.
00:15No, it's like really real.
00:16Not just talk the topic, walk the walk, or roll the roll.
00:22I love that you invited me.
00:24Wedding dress shopping.
00:25Wow.
00:26Feels almost like a dream.
00:28Oh, wow.
00:29Wow.
00:30I just wish my family was here.
00:32Speaking of wedding, do we even know if Paola's parents are showing up?
00:35No.
00:36They are a very confusing relationship.
00:40So we try to support her as much as we can without knowing a thing.
00:44Our parents don't want to accept a wedding.
00:46Do you know why?
00:48It's their belief in God.
00:49To me personally, God created Jay for me.
00:53I think they'll come around.
00:55I still hope they come to the wedding.
00:58What's up, mana?
00:59Hi, Paola.
01:00Hi, Paola.
01:01My brother is finally here in Georgia.
01:03Are you excited about the wedding?
01:04That's a lot.
01:05Confrontation is pretty hard for me when it comes to family.
01:11So, do you think our parents are coming to the wedding?
01:16Um...
01:17It's exciting that, you know, you came.
01:28But like, do you think our parents are coming to the wedding?
01:34I probably know what the answer is.
01:39I just want, like, a straight answer.
01:42Because I can't keep on wondering if they're going to come or not.
01:52No.
01:53It's just, it's just, you know.
01:56Okay.
01:57I've talked to them about it and it's just this one thing that they can't be accepting of.
02:04Yeah, it's one thing.
02:05Jay being transgender.
02:06Yeah.
02:07Our parents found out that Jay was trans not too long ago.
02:14We were raised really conservative and religious.
02:18And I was raised that way.
02:20But at the same time, she's my sister.
02:22And so, I'm able to accept her decisions.
02:25Especially when Jay makes her happy.
02:28And I can see that they're in love.
02:31At the end of the day, we're here and it's exciting.
02:34And you guys are coming together.
02:36The family's still coming together.
02:37It might take a little while, you know.
02:39Things might be a little different, but...
02:42I'm just happy to be here for you, Mana.
02:44That's, that's really special.
02:46It makes me sad that my parents decided not to come to the wedding.
02:51And it's wild.
02:53Because growing up, my parents were very big on marriage.
02:59But at the same time, Jay and his family have told me a lot about like,
03:05you make time for the things that matter.
03:08But at this point, now that I know what's going on, I'm ready to just keep on going and celebrate my next chapter.
03:19So, I wanted to ask you, because you're my brother, and I want to make things, you know, extra special.
03:26I wanted to ask you if you would like to go down the aisle with me.
03:30Yeah, of course.
03:31Yeah, I think that would be really cool.
03:33Yeah, I'd be honored to.
03:35I cannot express how much it means to me for my brother to take me down the aisle.
03:42He reminds me that family and love is way more important than tradition.
03:48I don't know about you, but this is my first time getting married.
03:50Hopefully it's the last.
03:52I'm not doing this shit again.
03:54This is way too much.
03:57Let's go!
04:15It's wedding week, baby!
04:20The wedding's tomorrow!
04:23We're heading to the hotel, close to the venue, to get this party started!
04:32Hello!
04:33Looking to check in, Jay and Pamela.
04:36For your first time staying married?
04:37Yes, it is.
04:38We've been talking about moving out ever since we got engaged.
04:42And I know we wanted to have our own place already ready to go after our wedding.
04:48However, we haven't had a chance to move in our stuff yet, but we at least have the keys.
04:55And you know what?
04:56What?
04:57I also have the key of your heart.
04:59When I tell you the biggest cornball...
05:05Oh, you stuck with me!
05:07I know.
05:08Oh, look at that!
05:09Look!
05:10At that sign!
05:11Look what it says!
05:12Whoa!
05:13Oh my gosh!
05:14Y'all pulling out all the stops around here!
05:17That is amazing!
05:18I love it!
05:19Look at this!
05:20Oh my gosh, when I saw our name on the hotel, I felt so cool!
05:26Get next to me!
05:27A lot of people talk about weddings, play with the odd dudes and the outfits.
05:34I love it!
05:37However, sometimes it's those little moments, no pun intended, that really bring it all together.
05:43Like seeing your name in lights on the sun.
05:48Pamela, come on!
05:49Oh, is it this one?
05:50Yes, go, go!
05:51I thought, sorry.
05:52Unfortunately, Cheddar is not going to the hotel with us.
05:56Thanks to my bestie Fern, she's going to get a makeover for the wedding.
06:01This is nice!
06:03Wow!
06:04Look at this!
06:06We're going to have some magic outfits in!
06:09Get that transparent?
06:10I'm going to...
06:11Yuck!
06:12The room is amazing.
06:13However, we don't have a lot of time to soak this all in because tomorrow isn't just another day for us.
06:22It's the big wedding day!
06:23It's the big wedding day!
06:25Oh!
06:26Yes!
06:27It's the big wedding day!
06:28It's the big wedding day!
06:29It's the big wedding day!
06:30We're all ages!
06:31It's the big wedding day!
06:32So, you know I had to see the little wedding day!
06:33He even did something like that!
06:34Oh, that!
06:35Oh!
06:36I had to see the wedding day!
06:37It's the big wedding day!
06:39Yeah!
06:40To the most of the drive down the coast
06:42I don't care just whisper what you need me in your arms
06:45Swim and take it slow, go, go, go
06:48I don't care just whisper what you need me in your arms
06:52This is so fun.
06:53I feel like a little girl inside.
06:55Like playing dress up and makeup.
06:57It's like the day that you dream of, right?
06:58Yeah.
06:59I know.
07:00I never imagined that I would be getting married.
07:04My parents were literally told by doctors
07:07that I wouldn't live past my one-year birthday.
07:12Now here I am, 31 years old
07:15and marrying the man of my dreams.
07:20Right now, Pamela is getting ready
07:23in the bridal suite with the ladies
07:25and she has been here since 6 a.m.
07:29I'm in the lobby waiting for my boys to arrive.
07:32Honestly, it's a surreal feeling
07:38to know that Jay and Pamela are getting married
07:41realizing like, man, my kid is grown, grown
07:45to be thinking about just how worth it
07:50it was to go through everything that we went through
07:54every struggle, everything that we had to fight for
07:58and tell Jay, these days are going to be tough.
08:01You're still going to make it through.
08:04But to see the wedding and say, man, we're here.
08:08It's exciting.
08:10You good?
08:11Yeah, I'm excited.
08:12That's good.
08:13That's good.
08:13Good.
08:13Big day.
08:14Yeah.
08:14Going to do great.
08:15Jay has never spoken of anyone the way
08:19he speaks about his relationship with Pamela.
08:22Happy for you.
08:23Be proud of you.
08:24Hey.
08:25Love you.
08:31Hello.
08:32Tracy.
08:33You're looking so beautiful.
08:35Hi.
08:36Brought you a gift to you for your wedding day.
08:38I'm so excited that my middle school teacher,
08:42Miss Tracy, is able to come down from Missouri
08:46to be a bridesmaid.
08:48Your nails are purple.
08:50I tried to match because I knew your favorite color was purple.
08:53I love it.
08:53You got the sparkles.
08:54Yes, of course.
08:55Have to do the sparkles.
08:56Yes, thank you.
08:57Bring the bling, right?
08:58Yes.
08:59Miss Tracy encouraged me to do anything in the world.
09:03Like, when I wanted to join band, she never once said,
09:08oh, you shouldn't play the drums because you can break
09:10your arm because of your OI.
09:12She was like, go for it.
09:14I needed that a lot as a kid because I wasn't getting it
09:17from other places.
09:19Drum roll, please.
09:21So I don't know if you remember this.
09:22This is kind of a blast from the past.
09:26Oh, Miss Tracy, I just got my makeup done.
09:29Don't make me cry.
09:30I know.
09:30I'm sorry.
09:31I'm sorry.
09:31I'm sorry.
09:32No, it's OK.
09:33I was like, this is like my favorite day at school.
09:37Miss Tracy, that was me in middle school.
09:39I know.
09:40That is the sweetest.
09:42That is how I remember you.
09:44When I was in middle school, I was interviewed,
09:48educating people about like osteogenesis perfecta
09:51and stuff like that, and she said, that's the original copy.
09:54That's amazing.
09:55Yeah.
09:56Thank you so much.
09:57Wow, you're welcome.
09:58I don't want to mess up your makeup, but.
10:00No, thank you.
10:01Oh, this is.
10:03Wow.
10:04Sorry.
10:05Oh.
10:05Wow.
10:11The boys are rolling in, and it's about to get lit.
10:14Drake, the suit is ready for you.
10:17Are you ready for the suits?
10:18Yes, I'm ready.
10:19Let's go.
10:20Suit, suit, suit, go.
10:21Suit, suit, suit, suit, suit, suit.
10:22Before I met Pamela, I just thought I would go to weddings
10:25and celebrate other people's love,
10:27and I didn't think I would get it for myself.
10:29This is why I want to make sure that today is the best day
10:34that it possibly can be, which includes me looking good.
10:38All right?
10:39I got to look dapper.
10:41Look at this color, though.
10:42Are we ready?
10:43Look at it.
10:44Nice.
10:44Styling and profiling.
10:46Listen, come on, dog.
10:48Hey, don't forget your accoutrements.
10:50Da, da, da, da, da.
10:51Boom, baby.
10:52Look at the hood.
10:53Come on.
10:54I can walk in here.
10:54Tell me I couldn't.
10:55Got that.
10:55Got that plush.
10:56Got that plush, plush.
10:57Say I couldn't walk in here.
10:58Looking sharp, sir.
10:59I got you.
10:59Sharp.
11:00Drake, where is your bow tie?
11:04Oh, yeah.
11:05Where is my bow tie?
11:06Uh-oh.
11:07We can't have a wardrobe failure.
11:08All right.
11:11OK.
11:14I am not seeing a bow tie.
11:17I'm getting dressed right now, and my bow tie is not here.
11:21Where?
11:23I don't know.
11:24Oh.
11:26No, mine is velvet.
11:27That and that's someone else's.
11:28Y'all want to try going with this, or?
11:30That's not my bow tie.
11:31No, mine is velvet.
11:32His bow tie is actually fitted for him.
11:35I got to find it.
11:36I got to find it.
11:37It's going to be somewhere.
11:41I got to find it.
11:43Are you ready?
11:44Yes.
11:44Underlay.
11:47I just got told that Jay is on his way to see me for the first
11:50time.
11:52My heart is racing, and I already have butterflies.
12:00When I went back to the bridal room to change into my Mexican
12:06outfit, I had a missed call from my dad.
12:11I am not seeing a bow tie.
12:27Where?
12:29That's not my bow tie.
12:30No, mine is velvet.
12:32I have to have this bow tie.
12:34Well, it's looking like we got to figure out something.
12:36Me and my bow tie is like Thor without his hammer.
12:41Spiderman without his wig.
12:42Like, where could I have put it?
12:45Oh, boom.
12:46We're good, people.
12:47Oh, it's looking good.
12:48Yes.
12:49There we go.
12:49The missing link.
12:50This is the missing link.
12:51Pop's coming in clutch here.
12:53Man.
12:54Thank goodness I found my bow tie.
12:56Because, man, it would have been a different kind of day.
13:00Man, that thing pops.
13:01Is it not cool or what?
13:03Great color on you.
13:04Good.
13:05Oh, man.
13:06All right.
13:06We think we can get it, buddy.
13:07Looking great, man.
13:08Looking great.
13:10Well, well, well.
13:12Oh, there you go.
13:14Let's go.
13:16I definitely had to have Savannah come out and cut my hair
13:18the day old because I wanted it as fresh as possible.
13:22Well, man, if I knew you was going to get your lineup,
13:24we did that before we got you in a suit.
13:27I mean, I know Savannah is like, I know she's a master,
13:32but you don't want that itch during the wedding.
13:34Yeah, no, we're going to get it.
13:35We're dealing with professionalism.
13:36We're dealing with professionalism.
13:37This is why you do what I do.
13:38I do.
13:39I tell you, I do.
13:40I promise.
13:41I promise I do.
13:42It's going to be all right, Pop.
13:43It's going to be all right.
13:44Who's the more nervous one here?
13:45I think I found him.
13:46Oh, no.
13:47I got 30 years in.
13:48I've already seen this, done this.
13:50This is your time.
13:51I try to lighten the mood with him a little bit.
13:54Hey, it's going to be all right.
13:55This is the easy part.
13:56You get through the show.
13:57You say your lines.
13:58You know, there's cake.
14:01Don't worry about this day.
14:02Worry about the days that follow.
14:04Those are the days you got to really pay attention to.
14:06I guess we'll be getting ready.
14:08Yes.
14:08Go team.
14:09Good plan.
14:09I don't know what we're doing here.
14:10Yes, good plan.
14:12Yes, hey, there we go.
14:16Share something.
14:17Yes.
14:19Being in the bridal suite, getting glammed up,
14:22getting our hair done, makeup done,
14:24makes me feel like I am in a slumber party.
14:28It was so fun because I never had, like,
14:30a girl sleepover before.
14:32Hello.
14:33Hello.
14:33Hello.
14:34So I brought you a little something that I've had for a while.
14:39Oh.
14:41Oh.
14:42Just something a little, a little memento of the day.
14:46Thank you so much.
14:48I know ordinarily it would be your, you know, your mom would be here doing this.
14:55But I know that she's not here.
14:57And so I did want to make sure that I gave you something just to signify the day and to
15:02have something that was being given to you.
15:05I gave Pamela a wedding bell just so she could cherish something from her wedding.
15:12You know, you always have us for support.
15:14For life.
15:15You and Jay.
15:16We're locked in.
15:17Just hoping that you really take in the day and enjoy it.
15:20Thank you so much.
15:22You're welcome.
15:23You're welcome.
15:24I'm sure there's a part of her that misses not having her parents at her wedding.
15:28Oh, cheers.
15:29Cheers.
15:30Cheers.
15:31Oh, gotcha.
15:32I can relate from the sense of your parents not being present at your wedding.
15:40We got married at the Justice of the Peace.
15:43The judge, I think he had an assistant there.
15:47Yeah, it was the judge, assistant, and your mom?
15:49Your mom?
15:50Yeah.
15:51Nobody else showed up?
15:55Raphael was in the Navy.
15:58And my parents had a perception that I would marry somebody that was going to college as
16:06well.
16:07And that is not what their daughter did.
16:10Pamela is important to Jay, so we will absolutely be there for the two of them.
16:16But if she hurts my son, all bets are off.
16:28Love you so much.
16:30So sweet.
16:32And Pamela, whenever you need something, you can just ring the bell, Jay.
16:36Mm-hmm.
16:38You know what's wild?
16:39I remember when we got my first suit together.
16:42Yes, I remember that as well.
16:46Being in this moment, I just have much more of an appreciation for my parents.
16:50I am realizing that, like, they're always going to be there for me.
16:59I'm seeing the opposite of what that looks like because of Pamela's lack of parental involvement.
17:07I feel like I just see it differently now than I did before.
17:13I see that when Pablo is here, nobody else is showing up.
17:19Yeah.
17:20Well, it's just him.
17:22It's just him that's coming.
17:24Okay.
17:25That's unfortunate.
17:26Unfortunate.
17:27I was hoping that there would be, you know, like maybe a surprise visit.
17:30No.
17:31Once I saw him, I realized that, I guess, surprise gone.
17:35No, I mean, I can't change me, you know.
17:37No, no way.
17:38Yeah, look.
17:39That's theirs.
17:40That's not you.
17:41It is very sad that Pamela's parents decided not to come because it's a very special day
17:47for both Jay and Pamela.
17:50Yet, their decision not to come is on them.
17:53And at the end of the day, the most important people are here and that's all that matters.
17:58I'm excited.
17:59Everyone's looking good.
18:00I'm looking good.
18:01Yeah.
18:02Looking even better now.
18:03Yeah.
18:04Yeah, we're all here and I'm glad for everyone that's here.
18:07Yeah.
18:08One thing I learned from my dad very early on is he always told me, like, don't chase
18:12people.
18:13I have plenty of people in my life that support and love me and, you know, if they come around,
18:19then that's okay.
18:20And if they don't, then, you know, that's on them too.
18:23But I don't have any ill will towards them.
18:25They're just, it's just what it is.
18:28Looking real sharp, sir.
18:29Real sharp.
18:31You ready to make your ride shine?
18:41Yes.
18:43All right.
18:44How are you feeling?
18:45Good.
18:46You're happy?
18:47Yeah.
18:48It's like polishing my shoes, also polishing my tires.
18:49Yeah, girl.
18:50We're going to make your chair look beautiful.
18:52Yeah, thank you.
18:54There's two hours until a ceremony and we're about to do the first look and I'm so nervous.
19:00Yeah, looking great, looking great.
19:05First look, we get to be fully dressed.
19:07That's what makes it cool.
19:08It's like, I'll be in my tux, you be in her dress and we do a reveal.
19:12So, it's pretty cool and a pretty emotional moment.
19:16Let's get it.
19:17Golfing.
19:18Get married.
19:19Group hug.
19:20Group hug.
19:21Group hug.
19:22You're like a family, Pamela.
19:25I love you all.
19:26I love you, Sarah.
19:28You missed out.
19:29Oh, no, you don't miss out.
19:30Oh, come on.
19:31Mark your mama kisses.
19:32Oh.
19:33There you go.
19:34I just got told that Jay is on his way to see me for the first time.
19:39My heart is racing and I already have butterflies and I feel like everything is going in slow
19:46motion.
19:47Like those romantic movies, like the guy is running to his girl like, my queen.
19:56On my way to the bridal suite.
20:01I am nervous because I was like, dang, what if I just start crying and then I can't see
20:06and then I like run into something and then like, oh, no, I just, my mind started going
20:11like a million places, honestly.
20:19I hear his turn.
20:21I was really nervous for him to see me.
20:26I go in the suite and the doors are closed, which really hypes the moment even more.
20:31I'm like, oh, my God.
20:32Holy .
20:33Like, ugh.
20:34You know.
20:35He's ready.
20:38So I am waiting for the first look.
20:39I can already feel that my palms are getting sweaty.
20:43I was really excited and my heart was like racing.
20:50It was like .
20:51It was like .
20:52It was like .
20:53It was like .
20:55.
20:56It was like .
21:00.
21:30It was like .
21:31It was like .
21:33It's okay.
21:34It's okay.
21:36Oh, my God.
21:37You look so handsome.
21:38You look beautiful.
21:39I feel like I'm prepared mentally for this moment.
21:43I wasn't ready like...
21:44I don't want to mess over your dress with my tears.
21:47I'm going to mess over your makeup instead.
21:49It's okay.
21:51You look so awful.
21:54It's okay.
21:57I thought it was going to be more put together.
22:00It's okay.
22:03I love you so much.
22:06The dress is, like, beautiful,
22:09the makeup was on point,
22:11and the hair and everything,
22:13and it was so nice.
22:15Put a lot of thought into it.
22:16Yeah, she just looked at everything,
22:18and I was like, damn, go me.
22:20And I'm glad we're still alive
22:24and that we made it here, you know?
22:26You know, I was always worried about that.
22:28I know.
22:31But I'm glad we're here, you know,
22:33and we're healthy as a disabled person can be.
22:38Yeah, yeah.
22:39So I'm really grateful for that.
22:41It took a lot to get here.
22:42Yeah.
22:43We had a lot of scary moments.
22:44Mm-hmm.
22:45And I just kept thanking God
22:48because when you were in a hospital,
22:50I begged God to not let you leave me.
22:55Mm-hmm.
22:56I was doing good.
22:57See, I wasn't crying anything.
22:58Dang it.
22:59Look at what you did.
23:00Look at him.
23:01Oh, man.
23:02All right, guys.
23:04All right.
23:05Well, I'll see you at the altar.
23:07Yup.
23:08It's going to be, like, such a fun marriage.
23:10Yeah, it's going to be fun.
23:11I love you.
23:12I love you.
23:13All right.
23:14See you in a bit.
23:15See you.
23:16Bye.
23:17Hi.
23:19Okay.
23:20Jeez Louise.
23:24There's no scene, since it was so good.
23:27I did not imagine
23:56we would be here Jay and Pamela are expressing their love live for us all to see now and I'm proud of you you know I think it's beautiful it speaks to just how much they mean to each other wow that's deep oh wow
24:26I go down the aisle I mean it's just wild like to think that doctors said we were gonna make it past like childhood to think that was a prognosis for our future but we made it to this day is really really cool
24:42I got to have a lot of people that I care about show up at the wedding however two people that I would have loved to be there one of my best friends Josh he was gonna be one of my groomsmen but unfortunately his dad is very sick
25:00and then my friend Simon he also had osteogenesis imperfecta like me unfortunately he passed away from heart failure on January 1st 2022 unexpectedly yeah
25:16and um after he died it was really hard for me because I really didn't want to make any new friends with people because I thought like if I get too close to people that they're just gonna leave
25:28gonna leave so I really close myself off to new friendships with people so I really did appreciate the groomsmen that I did have but it was really nice to have him be a part of it and having met my you know wedding and stuff so I was very excited about that
25:47I invite all who are able to please rise as we receive our bride
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27:16Who presents this bride for marriage?
27:26I, her brother.
27:27Dearly beloved, we are gathered here to celebrate the marriage of Palmela and Jay.
27:49You may share your personal vows at this time.
27:54Mother Poshita, before I met you, I thought everyone in the world would find their soulmate except for me.
28:04Dramatic, I know.
28:06And then by some miracle, we cross paths.
28:11It's still amazing to think that out of the billions of people on earth, I have been chosen to be in your life.
28:17Every morning when I wake up, I'm so excited because I know it's another day we will get to spend together.
28:25It's funny that people say through sickness and health when they're getting married like we are right now.
28:31However, we have already been through sickness, so we've got this in the bag.
28:35I am forever grateful for you being placed in my life, and I will never take that for granted.
28:43You've shown me that you can have a chosen family, and I will always choose you.
28:48I will love you in this lifetime and every lifetime after this.
28:53These vows are not just words.
28:55They are the lifelong promises I make to you, the foundation of our love, and the truth I will live by every day.
29:01I love you.
29:02I love you too, baby.
29:04I love you too.
29:14Mi hermoso cariño.
29:16We finally made it to the day we both prayed for.
29:20I wish there were enough words and letters in the alphabet to express how grateful I am for you.
29:28When I met you, I was a hot mess, and I wasn't sure if I'd make it to my 30s.
29:37I felt very alone and nowhere to go because people made me feel like a burden.
29:44You taught me I am not too much.
29:47I promise you will never be a burden, mi amor.
29:54Thank you for holding me when I get scared at night and ordering my favorite snacks.
30:01Thank you for being my light.
30:03Thank you for flushing the toilet when I forget to.
30:06I promise to validate your feelings.
30:12I promise to throw hands, if needed, for you because nobody hurts my man.
30:21There is nothing I am missing in my life as long as you're with me.
30:26We believe this life is temporary.
30:28We believe that I will find you again in heaven.
30:38Pamela, do you promise to cherish him
30:42and to stand by his side through every joy and challenge that life brings?
30:48I do.
30:51And Jay, do you pledge to love her unconditionally and to honor her with every beat of your heart?
31:00I do.
31:03Please place your ring on Pamela's finger.
31:06Pamela, please place your ring on Jay's finger.
31:24By the authority vested in me, I am honored to pronounce you husband and wife.
31:32You may seal your vows with a kiss.
31:36Emmons.
31:52We got Mary.
31:57Look at it.
31:58Look at it.
32:01Look at it.
32:01That's a husband ring.
32:02It feels amazing being husband and wife.
32:09Like, I feel just so happy that I have
32:15my favorite person forever.
32:18I'm like, wow, I really did that .
32:21So that's pretty chill for me.
32:32The ceremony is over.
32:40And it is time for Mr. and Mrs. Manuel to party down.
32:45Time to switch it up.
32:47Mexican style, baby.
32:49Babe, are you ready?
32:52I'm coming, babe.
32:54My parents are coming to the wedding.
32:56It's pretty hurtful.
32:58And I didn't tell Jay until the next morning
33:04that when I went back to the bridal room
33:10to change into my Mexican outfit,
33:14I had a missed call from my dad.
33:24Right after the ceremony.
33:27So in a way, it's like he was there.
33:31And he was thinking of me while I was getting married.
33:36So it's good to know that he didn't forget about me.
33:40He left the voicemail to please call him back
33:44when I get a moment.
33:46I haven't called him yet.
33:48Because I don't think I'm ready.
33:51Because right now I'm too excited and happy
33:55that we just got married.
33:57But I do want to express to him his decision hurting.
34:04But I do need some time.
34:06I see him.
34:07I know.
34:08I got married.
34:09I know.
34:10I'm so excited.
34:11He's happy.
34:13Look at you.
34:15Look at you.
34:16You look beautiful.
34:17I love this dress.
34:19Good.
34:20I love this dress.
34:21Come here.
34:22I love you.
34:23I love your culture.
34:25I love it.
34:28I love your culture, so...
34:30Yeah, thank you for learning.
34:31Yes, I got a lot more to learn.
34:34I think it's time for...
34:35Be ready to.
34:36Yeah, I think the guests need to see us.
34:37Shake your booty.
34:39Let's do it.
34:47Family and friends, for the very first time,
34:51Mr. and Mrs. Manuel!
34:55Thank you!
34:57Thank you!
34:59Thank you!
35:00Thank you!
35:01Yay!
35:02I have seen Marachi bands,
35:03but they weren't dedicated to me.
35:05This is amazing.
35:06Like, whatever has happened with my family,
35:10it was like a soundtrack of everything's gonna be okay.
35:15This is amazing.
35:16Like, whatever has happened with my family,
35:20it was like a soundtrack of everything's gonna be okay.
35:24I counted three, okay?
35:25Okay.
35:26One, two, three.
35:27Oh!
35:28Woo!
35:29Woo!
35:30I counted three, okay?
35:31Okay.
35:32One, two, three.
35:33Woo!
35:34Woo!
35:35Woo!
35:40Woo!
35:41Woo!
36:02We are going to have our first dance as husband and wife and the song that we
36:13picked out is super meaningful for us because the beat was created by my now
36:22husband.
36:32I took some dancing lessons to get ready for this moment.
36:42Now how well they worked for me is to be determined.
36:46It's well to me to see my parents dancing because I've never seen them dance like that
37:00growing up, so it's actually pretty like cool.
37:03AJ, switch with me.
37:06Okay.
37:17The wedding ceremony was impressive.
37:19Look, they're going to have good days.
37:21They're going to have bad days.
37:22They just need to stay in there together.
37:24Would it be wrong to say that they stay strong enough not to have to move back home?
37:29Really, I just hope that they realize that, you know, marriage is, it's working together.
37:39It's not everyone that can find someone that they feel like they can truly share their lives
37:45with.
37:46Some people go their whole life hoping for that.
37:48Hey, Pamela.
37:49Hello, you two.
37:50You have a lot of emotions.
37:51Yeah.
37:52It's bittersweet because I get to be here for you and all.
37:53And then at the same time, you know, it's disappointing because our family's not here.
38:10But I do want to congratulate you, Jay, to the family.
38:13Oh, thank you, man.
38:14You'll always be a brother to me.
38:15Oh, man.
38:16I'm happy to have you.
38:17My sister couldn't have picked a better husband.
38:20Oh.
38:21I'm excited and happy for my sister.
38:24No, you better really.
38:25Hey.
38:26I'm going to be really bothering you now.
38:27I'll take it.
38:28First and foremost, I see Jay as somebody that my sister loves.
38:33Somebody that has been there with her through the ups and downs.
38:36And I see him now as a husband, a strong husband, and a strong man.
38:42I love you, Pamela.
38:43I love you, too.
38:44All right.
38:45I love you, man.
38:46Let's get it.
38:47I love you, too, Jay.
38:48Let's go dance.
38:49My parents, being so old school and traditional, although this might not be something they're
38:52used to seeing, Jay really makes her happy.
38:56And hopefully, when they see that, it helps them come around to being accepting.
39:01Can you imagine if the stars were afraid of the dark?
39:09All you need to start a fire is a spark.
39:15Here we go.
39:16Everything that we just experienced today has just been so amazing.
39:24Like, I just, like.
39:25You just want to scream?
39:26Yeah.
39:27I want to scream of happiness, though.
39:29And what's really great is just seeing everybody here celebrating with us and having our friends
39:37and family who just come to spend this special moment with us.
39:42Like, that's just so exciting to me.
39:48Yeah, like, family is the place who want the best for you.
39:51And even though it has been, like, frustrating that I don't have that with my own parents, I know that, like, okay, no matter what, Jay and I, we love each other because we have each other's back.
40:05And we'll always be there for one another.
40:08Mm-hmm.
40:09I love you.
40:10I love you, Jay.
40:11I thought you were going to cry and I was a little nervous because I was like, oh, I'm going to feel tears now.
40:15You look like you're about to cry.
40:17It's okay, you cry.
40:18I wasn't going to cry.
40:19Aw.
40:36Today is the big day.
40:37We are moving.
40:38And the movers have arrived.
40:40I got Chela back here.
40:42She's on the pro.
40:44Goodbye.
40:46We'll be back.
40:47Yes.
40:48We'll be back around.
40:49All right, that's the crew right there.
40:59Woo!
41:00Tonight is the first night that we are going to be sleeping in our own bed in our own place.
41:09Oh, we got to fill it with a kiss.
41:11All right.
41:12Wait, I'm just curious.
41:13Huh?
41:14Because I felt like I was going to die in the sun.
41:17All right.
41:18Just not yet.
41:19Not on camera.
41:20Okay.