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00:00Well, we're talking about our 7.15 second date update.
00:03They were doing something in the kitchen, and that's why I'm in the kitchen.
00:06But no, we thought this was a great idea that Adam came up with, but wow, Kate sure had a few things to say about it.
00:14Whose side are you on on this one?
00:16They actually went back out, but we're a little surprised.
00:19Are you? Let us know.
00:21Adam this morning, he is a really nice guy.
00:24He sounds like a good dude.
00:25He actually knows his date, Kate, through mutual friends.
00:30And had her over for the first date and said, yeah, let's do a little home-cooked meal.
00:33Things sounded good to us.
00:34He said that she enjoyed the meal.
00:37After the date, she went home.
00:38They kept things casual.
00:40Hasn't heard from her since.
00:41And we actually have her on the phone right now.
00:43We want to bring her back on and see if we can get some answers of why she's not getting back to Adam.
00:47Good morning, Kate. How are you?
00:48Hey, good morning. I'm good.
00:50Okay, so I know a random call this morning.
00:52I appreciate you agreeing to come on with us.
00:55We want to talk to you about this guy, Adam, that you went on a date with.
00:59I guess you actually live pretty close to him.
01:01You guys know each other through mutual friends.
01:03You went over there, and you guys had a little dinner.
01:05He said he thought it would be cool to have a little home-cooked meal.
01:09You guys enjoyed that together, kind of just enjoyed each other's company.
01:13He actually complimented you on what you do for a living.
01:15I guess you're a nurse.
01:16We compliment you on that as well.
01:17And he said she's a very selfless person, and he was just really impressed by you.
01:22But now he can't get a hold of you for another date, and we're just trying to figure out why.
01:25So he did invite me over and said he was going to, like, cook a nice meal or whatever, but that is not what happened.
01:36What do you mean?
01:37Yeah.
01:37He actually ordered, you know, like, one of those things that all the ingredients come, like, portioned out or whatever.
01:43Like, HelloFresh, I think it was.
01:45All right, yeah.
01:46But so he ordered that, which, whatever, make it and have it be ready when I get there.
01:51Like, that is what I was invited for.
01:52And I got there, and he hadn't even started it.
01:54So I ended up cooking my own meal on a first date.
01:59And it was super awkward because, I mean, I had already, like, I stayed, but it's because I was already there, and I couldn't really leave.
02:05You know what I mean?
02:06Okay.
02:07Like, who does that on a first date?
02:08Why would you put me to work?
02:10Was it that he just hadn't started, or was this his plan the whole time, is to have you guys do this together?
02:14I don't know.
02:16Either way, like, that's not how that should have gone down.
02:20Like, why wouldn't you just take me out?
02:22That's the normal thing to do.
02:23Or have the food ready.
02:25I just, he seemed, like, totally clueless about what should be happening on a first date.
02:30So, yeah, I did not call him back.
02:32All right.
02:33Well, a lot to unpack here, but I do want to bring Adam back on to kind of get his take on this.
02:37Adam?
02:38Yeah.
02:39Yeah, I didn't really look at it as, like, putting you to work.
02:43We both just kind of made it and talked and drank wine together.
02:47I mean, I obviously was, like, way off on this whole thing.
02:52So, was this your plan from the get-go for you guys to kind of do this together, or you just forgot to get it started?
02:56Yeah, I thought it would be fun for us to do something together and to have something to focus on besides just, like, staring at each other and trying to come up with conversation, you know?
03:06I thought it would be something good to do.
03:09You don't know anything about me.
03:11I actually hate to cook.
03:12Oh.
03:12Like, I just feel like, why would you invite somebody to dinner and then make them cook their own dinner?
03:19Who does that?
03:20Well, obviously, I shouldn't have.
03:22I will not make you do that anymore.
03:25I'll take you off.
03:25I'll totally take you off if you want to go out.
03:27Aw.
03:28But, Kate, let me ask you a question.
03:30I mean, I don't feel like this, I mean, he sounds like a really nice guy, and I don't think he had any ill intent on this, and it wasn't like, oh, I'm just being lazy, whatever.
03:36And not only that, isn't the food from those meals already cut up and measured out and everything?
03:41I mean, did you really have a lot of work to do?
03:43You still have to cook them.
03:44I think that the biggest thing is just, like, yeah, maybe he's nice, but he just seems clueless.
03:48And I'm like, I'm over that.
03:50I don't need some guy who just doesn't know what he's doing.
03:52I can, like, make up for that.
03:54Like, I can make a mistake and then fix the mistake.
03:57Like, that's got to mean something, right?
04:00Like, you don't like to cook?
04:01I didn't know that.
04:02Like, from here on out, I mean, if you want to go somewhere, you can pick somewhere.
04:06It doesn't matter what it costs.
04:07You pick it, I'll take you.
04:09I don't know.
04:09I just don't have, like, time to waste at this point.
04:12Like, I'm kind of over, like, projects or whatever.
04:16So, it just turned me off.
04:19It was just, like, weird, and I'm, no.
04:21Well, why don't you sit down with me at the nicest restaurant you can find, and we'll go through a list of things you hate.
04:26And then I will make sure that I never get anywhere near them.
04:30Wow, this guy's awesome.
04:32How can you not go out with this room again?
04:34You sure you want to do this, Adam?
04:35I mean, I don't know.
04:37I guess I could give you, like, one more shot.
04:41But, like, can I, like, pick what we do?
04:43Because, like, you're not great at that.
04:45Wow.
04:45Yeah, that's what I offered.
04:47You have at it.
04:49So, Adam, you sure you want to go out with her again?
04:51That's what I said.
04:52I am.
04:53Oh, my God.
04:54It's a match.
04:55Is it?
04:56I guess.
04:56I don't know.
04:57We'll find out.
04:58Well, listen, guys.
04:59I appreciate you coming on with us today.
05:01I'm glad we could make this happen.
05:03We'll put you on hold.
05:04We'll get all your info, and we'll set you guys up, okay?
05:06Awesome, Shane.
05:08All right, hang on.
05:08Would you take out a girl again that said that?
05:12I will pick it out.
05:13We're going to do what I want to do.
05:14You have one more chance.
05:16No way.
05:17You know me pretty well.
05:18What do you think?
05:18There's no way you would go out with a girl again.
05:21That's why I said, Adam, are you sure about this?
05:23I mean, I really do feel like calling him on the side and be like, dude, this is only
05:26going to get worse.
05:27Yeah, that was a lot.
05:28I thought the idea was creative.
05:31I mean, granted, it's already kind of, it's not really making dinner.
05:34I mean, somebody else, like.
05:35Well, that makes the idea even better, but she was not having that.
05:39Okay, well, would you have been offended if you were Kate?
05:42Would you have given him another shot?
05:44And if you were Adam, would you have gone out with her after that?
05:46No!
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