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00:00For me, it's not fair.
00:02Not fair, because people usually cook rendang, azan, from night to morning.
00:08Men usually play merchandise for an hour or two.
00:11Yeah, it's always night.
00:13So, they also make kuih.
00:15Usually, who looks for Malay clothes for you?
00:19Men.
00:20Eh, where?
00:21I mean, women.
00:22Women, right?
00:23Your mother.
00:24She's working, right?
00:25Oh, that's right.
00:26But, there's a reason why women look for Malay clothes.
00:29Because, women are like,
00:31Eh, this year I have to wear this.
00:32Women are more detailed, right?
00:33Yeah, they're more detailed.
00:34Men don't care.
00:35Like, sometimes in the morning, they wear a play card.
00:37That's the problem.
00:38Because men don't care.
00:39You guys try to care.
00:40Right?
00:41Women's burden is lighter.
00:42That's right.
00:43But, I don't agree with that.
00:44Alhamdulillah.
00:45First time.
00:46First time.
00:47Women don't care about women.
00:48Okay.
00:49He thinks he's rich.
00:50This is Serious Love Podcast.
00:57Serious Love.
01:08Yes, welcome back to Serious Love Podcast.
01:12Raya version.
01:13Raya.
01:14With me, Haidah Rasanuddin.
01:15And,
01:16Alia Aslin.
01:17Hello.
01:18And, we have
01:19Syasya.
01:20Syasya.
01:21Syasya, welcome.
01:22Welcome to the studio.
01:23Eh, studio.
01:24Selamat Hari Raya.
01:25Selamat Hari Raya, you guys.
01:26Selamat Hari Raya.
01:27Oh, your voice is so soft.
01:28You always make a video, right?
01:30Huh?
01:31Always.
01:32Sad stories, right?
01:33Yes, that's right.
01:34Sad, that's right.
01:35Okay, as usual in Serious Podcast,
01:38we will meet the best guests.
01:40Then, we will talk about current issues.
01:42What just happened.
01:43What has happened.
01:44And, what has happened.
01:45And, what hasn't happened.
01:46We will talk about everything.
01:47But, this week, we are more towards Raya.
01:49Raya.
01:50Because, today is the second day of Raya, right?
01:51That's right.
01:52Alhamdulillah.
01:53Alhamdulillah.
01:54Thank you, Alia.
01:55Because, that day, Alia didn't want to come.
01:56Yes.
01:57Because, she said.
01:58We are from London.
01:59She is from the village of London.
02:00Right?
02:01Where is London?
02:02Where is Syasya from, Syasya?
02:03Syasya is from Sarawak.
02:05Sarawak.
02:06Sarawak, where?
02:07Kuching.
02:08Have you been there?
02:09Yes.
02:10Have you been there?
02:11Yes.
02:12It's cute.
02:13It's like you don't know.
02:14You guys are like a blur.
02:15No, no.
02:16Kuching is cute.
02:17Really?
02:18Kuching is cute?
02:19Yes.
02:20But, it's true.
02:21I have been to Sarawak.
02:22Just once.
02:23But, I didn't meet her.
02:24Where was that?
02:25That's it.
02:26Sarawak is small.
02:27So, we.
02:28Have you been to Raya there?
02:29No, I haven't.
02:30Alia is more overseas.
02:31Alhamdulillah.
02:32It's okay.
02:33Alia, where were you from?
02:34Where did you go for Raya?
02:35London.
02:36London.
02:37No, I didn't.
02:38No, I didn't.
02:39No, I didn't.
02:40No, I didn't.
02:41No, I didn't.
02:42No, I didn't.
02:43No, I didn't.
02:44No, I didn't.
02:45No, I didn't.
02:46I was at home.
02:47Open house?
02:48My own house.
02:49Oh, your own house.
02:50I mean, your own house has an open house.
02:51Yes.
02:52It's not Raya?
02:53Yes, I just settled down and came to my house.
02:54I've washed the dishes and everything.
02:55You're committed, right?
02:56You're committed to wash the dishes and come here.
02:57I'm tired.
02:58I'm tired.
02:59You came here.
03:00Of course.
03:01I saw you after you put on the makeup.
03:02It's because of this.
03:03Why?
03:04What did she do to you?
03:05No, no.
03:06Because I'm committed to my work.
03:07Like, serious.
03:08Respect.
03:09Respect.
03:10Where were you from, Shasha?
03:11I was at work.
03:12Oh, you were at work on Raya?
03:13You were at work on Raya?
03:14Yes.
03:15Because she made a video, right?
03:16I'm from Perantau.
03:17We were given work because they thought we were free time.
03:22We didn't go back to our hometown.
03:23Oh.
03:24I hope the boss heard that.
03:26Be patient, Shasha.
03:27Life is hard.
03:28That's right.
03:29Even now, we're still working.
03:30That's right.
03:31We're not different.
03:32We have to work too.
03:33What about you?
03:34Huh?
03:35Where are you from?
03:36I'm from...
03:37What did you say?
03:38I'm only 25 years old.
03:40Shasha, what's your age?
03:41Shasha, what's your age?
03:42Shasha, what's your age?
03:43Shasha, I'm 21 years old.
03:44Not far.
03:45I'm 21 years old.
03:46I'm 24 years old.
03:47Not far.
03:48I'm 25 years old.
03:49You're getting older.
03:50Before we start, we want to say thanks to Groots.
03:51Groots.
03:52Groots.
03:53Groots Cafe.
03:54Groots Cafe.
03:55Because they let us shoot here.
03:56Yes.
03:57And if you guys want to have coffee after eating ketupat, come here.
03:58Yes, that's right.
03:59Okay?
04:00Enjoy your afternoon.
04:01Yes.
04:02Yes.
04:03Yes.
04:04Yes.
04:05Yes.
04:06Yes.
04:07Yes.
04:08You know all the imaginary islands around the world.
04:09Yes.
04:10Yes.
04:11Maybe you've seen schleif at PJ.
04:12Yes.
04:13Maybe you've seen sfleif at PJ.
04:14You just need to search for Tokug Addipati?
04:15Ah, do you see that?
04:16Toku Adipati atas dia.
04:17Thanos is on top of him.
04:18Thank you, Adipati.
04:19Thank you, Groots Cafe.
04:20Thank you, guys.
04:22For leading us to this place.
04:23Before we talk further, let's talk about you, Shasha.
04:24Before we talk further, let's talk about you, Shasha.
04:25Shasha, what's your role in the show?
04:26What's your role in the show?
04:27What does that mean?
04:28What does that mean?
04:29What do you mean?
04:31I mean...
04:33Influencer, right?
04:35Maybe some of you don't know,
04:37maybe some of you already know,
04:39but I want to tell you a little bit about the content.
04:41Maybe you have a special content for Eid?
04:43Like collaborating with your boyfriend or ex?
04:45Ex? No, no.
04:47Oh, Azmi's ex.
04:49Astaghfirullah.
04:51No, don't slander me.
04:53It's all a lie.
04:55Yes, it's a lie.
04:57Actually, I don't really have a content creator.
05:00But I'm interested in skincare.
05:03Okay.
05:05Beauty.
05:07Before this, I just shared what I'm interested in.
05:11Okay.
05:12But now, Alhamdulillah,
05:13these past few years, I've been focusing more on proper videos to share with people.
05:19Okay.
05:20So, you must have a lot of products at home, right?
05:23Yes, a lot.
05:25Yes, a lot.
05:27Do you have a moisturizer that you want to use?
05:29I'll send you the address later.
05:31Alhamdulillah.
05:32Do you want it too?
05:33Yes, I want it.
05:34I can see that she wants it.
05:36We'll decide later.
05:38So, do you focus on reviewing videos?
05:43No, I don't review.
05:44I'm more into promoting.
05:46Promoting, okay.
05:47But freelancing, I'm more into the media side too.
05:50Like you guys.
05:52For example, what projects have you done?
05:56I'm an assistant producer.
05:59Just a little bit.
06:01And then...
06:03What about music videos?
06:05That's a side hustle.
06:08I'm more into talent.
06:10Talent for music videos.
06:11What kind of music videos?
06:13There's Mazdo.
06:15What else?
06:17Up and Coming Artist, Rizal Rashid.
06:20Rizal Rashid, Brunei?
06:21Yes, Brunei.
06:22That's right.
06:23He's in a jazz band.
06:25Jazz.
06:26Jazz.
06:28Women's jazz?
06:29No, not that.
06:33He's promoting another singer.
06:35It's okay.
06:36It's not him?
06:37No, it's not him.
06:39He's from Brunei too.
06:41But he's based in Indonesia.
06:43Rizal is from Brunei.
06:45He's an artist in Malaysia.
06:47So, you're international.
06:48Wow, I mean.
06:50You want to know more, right?
06:51So, like...
06:52Okay.
06:53Let's pray for Rizal Rashid.
06:55Amen.
06:56For the musicians.
06:57And for Syawal.
06:58Amen.
06:59For Syawal's blessings.
07:00For all of us.
07:01Amen.
07:02Amen.
07:03Shasha, you're from Sarawak, right?
07:05Kuching, right?
07:06That's right.
07:07I want to ask you about Raya.
07:09In Sarawak, is there any special kuih?
07:13Or any traditional Sarawak food for Raya?
07:17There's a lot.
07:18There's a lot.
07:19I wish it becomes viral here.
07:21Oh.
07:22Like kuih lapis sumpit?
07:24Yeah, okay.
07:25I want to share something controversial.
07:28Okay.
07:29Usually, beautiful kuih lapis...
07:31Sarawak, right?
07:32Yes.
07:33We want to sell it to tourists.
07:35Okay.
07:36The most delicious one is actually kuih lumut.
07:39Kuih lumut?
07:40Yes, kuih that doesn't have much color.
07:42So, those are the kuih that are so good.
07:45I don't know why it's not available here.
07:47Oh, it's only available in Sarawak?
07:48That's right.
07:49Speaking of kuih lapis Sarawak,
07:51I want to ask you,
07:53does each color of kuih lapis symbolize anything?
07:58If you want it to symbolize something,
08:00I think it does.
08:01If I make a cake,
08:02and I want to make it like,
08:03Oh, this is Siti Nurhaliza's Inspiration Cake.
08:06I can do that, right?
08:07Okay.
08:08So, it means,
08:09by request?
08:10By request or by inspiration.
08:12Oh.
08:13So, it symbolizes love.
08:15Yes.
08:16I can do that.
08:17Actually, when we eat,
08:18we can't eat the kuih lapis.
08:19It's better not to eat it.
08:20Because it symbolizes love.
08:22According to the logic.
08:23Oh, it's like a barrier.
08:24Don't eat it.
08:25Yes, don't eat it.
08:26Even though it symbolizes love.
08:27Yes, that's right.
08:28So, it won't be eaten.
08:29That's right.
08:30But don't joke around.
08:31Because it can be stressful.
08:33We want to make the kuih lapis perfect, right?
08:36Yes, that's right.
08:37Now, it's almost Eid.
08:38Eid is really busy.
08:40Making the cake,
08:41making the curry,
08:43and all the...
08:44And the rendang.
08:45Yes, that's right.
08:46But do you think men understand?
08:48I don't know.
08:50Do you think men understand?
08:51No.
08:52Men don't understand about busy.
08:53Do you understand?
08:54I look at the colour of the kuih lapis.
08:56It's blue.
08:57I understand.
08:58Oh, so, there are men who look at it a lot.
09:00They just look at it a lot.
09:01It looks like he just looks at it.
09:03Yes.
09:04Or not.
09:06Okay.
09:07So, that's our topic.
09:08Actually, this week's topic is
09:10what we want to talk about.
09:11Fair or not,
09:12on Eid,
09:13on Eid,
09:14only women do a lot of work.
09:16Fair or not?
09:17Fair or not?
09:18Okay.
09:19For you,
09:20is it fair or not?
09:21Two women against one.
09:22Is it fair if only women do a lot of work?
09:24Okay.
09:25Personally,
09:26every time on Eid,
09:28on Eid,
09:29other than apologising,
09:30we know that it's food.
09:32What?
09:33That's right.
09:34When we hear Eid,
09:35other than apologising,
09:36we know it's food.
09:37So, when it's food,
09:38it's more synonymous with
09:40women.
09:41Eh, like that?
09:42Like that?
09:43Seriously?
09:44No.
09:45I mean, to cook,
09:46to prepare,
09:47there's food, right?
09:48Men shouldn't make lemang,
09:49bakar lemang,
09:50and all that.
09:51No, no.
09:52Men should do it.
09:53Men should do it.
09:54Like us,
09:55you cook,
09:56we're making meriam tanah.
09:57To celebrate Eid together,
09:58right?
09:59This is a true story,
10:00right?
10:01Like Kampung Rai.
10:02Like,
10:03like my dad.
10:04Just look at it,
10:05it's fried.
10:06No, no.
10:07This is a true story.
10:08Okay, I want to share it.
10:09Like my dad,
10:10he's good at making meriam.
10:11No, no.
10:12Meriam.
10:13It's really meriam.
10:14Because he was a soldier.
10:15He was a former soldier.
10:16So, when it's Eid,
10:17my dad will make meriam.
10:18We will,
10:19he's more into meriam tanah.
10:20Okay.
10:21Because buloh
10:22doesn't have a stop.
10:23So, he shoots the ground,
10:24like that?
10:25Yes, he shoots the ground.
10:26I mean,
10:27we don't,
10:28we don't,
10:29this is not meriam perang.
10:30This is for Eid,
10:31not meriam perang.
10:32It's true,
10:33he's a former soldier.
10:34Yes.
10:35He's like,
10:36okay,
10:37men are more
10:38into meriam tanah.
10:39So,
10:40men are more into
10:41like,
10:42what do you call it,
10:43entertainment.
10:44Oh, entertainment.
10:45They are more into
10:46entertaining themselves
10:47and the women
10:48who are cooking.
10:49Are you sure
10:50that men do that?
10:51Yes.
10:52Maybe not all of them.
10:53But usually,
10:54men,
10:55they don't go to the kitchen
10:56for Eid preparations.
10:57Is there a reason?
10:58Why?
10:59Because when they cook,
11:00I think they can split it.
11:01Yes, that's right.
11:02But,
11:03the kitchen is small.
11:04Yes.
11:05We make the kitchen
11:06bigger than the living room.
11:07That's why you
11:08bring your wife out.
11:09Yes.
11:10That's right.
11:11Wash your feet,
11:12do the laundry.
11:13That's right.
11:14Do you do that?
11:17But,
11:18you're like,
11:19you just prove a point.
11:20Yes.
11:21She just proved a point.
11:23Men don't have a lot of work
11:24during Eid.
11:25That's right.
11:26We have a lot of work.
11:27We have fun.
11:28We buy ice cream.
11:30Yes, that's right.
11:31We buy ice cream.
11:32It's heavy.
11:33What about married couples?
11:34Do they still have fun?
11:36For married couples,
11:37I mean during Eid.
11:38For married men,
11:39do they still do merchandise?
11:41Most of the time,
11:42they entertain the kids.
11:43The kids are small.
11:44Men,
11:45because their mothers are in the kitchen.
11:46But,
11:47if their mothers are cooking,
11:48there will be a problem.
11:49Imagine,
11:50in the kitchen,
11:51while cooking,
11:52they want to entertain the kids.
11:53There will be a problem.
11:54So, we divide the work.
11:55Men are more into merchandise
11:56and entertainment.
11:57I feel sorry for them.
11:58I feel sorry for them
11:59to become women like this.
12:00Usually,
12:01during Eid,
12:02no one is busy
12:03doing merchandise.
12:05Yes.
12:06No one is busy
12:07preparing for Eid.
12:08Yes.
12:09Usually,
12:10only women do that.
12:11Women, that's right.
12:12Yes.
12:13Where are the men then?
12:14Men are at the side.
12:15Yes.
12:16Okay.
12:17So,
12:18when women cook,
12:19where are the men?
12:20We will be more…
12:21Not in front of the TV?
12:22In front of the TV,
12:23we will talk.
12:24We will talk.
12:25Like,
12:26when we meet our in-laws,
12:27we will ask them
12:28about the latest project.
12:29What is it?
12:30The latest project.
12:31That is reality.
12:32A lot of people do that.
12:33But,
12:34actually,
12:35it is not reality.
12:36Like,
12:37wherever we go,
12:38women are busy cooking
12:39because
12:40women want to gossip in the kitchen
12:41like men.
12:42No?
12:43Oh,
12:44no.
12:45Which village is this?
12:46If it's like that,
12:47it's true.
12:48Women have a lot of work.
12:49That's right.
12:50Yes.
12:51But,
12:52it's okay.
12:53Because,
12:54if a woman is married,
12:55like a family,
12:56her husband will give her money for Eid.
12:57Oh,
12:58Eid.
12:59So,
13:00your job is to look for…
13:01Like,
13:02to buy food.
13:03It's hard.
13:04So,
13:05we go to the mall
13:06to look for suitable food.
13:07But,
13:08I think,
13:09the men out there
13:10should understand that
13:11women just wait
13:12for money from their husbands.
13:13But,
13:14it takes time
13:15to beautify yourself,
13:16to grow your hair,
13:17to beautify your skin,
13:18to beautify your body.
13:19That's right.
13:20Then,
13:21you have to take care of your family.
13:22For example,
13:23on Eid,
13:24women wear men's clothes.
13:25No,
13:26I wear my own clothes.
13:27Alhamdulillah.
13:28That's good.
13:29Because,
13:30I bought expensive clothes.
13:31Atomi.
13:32The expensive ones.
13:33The expensive ones.
13:34Yes,
13:35the expensive ones.
13:36So,
13:37we can see that
13:38when a woman is busy,
13:39her siblings are busy.
13:40It's okay.
13:41So,
13:42it's different.
13:43I don't want to say it.
13:44Please highlight that later.
13:45But,
13:46that's the reality.
13:47I don't want to say
13:48that it's set.
13:49But,
13:50that's the reality.
13:51When it's Eid,
13:52women will be busy.
13:53So,
13:54he agrees.
13:55Okay.
13:56He thinks
13:57women will be more busy.
13:58So,
13:59imagine
14:00that
14:01a man
14:02goes to the kitchen
14:03and a woman is cooking.
14:04Isn't it funny?
14:05It's okay.
14:06Isn't it funny?
14:07It's a balanced household.
14:08That's what it's called.
14:09It's okay.
14:10But,
14:11after that,
14:12people will scream.
14:13It's the opposite.
14:14They won't scream anymore.
14:17People eat like this.
14:18They eat with their hands.
14:21No,
14:22it's balanced.
14:23When it's Eid,
14:24women will be busy.
14:25Women will be busy.
14:26Women will be busy.
14:27Men will be busy.
14:28Men will be busy.
14:29Men will be busy.
14:30Men or women?
14:32Mariam is his wife.
14:34Sorry.
14:37But,
14:38Alia and Shasha,
14:39do you agree with that?
14:42Some people told me
14:44not to agree.
14:46Which people?
14:49Different genders.
14:51Not girls.
14:52Men.
14:54Different genders?
14:55There are only two genders now.
14:56There are some opinions
14:58that
14:59men are more emotional
15:02and mental
15:03during Eid.
15:06But,
15:07he agrees with us.
15:08So,
15:09we can't discuss it.
15:10It's okay.
15:11I'm the only exception.
15:13Men are not like that.
15:17You have to listen.
15:19He was cold when he was pregnant.
15:20He loves me.
15:21Praise be to God.
15:23Mama,
15:24thank you for celebrating Eid with me.
15:25I'm flattered.
15:30But,
15:31do you agree with that?
15:32Or,
15:33it should be the same?
15:34It should be the same.
15:37But,
15:38it's a culture.
15:39Over time,
15:40we will follow
15:41what we are used to.
15:43That's right.
15:44We have seen what our grandmothers do.
15:46But,
15:47I think
15:48men should be busy.
15:50Nowadays,
15:51women are so advanced
15:53when it comes to
15:54small details.
15:55That's right.
15:56For example,
15:57tidying up the house,
15:58folding napkins.
15:59They already have the techniques
16:00for celebrating Eid.
16:01That's right.
16:02So,
16:03men should
16:04learn.
16:05They should enhance their skills.
16:06For example,
16:07making lemang.
16:08Don't just make lemang.
16:09Do you usually make colorful lemang?
16:10Do you make it in the shape of a heart?
16:11Yes.
16:12So,
16:13put more effort.
16:14Like,
16:15folding napkins,
16:16putting lemang in a napkin.
16:18Put more effort.
16:19That's right.
16:20It's the same.
16:21For example,
16:22putting napkins on the table.
16:23That's lemang.
16:24If not,
16:25it's lemang.
16:26That's right.
16:27So,
16:28it's different.
16:29It's different.
16:30If not,
16:31nowadays,
16:32men just choose their Eid outfit
16:34and then,
16:35they just prepare to take photos.
16:36Like that.
16:37Oh,
16:38like a photographer.
16:39So,
16:40they prepare for a photoshoot.
16:41Yes.
16:42And the girls,
16:43they usually play with their aunts,
16:44sisters.
16:45They will be so busy with the kids.
16:46That's right.
16:47But,
16:48do you take a long time to prepare?
16:49Yes.
16:50How long do you take to prepare?
16:51Three days.
16:52That means,
16:53on the 27th,
16:54you start preparing.
16:55On the 27th,
16:56you start preparing.
16:57Yes.
16:58You do your hair.
16:59It's Eid in two days.
17:00You do your hair.
17:02Two hours.
17:03Two hours.
17:04Oh, okay.
17:05Two hours.
17:06How about you, Syasya?
17:07It's the same.
17:08Two hours.
17:09Do you prepare at the same time?
17:10Because we don't need to go to Eid prayer.
17:11Oh, it's the same time.
17:12Oh, it's the same time.
17:13That means,
17:14we share Eid.
17:15That's right.
17:16We don't need to go to Friday prayer.
17:17Eh, Friday prayer is Eid prayer.
17:18Yes.
17:19We don't need to go to Eid prayer.
17:22We don't need to go to Eid prayer.
17:23Oh, okay.
17:24For me, it's not fair.
17:25It's not fair?
17:26It's not fair.
17:27Because,
17:28both men and women have to do the same thing.
17:31I think because,
17:32for example,
17:33people usually cook rendang,
17:35during the prayer,
17:36from night to morning.
17:38Men usually play merchandise
17:40for an hour or two.
17:41Yes, it's always at night.
17:42Yes, it's always at night.
17:43So,
17:44women have to make kuih.
17:45So, women have to make kuih.
17:46Usually, who looks for Eid clothes for you?
17:48Usually, who looks for Eid clothes for you?
17:49Men.
17:50Eh, where?
17:51What do you mean?
17:52Oh, women.
17:53Women, right?
17:54Your mom.
17:55Your mom.
17:56Oh, that's right.
17:57But,
17:58there's a reason
17:59why women look for Eid clothes for men.
18:00Because,
18:01it's hard for men to decide.
18:02Women are like,
18:03this year,
18:04I have to wear this.
18:05Women are more detailed, right?
18:06Yes, they're more detailed.
18:07Men don't care.
18:08Sometimes,
18:09in the morning,
18:10they wear plaid.
18:11Right?
18:12That's the problem.
18:13Because,
18:14men don't care.
18:15Try to care.
18:16Ah, that's right.
18:17But, I don't agree with that.
18:18Alhamdulillah.
18:19Because,
18:20for Eid,
18:21I want...
18:22I thought you want to invite him.
18:24No, no.
18:25That's good.
18:26Thank you, Shasha.
18:27Because,
18:28it's very neutral.
18:29It's good, babe.
18:30Girl power,
18:31still girl power.
18:32But,
18:33like,
18:34I appreciate,
18:35I appreciate
18:36my grandfather.
18:37So,
18:38he was a single father
18:39for a long time.
18:40He was the one who cooked.
18:41He was the one who said,
18:42hey,
18:43that dress is not pretty.
18:44Change it.
18:45So,
18:46he was quite active.
18:47So,
18:48when he saw
18:49that he couldn't
18:50reach that level,
18:51he said,
18:52no, you can do it.
18:53You know,
18:54you can reach that level.
18:55Oh, but...
18:56You can provide.
18:57You can give your all.
18:58Men can do it.
18:59But,
19:00when there's a woman
19:01doing it,
19:02it's like,
19:03I don't want to think about it.
19:04Because,
19:05I don't know if there's a woman
19:06who can handle it.
19:07Oh,
19:08so,
19:09his grandfather is the best example
19:10for men to follow.
19:11We have to balance.
19:12Balance.
19:13Like,
19:14like,
19:15what is it?
19:16Like,
19:17in terms of,
19:18before Eid,
19:19how long
19:20did it take
19:21for him to
19:22settle the house
19:23before Eid?
19:24A long time.
19:25Usually,
19:26it takes like,
19:27two days.
19:28Oh, two days.
19:29That's a long time.
19:30Two days.
19:31That's like,
19:32a short period of time.
19:33It's a long time.
19:34One day,
19:35two days,
19:36three days.
19:37Oh.
19:38Changing the laundry.
19:39It's the same for women.
19:40Nowadays,
19:41people can do it
19:42on camera,
19:43right?
19:44So,
19:45if he's lazy,
19:46just turn on the camera.
19:47Your father is a bit lazy.
19:48Here,
19:49here,
19:50here.
19:51A lazy man,
19:52a lazy woman.
19:53Don't,
19:54don't hype anyone
19:55on camera.
19:56No, okay.
19:57So,
19:58like we were talking about,
19:59women do more work,
20:00right?
20:01But,
20:02I feel like
20:03this is not only
20:04during Eid,
20:05right?
20:06Yes.
20:07Just extra during Eid.
20:08Extra during Eid.
20:09But,
20:10okay,
20:11this is my opinion.
20:12Because,
20:13for me,
20:14women do more,
20:15like,
20:16during Eid,
20:17it's like,
20:18okay,
20:19we have to change the lace.
20:20If it's a man,
20:21it doesn't matter.
20:22The lace is 18 years old.
20:23On the rail,
20:24right?
20:25He promises
20:26that as long as
20:27it's not messy,
20:28it's okay.
20:29But,
20:30that's the advantage
20:31of women
20:32that God has given,
20:33right?
20:34Because women
20:35are sharper.
20:36They're like,
20:37they're aware.
20:38Eh,
20:39this has to be changed,
20:40this has to be adjusted,
20:41this sofa has to be reversed.
20:42That's more for women
20:43so that,
20:44that's the balance.
20:45There's nothing
20:46to be balanced.
20:47This is important,
20:48because I think,
20:49if we want to get married
20:50in the future,
20:51we have to discuss
20:52with our future husband,
20:53like,
20:54what kind of Eid
20:55do you like to have?
20:56How's your preparation?
20:57Right?
20:58Then,
20:59we look for a school food.
21:00I understand.
21:01So,
21:02when you want to declare
21:03with your future boyfriend,
21:04you have to talk about Eid?
21:05Talk about
21:06how to live together,
21:08how we want to celebrate Eid,
21:10who's going to do
21:11most of the work.
21:12So,
21:13during the first date,
21:14you can celebrate Eid?
21:15Yes, if I want to.
21:16Oh,
21:17you can.
21:18I want to avoid
21:19the repeating,
21:20the women do a lot of things.
21:22Yes,
21:23that's right.
21:24If it doesn't happen,
21:25then it's like that.
21:26Have you discussed
21:27with your boyfriend?
21:28Huh?
21:30Wrong trick.
21:33I haven't celebrated Eid yet.
21:34Oh,
21:35you haven't celebrated Eid yet.
21:36Oh,
21:37that means,
21:38you have to see first.
21:39But I can make sure
21:40that when we get married,
21:41he'll do everything.
21:42I'm the one
21:43who will do everything.
21:45Alia is the chosen one
21:46by God.
21:47I'm like you.
21:48We're different.
21:49Oh,
21:50okay.
21:51Because Alia is
21:52your ex-commando, right?
21:53How do you know?
21:54That's it.
21:55We're just reviewing.
21:56You're like an ex-police.
21:57How do you know?
21:58Working in the media.
21:59You're an ex-police, right?
22:00Yes.
22:01We met at the camp
22:02that day.
22:04Like that,
22:05I'm an ex-marine.
22:06Like that.
22:07Oh,
22:08can you dive for 5 minutes?
22:09Cut, cut.
22:11Can you dive for 5 minutes?
22:14Okay.
22:16Alia's preparation.
22:17How many clothes
22:18did you wear for Eid this year?
22:21Actually,
22:22since I've been away
22:23from my family.
22:24Where's your family?
22:25My family is in Ipoh.
22:26Oh.
22:27It's been a few hours.
22:29Since then,
22:30how long has it been?
22:31It's been a while.
22:32A year or two.
22:33So, I only prepared one.
22:34One to go back there.
22:36That's it.
22:37One dress to go back there.
22:39One more to go.
22:41How?
22:42One Eid dress.
22:43That's it.
22:44No more Eid.
22:45Like Sarawak,
22:46one dress a month.
22:47Sarawak,
22:48one dress a month?
22:49One dress a month.
22:50Non-Malays
22:51will also celebrate Eid there.
22:52You go to the cinema,
22:53walk around,
22:54you'll see non-Malays
22:55wearing Eid clothes.
22:57Meriah.
22:58One dress a month?
22:59Yes.
23:01Sorry,
23:02we're looking for Haruan's fish.
23:03We have Haruan's fish.
23:05This cafe is beautiful.
23:06It has fish.
23:07That's right.
23:08If it moves,
23:09it means it's an elephant.
23:10Something like that.
23:12Shasha,
23:13how many pairs of clothes
23:14did you buy this year?
23:15This year,
23:16only two or three.
23:17Praise be to God.
23:18Before this,
23:19when Aura Daddy was still alive,
23:20we noticed that
23:21we bought
23:22at least five
23:23or seven pairs.
23:24Oh,
23:25that means
23:26you bought in the morning
23:27and in the afternoon.
23:28That's right.
23:29Every day,
23:30we went around.
23:31Wow.
23:32You had time.
23:33That's right.
23:34We were excited.
23:35There was no heat there.
23:36It was hot.
23:37So, it was okay.
23:38Is it different from here?
23:39It's different.
23:40I've never been here.
23:41It's hot here.
23:42It's more like Bahang here.
23:43Bahang here.
23:44That means
23:45your clothes
23:46are like
23:47at the hangout
23:48during Eid.
23:49We don't have to choose.
23:50It's already a lot.
23:51We just have to choose.
23:52Like,
23:53do you want to visit your family
23:54or friends?
23:55Okay,
23:56I already know
23:57which one.
23:58How many pairs did you buy?
23:59It's simple for men.
24:00Men
24:01wear Malay clothes
24:02only during Eid.
24:03That's right.
24:04Only during Eid.
24:05A lot of work.
24:06Yes,
24:07because we
24:08want to buy ice cream.
24:09Sometimes,
24:10we wear it
24:11only during Eid.
24:12Then, it's sold out.
24:13Then, it's sold out.
24:14Yes.
24:15I want to
24:16talk about
24:17Eid.
24:19What's your
24:20most unforgettable
24:21Eid memory?
24:22It's hard to forget.
24:24I'll go first.
24:25Are you sad?
24:26It's obvious.
24:27I'm not sad.
24:28I don't remember.
24:30She has a lot of Eid memories.
24:31Okay.
24:32Since we're two women
24:33and we gave
24:34the guy the first line,
24:35you go first.
24:36I'll go first.
24:37Men don't have a lot of Eid memories
24:38because Eid is the same.
24:39For example,
24:40my Eid photos
24:41last year,
24:42I reposted it
24:43because I didn't have time.
24:44You just edited it?
24:45Yes.
24:46I changed the colour.
24:47Your face is smiling.
24:48That's right.
24:49Sometimes,
24:50I edit it.
24:51Now, I can do it.
24:52I have a FaceApp.
24:53You edit it too?
24:54Yes.
24:55Oh, you edit it too?
24:56Yes, I edit it.
24:57No.
24:58I use FaceApp
24:59to edit my photos.
25:00I understand.
25:01You mean
25:02you changed your face?
25:03Yes.
25:04You're a man.
25:05Oh,
25:06his face changed
25:07because of Eid.
25:08I had a photo
25:09of me wearing Eid clothes
25:11and I took a single photo.
25:13I just repeated the photo.
25:14I mean, I changed the background.
25:15Because it's pretty?
25:16No.
25:17Why is that?
25:18You shouldn't have lied to him.
25:20What?
25:21I'm sorry.
25:22You're not a man.
25:23I feel bad for him.
25:24Seriously.
25:26He's spamming people.
25:27I feel bad for him.
25:32He's from Sarawak.
25:34No, no.
25:35Chacha,
25:36is there a difference
25:37Have you ever celebrated Eid here?
25:39Of course, I have.
25:41Wait, where is it? Sorry.
25:43My late father is no longer here.
25:45It was in 2016.
25:47Okay, so you and your family, siblings are here?
25:49Some of them live in Sepang, Ceras.
25:51Oh, they are all here.
25:53Some are in Sarawak too.
25:55So, do you celebrate Eid in Sarawak or just here?
25:57I haven't been back to Sarawak for 5 years.
25:59I celebrate Eid with my family here.
26:01Do you still remember Sarawak dialect?
26:03Of course, I do.
26:05Sarawak dialect is sexy.
26:11Sarawak dialect is delicious.
26:15It's unique.
26:17But it's true.
26:19Sarawak dialect is delicious.
26:21It's like what Sarawak people say.
26:23It's not the same.
26:25It's different from Melayu dialect.
26:27So, it sounds better.
26:29For me, I prefer F dialect.
26:31Oh, so you have a bad face?
26:33Yes.
26:37How was it?
26:39Oh, no.
26:41She's the owner of the cafe.
26:43What did she ask for?
26:45Can I have rendang?
26:47Sure.
26:49Do you want more rendang?
26:57Alia has forgotten her memories.
27:01What's your favourite kuih?
27:05Semperit.
27:07Semperit.
27:09There's semperit bata susu.
27:13I've never heard of it.
27:15I think it's Sarawak.
27:19I've never heard of it.
27:21There's semperit susu.
27:23Do you think there's semperit susu bata?
27:27I think it's Sarawak.
27:29I don't know.
27:31We have to make a lot of kuih here.
27:35Maybe if we make a lot of kuih, people will celebrate...
27:37...the first month of Eid here.
27:39That's true.
27:41But we only have two or three days off.
27:43We have to make a lot of kuih.
27:45I want to go back to our topic.
27:47I have a question.
27:49Usually, if it's an open house,...
27:51...this is your house, right?
27:53Who will serve the guests?
27:55Who will cook?
27:57Who will wash the dishes?
28:01For my family, it's all girls.
28:05That's why?
28:07That's why I don't think it's fair.
28:09For example,...
28:11...let's say I have a call.
28:13I have a call tonight.
28:15I'll cook.
28:17I'll put the food on the table.
28:19We'll sit together.
28:21Is that right?
28:23After I'm done, I'll clean up.
28:25You'll clean up.
28:27What does a man do?
28:29He only invites people.
28:31That's true.
28:33He only invites people.
28:35He'll make a guest list.
28:37He'll invite people.
28:39He'll make an order.
28:41But it's true, Alia.
28:43If you think about it.
28:45I'm a woman.
28:47That's why I don't think it's fair.
28:49What about you?
28:51It's true.
28:53It's the sister who will arrange everything.
28:55It's true.
28:57Men only invite people.
28:59That's right.
29:01Women have a lot of work during Eid.
29:03Yes, a lot.
29:05From the first day of Eid to the second day of Eid.
29:07From the third day of Eid to the fourth day of Eid.
29:09Eid can be a tent as well.
29:11That's true.
29:13Sorry.
29:15I heard your nose.
29:23But that's how it is.
29:25That's how it is for married couples.
29:27That's why it's important for men...
29:29...to appreciate their partners.
29:33Yes.
29:35They should play their roles.
29:37Especially during Eid.
29:39Women have a lot of work.
29:41Once the guest is here, they'll cook.
29:43Alhamdulillah.
29:45Once the guest is home, they'll wash the dishes.
29:47If the guest is sleeping, she'll prepare the bed.
29:49Yes.
29:51Once the guest is here, she'll cook.
29:53She'll prepare the food.
29:55She'll prepare the food.
29:57Then the man will push her.
29:59Will it take a long time?
30:01Once the guest is here, she'll cook.
30:03She'll order the food.
30:05Alhamdulillah.
30:07But Alia, maybe...
30:09...the guest comes with a man.
30:11So, the man will have a lot of conversations.
30:13With the man.
30:15If the man comes in, the guest will be bored.
30:19That's right.
30:21But we have to balance it.
30:23Men have to understand women's work.
30:25That's right.
30:27For Eid, this is your chance...
30:31...to appreciate your partner.
30:35That's right.
30:37Give her beautiful clothes.
30:39That's right.
30:41I hope more women can communicate...
30:43...what they want.
30:45Yes.
30:47They make their Eid special.
30:49That's right.
30:51The guys in my family...
30:53...show a lot of...
30:55...tolerance.
30:57Tolerance.
30:59Tolerance.
31:01It reduces the burden as a woman.
31:03That's good.
31:05We don't want to stress our friends...
31:07...who want to prepare for Eid.
31:09Some of them are noisy.
31:11They don't want to help me.
31:13That's right.
31:15We want to make them happy.
31:17That's how it is.
31:19I'm tired.
31:21We have lipstick here.
31:23It doesn't matter.
31:25My man doesn't help me.
31:27We have lipstick here.
31:33There's a question.
31:35There's a question.
31:37From O Bintang, your name is Wan.
31:39Daniel.
31:42His name is Wan.
31:45O Bintang.
31:47Why is it that...
31:49Why?
31:51Why is it that...
31:53...for Eid, there's a stereotype...
31:55...that women have to look perfect...
31:57...in terms of looks.
31:59Just now...
32:01...women get ready in two hours...
32:03...while men get ready in 10 minutes.
32:05Why is there a stereotype?
32:07Can I answer that question?
32:09Sure, go ahead.
32:11I think the stereotype...
32:13...is that women want to feel satisfied.
32:16After all, they have to work...
32:18...and take care of their family.
32:20All the effort...
32:22...shouldn't be for looks.
32:24It's not organized.
32:26That's why we have to pay more.
32:31Alia?
32:33I think it's normal for women to want to look pretty.
32:35Especially men.
32:37I'm tired.
32:39You sound like you have a personal.
32:43Alia, keep your personal.
32:49Men get ready in 10 minutes, right?
32:51Because men are smelly.
32:54Who?
32:56Men want to smell good.
32:5810 minutes is a package.
33:00What's the package?
33:02We get ready in 10 minutes.
33:04We're fast.
33:06We don't put on make-up.
33:08We train men to do our hair...
33:10...and put on our hijab.
33:12We don't change our clothes.
33:14So, men get ready in two hours.
33:16It's overtime.
33:18That's right.
33:20That's right.
33:22What about you?
33:24Why do you think women take a long time to get ready?
33:26It's true.
33:28Women are known for...
33:30...their desire to look pretty.
33:32That's right.
33:34They want to look more presentable.
33:36Especially during Eid.
33:38That makes their heart soft.
33:40They want to look pretty.
33:42So, they cover their face with make-up...
33:44...and put on make-up.
33:46They want to look pretty...
33:48...during Eid.
33:50That's right.
33:52I sound like a feminist.
33:54Men don't do anything at night.
33:56That's why they can get ready in 10 minutes.
33:58That's right.
34:00They don't do anything during Eid.
34:03Everything is settled.
34:05They just need to put on make-up.
34:07Have you ever done it before?
34:09No.
34:10A student did it before.
34:12That's how it is.
34:14Luckily, my late father...
34:17...appreciated my mother...
34:19...by providing an assistant at home.
34:23That's right.
34:27If men out there don't want women...
34:29...to make noise, hire someone.
34:32Amen.
34:33I hope all men can do it.
34:35Amen.
34:37What if you fall in love with a maid?
34:41Control yourself.
34:43It's not your responsibility.
34:45It's not a woman's responsibility...
34:47...to control your iman.
34:49It's spicy.
34:55We should apologize for this.
34:57It's nothing.
34:59I just want to punch a man.
35:02What's wrong with you?
35:04Whatever it is, we're all serious.
35:07We appreciate your opinions.
35:09That's right.
35:11We don't represent any group.
35:13No.
35:14We're just sharing our opinions.
35:16That's right.
35:17Luckily, I have a man who has a tough job.
35:20That's right.
35:21It's okay.
35:22He'll clean it up.
35:24Men have a tough job.
35:26It's not for fasting.
35:28They have a tough job.
35:30They have to save money for their families.
35:35Men have to pay for the Raya clothes.
35:39Amen.
35:41Amen.
35:46Is he the reporter?
35:49Are you sure you want to hire him?
35:52He's on TV.
35:54What?
35:55He's on TV.
35:56He said, you're a star.
35:58Shasha, do you want to say something?
36:06Happy Raya to everyone.
36:12I hope you don't have any problems during Raya.
36:19A teacher's problem?
36:21No, I hope you don't have any problems during Raya.
36:24A problem during Raya.
36:26I hope you don't have any problems during Raya.
36:28We're in the middle of Raya.
36:30I hope you don't have any problems during Raya.
36:33Do you have any wishes?
36:35Happy Raya to everyone.
36:37I hope you don't have any problems during Raya.
36:39We were just having fun.
36:43I'm okay.
36:44I'm okay with men.
36:46Personal opinion?
36:48No.
36:49It's nothing, right?
36:51It's nothing.
36:52I'm okay with our feedback.
36:55I'm okay with our feedback.
36:57I'm okay.
36:58I'm okay with men.
37:00We'll fight back if we don't agree with something.
37:04Appreciate women in your life.
37:06Yes, appreciate them.
37:07He said, he appreciates couples.
37:09Do you have a wife?
37:11What?
37:12You already have a wife.
37:14Sorry, I meant a partner.
37:16You already have a partner.
37:18I was talking about men and women.
37:22Please appreciate the people you love.
37:24We can still celebrate Raya together.
37:27We don't know if we can celebrate Raya next year.
37:29We don't know if we can celebrate Raya next year.
37:31It's empty.
37:32It's empty.
37:33Okay.
37:36We want to say thank you to our viewers.
37:40It's serious.
37:41From fasting to Raya...
37:44...you're always in front of your laptop, iPad, TV.
37:49And for those who are interested...
37:54...to come and shoot at your cafe...
37:57...please leave a comment below.
38:00If there are viewers who want to come...
38:04...and watch our series live...
38:08...you can leave a comment.
38:10Do you want it?
38:11Do you want it?
38:12Are you serious?
38:14Do you want it?
38:15We'll let you know where the next location is.
38:19If you want to comment, you can join us.
38:21Yes, you can.
38:22Our admin will contact you.
38:26Okay, happy Raya.
38:27Happy Raya.
38:28Thank you, Shansha.
38:29Thank you, Haida.
38:30Thank you, Alia.
38:31I'm sorry if I'm not enough.
38:32I'm sorry.
38:33It's empty.
38:34Happy Raya to all the viewers.
38:36It's serious.
38:37We'll see you in the next episode...
38:39...with another guest and a better topic.
38:42So, that's all.
38:44That's all.
38:45That's all.
38:46How do we say it?
38:47Serious.
38:51Bye.