ウチ、“断捨離”しました！2025年4月1日 「弟の遺品を捨てられない！残された姉が踏み出す、決意の一歩」
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00:00Now, let's choose a new life.
00:06Leave the useless things in the house,
00:09throw away the unnecessary things,
00:12and leave the attachment to things.
00:16Choose a new life and way of life with your own decisions.
00:21That is Danshari.
00:26Hideko Yamashita is the founder of Danshari.
00:33He is a master of Danshari and life,
00:36who has guided countless people.
00:40I don't think I can be a useless person who can't clean up.
00:46There is no such thing as perfection.
00:48Is it painful to seek perfection?
00:51Choose a new life and way of life with your own decisions.
00:56Now, the door of life opens.
01:01We went skiing together.
01:04My younger brother drove the car,
01:09and we were the same age.
01:12So we went skiing together.
01:19Suddenly, she lost her beloved brother.
01:23She still can't organize her feelings.
01:28Even after he died, the room remained the same.
01:33She couldn't throw it away.
01:37I really couldn't do anything.
01:43It remained the same.
01:46She can't stay like this forever.
01:49She has to do something.
01:51She decides to organize Danshari.
01:54You can't organize your feelings by yourself.
01:58You are too strong.
02:00You can't do it by yourself.
02:03She wants to make her house and feelings clean.
02:07There are a lot of things that stand out.
02:11Is this a dishcloth?
02:13Yes, it is.
02:14Do you have a dishcloth?
02:15I still have it.
02:18The one who saved her was her long-time friend.
02:27I'm Hideko Yamashita.
02:29She decided to organize Danshari.
02:32She can't throw away her brother's belongings.
02:35She decides to organize her sister's belongings.
02:41Nerimaku, Tokyo
02:45She lives in a quiet residential area.
02:53Hello.
02:55Hello.
02:57She is Misato, 60 years old.
03:02When you enter the house, you can see the stairs.
03:07Misato's room is on the second floor.
03:10Come in.
03:14It's very clean.
03:20I used to teach in the classroom.
03:23At that time, there were only a few students.
03:26There were only three tables.
03:28The students were sitting, so there was nothing left.
03:34Misato used to teach elementary school students here.
03:40However, due to COVID-19, she is on leave.
03:46The two daughters are independent and live alone.
03:53Is this your house?
03:55This is not my house.
03:57This is my family's house.
03:59I want to organize Danshari in my family's house.
04:04This house was built by Misato's father 28 years ago.
04:09It's a two-story house.
04:14Misato, who got married and had a family, lived on the second floor.
04:18Her parents and brother lived on the first floor.
04:26Is it really next door?
04:28Yes, it's next door.
04:30It's not connected at all.
04:34First, here.
04:37Whose house is this?
04:39My father's house.
04:42It's been eight years since he passed away.
04:45I threw away a lot of things in the meantime.
04:50Misato's parents lived in this large Japanese-style room.
04:59My father died eight years ago.
05:01My mother died five years ago.
05:07Misato's parents' disposal is over.
05:10The room is in a very clean state.
05:13Misato is very good at cleaning up.
05:16She has a room that she can't clean up.
05:23My brother died recently.
05:26I can't throw away my brother's things.
05:30Your brother died?
05:32Yes, my brother died at the age of 58.
05:35My brother used my brother's room.
05:39My brother used my brother's room.
05:42My brother's room is in a state where nothing can be touched.
05:48Makoto, Makoto's younger brother, died two months ago.
05:58Makoto, who was six, lived with his parents at home.
06:04This is my brother's room.
06:10This room is in a state where nothing can be touched.
06:16I don't know if my brother's mind is still organized.
06:22I don't know.
06:26Makoto, who worked part-time at a company after his parents died.
06:36That farewell was sudden.
06:41The thickest blood vessel in my heart suddenly bled.
06:47It was sudden, so I suddenly bled.
06:52Makoto, who worked part-time at a company after his parents died.
06:57He said he was lying down alone at home.
07:03He was off work that day, so I went to his house.
07:09I called an ambulance myself.
07:12But the ambulance didn't tell me his name or address.
07:17The ambulance found him and took him home.
07:22When he was found, his heart stopped and he couldn't breathe.
07:28He was taken to a nearby hospital.
07:31But in the end, he didn't die.
07:40Misato, who has loved her younger brother Makoto since childhood.
07:48They have lived together in a two-story house since they became adults.
07:54It was natural for them to be close to each other.
08:01It's too early to say goodbye to my brother.
08:05I can't accept it easily.
08:10Even after 49 days, it seems that Makoto is still alive in the room.
08:21I haven't touched anything.
08:25My bag is a little...
08:27The handle is high.
08:29Underwear around here.
08:32I think it's clothes.
08:37It's a school uniform.
08:40And a comic book.
08:45I look inside the closet.
08:49But I can't touch it because it reminds me of my brother.
08:56The suit he wore to the training.
09:00The comic books he read.
09:03They were all proof that he was fine.
09:08He was really fine.
09:12I was going to continue to live.
09:20New Y-shirts, new socks, new underwear were here.
09:32But I thought I couldn't throw them away no matter what I did.
09:40So I put them in a can and had them taken away.
09:48There were traces of life in the living room.
09:54He was always sitting here.
09:57He didn't even touch this table.
10:02He didn't do anything.
10:05It was as it was when he was alive.
10:09The documents are here.
10:13But he didn't touch anything.
10:18The living room used to be full of family conversations.
10:24His parents and brother died here.
10:28He lost his family.
10:31Time has stopped.
10:36What do you want to do with your family?
10:40What should I do?
10:43I haven't thought about it at all.
10:46I can't think about it.
10:50I don't know what to do.
10:53I really don't know what to do.
10:57She can't organize her mind.
11:00But she has to do something about her illness.
11:03Only impatience grows.
11:06So she put out an SOS to the program.
11:12I have no choice but to do my best.
11:16When my parents were alive,
11:19I was able to throw away a lot of things.
11:28Of course, my brother died when he was younger than me.
11:34But I think it's rude to leave things as they are.
11:54Mr. Yamashita, please help me move forward.
12:02Excuse me.
12:05Hello.
12:07Nice to meet you.
12:13It's spacious.
12:15Yes, it is.
12:17This is my brother's room.
12:20He died.
12:23This room will be cleaned up.
12:28She can't organize her mind.
12:31She has to do something about her illness.
12:34She had an acute illness.
12:37But she has to do something about it.
12:41I have no choice but to do something about it.
12:52When people die,
12:56they leave a lot of things behind.
13:02This is my brother's room.
13:05This is where my brother used to sit.
13:09Oh, I see.
13:11I can't do anything about it.
13:15I can't do anything about it.
13:18I thought I couldn't do anything about it.
13:23But after two months,
13:27I started to feel more and more pain.
13:35I see.
13:37I understand what you mean.
13:41Your brother must have been surprised.
13:45Yes, he was.
13:47He must have thought he was dead.
13:51Yes.
13:52Your brother may be surprised.
13:55But I was surprised, too.
13:58Even if we were surprised,
14:00the truth wouldn't change.
14:02So I told him to leave the things he left behind to me.
14:07I see.
14:09So you told him to leave the things he left behind to you.
14:15Yes.
14:16Let's try it.
14:19Organizing things is a difficult task, both mentally and physically.
14:27Yamashita-san says,
14:29if you can't organize your mind,
14:32you don't have to hurry.
14:36I may be able to do it without a manual.
14:40But I don't know if I should hurry or not.
14:45I have to accept my feelings and do what I have to do.
14:52I have to accept my feelings and do what I have to do.
14:57I have to accept my feelings and do what I have to do.
15:04It seems that Misato-san is mentally prepared.
15:11One more thing.
15:13Not only your father,
15:15but also your parents and your brother
15:20were living in this space.
15:23You have to do something about it.
15:25You have to do something about it.
15:27It's not your responsibility.
15:29The next step is to make this place revive.
15:37Not only things, but also this house.
15:40You have to do something about the house of one generation.
15:44You have to do something about the house of one generation.
15:51The sound of the wood is so loud in the house.
15:55The sound of the wood is so loud in the house.
15:58It's a waste of space.
16:01It's a waste of space.
16:05Misato-san was left alone
16:08by her parents and her brother.
16:11What to do with this big house
16:14seems to be a future challenge.
16:21There were people who came to help Misato-san.
16:28They live in the neighborhood.
16:30They are classmates in the Ikebana classroom.
16:32They have been friends for 20 years.
16:35They get along well.
16:39I think it's amazing that people throw away
16:44what they left behind.
16:46But I don't need it anymore.
16:50I left it behind.
16:53I don't need it anymore.
16:56I don't need it anymore.
16:59I will do my best to throw it away.
17:04I will do my best to throw it away.
17:07I will tell my brother to rest assured.
17:12I see.
17:14You will not throw it away, but you will give it to your brother.
17:18Then, they started to throw it away.
17:22I will take care of the clothes.
17:25I will take care of the clothes.
17:27And the book.
17:32The book is harder.
17:34Please give me the book and bring it to them.
17:44Please give me the book.
17:49They put what they took out of the room into the living room.
17:57There are a lot of comics under the bed.
18:01It was Makoto-san's hobby.
18:06Did you like comics?
18:08Yes, I liked a lot of comics.
18:11I agree.
18:15Have you ever talked about comics at home?
18:20I don't read comics.
18:23I don't read comics at all.
18:25I don't read comics at all.
18:28We are siblings.
18:30We are siblings.
18:33We have our own lives.
18:36There are a lot of things that I don't understand.
18:42There are a lot of things.
18:44There are a lot of things.
18:49People keep a lot of things.
18:54People keep a lot of things.
18:59One side of Makoto-san's brother that his sister didn't know.
19:04Organizing his belongings means that he has to face things on his own.
19:11With the help of his friends, he is able to move forward at a high pace.
19:20Organizing his belongings means that he has to face things on his own.
19:24Is that so?
19:25It's hard to do it alone.
19:28It's hard to do it alone.
19:31You are too strong.
19:34It's hard to do it alone.
19:37It's hard to do it alone.
19:41That's why your friends came today.
19:44In a sense, it's very important that you don't have so many memories.
19:51Yes.
19:54There are a lot of photos and albums.
19:59This is painful.
20:01The people who are left behind.
20:04I'm sorry.
20:09There are things that have not been used for many years in the room.
20:15There are things that have not been used for many years in the room.
20:20There is a lot of dust.
20:24There is a lot of dust.
20:27I didn't clean it.
20:32There is a lot of dust.
20:34There is a lot of dust.
20:36It has not been used for more than 20 years.
20:39It has not been used for more than 20 years.
20:45Do you have any memories of this land and house?
20:50Memories...
20:56The most difficult thing about moving to Damsari is...
21:01The most difficult thing is...
21:03The land is hard to leave.
21:06The house is hard to throw away.
21:09The family is hard to leave.
21:12The land and the house are the most difficult.
21:17The family is hard to leave.
21:19The land is hard to leave.
21:21The house is hard to throw away.
21:23The house is hard to throw away.
21:25I'm sorry to say this, but...
21:28I feel like that time has come.
21:31I see.
21:34I don't think about what to do with this house.
21:37I think I can find a new house.
21:41You could do that?
21:44I think I make a choice.
21:47I think I make a choice.
21:51I think I make a choice.
21:54I think I make a choice.
21:59I don't need a big house like this.
22:02No, I don't need it at all.
22:04There is a side that is easy to live in my house, but this side is too fluffy, isn't it?
22:11Yes, it's really fluffy.
22:13It's only a burden to open and close the window.
22:19It's an old house, so I can't help but open and close the window.
22:26It's completely over my capacity.
22:32I think it's okay to have a little room even if it's moderate.
22:42Will she continue to look for a house that suits her now?
22:50Three hours after starting the wheelbarrow.
22:56Nothing is left.
22:58I can't go anymore.
23:03The room where her brother was alive and in good condition.
23:10Only memories are left in her memory, and the relics are scattered with a feeling of longing.
23:19With this, she seems to be able to take a step forward with a new feeling.
23:25Thank you very much.
23:27Thank you very much.
23:29Thank you very much.
23:31Thank you very much.
23:33Thank you very much.
23:36The closet where the suit and manga were left.
23:42Well, she did her best.
23:46She decided to take a slow look at her brother's photos and albums when she had time.
23:53There is no need to hurry.
23:57How do you feel?
23:59I feel refreshed.
24:01This is the place.
24:03That's right.
24:05I have to make it lighter from now on.
24:10That's right.
24:13I called my parents and my brother.
24:18I told them to make it lighter.
24:20That's right.
24:22This house is also heavy.
24:25That's right.
24:27The house itself is heavy, isn't it?
24:29I should think about how to make it lighter.
24:35I have so much support.
24:37Thank you very much.
24:40She reduced what she carried by herself.
24:43Her mind and life became lighter.
24:46Now, it's time to move on.
24:50Thank you very much.
24:52Thank you very much.
24:54Thank you very much.
24:56Thank you very much.
25:00There is still a lot of things left in the living room.
25:04What will she do with the white house alone?
25:08Pay attention to Misato's decision.
25:12What will she do with the white house alone?
25:16What will she do with the white house alone?
25:36Misato's day begins with opening the rain window of her parent's house where no one lives.
25:45Because the house will be damaged if it gets wet.
25:54The rain is gone.
25:56It's gone.
25:57I did my best to take everything out.
26:00I took out everything I could for the time being.
26:03This is the only mountain I have here.
26:09That's right.
26:10I took a lot of things out.
26:13Although her brother's room was demolished,
26:16what her family left in the living room and kitchen remained as it was.
26:25The dining table in the living room was what she ordered at her favorite imported furniture store with her mother when she built this house.
26:36At that time, she was proud of her new life in the house.
26:44I was happy.
26:46It's bigger than where I used to live.
26:52Have you ever talked to your brother when you built the house?
26:57When I built the house,
27:00when I built the house,
27:04I haven't talked to him.
27:08I don't think so.
27:11I don't think so.
27:15Misato was born and raised in Nerima, Tokyo.
27:18Her younger brother, Makoto, is two years younger than her.
27:23Her father, who ran the company, said he was in love with Makoto, her eldest son.
27:32He was a big boy.
27:34I wanted him to be a baseball player.
27:37He was in the Little League.
27:41I didn't know how many gloves he bought me.
27:46I found out when I became an adult.
27:49I've grown up a lot.
27:54Makoto is a sister who can study with her brother who is good at sports.
27:59They were good brothers who were popular in the neighborhood.
28:06Eventually, the two of them got their own jobs after graduating from college.
28:12Makoto started to spend busy days at a financial company.
28:20What kind of brother was he?
28:23I haven't talked to him.
28:25I haven't talked to him since I grew up.
28:30I built my own house.
28:34I don't go out with him.
28:50The first and second floors of the two-story house were always close,
28:56but when I realized it, I didn't talk to him much.
29:03I should have talked to my brother more.
29:08Now that I think about it, it was a little regrettable.
29:20Hello.
29:22Hello.
29:25Hello.
29:26Hello.
29:28She's a friend of the Ikebana classroom.
29:31She came to help again.
29:34That's great.
29:36I was really surprised.
29:38I'm almost done.
29:40I still have a lot to do.
29:44That's great.
29:50Tomorrow is the day to collect the garbage.
29:53She carried the bed in her brother's room and the unburnable garbage together.
30:02It's impossible to do this alone.
30:05I'm really grateful.
30:10The furniture and tables she bought with her mother are also disposed of one after another.
30:18I can't see it anymore.
30:20It's amazing how hard everyone works.
30:24The tableware is also thrown away.
30:31Do you throw away all the tableware?
30:33I don't throw away the tableware here.
30:37The tableware here is not good.
30:40I don't have any tableware that I remember.
30:43I throw everything away.
30:49Even so, there was a lot of tableware.
30:56There is.
30:58It's amazing that there is a vacuum cleaner.
31:02There are four people.
31:06There are four people, but there is a lot of tableware.
31:09I can't use all of this.
31:15No, there is still a lot of tableware.
31:18There is still a lot of tableware.
31:20Is there still more?
31:25Is this also a tableware?
31:27Is there still a tableware?
31:29There is still a lot of tableware.
31:32Tableware comes out of the kitchen shelf.
31:38It is said that most of the tableware is her mother's.
31:46All the shelves are full.
31:52Did you cook by yourself?
31:55I did.
31:56I'm good at cooking.
32:00Then, there may be some of Makoto's things.
32:08There is no more tableware.
32:13I can't use this.
32:15I can't use this.
32:20Misato is a little confused.
32:24On the other hand, her friends.
32:27I think Zaru-soba is good.
32:31Zaru-soba is good.
32:32Thank you for the food.
32:35You should take this with you.
32:38It's fun to hear the laughter of her friends.
32:42Yamashita-san said that she couldn't clean up by herself, but it's true.
32:51Are you okay?
32:54Finally, the most important thing of the day.
32:58The work of the day is finished by putting it out of the kitchen shelf.
33:06You threw away a lot.
33:09These will be collected as garbage tomorrow.
33:14After the hard work, she takes a break with sweets.
33:20But she is her friend.
33:23Why does she help to clean up?
33:29Yuki-chan, you did it.
33:31Your husband's housework.
33:33I did it.
33:34I did it.
33:35I did it.
33:36I did it.
33:37I did it.
33:38I did it.
33:39I did it.
33:40I did it.
33:41I did it.
33:42You did it.
33:43I did it.
33:44I did it.
33:45You did it.
33:47It was hard.
33:52I see a lot of things, so I think about how my mother felt when she disposed of them.
34:03I was wondering what to do.
34:07My husband's sister-in-law is a person who can throw away anything.
34:14She threw everything away, so I was able to do it.
34:19I may have been a little bad.
34:24My house and my mother's house are the only ones left.
34:33I haven't done anything yet.
34:37It's hard to think about it.
34:43In the end, I don't need it.
34:47That's right.
34:51It's hard to clean up after the children are gone.
35:00So I'm going to do it.
35:04That's right.
35:05That's right.
35:06That's right.
35:07That's right.
35:08That's right.
35:09That's right.
35:10That's right.
35:14The generation of people who have become familiar with disposing of things.
35:19Did they think of Misato as their own?
35:26Misato's disposal is just a little while away.
35:34It's better to do it.
35:37You have to be brave.
35:39I'm going to help you.
35:41I'm going to help you.
35:47Three weeks after the disposal of things, Misato's work is at its final stage.
35:54Today, she was doing the rest of the kitchen by herself.
36:01But I've had a lot of help from my friends, so I've really improved.
36:06If I was doing it alone, I would have done it while getting sick of it.
36:11I'm really grateful.
36:14And on this day, the last homework left behind.
36:24A photo of her brother, Makoto, who she couldn't touch until now.
36:42Oh, this is when I was a kid.
36:47When I was playing baseball.
36:50You said you were a baseball boy.
36:52That's right.
36:55This is when I was in elementary school.
36:57My mother did the album, so this is the album.
37:03I haven't seen that photo in decades.
37:06I haven't seen it in decades.
37:08I haven't seen it since I was a kid.
37:11I haven't seen it in 50 years.
37:15That's amazing.
37:18This is a photo of my relatives.
37:25We were very close.
37:27We went on a lot of trips.
37:31When my brother passed away, I met my cousin.
37:37We were all playing together.
37:39We went on a trip together.
37:41We talked about it.
37:44I said, I can't believe it.
37:50While looking at the photos left by Makoto,
37:55the memories she had forgotten little by little came back to her.
38:08There are a lot of photos of skiing.
38:12I was in the skiing generation.
38:14I was in the generation that took me skiing.
38:19We went skiing together.
38:24My brother drove the car.
38:26We went skiing together.
38:35He also went fishing.
38:38He took me fishing.
38:42He caught a lot of fish and mackerels.
38:48He was good at fishing.
38:51He made sashimi and let me eat it.
38:58Eventually, Misato noticed something.
39:03All the photos were taken by my brother with a smile on his face.
39:12We went there to play.
39:15It was fun.
39:23He suddenly passed away at the age of 58.
39:27Although it was the end of his life,
39:30his brother's life may have been as fulfilling as it was.
39:38That's what I remember.
39:46There were a lot of photos,
39:48but they were all deleted.
39:54It's nostalgic.
39:56He made a big decision to start a new life.
40:07One month after he started skiing,
40:10a friend came to Misato's house.
40:16Hello.
40:18He invited three people who helped him
40:21and held a room show after he finished skiing.
40:25Thank you for coming.
40:30It's beautiful.
40:32It's amazing.
40:34It's amazing.
40:37In the living room where he lost his master,
40:40there was no order in his heart.
40:42His brother's things were left behind.
40:46It was...
40:49It was like a clean space when he moved in.
40:56Even though there were so many things,
40:59Misato did her best.
41:04It's rare to see a room like this.
41:06It's big.
41:08It's big.
41:10You can live here.
41:12You can live here.
41:15The kitchen was in a state of shock
41:17when his brother passed away,
41:19so he stopped tidying up.
41:22Everything was in order.
41:25He was able to organize his feelings,
41:27which was good.
41:30Everything is beautiful.
41:32Look.
41:34It's amazing.
41:36Everything is gone.
41:38It's amazing.
41:40He did his best.
41:42It's amazing.
41:44He did it with his brother,
41:46so everything is empty.
41:48It's amazing.
41:50It's amazing.
41:52What a hard time.
41:54It was hard.
41:56It was the hardest when he sorted out the garbage.
41:59Everything here is garbage.
42:04It was hard.
42:06He disposed of the garbage by himself.
42:11If he was alone all the time,
42:13his brother's room
42:15might not have been able to do this much.
42:19It's really empty.
42:23It's amazing.
42:25There wasn't that much.
42:27There wasn't that much.
42:29There really wasn't anything.
42:31There wasn't anything.
42:35At first, he couldn't throw away his brother's room.
42:39But when he started to do it,
42:41he was able to do it.
42:45I thought it would be better
42:47to leave things as they are.
42:49I thought it would be better
42:51to lose things.
42:53So at first,
42:55I thought I couldn't throw them away.
42:57But now,
42:59I can throw them away
43:01and this house is revived.
43:03There's nothing left.
43:05If he did it by himself,
43:07he would have been annoyed.
43:09So I'm really grateful.
43:11I'm grateful to the three of them.
43:13I'm grateful to the three of them.
43:15I'm grateful to the three of them.
43:17I'm grateful to the three of them.
43:19I feel relieved.
43:21I feel relieved.
43:25I was really grateful
43:27to have my friend here.
43:29And she is a good friend.
43:31She supported me a lot.
43:33I'm glad.
43:35It's really hard
43:37to organize things by yourself.
43:39It's really hard to organize things by yourself.
43:41It's really hard to organize things by yourself.
43:43It's physically and mentally
43:45hard work.
43:47I want you to say,
43:49please help me.
43:51I want you to say, please help me.
43:53Organizing things by yourself
43:55is only about
43:57getting rid of the deceased.
43:59But actually,
44:01it's about
44:03starting a new
44:05life.
44:07It's a new start in my life.
44:09It's hard to throw away
44:11a house,
44:13it's hard to leave
44:15my home,
44:17especially my family.
44:19It's really hard to throw away
44:21a house,
44:23it's hard to leave
44:25my home,
44:27it's hard to leave
44:29my family,
44:31Many people don't realize that they are not the only one who has this idea.
44:36There are many people who are trying to protect this house even though it's not their size.
44:42I think we made a good decision this time because there are many people who are suffering.
44:51After cleaning up the house, Misato and her friends went to Ikebana classroom.
45:10Misato made a decision.
45:16I decided to rebuild the house.
45:19Did you?
45:20Yes, I did.
45:21Did you?
45:22Yes, I did.
45:25Then, you should move to a new house.
45:27No, that's not what I meant.
45:29That's not what I meant.
45:30That's not what I meant.
45:31That's not what I meant.
45:32That's not what I meant.
45:35From now on, she moved to a house where she can live alone.
45:40Misato is trying to start a new life with the help of her friends.
45:49So, please don't worry about her.
45:56I will watch you wherever you go.