Second Date Update - Portrait Mode
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00:00But right now, we're in the middle of our second date update, trying to help out Sam.
00:03We want to match him back up on another date with Megan.
00:06Let's see if we can make this happen, because Sam seems like a really nice guy.
00:10He's a very genuine dude.
00:12He was kind of to the point.
00:13He's very confused right now.
00:15And hopefully we can shed some light on it for him, because we do have Megan on hold, right?
00:20Yes, we do.
00:21Okay, cool.
00:21Let's bring her on.
00:22Megan.
00:23Yeah, hi.
00:24Hi.
00:25We do appreciate you hanging on for us.
00:27You just heard us talking a little bit about this situation you got going on with Sam.
00:32We heard you guys went and bar hopped in downtown St. Pete.
00:36I guess you guys both lived down there.
00:38What was interesting to us was the fact that the night ended at Sam's place,
00:42where you guys just kind of went back and had one more drink.
00:45And then I guess you walked home, because you guys lived pretty close by each other.
00:49And that was it.
00:51He told us everything was PG and all that.
00:52And he just is kind of confused why, when he's attempted to set up another date with you,
00:59he hasn't heard from you.
01:01Well, I mean, Sam is really, he's so nice and so sweet.
01:06And I just, he's just not the type of guy for me.
01:10So nice.
01:11So sweet.
01:12Sounds good.
01:13But not your type?
01:14What's going on?
01:15Are you looking for a jerk?
01:16No, I'm not looking for a jerk.
01:18He's just not the type of guy that I want to be with.
01:24It's just, you know, it's just something off for me.
01:28And, you know, it's fine for other people, I'm sure, but it's not for me.
01:33What was wrong?
01:35What's throwing you off here?
01:36Well, honestly, when we got to his place, I noticed that he's got, like, photos everywhere in his place.
01:47And there's, like, ten portraits of his mom.
01:52In his place?
01:53Like, at his place.
01:55Just around, like, the common areas there, like the living room and there's, like, one in the bathroom.
02:02Okay.
02:03Um, and they're just, they're not, like, pictures of him and his mom.
02:08It's just, like, portraits of his mom framed on the wall.
02:11And I was just, like, mm, on one hand it's really sweet, but on the other hand, I don't know, I just got a creepy vibe off it.
02:21So it alarmed you that this guy may be close with his mom and has photos of her around his house, and that just threw you off?
02:32Yeah, it's just, I don't know, it just gave me a, like I said, it kind of gave me a weird vibe.
02:37And so I was like, you know what, this is just, it's probably not for me.
02:41Okay, well, I mean, is it the worst thing that he's close with his mom?
02:44I mean, because, you know, they say, you know, how guys treat their moms is how they're going to treat their future spouses.
02:50Very true.
02:50So, obviously, he values his mom, right?
02:53Isn't that a good thing?
02:54Well, I mean, it's a good thing that you get along well with your mom, but I mean, just, and I would understand if it was, like, pictures of him and her, but it's just, like, portraits of her.
03:05Okay.
03:05Like, I don't know, I didn't want to insult him, so I was just like, okay, you know, this is a lot of fun, because we did have fun, but I just, I don't know, I don't want somebody who's that close with their mom, because I don't really want to be competition with the mom.
03:22Do you know what I mean?
03:22Okay.
03:23All right, well, here's the deal, Megan.
03:25We do have Sam on the phone with us as well.
03:28I'd like to bring him back on, if that would be cool, if he'd be willing to talk to us and him.
03:32Would that be cool?
03:34Fine.
03:35Sure, fine.
03:35Okay, thank you.
03:37Sam.
03:38Hey.
03:39Is that pretty accurate, how she kind of described your place, or?
03:43Yeah, I just, I never imagined that it would be a problem, but, yeah, I'm super close with my mom, and she thinks,
03:52sends me photos once you get the new one done, and I love to frame them and put them up.
03:58I didn't really know it was a bad thing to be close to your mother, but.
04:04It's not a bad thing.
04:05It really isn't, but it's, I mean, just for someone else to see just plain portraits of her instead of you and her doing stuff,
04:13it just seems like you may be a little too close to your mom.
04:17Uh, I mean, I assume that most people have photos of their place.
04:22I don't really have, I don't really see a problem with that.
04:26Here's the thing, though.
04:27It's like, if something were to happen, you know, between us and we got intimate, it's like,
04:33I don't really want to have your mom staring at me.
04:36Yeah.
04:38It would just be weird and just feel creepy and wrong, and so, no.
04:44All right.
04:45Well, I mean, if you have an issue with that or me being close to my mom, I don't know,
04:51maybe we just aren't a good match, I guess.
04:54Exactly.
04:55Okay.
04:56I mean, you're a nice guy, and I wish you the best, but it's just not something I'm comfortable with.
05:01Well, Sam, do you want to say anything else?
05:03I know you're kind of coming on this call hoping to see her again,
05:06but it sounds like you're realizing that maybe not be the best thing for you?
05:09Yeah.
05:10I mean, my mom comes first, and I don't even, I mean, I've been on one date with Megan,
05:16and this is already an issue.
05:18I don't really see the point in, you know, going any further.
05:21Okay.
05:22All right, gotcha.
05:24All right, well, Megan, thank you for coming on with us.
05:27We appreciate your honesty, I guess, and this is just kind of one of your preferences,
05:30and it's not going to work for you.
05:33I wish you well.
05:33Yeah, and that's okay.
05:34I wish you well, and Sam, thanks for coming on as well.
05:37You guys have a great day.
05:39All right.
05:39Thanks.
05:40I mean, I think it's very sweet that he is close with his mom.
05:44100%.
05:44I kind of get what she's saying when she's saying that, like, if it was pictures of, like,
05:49him and his mom in a photo, like, at, I don't know, you know, Out to Eat or Disney World
05:54or whatever, I mean, that might be a little more normal than just having portraits that
05:58are framed of your mother around your house.
06:01It is interesting.
06:02It is interesting.
06:03That's a good way to put it.
06:03It's interesting.
06:04All right.
06:05So, would this have been a deal breaker, though, for you?
06:07We want to know.
06:08If you were Megan, 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.