Forward Thinking
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00:00So Tommy is very confident about his date with Leanne. It's our 7-15 second date update, 99.5 QIK, and he said, quote-unquote, I think I nailed it.
00:10Yes, he did. And I asked him, you know, he was saying that, you know, she was, she seemed like she was enjoying herself, and I said, how do you know?
00:17He's like, she was kind of sending me those signals, I could just tell, you know, she was being flirty, she was staring at me, she was looking at me, like, for a really long time, so he's feeling it.
00:26But he's reached out, and she has not responded to any of his text messages, so he's not sure.
00:31All right, so we have her on hold right now. We were able to track her down. She's agreed to talk to us on the air, so let's do that. Let's bring her back on right now. Leanne?
00:39Hi.
00:39Hey, Leanne. I know this is confusing. I do appreciate you agreeing to come on with us. We did mention to you a little bit that this was about a date you went on, and we're talking about a guy named Tommy.
00:49You remember Tommy? You guys went to Middle Grounds in Treasure Island. He said it was a great date. He thought that you guys were, you know, both feeling it as far as, like, being into each other, and now he hasn't heard anything from you since, and he's just really confused on what's going on, so we were trying to get some answers for him, so what's the deal?
01:07I mean, did you feel the same way he did as far as that connection?
01:11Um, no. I don't know, like, I don't know what he told you, but he was so creepy and, like, pushy and super forward about everything.
01:26Oh.
01:26Like, I got, like, the heebie-jeebies from the conversations that we were having. We hadn't even been there 10 minutes, and we sat down, and he was like, so, um, what are your thoughts on, like,
01:37kissing on the first date? I was like, what? I don't, he's like, how long do you wait to, you know, and I was like, don't finish that sentence, please.
01:45Like, it was very, like, seriously, I would have gotten up and left if we had not ordered our food, but I didn't want to be, like.
01:53Well, the food is good there. I will say that, so, yeah.
01:56Exactly.
01:57But you don't ask that on a first date.
01:59Of course you don't ask that. What do we do?
02:01Do we make an L later? Is that cool?
02:03How did you answer the question? I mean, honestly, how did you respond to it, I should say?
02:08Like, were you like, uh, what are you talking about, or?
02:11Yeah, it was kind of like, um, let's start with something smaller. Like, I don't know, how's your day?
02:18Right.
02:19I just kept trying to change the conversation, and he just kept bringing it back to all of, like, the physical stuff and the time clock on, like, when I'm, when I'm available to do what, and, like, when I feel comfortable doing, you know, and it was just, I was so forward, and I, like, it was just, it was so uncomfortable the whole time.
02:42All right. Well, obviously, that would be very uncomfortable. I want to tell you this, Leanne, we actually have Tommy on the phone. Uh, we did not hear any of that, um, but we want to know more about this, so I want to bring it back on right now. Hey, Tommy.
02:56Hey, guys.
02:57What kind of approach is that, man? Like, just going at someone like that? I mean, like, when are you, do you kiss on the first date and kind of get a timeline, basically?
03:05Yeah, I mean, we're not in high school. Come on. I mean, we're adults, and, you know, I, I'm just direct. I don't like to waste my time. And, I mean, really, it's, it's, it's a kiss, right?
03:16Yeah, but it sounds like you were asking about more than just that.
03:19Yeah, well, I mean, maybe I was insinuating a little bit or kind of being, you know, a little bit mysterious.
03:24Don't you need to kind of wait and see how the person feels or if you're attracted to that person or if you feel any connection or maybe you're just going out on dates for another reason?
03:33Well, no, I mean, to me, it's like, you want to see if you have that spark. If it's there, otherwise, like, why bother?
03:41It was a first date. Gentlemen, don't act like that on a first date.
03:45I'm definitely a gentleman. I mean, it's not, it's like the 1950s. It's like, what year are we in now?
03:51It's 2023.
03:52Yeah.
03:53Yeah, so, I mean, we live in the world of social media and everybody, you know, making duck faces and blowing kisses to nobody.
04:02I mean, so, what's the big deal?
04:04But you don't talk about stuff like that on a first date. You just let it happen.
04:08If you plan it out, it's awkward and weird and forced.
04:11I think you're kind of overreacting.
04:13Well, I mean, listen, even if you are a forward person, which, whatever, that's fine, but you have to understand that not everybody is that forward and not everybody is that open, right, Tommy?
04:22I mean, you can see how that can make somebody uncomfortable, right?
04:25You know, like I said, it's like if, you know, if I was maybe 16 years old, maybe I'd be a little freaked out, but, I mean, a couple grown-ups out, you know, having dinner, having a good time.
04:38I mean, and definitely, like I said, the way her eyes were looking at me, they didn't seem like they were too worried about, you know, just having a little kiss.
04:47This is so inappropriate and just honestly unacceptable in my book, and I have truly no desire to see this guy again.
04:59You sure?
05:01I kind of got that vibe from you, too.
05:04All right.
05:05Well, Leanne, we will let you go.
05:08Tommy, you heard what Leanne had to say.
05:10We're going to respect her decision.
05:11That just wasn't her vibe that you were putting out, and that's that.
05:15So, I appreciate you calling, Tommy.
05:17Leanne, thank you for your time.
05:19You have a great day.
05:21Okay, you, too.
05:22All right.
05:23That guy sounded creepy.
05:24I was going to say, I mean, the way that he was defending himself in, like, that kind of monotone voice, it was like, what are we doing here?
05:32But also, I just don't understand how you don't know that that's a weird thing, like, to talk about.
05:38And even if you were talking about something else, like, I don't know.
05:41Being super opinionated on a first date is not a good idea.
05:44But dating is just so different nowadays, like when I dated, just because everybody's so forward.
05:51And everybody, like he says, they know what they want and don't waste my time because people don't have time.
05:57I just, but that's not the route to go.
05:59No.
05:59Because I think there's a lot of people out there that still like the old-fashioned way of being, you know, corded.
06:04What would you have told Tommy?