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00:00All right, we're talking about our 7-15 second date update today between Mark and Jenna.
00:04If you didn't hear this one, definitely worth a listen to because they met at a bar.
00:09They kind of hit it off and then something happened at that bar that night
00:14and they never ended up going out on a date.
00:16And this is just, I feel really bad for Jenna.
00:19So, but I don't even know if I really believe Mark.
00:22I think there's something else going on.
00:24I don't know. You tell us. Leave a comment below.
00:26Well, interesting. Jenna and Mark actually met out at Gaspar's Grotto in Ybor.
00:31She was with her friends. He was with his friends.
00:34And they've actually never been on a one-on-one date.
00:36But they had some private time as they were out at the bar.
00:40Yeah, she was like, it kind of felt like a date because we were kind of off on our own.
00:44He was buying me drinks. She was like, I gave him my number.
00:46I mean, she was kind of basically saying they were both very interested in each other.
00:51They left separately and she's been trying to hit him up to go on another date.
00:56She doesn't learn anything.
00:57And I'm like, well, maybe as a girlfriend, did you stalk his Facebook?
01:00And she said, yeah, she did.
01:01She's quote, unquote, I'm definitely a stalker.
01:04Yes.
01:04That's what she said.
01:05All right.
01:06So we actually have Mark on the phone with us.
01:10Kevin got a hold of him and we asked him if it was okay to talk to him on the air.
01:13So we're going to ask him about this as well.
01:14Mark, you there?
01:16Yeah. Hi.
01:17Hey, Mark.
01:18I know you talked to Kevin.
01:19I appreciate you coming on with us.
01:21You know that we want to talk to you about a date, right?
01:23Yeah.
01:24What's going on here?
01:25All right.
01:25Well, I guess it's not really a date.
01:26It's actually about someone you met.
01:28We're talking about Jenna.
01:29You met her at Gaspar's Grotto?
01:32Oh, yeah.
01:33Yeah.
01:33So she said you guys really got along and she said that you guys kind of had like your own
01:38time off to the side and we're talking and you guys were talking about going on a real
01:42one-on-one date.
01:43But that hasn't happened because she hasn't heard from you since that day meeting you.
01:48And we're kind of like, what happened?
01:50Because it seemed like you guys were really into each other, if that's an accurate depiction
01:53of what she said.
01:54Oh, yeah.
01:56You know, look, here's the thing.
01:57I'm somebody who doesn't always pay the best attention to like red flags.
02:03But this one, I don't know.
02:04It kind of stood out.
02:05All right.
02:05So from meeting her at a bar, you already got a red flag, but you still gave her your number.
02:11I'm kind of confused by that.
02:12What was the red flag?
02:12I feel weird.
02:16Well, Mark, I will just tell you, obviously, we got your number from somebody and that
02:19somebody was Jenna.
02:20So whatever it is, I mean, she's okay hearing it from you.
02:23I mean, we're looking for an answer.
02:25So, yeah.
02:25What was that red flag?
02:27All right.
02:27So her friend grabbed me and kind of pulled me aside as we were leaving and said that she
02:34does this every weekend.
02:35You know, she kind of like connects with a guy and he's the one and how it's like kismet.
02:41And then, you know, she dates a lot and it's always like this.
02:45And she, you know, she was really sweet.
02:47She was like, you seem nice.
02:48I just wanted to let you know that this is something that happens a lot with her.
02:53Well, it sounds like the friend is moving in.
02:55That's what I thought, too.
02:56I was like, is this like some weird like competition?
02:59Yeah.
03:00But no, the friend was just like, you know, kind of dropped the bomb and walked off.
03:06So she's like, hey, I just want to give you a heads up about my friend that she's kind
03:10of someone who dates quite a bit type of thing.
03:12Yeah.
03:13I mean, it seemed like she kind of like saw what was going on and saw that we were like
03:17kind of, you know, and that I was into it.
03:19You know, I was digging her and then she kind of wanted to make sure I was aware of the
03:23whole situation.
03:24So Jenna doesn't know that her friend grabbed you and pulled you aside and was telling her
03:28a bunch of stuff about her.
03:29She has no idea.
03:32No, no, I felt weird.
03:35Well, here's the thing, Mark.
03:36We actually obviously we got your number from Jenna.
03:38She's on the phone with us as well.
03:39So she heard all that.
03:40But she wanted to know.
03:41I got to tell you, she wanted to know.
03:42So Jenna, I mean, I'm just sitting here like absolutely floored.
03:49Yeah, you got some bad friends.
03:50Well, hold on.
03:51Seriously, like that's insane.
03:53Mark, which one of my friends told you that?
03:55Seriously.
03:56Look, I'm not I'm not getting involved in that.
03:59No, no, thanks.
04:01No, I mean, seriously, like I have a right to know.
04:04I really do have a right to know who is saying like all of this like BS about me.
04:10So I'm sorry if this causes any sort of drama.
04:12I'm not about that.
04:13But the friend gave me some examples, too.
04:15Who said it?
04:16Okay.
04:17Examples?
04:17I don't know.
04:18They didn't tell me their name.
04:19She didn't say her name.
04:20So I don't know.
04:21What'd she look like?
04:23Okay.
04:23I'm not I'm not doing a police lineup.
04:26Okay.
04:27I'm not.
04:27I don't I don't I don't want to be interrogated about your friend.
04:30Okay.
04:31She's your friend.
04:32Take care of your own.
04:33Seriously.
04:33Like, I have a right to know more.
04:35Like, just just tell me what she looks like.
04:37I don't it's not that big of a deal.
04:39Jenna, I don't know if he's going to tell you.
04:41Like, so someone says something random to you, but you spoke to me the whole night and
04:46had fun with me.
04:47Like, and you're not getting back to me because of what someone random says.
04:51Like, it just doesn't make sense.
04:53Well, but it's not what someone random said.
04:55It's what your friend said.
04:57It's not like somebody at the bar pulled me aside, some stranger.
04:59It was the person who you came with.
05:02But I'm saying it's not someone that you know.
05:04Exactly.
05:05It's someone you know.
05:06It's just not true.
05:07So I don't know why you would believe what someone would say over what I would say.
05:13Like, you didn't really talk to my friends.
05:15Yeah, but really, we don't know each other.
05:17And like, it's just we it's just the fact that they did it.
05:20The fact that your friend did that.
05:23That's drama.
05:23That's that's like, look, I don't want to be on a reality show.
05:26You know what I mean?
05:27I just want to I'm a pretty laid back guy.
05:29I just don't want any part of that.
05:31I'm sorry.
05:32I'm for it.
05:33I really like I really need to know who said this about me because I need to just
05:37cut them out of my life.
05:38This is ridiculous.
05:40But someone would lie about me, you know, Mark, would you be willing to find out for
05:46yourself if this is true?
05:47I mean, I have to ask that question.
05:49I mean, what if you went on one date with Jenna one on one and you found out for yourself?
05:53Would you be willing to do that?
05:55Look, the whole situation has kind of thrown me off.
05:58Look, I believe you.
06:00I'll take your word for it that you're you're not like that.
06:02But I'm good.
06:04OK, well, Jenna, I am sorry that Mark is not willing to go back on another date.
06:09It sounds like you maybe get some calls to make and some texts to shoot to some of your
06:13friends.
06:13She's going to be on the phone all day with her girlfriend.
06:16So I'm finding out who said this.
06:17Mark, thanks for the time.
06:18And Jenna, thanks for your time as well.
06:20And I wish you both luck in your dating lives.
06:22Thanks, guys.
06:23All right.
06:24See you guys.
06:24That's a bummer, man.
06:25I would be so upset if one of my friends.
06:28I mean, I'm sitting there talking to some guy all night and I, you know, I'm like, oh,
06:31I'm really excited to go out with them and then my friend walks over there and spills
06:34a bunch of lies.
06:35I mean, you don't do that to your girlfriends or or was she telling the truth?
06:40But who is she friends with?
06:41She's friends with her, not him.
06:43I know.
06:43Oh, no, absolutely.
06:44Loyalty has been betrayed big time.
06:46Yeah.
06:47I want to know what you think.
06:47Eight hundred nine nine to ten nine eight hundred nine to ten nine.
06:51Should he have just trusted Jenna or should he have definitely taken that warning?
06:55We don't know right now.