The 7:15 Second Date Update - Old School Dating
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00:00Trying to help out Haley this morning on the 715 Second Date Update.
00:03Now, make sure you are paying attention to the details
00:06because we will be testing you on the Second Date Update
00:09in order to win these Universal Orlando tickets.
00:12But we're going to try to call Cameron right now
00:15because he went on a date with Haley.
00:17Haley thought this was a great date.
00:19Yeah, picked her up at the house, and then they went to Bar Louie.
00:23She said they had great conversation.
00:25She can't think of anything.
00:26She doesn't understand.
00:28So, sounds good to me on her part.
00:31On her end, it sounds great.
00:33And she's reached out a few times and like,
00:35hey, how's your week?
00:36Nothing too much and nothing back.
00:38All right.
00:38So, we are going to try to call Cameron right now.
00:54Hello?
00:55Hi, is this Cameron?
00:57This is...
00:58Hey, Cameron.
00:58Good morning to you.
00:59Hope you're having a great morning so far.
01:00This is actually J.R. Lonning Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
01:05We're Tampa Bay's morning crew.
01:06Hello.
01:08Okay.
01:09And, sorry, what is it?
01:11Is it radio?
01:12Yeah.
01:13This is...
01:13Yeah, it's 99.5QIK.
01:16And we want to see if we can talk to you for a couple minutes.
01:19We talk to people about dates they go on.
01:21And there's a date that you recently went on
01:23that we wanted to ask you a couple questions about
01:25just to get your feedback on it.
01:27Oh, boy.
01:27Okay.
01:28You cool with that?
01:29We're on the air.
01:31Sure.
01:32All right.
01:32Here we go.
01:32So, I wanted to ask about this girl, Haley.
01:35She said you were a complete gentleman.
01:36You came and you picked her up at her house.
01:38You walked her to the car,
01:39opened the car door for her.
01:41She felt like you guys had a, you know, a good conversation
01:44when you guys went to Bar Louie
01:45and felt like it was more than just pleasantries.
01:49You guys actually talked about something meaningful
01:50and she really enjoyed her time with you.
01:53And I guess she sent you a text not too long after that date,
01:57like a couple days later, just saying,
01:58hey, how's your week going?
01:59I think she even commented on one of your Instagram posts,
02:02she said, kind of being flirty.
02:04And there was no response from you, as you probably know.
02:07And she's just very confused on, you know,
02:10where things went wrong,
02:11because obviously something's going on
02:12if you're not getting back to her.
02:13So, what's the deal?
02:16Well, I mean, things went wrong right from the beginning.
02:20I'm surprised she is confused.
02:24Well, let us know what happened.
02:25What went wrong?
02:27Well, I mean, here's the thing.
02:29So, I get to her house and her dad's there.
02:33What, like waiting on the lawn for you?
02:35No, like her dad's in the house.
02:37Like, she lives with her parents.
02:43And I mean, I'm almost 40, you know.
02:45I'm 38.
02:46She's like 35 or something.
02:48And she lives with her parents.
02:50I'm meeting the dad at the house.
02:52You know what I mean?
02:53Oh, so you actually went into her house
02:55when you picked her up.
02:57Yeah, the dad let me in
02:59and then sat me down
03:00like it was, you know, 1935 all over again
03:03and started giving me 21 questions
03:05about his daughter.
03:07Like, what my intentions are
03:09and, you know, what time I'll bring her back.
03:12I'm like, this is insanity.
03:14I'm, you know, I'm too old for this.
03:17Man, so you got the full interview
03:20from her dad, huh?
03:21Yeah, like old school, just, you know,
03:25I'm sitting there while she's getting ready
03:27and I'm just having this awkward conversation
03:30with her dad.
03:32Yeah, I can see how that could be very strange,
03:35especially like at your age or whatever.
03:37How would the actual date go?
03:39Did you have a good time on the date?
03:40It was good to get out of that house,
03:42but, you know, I'm sitting through that date
03:44just thinking this is not going to go anywhere.
03:47Like, it's ruined.
03:48I'm not going to date somebody
03:49that's still living with their parents at 35, you know?
03:52I feel like this happened when I was younger, maybe.
03:54Oh, sure, of course it did.
03:56But, I don't know, not at 38.
03:59No.
04:01Well, here's the deal.
04:02We actually have Haley on the phone with us, Cameron.
04:04We want to bring her back on
04:05because I think these are some valid questions
04:06that you probably have
04:07and she was wondering why you weren't getting back to her.
04:10So, Haley.
04:11Hi.
04:12So, was your dad kind of giving Cameron
04:14the full court press there?
04:17I mean, I guess I didn't really think of it
04:20from that perspective.
04:22I can see now that that might have been, like,
04:24a little too much.
04:25But it's just, you know, they really care about me.
04:28They don't want me to get hurt, you know.
04:30Well, if you don't mind me asking,
04:31is there a reason you still live at home with them?
04:33Not that there's anything wrong with that.
04:34Is there a reason, though?
04:36Oh, yeah.
04:37I mean, it's just, I moved back in after college
04:39and it's just been a great way to save money
04:42and, you know, be close with my family and stuff.
04:45Sorry, you just, you're 35.
04:48What do you mean you're just out of college?
04:50Have you been there for, like, 13 years then?
04:53Well, if she went to college straight out of high school.
04:54I mean, did you go to college straight out of high school?
04:57I mean, yeah, I did.
04:58Oh, okay.
04:59You know, I've traveled and stuff.
05:01It's not like I'm always in the house.
05:04But when the time's right, you know, I'll move out.
05:07It's just, there's no need to right now.
05:09If you want to have a life of your own, you know,
05:13and leave the nest and start doing your own thing,
05:17you know, you kind of have to move out of your parents' house.
05:20I don't see what the big deal is.
05:21I mean, I do have a life of my own.
05:22Obviously, I'm dating.
05:24You know, like, of course I have a life of my own.
05:26Your dad met me at the door, not because he was visiting,
05:30but because he was in the living room watching TV.
05:34All right, all right, all right.
05:34Okay, I can see how that might be a little off-putting,
05:37and I promise that will never happen again.
05:39I'm not trying to be a jerk, but it's not going to happen again
05:42just because I'm not going to go on another date,
05:46which is why I haven't responded to you.
05:48Wait, what?
05:49Just because I live with my parents?
05:51Yeah.
05:52I'm a few years away from joining your dad's pickleball team.
05:56You know what I mean?
05:58It's just not going to work.
05:59I don't want to be in a relationship
06:01and take the time to get to know someone that's still, you know,
06:05at this point, at this, you know, phase in their life
06:08where they're still living at home.
06:09Well, let me jump in here real quick.
06:11Like I said, whatever works for you, Haley,
06:14is what, you know, obviously your living situation is your business.
06:16I think, though, that Cameron is looking maybe someone,
06:19looking for someone a little bit more separated from their parents
06:22and maybe a little more independent,
06:24not saying that you're not, but just in his eyes at least.
06:27Cameron, is there any way you could look past, you know,
06:30being interviewed by her dad on the first date
06:32and maybe be open to going on a second date, you know,
06:35based on, you know, how the date went once you guys left the house?
06:39You know, I can't.
06:40It's too awkward and it was super strange.
06:43I just, you know, honestly, I wish her well and everything.
06:48You know, I'm sure her roommates are, but I just can't.
06:52Roommates, is that how you said?
06:53Yeah.
06:54Okay.
06:55All right, well, listen, Haley, I'm sorry this is not going to work out.
06:58Cameron's just deciding that this is not going to be for him,
07:01but I'm sure maybe you'll find someone that it is for,
07:03and that's, you've got to do what's best for you,
07:05and especially when it comes to family.
07:07And I'm sorry, though, we couldn't get another date for you, Haley,
07:10but I wish you luck, okay?
07:11Wow.
07:12Yeah, okay.
07:14No problem.
07:14Cameron, thank you for your time.
07:16Yeah.
07:16Yeah.