The 7:15 Second Date Update – Keep It Casual
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00:00We are trying to help out Martina this morning. She is really into this guy. Sean, it's 99.5 QIK, your 7.15 second date update.
00:08Kevin, here's what I will say about this. I kind of ran out of questions for Martina because they only hung out for an hour.
00:13Yeah, and there's only so much you can know about a person within that hour.
00:16But, as you said, a lot can go also wrong in an hour.
00:20Only so much can go wrong. I mean, what possibly could go wrong if you're just having coffee for an hour?
00:24I mean, I don't know. Did she spill it on him?
00:27I know.
00:27I don't know what happened.
00:28Something happened, but I love that it was a casual date.
00:31They met on Bumble. They saw that they worked near each other.
00:35So, they're like, hey, let's meet here.
00:36And then she wants to have like a formal dinner, but now he's not even getting back to her.
00:41And she's tried multiple times.
00:43All right, so we're going to try to call Sean right now and see if we can get a hold of him.
00:46Hello?
01:02Hi, is this Sean?
01:04Yeah.
01:05Hey, Sean. Sorry to bother you this morning.
01:07This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
01:11Good morning.
01:12Good morning.
01:15It is.
01:16Yeah, man. Hey, listen. This is so random. I know.
01:19We do something called a 715 second date update, and we talk to people about dates they go on.
01:24We are wondering if you had just a few minutes.
01:27We wanted to ask you actually on the air about a date you went on.
01:31I know that's kind of putting you on the spot, but I promise you we're just going to ask you some basic questions.
01:36I mean, yeah, sure, sure. Why not?
01:38Okay.
01:39Well, I'll tell you this.
01:40We've heard nothing but great things about you from this girl, Martina, that you met on Bumble.
01:43We heard you guys just went on a little lunch coffee date, and I guess you weren't close to each other.
01:48She said it was about an hour long.
01:50You guys got to talking.
01:51She felt like there was some joking around going on between you two.
01:53And then she said, hey, thank you for the date, and also asked, hey, we should get together for a more formal date.
01:58No response from you.
02:00She's very confused.
02:01We're a little confused as well because we're trying to think of what possibly could have gone wrong in an hour.
02:07Yeah.
02:07I mean, you know, in one hour, not a lot of time, but I don't think I've ever felt more attacked in ever.
02:15No.
02:16Attacked?
02:17Attacked.
02:17Yeah.
02:18What do you mean by attacked?
02:19I mean, just from the jump, she started criticizing the outfit I was wearing.
02:24You know, it was casual, right?
02:25We just went to get coffee.
02:26It was like a lunch break thing.
02:28It wasn't even major, so I'm just in a T-shirt, jeans, chucks, you know, nothing crazy.
02:34That's what I wear every day, by the way, Sean.
02:36This is true.
02:37I'm with that, okay?
02:38So I got you.
02:39It's a casual date.
02:40I'm not wearing a suit to a coffee shop.
02:42Right.
02:43But right off the bat, she's criticizing my outfit, telling me where I could go buy other clothes, just all kinds of stuff like that for an hour.
02:55And I felt like I was more on like a consulting thing than anything else, but, you know, it was just really uncomfortable.
03:02She felt very controlling.
03:04Yeah.
03:04I just, I wasn't, I wasn't feeling it.
03:06And this is all unsolicited, right?
03:08Like you didn't ask her, you guys weren't on the topic of clothes or anything like that?
03:11No.
03:12Who does that on a first date?
03:14I don't know.
03:14I'm just trying to get some answers here.
03:16She just immediately went for like, why do you dress like that?
03:19You know?
03:20I only imagine if you would have said that to her, that would have been really bad.
03:23That would have been awful.
03:23I can't imagine.
03:24Yeah.
03:25Well, listen, we actually have her on the phone with us.
03:29I want to bring Martina back on with us.
03:32Martina.
03:32Yeah.
03:33Hey.
03:33First of all, it was like playful gang jobs, like that are supposed to be playful and flirty
03:41and fun and like, you're just meeting each other.
03:43There's not much else to talk about.
03:44So it was more of like, oh my gosh, like I didn't realize you could step down for work.
03:49How lucky are you?
03:50Like I have to dress up every day and, you know, but at the same time it was like, all
03:55right, but maybe put a little effort into it.
03:57I feel good about yourself.
03:58And I was kind of just joking and saying and also trying to like help you.
04:02I do.
04:04I feel fine about myself.
04:05I have no issues.
04:06But what if I did that to you?
04:07What if I was like, oh man, those jeans make your butt look big.
04:10Like you would have immediately.
04:11I never commented on your actual appearance in that way.
04:15I never said anything about how it made you look.
04:17I was more so commenting on just like, you know, trying to dress up, like instead of dress
04:23down, dress up, you know, like, I don't know.
04:25It's just funny.
04:26That is a bad, bad first impression way to break the ice.
04:29You know, we're just trying to get to know each other and you're already criticizing.
04:33You know, I was wearing a Star Wars shirt.
04:35You're criticizing that.
04:36I mean, that's just who I am.
04:38That's how I dress.
04:39So I don't know.
04:40It just seemed like that would trickle into other elements of my life, but I'm not into
04:43that.
04:44Martina, can you see how that may come off critical?
04:47I mean, I guess.
04:48But I was honestly just trying to help him.
04:50And I didn't ever think that that would be something that he'd be acting like it was
04:55kind of a little baby about.
04:56Oh, boy.
04:57Wow.
04:58Well, what if he didn't want to change?
05:00If he wanted to keep wearing the clothes that he wears, would you be OK with that?
05:04You can always change what you wear and that girls are there to help guys.
05:09I mean, I like what I wear.
05:10I mean, then don't you think you just told me that instead of ghosting me and instead
05:15of keeping me like, which is like a horrible thing to do.
05:19That would have kind of been a weird text.
05:21You didn't like my clothes.
05:22I'm not calling you back.
05:23Yeah, I just figured easier to just cut it off now before it bleeds into other things.
05:30Well, Sean, is this going to be a deal breaker for you?
05:32I mean, what if she just said she didn't bring this up anymore?
05:35I don't know.
05:36I'm good.
05:37I'm sorry.
05:38But that's really, really rubbed me the wrong way.
05:40It was a whole hour just spent on my appearance where I could buy better clothes.
05:45I was not talking about your clothes for the entire hour.
05:49If I were, why would I want to see you again?
05:51I actually enjoyed our time together, which is why I wanted to see you again.
05:55Like, I was not talking about that for the whole hour.
05:58You're exaggerating.
05:59Yeah, I'm not, though.
06:01That was that was the bulk of the conversation was, you know, you were like, I'll send you
06:06links to better things.
06:07Were we on January dates here?
06:09I mean, I'm just, that's too much.
06:12All right.
06:12Well, listen, sounds like Sean is not willing to go on another date.
06:16Martina, now you've got your answers.
06:18I'm sorry I took this to do that.
06:20But you did get some answers.
06:22And I appreciate you coming on with us.
06:24And I wish you luck in your future dating.
06:26All right.
06:26All right.
06:27Great.
06:27And Sean, thank you for your time as well.
06:29Okay.
06:30Yeah.
06:30I guess.
06:31And Sean, may the force be with you.
06:33Okay, Kevin.
06:34All right.
06:34Now I had to get that.
06:36I know.
06:36I'm a Star Wars fan on the show.
06:38Kevin, do you want to go get coffee?
06:39I love it.
06:41I love it.
06:42All right, guys.
06:43Thanks so much.
06:45Have a good one.