The 7:15 Second Date Update - Phone A Friend
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00:00All right, today's 7.15 second date update between Jill and Thomas.
00:04I kind of get both sides of things.
00:06I know she's not the only girl that does this.
00:08So we want to find out who do you agree with?
00:10Is it Jill or Thomas?
00:12Here's your 7.15 second date update for today.
00:14Trying to help out Jill this morning on the 7.15 second date update.
00:18Jarlana Kavan here, a couple things that stood out.
00:19She said that the date went really well, but she's old-fashioned and she wants him to reach out first
00:25because she has not heard from him since the date,
00:27which is kind of ironic since we are reaching out to him.
00:30Yeah, that is a little different.
00:32But she said they had a great date, went to downtown St. Pete,
00:35said they were FaceTiming before they met on the date and texting.
00:39So it seems like they've been kind of talking back and forth for a couple of weeks.
00:42That's what she said, yeah.
00:43But she doesn't know why he's not texting her back.
00:45All right, so we haven't talked since the date.
00:47We're going to try to call Thomas and see if we can get him on the phone.
00:57Hello?
01:05Hey, is this Thomas?
01:06Yes, this is Thomas.
01:08Hey, Thomas.
01:08This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:12We're Tampa Bay's morning crew.
01:14Oh, how you doing?
01:16Good morning.
01:17Good, man.
01:17Hello?
01:18I don't know if you've heard of our show,
01:19but we do something called a 7.15 second date update,
01:23and this would be that time.
01:25And we wanted to see if we could talk to you real quick.
01:27A couple questions.
01:28Am I in the air right now?
01:30Yeah.
01:30Is it okay if we talk to you on the air for a second?
01:34All right.
01:35Okay, and again, I'll explain what we're doing.
01:36We were going to ask you about a girl that's really, really into you
01:39and actually had nothing but nice things to say about you.
01:42Would that be okay?
01:43I like that, yeah.
01:44Okay, cool.
01:45Well, listen, man, we heard from Jill,
01:47and Jill told us that you guys had been talking for a couple weeks.
01:51You guys even had some FaceTime phone calls back and forth,
01:54and then you guys decided to go out in downtown St. Pete.
01:58You went to Bella Brava.
01:59She said you guys had some nice glasses of wine.
02:02It was a great date.
02:03It was a beautiful night.
02:04She said you were a gentleman.
02:06She said she felt like you really had your life together
02:10when it came to job and family and all that,
02:12and now she is kind of bummed because you have not reached out since the date,
02:17and she's trying to figure out what happened.
02:19Wow.
02:20Okay, and that's what this is about.
02:22Well, I mean, that's an easy one, honestly.
02:24The date was awful.
02:25Oh, boy.
02:26Yeah.
02:26I'm trying to figure out why you guys would be so far apart on this.
02:29You thought I was great.
02:30You thought I was awful.
02:32Yeah, no, I was super offended.
02:33It was really, really terrible.
02:35What happened?
02:36Well, okay, we're having dinner, and she has her friend call her
02:43to check up on her in the middle of the date,
02:46and so all of a sudden she gets this call,
02:48and she's just on the phone with her friend for a while,
02:51while we're just sitting there,
02:53and they're just talking about me in front of me.
02:56Wow.
02:57That's awkward.
02:58He's fine.
02:59He's fine.
03:00Everything's okay.
03:01No, it's going to be okay.
03:04I don't know.
03:05It was just really bizarre.
03:07Huh.
03:08Did you guys talk about it afterwards, though, after she hung up?
03:12No, I mean, I was just so weirded out.
03:14They literally sat there talking about whether I was a serial killer
03:17or something in front of me.
03:19I mean, we had been talking for two weeks.
03:21We were FaceTiming.
03:22She knew me all too well at that point,
03:24and not only that, we met at a restaurant of her choosing.
03:28I don't even understand what the confusion was.
03:31She knew me at this point.
03:33Thomas, let me ask you a question.
03:34Now, you know that she's not the only girl that does this.
03:36We've heard stories about this, girls checking up on their friends.
03:39You never know on a first date, that type of thing.
03:42So, I mean, it's not necessarily that crazy of a thing.
03:45I mean, do you really think you should be that offended by it?
03:48I mean, I just thought we were past that.
03:50I mean, yeah, I'm a nice guy.
03:52I think she knew that about me,
03:53and it just seemed really immature that she has to do this whole checkup in the middle.
04:00And it was a long one, too.
04:01They were talking for a while.
04:03Now, talking about you in front of you, that would be awkward for you.
04:06That's awkward.
04:06I get it.
04:07Jill probably didn't mean anything by this,
04:08but we actually have her on the phone, Thomas.
04:10I want to bring her back on.
04:11Jill?
04:13Yeah.
04:14Well, you heard what he had to say.
04:16I mean, go ahead and talk to Thomas.
04:17Well, I mean, the way I see it is there's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to protect herself
04:25on a date where she's meeting someone in person for the first time.
04:30I really don't feel like it's that big of a deal.
04:33You didn't think that was weird?
04:34We were talking for two weeks.
04:35We were FaceTiming, talking all the time.
04:38I mean, it just seemed immature to me the way you were doing it.
04:41It was a long call, too.
04:43And where does it end?
04:44That was all I was thinking as you were talking to them.
04:46Like, you know, are you going to have to have checkups like every time we would go anywhere
04:51or if we went on vacation or it's just like what you're going to do all the time?
04:56I think you're completely overreacting.
05:00I can apologize for maybe doing it right in front of you and like it being a long call,
05:04but I'm not going to apologize for having my friend check up on me.
05:08It just seemed rude to me to be talking about me like that right in front of me.
05:12You know, Thomas, I get that, that in front of you,
05:14that would be kind of odd and awkward and maybe you could be felt rude to you.
05:19But you got to respect a young woman trying to protect herself, right?
05:24You get that.
05:25Yeah.
05:25What about like a quick text?
05:27But instead it had to be this big interview in front of me,
05:30how things are, whether I'm a murderer or whatever.
05:34And it just seems weird.
05:38I don't know what to tell you.
05:39If you don't know what it's like to be a woman, then like.
05:42Again, you could have just a quick little text, even when you felt safe,
05:46you could have just texted her.
05:47I'm fine.
05:48He's not a killer or something.
05:50Yeah.
05:52That would actually be more alarming text.
05:54I feel like if that's the standard.
05:57He's not a killer.
05:58Let me ask you this, Thomas.
06:01I mean, Jill obviously trusts you now.
06:03She's reaching out to us.
06:04Yes.
06:05Awkward, mishap, misstep could have been handled differently.
06:07But if you had a good time, man, I mean,
06:09is this really going to be a deal breaker for you?
06:11I think so.
06:12I think it just seemed very immature to me the way she handled it.
06:15And I just didn't like what that says about her and how she's going to handle things in the future.
06:19It just doesn't make me feel good about it.
06:21Well, Jill, you heard what he had to say.
06:23I'm sorry.
06:24We can't make a second date happen.
06:25I totally respect you trying to protect yourself and keep yourself safe.
06:29I totally get that.
06:30I think this Thomas felt a little awkward that it happened right in front of him.
06:34And he knew about it.
06:36Oh, I guess it is what it is.
06:39Okay.
06:40I'm going to let you guys go.
06:41I appreciate you guys' time.
06:42You guys have a great day.
06:43Okay?
06:43Yeah.
06:44Thank you so much.
06:45Bye.
06:45Sorry it didn't work out.