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First.Dates.Ireland. Season 09 Episode 03
The First Dates Restaurant is about to reopen as a new batch of hopeful singletons arrive for their date with destiny.

Year started: 2016
Categories: Romance

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00:00When you're smiling, when you're smiling, the whole world, it smiles with you, when you're laughing, babe, when you're laughing, listen, I truly hope this works out for you.
00:31But when you're crying... Get over it, man!
00:34What if you were the leading man in your own big-screen romance? Meet Vlad. He's a picture of happiness.
00:44You know what love is. I have a fair idea, I know what love is, yeah.
00:47Did you learn that from anywhere? Movies, that's it, really.
00:52Fifty Shades of Grey, I got a few bits from there.
00:58Lots of people are telling me that I can make anyone smile just by being there.
01:03How are you? Your name, please? Vlad.
01:06How? Vlad.
01:07Look at you, bulky lad. Yeah, that's it. That's it.
01:10You know, here and there. That's it. When I was four, I moved to Roscrae.
01:13Oh, it was definitely a culture shock, yeah. In Latvia, it'd be really warm in the summers, and it'd be really snowy during the winters.
01:20Positivity, nothing can put you down, my man.
01:23My man, my man.
01:26I can't say I have a problem with getting girls, but I do have a problem with finding the girl for me.
01:32I'm hoping to find the one, to be honest. The one? Yeah, of course.
01:35What's the one to you?
01:36Just someone who matches my personality anyway. Good, okay.
01:40I'm kind of sick of one of these one-night stands, so I'm really looking to settle down and find that partner.
01:46How old are you? 22. Jesus, that's young to be settling down, isn't it, huh?
01:50Yeah, it is. It is question of luck. I feel that it's time.
01:56Hello. I can't believe I'm actually doing this.
02:00Believe it or not, Alana's never met anyone prepared to go the distance. It's about time.
02:06Yeah, three-month rule. It's desperate. When they get to the end of a three-month situationship,
02:12they kind of get bored and they just move on to someone new.
02:15Like, there's not many people out there that actually want a relationship at this age.
02:22I love dates. I love going on dates. If I'm asked on a date, I'd never turn one down.
02:27Hey, hello. How are you?
02:29You're welcome. Your name is?
02:30Alana.
02:31Alana, welcome, Alana.
02:32Oh, sorry for you. I'm watching.
02:35Oh, I'm so excited. I'm very picky, though. It has to be someone tall. They have to be tall.
02:42I just think, like, small boys for me, it's just a little bit of an ick.
02:46Hello, how are you?
02:47Hi, I'm Alana. Nice to meet you.
02:48I'm Vlad. Lovely to meet you. You look stunning.
02:51Oh, thank you so much.
02:52No bother at all.
02:53You have a drink already, do you?
02:54Yeah, yeah, I did.
02:55What do you get?
02:56Captain Martin McCall.
02:57Captain Martin McCall. Oh, God, you'll be rolling it.
02:59No stop. You look amazing.
03:01Oh, thank you so much for you.
03:02So much for you.
03:03Yeah, thanks.
03:04Like, I feel like in my life, the top three things at the moment are football, my family, and my friends.
03:08Yeah, definitely. I think I'd definitely be able to fit a boyfriend in.
03:11I love the nose piercing as well. Oh, thanks.
03:13It's brilliant.
03:14Do you have any piercings there?
03:15To be honest, I was just like, how can someone be this stunning?
03:18No, I was just, I'd just seen her, I was like, whoa.
03:21Oh, okay.
03:22You're officially a porn star.
03:23Oh.
03:24You're stealing my day in here.
03:25Sealing your lines.
03:26Yeah, yeah.
03:27I've a dress in my wardrobe that never fails, so I think I'm just going to wear that.
03:38It's black, but it has kind of ruffles here.
03:41But I have to hide my boobs as well, because mainly men will be just like that.
03:45Don't be fooled by Pamela's modest reserve. She's pretty upfront.
03:51What about sex on a first date?
03:53Well, you have to try before you buy.
03:56And is sexual attraction very important to you?
03:59Yeah. Big time, because I'd be a wild thing.
04:02So they have to have the moves then?
04:04Oh, yeah. Or I'll show them.
04:10I am who I am, basically. I'm not hiding anything.
04:14I don't have to.
04:15Hello.
04:16Welcome.
04:17How are you?
04:18How are you?
04:19I'm very pleased to meet you.
04:21The ray of sunshine you bring with you.
04:23Look at you.
04:24I never had that whoa kind of feeling or...
04:27I don't know.
04:29That feeling everyone's talking about.
04:31Give me some of that.
04:34Do you know you're the hottest man, actually, that...
04:37No, no.
04:38You are.
04:39You are.
04:40You are.
04:4140 years of age and I've never had it.
04:43Now I actually understand why people talk about looking for love.
04:47Can you do a double?
04:48Oh, yeah.
04:49If you don't mind.
04:50Yes.
04:51What's the point?
04:52I'm like, what's the point?
04:53Yeah, thank you.
04:54I'm never nervous around men.
04:55If I'm nervous around them, that means I like them.
04:57I think I talk a bit too much.
04:59No, no such thing.
05:00There's nothing worse than you're on a date with somebody and they don't talk.
05:02I want someone taller than me, obviously.
05:04I do want someone taller so they can pick me up and throw me.
05:07That's it.
05:08That's what you want.
05:09Oh, they have to have a bit of banter.
05:12Couldn't really sit there and then be slagging him off and he's not taking it.
05:16Kevin may look like a guy whose toes you don't step on, but just wait till he makes his move.
05:25Do you dance?
05:26After a few jars, I'm Patrick Swayze.
05:31People think I look or I come across grumpy or aggressive.
05:36Well, I'm actually not.
05:37Rest in bitch face.
05:38So people just assume, you know, I'm a grump.
05:42Love to have the chance, love to have the banter.
05:44I'd rather laugh than get out.
05:48I love that bubbly personality, you know, somebody that can laugh at themselves as well as laughing at you and with you.
05:55And, you know, the crack has to be 90, I suppose.
05:58Bit of a messer, you know.
05:59I can laugh and joke and not too serious.
06:02You can handle this.
06:03You handled pressure before in your life.
06:05Pressure's for toys, isn't it?
06:09I've been single for seven years.
06:10I've never done anything like this before.
06:12I like to do things at my own pace, in my own time.
06:14But, you know, just stepping outside of the comfort zone, so...
06:17Now, Pamela.
06:19Hiya.
06:20How are you?
06:21How's it going?
06:22Kevin.
06:23How are you?
06:24Pleased to meet you.
06:25How are you?
06:26Not so bad.
06:27Not really.
06:28You?
06:29Yeah.
06:30For a while.
06:31Probably be okay until I get here and then it'll probably hit me, you know.
06:35Can I get a zero?
06:36Yeah.
06:38Lovely.
06:39You're not drinking?
06:40No.
06:41I don't drink too early.
06:42With me, you will.
06:43Good luck.
06:44I can have a buzz with people and they understand it's a laugh.
06:48Thank God.
06:49You get away with it.
06:50I get away with it, yeah.
06:51How long are you single?
06:52Four years.
06:53Okay.
06:54Yeah, I was in like a 17-year relationship with the father of my two children.
06:59Right.
07:00They're now 15 and 18.
07:01Like, when I was with him, everyone would offer.
07:05Right.
07:06And ask me to be with them.
07:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:09And then I'm like, I'm with someone.
07:10But then I'm single and everyone's taken.
07:12Yeah.
07:13Yeah.
07:14What age are you?
07:15Forty.
07:16Forty.
07:17Same as me.
07:18Forty.
07:19What age do you think of us?
07:21I'd have given you a 28.
07:23Oh, that's good.
07:24We're going to go older and I was like...
07:26He's a smart man.
07:28Good man, yeah.
07:29You are a bit smart there now.
07:31And when's your birthday?
07:32What?
07:33May.
07:34May?
07:35Yeah.
07:36So that would make you a Pisces, is it?
07:37Taurus.
07:38Oh, they're supposed to be a bit like bitchy.
07:40Are you bitchy?
07:41No.
07:42Are you a little bitch?
07:43No, definitely not.
07:44Quite the opposite, actually.
07:45Can't cope with bitches.
07:46No.
07:47I'm Aquarius, so...
07:49Right, okay.
07:50They're like kind of outgoing and...
07:51And out there.
07:52...butty and oh yeah.
07:53Free-spirited.
07:54And on it, too.
07:55On it.
07:56Like a garb on it.
07:57I play football.
07:58You play football?
07:59Yeah, I play football.
08:00Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:01I love gaylar football, yeah.
08:02Oh, did you play it?
08:03It was.
08:04Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:05I love gaylar football, yeah.
08:06Oh, did you play it?
08:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:09I love gaylar football, yeah.
08:10Oh, did you play it?
08:11Oh, did you play it?
08:12Yeah, I do, yeah.
08:13Oh, okay.
08:14That's good.
08:15But the fact that I'm from Tipperary, you know, it's mainly hurling there, not football.
08:18Oh, yeah.
08:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:20I do, yeah.
08:21That's good.
08:22So the two of them going?
08:23Yeah, the two of them going, but...
08:24Okay.
08:25Yeah, I feel like Gaelic football players and football players, they're my type.
08:28I think it's because we have the same things in common.
08:31So, like, are you good at hurling and football?
08:33I'd be good now, yeah.
08:34You'd be good?
08:35Okay.
08:36I can't say I'd be county standard now and all that.
08:38What position?
08:39Full forward.
08:40So you're scoring all the girls?
08:41Yeah, yeah, that's it.
08:42You seem like a full forward, like you're kind of big like that.
08:45Yeah, yeah.
08:46You'd be into the gym?
08:47I'd be in the gym, I'd say about five days a week anyway.
08:50Five?
08:51Yeah.
08:52I'd only really be nervous if I really liked the person on the first day.
08:57That would kind of...
08:58But I don't normally get nervous, so that doesn't really happen.
09:02Oh, okay.
09:03That's good.
09:04Yeah.
09:05It would be a big club.
09:06That's really good.
09:07So, the competition's tip is very strong as well.
09:09Okay.
09:10For, like, a foreign boy to come to a new school, I would not have many kids run over to me,
09:15try and talk to me, because I had no English.
09:17And then, when I got involved with Ireland, all that discrimination really stopped,
09:21and it was like I was one of them then.
09:24We ended up winning the county final.
09:26Oh, my God.
09:27Cool.
09:28Oh, really?
09:29And I ended up getting two goals in that county final.
09:31Oh, yes.
09:32Yeah.
09:33So, you were buzzing, like.
09:34Oh, I was buzzing.
09:35It was the first ever Latvian to do with that in Tipperary, Ireland, which was an amazing
09:41achievement, really.
09:42That was a very big moment in my life, and it's something that I would cherish forever.
09:46So, you know a little bit about me now, like, football, you have something in common.
09:51Yeah, that's it, that's it, that's very good.
09:53Yeah, that's very good.
09:54Yeah, that's great.
09:55So good.
09:56You look lovely.
10:01You look lovely.
10:03You really do look lovely.
10:05And you tattoo this as well.
10:06I do.
10:07I do.
10:08I'm kind of covered in them.
10:09Nice.
10:10And your hands are nice as well.
10:12Yeah.
10:13I'm like really kind of, I have to...
10:14It's okay.
10:16What do you work at?
10:17I design kitchens.
10:18Oh, very good.
10:19Bedrooms and bathrooms.
10:20I say that's a lot of fun.
10:21That's great.
10:22It's brilliant.
10:23I love it.
10:24I love it.
10:25I love my job.
10:26It's fun.
10:27It's like just sitting there playing like a Sims game.
10:30I was a dancer for years.
10:33Right.
10:34Okay.
10:35Like exotic dancing or?
10:36Yeah.
10:37Not very good.
10:38Listen, some of us have talents in all different ways.
10:45Well, I was a dancer for years.
10:46Right.
10:47And obviously you enjoyed them.
10:49Oh, I loved it.
10:50Yeah, yeah, yeah.
10:51I went into a bit of lap dancing.
10:52It was a bit sleazy, but it was good money.
10:55I was one of the Celtic babes.
10:57Never heard of them.
10:59Mmm.
11:00We used to travel around in like this big fucking minibus and go to shows.
11:05So I'd be like, um, oh, you're fucking saying it.
11:08It's like, it's hilarious.
11:10Do you know what?
11:11Then from that I went to being a strippogram.
11:15I wasn't doing anything wrong in my eyes.
11:18Well, look, I mean, it's far from wrong.
11:20No, nobody should be looking at my body except you.
11:23And I agree with that.
11:25Yeah, to an extent.
11:27And now I agree with that.
11:28Nobody should be looking at my body except my partner.
11:31I mean, me personally, I wouldn't be comfortable with it.
11:33I wouldn't fucking say so.
11:34However, if I met somebody and, you know, I clicked with them and something really kind of looked like it was going on.
11:40Yeah.
11:41You know, and this was what they were doing.
11:43And my opinion is, is like, well, that's who you are when I met you.
11:46Yeah.
11:47That's who I like.
11:48Yeah.
11:49That's who I like to change.
11:50I rose.
11:51Here, honey.
11:52I bought this for you.
11:53All just for me.
11:54I made that for you earlier on.
11:55Really?
11:56You want to see me, isn't it?
11:57I'm sweating, I love.
11:58Making it.
12:01With courage and self-belief, there's nothing you can't achieve, says Anna.
12:07And she knows what she's talking about.
12:09I'm an expert in all things me.
12:17I'm freewheeling.
12:18I'm freewheeling.
12:19This is out of my comfort zone.
12:20So I might as well take it even further out of my comfort zone and try not to plan everything to the T.
12:25That nearly got me there.
12:26So close.
12:27What's your name?
12:28Anna.
12:29Anna.
12:30Nice to meet you.
12:31I have to say, though, my auntie is obsessed with you.
12:32Oh, yeah?
12:33Yeah.
12:34She told me I had to tell you.
12:35I'm mad Auntie Mary.
12:36Well, hopefully I'll meet Auntie Mary one day, all right?
12:38Well, if she leaves my uncle, maybe.
12:41That makes me a good date.
12:43I mean, it won't be boring, we'll put it that way.
12:45Show him what you're made of.
12:46Come on.
12:47Stop it, you.
12:48I've got a date.
12:49I'm always afraid someone will see me and be let down.
12:55Like, okay, she's short.
12:57She's got no hair.
12:58She's unimpressive.
12:59She's not a girl.
13:00She's something.
13:01Where are you from?
13:02Kildare.
13:03Ah, okay.
13:04Not far to travel, then.
13:05Well, when you live in the middle of nowhere.
13:07Don't be all if we're not from Dublin.
13:10That's true, anyway.
13:11And, what, have you any hobbies?
13:13I build model houses.
13:15Oh, okay.
13:16Yeah.
13:17Like, for toys or for people?
13:19Just for displaying, for people.
13:21Ah, cool.
13:22And I may have just packed one away in here.
13:24Show me.
13:25Okay, well, I've got a lot of stuff because I'm travelling tonight.
13:26So, ignore my mask.
13:28Ignore my backpack.
13:30Show me.
13:32Wow.
13:33But if you lift it up, I have wired LEDs into it.
13:35Stop.
13:36I swear to God.
13:37Pick it up and find the switch.
13:39I can't because of my nails, but...
13:41I will sit and listen to, like, a murder podcast,
13:43which sounds counterintuitive, but I have to.
13:46Ah!
13:47There you go.
13:48That's amazing.
13:50I don't play with them or anything.
13:51I'm 22.
13:52You don't play with these tiny dollhouse-style things.
13:54But I make them.
13:55I love them.
13:56I put them on a shelf, and that's it.
13:58Full room, everything good out, painted.
14:01I want to live in there.
14:02My stool has fallen over.
14:03That's amazing.
14:05I think I'm ready for love now.
14:07Don't ask an anxious person if they're ready for anything,
14:09because we'll never say yes.
14:10And what's your usual type?
14:12If it's a girl, anything.
14:14Okay, yeah.
14:15Women are immaculate.
14:16They can do anything.
14:17True.
14:18No wrong.
14:19We have rules.
14:20So you don't know.
14:21You said whatever.
14:22You don't mind.
14:23Not at all.
14:24Oh, very good.
14:25Okay, I love it.
14:26Amazing.
14:27Sure I wouldn't have a leg to stand on.
14:28Look at me.
14:29Like, I can't judge anyone else.
14:30I've got no hair.
14:31I'm cutting tattoos.
14:32Yeah, so she can also build these.
14:33You know?
14:34I'm trying to catch.
14:35I think I can afford to put a deposit on this house.
14:37Not the way I'm charging range.
14:39I'm a cruel landlord.
14:41At this point, my mom's like, you're 22.
14:44Come on.
14:45You're bisexual.
14:46There has to be someone out there.
14:47You've got both sides of the market.
14:48I have a deal.
14:49If the date goes right, I'm getting one for free.
14:52If it doesn't go right, I'm paying for it.
14:54Deal.
14:55There you go.
14:56I truly hope this works out for you.
15:11Oh.
15:12Oh, thank you.
15:13Wings.
15:14Oh, wow.
15:15Prepare.
15:16I'm about to make a mess.
15:17That's okay.
15:18Enjoy.
15:19Cheers, honey.
15:20Like, I don't care about that.
15:22It's this.
15:24So I have to eat them like this.
15:31If Eilish's love life were a novel,
15:34it would be a steamy romance set in a small Irish town.
15:38You know, you're a real page-turner.
15:41I've seen you.
15:42I've seen you.
15:43I know you.
15:44You're a relative.
15:45I describe myself as an open-closed book.
15:47You can read me, but you can't.
15:50You actually knew it.
15:51There it is.
15:52At least you tried.
15:53Guys won't match with you if you have, like,
15:56the pride symbol anywhere on your bio.
15:59Because they're like, oh, and they text you like,
16:01why did you match with me?
16:02I thought you were a lesbian.
16:03I'm just like, don't assume.
16:05Hiya.
16:06Hello.
16:07Nice to meet you.
16:08Eilish.
16:09Anna.
16:10Anna.
16:11Perfect.
16:12Where are you from?
16:13Lowry.
16:14Kildare.
16:15So how long does it take you to get here?
16:16About an hour and a half.
16:17Okay.
16:18But like, I'm from farmland.
16:19Same.
16:20Oh.
16:21Are you from here?
16:22My uncle is, but we live, like, right next to his farm.
16:24What is he from?
16:25Dairy.
16:26Ah, we're tillage.
16:27Oh, okay.
16:28So spuds.
16:29Do you love spuds?
16:30I'd be neglected if I didn't like spuds.
16:31That's true.
16:32Sorry.
16:33What type do you want?
16:34Mmm.
16:35Rooster's records.
16:3610 kilo in the car if you want.
16:38Oh my god.
16:39We're getting off to a strong start.
16:41I love the way we went straight into spuds talk.
16:44I'm like really involved.
16:45I did ag science.
16:46I know what we're talking about.
16:47So did I?
16:48I was talking close.
16:49Oh my god.
16:50Were you made for me?
16:52Where are you from?
16:53What you do for a living?
16:54Tell me everything.
16:55Is there a past relationship that's going to scare you that I should know about?
16:57Have you killed anyone?
16:58Like, we're going in.
17:00Cheers to us.
17:01Wherever this may go.
17:03One of those tables.
17:04Possibly.
17:05I'd say there's a strong possibility.
17:07You're actually going to be in the toilets tonight, I'm afraid.
17:09Will you be in a stall next to me?
17:11Or, like, that would be awkward.
17:12That would be awkward.
17:13Yeah.
17:14Why, where are we going?
17:15I just couldn't leave that.
17:17In the toilet.
17:18Oh.
17:19Yeah.
17:20Okay.
17:21You have to speed then?
17:22We're good.
17:23Alice is going to escort you to the toilet now.
17:24We're progressing very fast.
17:26Very quickly.
17:27I want to see the world.
17:32I want to, like, Australia maybe?
17:34I don't know.
17:35I'm not sure.
17:36Oh my god.
17:37That's crazy.
17:38I'm literally the same.
17:39Are you?
17:40Oh, no way.
17:41So, I'm currently studying to be a primary school teacher.
17:44I'm going into my final year.
17:46Very fun.
17:47Like, I'm loving it at the moment.
17:48It's so fun.
17:49Oh, funny story.
17:50I wanted to be a national.
17:51Did they do it?
17:52Nah, please.
17:53Like, it's so embarrassing.
17:54Yeah.
17:55And my mum was like, you're not being national.
17:57I'm not sending you to space.
17:58So, that went out the window.
17:59And you have to be good at maths.
18:00I was terrible at maths.
18:01My mum was like, what about teaching?
18:03Because she knows, like, I'm good with kids and stuff.
18:05And then she started saying about the holidays and stuff.
18:07And I was like...
18:08Yeah.
18:09They're a bit nice.
18:10Yeah.
18:11If you make it fun for them, you make them laugh.
18:13They'll actually enjoy coming to school and they'll want to come more often.
18:16I'm looking after young people with intellectual disabilities.
18:19Oh, no way.
18:20Yeah, yeah.
18:21That's cool.
18:22I love that stuff.
18:23And, like, what brought you to do that?
18:25When I was growing up with, like, my best friend, his younger brother was diagnosed with autism at the age of two.
18:30Oh, yeah.
18:31I could see his brother develop as well.
18:32I was really interested about that.
18:33That's so cool.
18:34Yeah, thanks.
18:35I love every minute of it, going in there with the lads.
18:40And it's amazing.
18:41Is he, like, ideal with, like, autistic kids as well, like, in school?
18:45I know what you're talking about.
18:46Do you?
18:47Yeah.
18:48Oh, yeah.
18:53And have you kids?
18:54I do.
18:55I have three kids.
18:56Three?
18:57Three kids.
18:58All teenagers.
18:59Same thing as me.
19:00Had them early.
19:01I had them very early.
19:02Yeah.
19:03Yeah, yeah.
19:04I was 21 when before.
19:05Wow.
19:06The same as me.
19:07Yeah.
19:08Very early.
19:09When I was younger, it was just about rushing to have your kids, to get your house, to have
19:19your job, your cars, and I wasn't concentrating on the other side of it.
19:25I wasn't giving myself a chance to actually being in love with someone.
19:30I was never concentrating on me, to be honest.
19:32Being a dad is the best job in the world.
19:34Yeah.
19:35And I don't care what anyone says.
19:36Yeah.
19:37It's the best job in the world.
19:38Brilliant.
19:39If I could go back and do it all over again, I'd do it the exact same way.
19:42They're like little best friends.
19:44Would they be upset if somebody was to come into your life?
19:48I don't know.
19:49Because I've only recently kind of...
19:50Have they not spoken about it or...?
19:51Not really.
19:52Yeah.
19:53I'm not sure how they'd react at the moment.
19:54I'd say, well, look, you know, Dad has met somebody that's been going on for a couple
19:57of months and...
19:58But I mean, look, I have to kind of get to a point.
20:01I can't be on my own for the rest of my life.
20:03I spoke to them about it.
20:04They were like, oh, Dad, please go and do it.
20:06Especially my eldest daughter.
20:07She's looking at me so funny.
20:09I was like, yeah, okay, let's do it then.
20:11It's all right.
20:12No, no, you're okay.
20:13You're okay.
20:14Be yourself.
20:15That's it.
20:16Absolutely.
20:17Oh.
20:18Thanks, Dad.
20:19You're all right.
20:20You're all right.
20:24What do you say?
20:25Dead inside.
20:26Dead inside?
20:27Yes.
20:28Nice.
20:29She speaks my love language.
20:30Oh, my God.
20:31This is such a great start.
20:33I love it.
20:34Like, it's great to be a great listener, but I want to have it back and forth to continue
20:39on the conversation.
20:40I'd love to be auntie.
20:41I'd love to be auntie.
20:42I'd be a savage auntie.
20:43I don't know about having kids.
20:45I'd love to have kids.
20:46I don't know if I'd want to carry, if that makes sense.
20:49You do, but you don't.
20:50Yeah.
20:51I don't know how to flirt.
20:52I don't know when someone's flirting with me.
20:54I don't know what's counted as romance and what's, like, a best friend move.
20:58Like, is the cinema and dinner, like, the start of something amazing?
21:01Is this my rom-com moment?
21:03And how would you like that cooked?
21:05Medium rare.
21:06Medium rare.
21:07Not that I was judging the decision, but I was like, if it's bleeding on the plate,
21:10I might freak out.
21:11I'm not even squealish about that stuff.
21:13It's just...
21:14No, I am.
21:15Really?
21:16Oh, I can't do good, can't do sick.
21:17Good luck.
21:18Oh, I did a placement in the coom.
21:20Where's that?
21:21The maternity hospital.
21:22Oh, okay.
21:23Yeah, I was in the neonatal unit.
21:24I haven't been there.
21:25Not yet.
21:26But I was in the neonatal unit.
21:28Not yet, apparently.
21:29Not yet.
21:30Oh, God.
21:31Am I moving too fast?
21:32I didn't mean like that.
21:33I didn't mean like that.
21:34I'm just gonna pull up a seat here now.
21:37Watch the chaos unfold, please.
21:39You're invited.
21:40It's kind of amazing though, because I got to hear the baby cry for the first time.
21:43And that's like, I remember I was talking about having kids.
21:45Yeah.
21:46Because we went straight into that for some reason.
21:47We went straight into that.
21:48That was when I was like...
21:49Sorry, lesbians.
21:50Yeah.
21:51Bisexual, actually.
21:52Same.
21:53Oh, my God.
21:54I love it.
21:55Wait, I should double check pronouns.
21:56She, her?
21:57She, her, they, then.
21:58She, her.
21:59Did.
22:00She, they.
22:01Yeah.
22:02Perfect.
22:03This is great.
22:04This is great.
22:05This is brilliant.
22:06Will we do desserts?
22:07And then I can leave you to wrap these chats too.
22:10Oh, yeah.
22:11Oh, yeah.
22:12Yeah.
22:13Back in the day, like, we lived in Spain, growing up.
22:16Oh, lovely.
22:17So, I actually moved to Spain when I was about seven months old.
22:22And I came home when I was ten years of age.
22:26So, in Spanish then, are you?
22:27Mm-hmm.
22:28Lovely.
22:29Yes.
22:30Would you then stay away or would you burn?
22:32Mm-hmm.
22:33Yeah.
22:34Yeah.
22:35I'm the same, yeah.
22:36That's always good.
22:37Yeah.
22:38So, you don't want someone that burns.
22:39No, no, no.
22:40At the end of May, the start of June, where Ireland was just the biggest heat wave ever.
22:42Yeah.
22:43Yeah.
22:44So, I literally turned brown in about two days.
22:45It's great though, isn't it?
22:46Yeah.
22:47It's great.
22:48And, like, everyone that see me, they're like, you're on the sunbed.
22:50I can't stop speaking when I get a drink into me, it's really bad.
22:53I'm just like...
22:55And they're probably...
22:56That's why they probably run away then.
22:58That's probably why.
22:59And then they'll probably see me on the dance floor and they're like, oh my God, even worse run.
23:02Yeah.
23:03Have you ever been to Cannon Street?
23:04Uh, no.
23:05But...
23:06Oh.
23:07I'd definitely love to test it out.
23:08I'd love to see.
23:09Cannon Street is really good, yeah.
23:10Yeah.
23:11Yeah.
23:12And, like, we'd be going then back home today.
23:15At the end of the day, it's a bank holiday.
23:17It is a bank holiday.
23:18It is a bank holiday.
23:19What would be your ideal man that you'd be attracted to?
23:23Just someone that is actually...
23:26That wants me in their life.
23:28Mm-hmm.
23:29Appreciates me.
23:30Yeah.
23:31And that is, like, you know, outgoing.
23:33Just to feel wanted.
23:34Yeah.
23:35Yeah.
23:36And needed, maybe.
23:37Yeah.
23:38Nineteen years I haven't been single.
23:39Nineteen years.
23:40It was getting to a stage where I was miserable.
23:43Miserable.
23:44With me life and...
23:46I need to find the one.
23:48Part-time as a hobby, I'm an actor as well.
23:51Really?
23:52Yeah.
23:53I got bored and decided I wanted to try something different.
23:55So I did.
23:56I just took a notion.
23:57I went and I'd done a kind of a...
23:59You know, a fast-track kind of acting course kind of thing.
24:02And I thought it would be a great way to get out and meet people, socialising.
24:05So I've done a couple of bits over the last year.
24:07Wow.
24:08Yeah, could be over in England.
24:09Definitely.
24:10Next week, or the week after, or next month.
24:12Brilliant.
24:13Yeah.
24:14And could you bring me?
24:15Unfortunately not.
24:16No.
24:17No.
24:18Ah, fuck that.
24:19Unfortunately not.
24:20What have I paid for myself?
24:21Closed set.
24:22I wouldn't go on it.
24:23I wouldn't go on it.
24:24Mm-hm.
24:25But, er...
24:26Just be in the hotel.
24:27When would you see me?
24:29When you come back.
24:30Oh, there are long days.
24:32Night time.
24:33With a name like Jones and a job like being an archaeologist, are the women not flinging themselves at you?
24:41Um...
24:42Swashbuckling action hero?
24:47Maybe not.
24:48Byron Jones is much more down to earth.
24:51Ya dig?
24:52Irish archaeology, people are like...
24:54Camish loves them.
24:55Hello, Mateo.
24:56How are ya?
24:57Your name please?
24:58Byron.
24:59Byron?
25:00Yeah.
25:01First time I hear this name.
25:02Yeah.
25:03Lovely name.
25:04Lord Byron.
25:05Well, it's not actually after him, but anyway.
25:07My shirt, I've seen the Vans.
25:09You gotta love the Vans.
25:10Matching shoes is very important.
25:12I try and match the shoes with the shirt.
25:14And then something in between.
25:16How are you doing?
25:17Byron is my name.
25:18Byron, nice name.
25:19How'd you get that?
25:20It was actually after kind of a washed out kind of 1980s movie star.
25:26My mum got one look at this Byron Henry guy and absolutely fancied the whole of him.
25:32So she went for it.
25:34If I have a son again, it's gonna be named after this guy.
25:37Not quite sure how my dad reacted to that kind of thing, but probably would have got
25:42a bit of a stick for it in a community school down home, having a fairly posh name.
25:47And what do you do for a living?
25:48I'm an archaeologist actually.
25:49Oh, cool.
25:50Yeah.
25:51So not your average job.
25:52No, definitely not.
25:53Have you found anything like mad?
25:55I found like a whole entire part of a medieval plough.
26:00Wow.
26:01And it was one of four ever discovered in the country.
26:04Wow.
26:05That's amazing.
26:06That's so cool.
26:07The highlight of a day is if someone finds a coin or unfortunately I miss the spearhead.
26:15Those days on site are just amazing.
26:19Do you mind if I get two more Pornstar martinis, please?
26:22Yes.
26:23Of course.
26:25He's overdone for me now.
26:26It's good.
26:27You know, to balance it out.
26:28It's good.
26:29I still call myself a gentleman because I feel that I've got a very big heart and I feel
26:35that I'm very, very, very respectful.
26:37Are you a gent?
26:38Yeah.
26:39Would you classify yourself as a gent?
26:40I'd classify myself as a gent.
26:41Really?
26:42And why do you think that?
26:43When I was 17, my, like, mother divorced my father.
26:46Oh, really?
26:47Yeah, yeah.
26:48And that was the same year when my older brother went to college in Cork.
26:52Oh.
26:53So, so...
26:54You had to kind of take over, did you?
26:55Yeah.
26:56It was only me and her in the house.
26:57Yeah.
26:58Kind of had to make sure that, you know, treat the woman as much respect as possible.
27:02Yeah.
27:03At some stage, like, the playtime has to be over and, you know, you kind of have to commit
27:07to someone.
27:08He's really close.
27:09He's so close.
27:10That's so good.
27:11Yeah.
27:12Oh, boy.
27:13Aw.
27:14Did she?
27:15Yeah.
27:16I put Pepper tattooed there as well.
27:19Oh, I love that.
27:20It's a memory of my dog.
27:21A puppet girl.
27:22Oh.
27:23Her name is Pepper.
27:24Half deaf, half blind.
27:25She was a rescue.
27:27Because I went through a really, really bad time.
27:29And my mom almost physically dragged me out of bed.
27:32She was like, we can't get you something.
27:34I've been there.
27:35I got misgendered a lot.
27:37It was like, I'm a girl, I'm a girl, I'm a girl.
27:40But I was like, I'm actually not.
27:42And it was hard to deal with.
27:44I go into the back kitchen, just talk to her and cry my heart out, because I know she's
27:49not going to go around and sell it to anyone else.
27:51So it was like a safety net.
27:53We lost my dog.
27:54She was the first one that sat with me when I was in really bad mental health episodes.
27:58And she died very suddenly.
28:00Oh, no.
28:01It's the worst.
28:02I've been giving away pieces of myself and putting out versions of Anna for I don't know
28:06how long.
28:07Like, I had long hair.
28:08I had no tattoos, no piercings.
28:10I was like, this is what people want to see.
28:11Like, have you ever seen my Deb's picture?
28:13I'm in a long red dress.
28:14I've got long, dark brown hair.
28:16And I'm fake tanned up to my eyeballs.
28:18And that's just not me.
28:19There came a point where I was so deeply, like, in the pits.
28:23I was like, I can't keep doing this.
28:25It's either I be me or there'll be no me anymore.
28:28I didn't have a diagnosis at this point, but I was depressed and anxious.
28:31And I wouldn't leave my room.
28:33And if I wanted to watch Doctor Who, she'd sit up on the bed with me.
28:37Emma has learned to be philosophical.
28:44Why be all things to everyone when you can be everything to someone?
28:48My whole attitude towards dating now is that I'm myself and maybe one day someone might
28:54like it.
28:59That would be him, like, his dark hair, big eyes, arms.
29:02The rest is grand.
29:03But as I said, like, he doesn't have to be like that.
29:06As long as he's a good person.
29:07My name's Emma.
29:08Emma.
29:09Yeah.
29:10Where are you from, Emma?
29:11I'm from Counting Out.
29:12Look lovely.
29:13How many times have you said that today, though?
29:15Today, first one.
29:16No, you're joking.
29:17Yeah.
29:18I never met a girl like you.
29:19First time I met a girl like you.
29:20We're all different and beautiful.
29:22So if I said it to you, it doesn't mean you're nothing better than other next or previous.
29:26So you're all beautiful.
29:27Can't talk.
29:29Come on.
29:30I kind of would like an old school kind of gentleman type.
29:34I'm not looking for the moon and stars, you know.
29:37Hello.
29:38Nice to meet you.
29:39How are you?
29:40Not too bad.
29:41How are you?
29:42Good.
29:43Good.
29:44What's your name?
29:45My name's Emma.
29:46Emma?
29:47What's your name?
29:48Byron is my name.
29:49Byron?
29:50Yeah.
29:51Lovely.
29:52Very unusual.
29:53It's a supportive effort to light a fire.
29:54Don't judge me.
29:55I've gone under Blackberry Pizz non-alcoholic.
29:57No, I do not drink.
29:58Not much anymore.
29:59I'm trying to look after myself.
30:00I'm pushing towards my mid-thirties and want to keep the body looking fairly decent.
30:09So I got back into a bit of GA.
30:12Is it just like your local club?
30:14No, I actually move around a lot with my job.
30:18So I'm about to play with my fourth club in four years.
30:23Yeah, I think.
30:24Oh, okay.
30:25And what do you work at?
30:26I work as an archaeologist, actually.
30:28Yeah.
30:29No way.
30:30That's so interesting.
30:32I'm like, wow.
30:34Now, I don't go around with like a machete just like, you know, chopping away.
30:38Chopping in the rainforest.
30:39Yeah, yeah.
30:40Or the hat or the jacket.
30:42I don't do that kind of thing.
30:43Okay, okay.
30:44Irish art girl, just like, you know.
30:51We are in this together.
30:53I am.
30:54I'm leaving together.
30:55Yeah, yeah.
30:56Well.
30:57Well.
30:58It's the best day I've ever been, ever.
31:01Yeah, I've just been real.
31:03Oh, thank you.
31:04That's so nice to hear.
31:06I seen the back of him.
31:07I was like, oh, he's actually good looking.
31:09Tick, tick, tick.
31:10For someone who doesn't date like a lot, you're not bad at all.
31:15Cheers.
31:16Cheers.
31:17He's 40.
31:18I'm 40.
31:19He's family orientated.
31:20That was such a big thing for me.
31:22When is your next match?
31:24Football.
31:25Why are you coming to see me?
31:26I'm going to see how I am for work and all that.
31:29Just try, try, try making my best sport or, you know, it could be the start of something.
31:34We will have it.
31:35We will have it.
31:36No, no, no, no.
31:37Yes, yes, yes.
31:38Please, no.
31:39I'm not having the best time ever.
31:40Okay.
31:41Oh.
31:42Oh.
31:43You'll have to allow anything.
31:45Honestly, it's the least thing I could do.
31:50Yeah.
31:51Oh, that's so kind.
31:52I know.
31:53I know.
31:54Would you like to see each other again romantically?
31:57Do you want to say first?
31:58Oh, you go first.
31:59Yeah.
32:00I would love to see Alana again, definitely.
32:02Straight out.
32:03Yeah.
32:04Yeah.
32:05100%.
32:06Yeah.
32:08Yeah.
32:09Bye-bye.
32:10Thank you so much.
32:11Hey, hey, hey.
32:12Honestly, that's the least thing I could have done.
32:15I had a conversation that just flowed and a lot of things in common, which I really liked
32:19and sure, just by looking at her as well, it's just beautiful.
32:23Oh, that's okay.
32:24Well, how are you?
32:26Can we go Catlin Street or what?
32:28Yeah.
32:29It's cocktail o'clock.
32:42I need to feel, I think our dinner's on the way.
32:44Oh, no.
32:45Where is it?
32:46No, that's the stairs.
32:47Ah, I'd be like, where's me fucking dinner?
32:51We should really have to go for dessert, don't we?
32:54Oh, tick, tick.
32:56Right answer, right answer.
32:59That was a test.
33:00Don't worry about it.
33:02My fitness is a non-negotiable.
33:04So I have to weight lift three times a week.
33:06I have to get my 14K steps.
33:08I have to track my nutrition and I have to hit a protein target.
33:11Now, that being said, I'm not a dry arse.
33:13So I used to be a veterinary nurse.
33:15Yeah.
33:16And just due to COVID, that didn't work out for me.
33:18Yeah.
33:19So I just work in a clothes shop at the minute.
33:21Then in the afternoon, I go and I do dog training and pet nutrition.
33:26So, yeah.
33:27So is that, like, behavioural stuff?
33:29Yeah, yeah.
33:30So, if your dog's, like, driving you mad, basically.
33:35Send him in to Emma.
33:36Yeah, pretty much.
33:37Everyone would always sort of say that about me.
33:39He's like, Emma never shuts up talking.
33:41But it's if I'm comfortable enough.
33:44My dad is a retired vet from the Department of Agriculture.
33:47So I wouldn't be like with cats and dogs.
33:49My dad's a farmer.
33:51Oh, my God.
33:52So you're an archaeologist and your dad's a vet.
33:54Yeah.
33:55That is absolutely unreal.
33:56Yeah.
33:57That is amazing.
33:58It's just for the vibes.
34:01Holy shit.
34:02You made that.
34:03I did.
34:04What the fuck?
34:05I can't draw a stick, man.
34:06If you ever need IKEA furniture, can we call?
34:08Dating is scary.
34:09Tiny houses, not so much.
34:11I love making them.
34:12And they take so long.
34:13There's times where, like, things fall apart.
34:15And you want to scream.
34:17But you try again.
34:18I suppose that's...
34:19Oh, my God.
34:20That's like a relationship, isn't it?
34:21Things fall apart and you have to keep trying.
34:23Not everything's always going to be perfect.
34:24Half a shelf built in my room that me and my girlfriend tried to make last year.
34:28You and your girlfriend.
34:29Should I be nervous?
34:30Oh, well, obviously, we're broken up at this point.
34:32At this point in life.
34:33I was like, I can do trouble, but, like, I need to know.
34:36Oh, my God.
34:38Sorry.
34:39Okay.
34:40Women are more reliable in my eyes, but I've only recently started dating men again
34:44and only started going back into it.
34:46I was like, oh, maybe I'll try guys again.
34:49Just see, is there anything new?
34:51I remember when I came out, I was like, no one tells granny.
34:53Like, no one fucking tells granny.
34:54Like, no one fucking tells granny.
34:55My granny passed away before I decided I was comfortable with myself.
34:58She's the one who taught me how to read and everything.
35:00That's why I have my, uh, box of gloves tattooed.
35:02Because...
35:03I fucking love box of gloves even though they're so pointless.
35:05That's it.
35:06But they're used in medicine.
35:07And we have them in our garden.
35:08Wait, sorry.
35:09I went through up your hands.
35:10But, like, yeah, literally.
35:11That's it.
35:12That's it.
35:13Oh, my God.
35:14Yeah.
35:15Oh, my God.
35:16Wait.
35:17Matchmaker worked really well.
35:18How did that happen?
35:19That's the whole reason why I got tattooed.
35:20Because I was like, it can be toxic, but it's also helpful.
35:22Yeah.
35:23I love the way you know that.
35:24Oh, my God.
35:25That's so weird.
35:27I love that.
35:28It's so weird.
35:29That was a real moment there.
35:30It actually was.
35:31Sorry, I went straight through your hands.
35:32Sorry.
35:33I know.
35:34How's everything going?
35:37Um...
35:38Yeah.
35:39Yeah.
35:40Not your typical...?
35:41No.
35:42Okay.
35:43No.
35:44No.
35:45Okay.
35:46No.
35:47I've always known what I wanted.
35:48I still know what I want.
35:49Like, as cheeky and arrogant as this is, I won't settle for this.
35:53Oh, lovely girl.
35:54Don't get me wrong.
35:55Of course.
35:56Yeah.
35:57Yeah.
35:58Yeah.
35:59You win some, you lose some.
36:00Absolutely.
36:01Yeah.
36:02Yeah.
36:03I noticed your flashy shoes there, walking across.
36:06Are you a runner guy?
36:07I can be, yeah.
36:08Are you sure that?
36:09I usually just go for Asics.
36:10That would be my vice.
36:11The last big thing off the top of my head that I can remember splashing out on is a kayak,
36:15I suppose.
36:16Yeah.
36:17Now, he doesn't have to be, you know, irony, get-me-to-my-chopper type guy, but, like,
36:29or, like, a walking gorilla, but I do like a nice toned arm.
36:33The Irish Sea is my pool.
36:35The Irish Sea?
36:36I love that.
36:37Yeah.
36:38Very poetic.
36:39The Irish Sea is my pool.
36:42I do look a little bit of flirty banter.
36:45Probably, like, just constantly smiling or, like, laughing.
36:49Really good.
36:50I was, um, commenting on them as, uh, runners there.
36:52Yeah.
36:53So, yeah.
36:54They're glistening.
36:55Very clean.
36:56Very good, too.
36:57Of all the things to notice, isn't it?
37:00It's like, you have lovely...runners.
37:04I'm down.
37:05I'm down.
37:06I'm down.
37:07I'm down.
37:08I love it.
37:09I love it.
37:11I love it.
37:12I love it.
37:13Chips are huge.
37:14They lost grace, though.
37:15Try one.
37:16I'm gonna try one.
37:17Yeah, of course, go ahead.
37:18Do you mind fingers?
37:19No.
37:20Don't mind fingers, don't mind plastic.
37:23It's just who I am, I'm flirty, and my friends go out, she goes, you have to stop, I'm like, I can't.
37:31I was seeing this guy for a few months, he showed up to her graduation with a girlfriend.
37:39The showing stopped, I knew that would have you shook.
37:41Well, I've had situationships, but like, not relationships, and they always end in tragedy or miscommunication.
37:47But the way I was breaking up with her, she was at the house, because I was doing it in person.
37:51But mum and dad were, eh, during the wake.
37:55Mummy comes home, and mummy goes, I'm so sorry.
38:00Well, what did you do?
38:02Did you forget we have a ring doorbell?
38:05Mummy got a notification that someone was at the door, so when she opened it on the way home,
38:10she saw and heard the entire thing of me breaking up with my girlfriend.
38:14We don't have the ring doorbell anymore.
38:21I say what I fucking think.
38:25Yeah, it's...
38:25But it's never a bad thing.
38:27I'd love to be like that.
38:29Yeah, no, absolutely.
38:30Oh, I'd make you like that.
38:31I'd love to be like that.
38:31You would actually be like that, like that.
38:32I'm very reserved in a lot of ways.
38:35But you don't have to be.
38:36That was a bit much for me.
38:38I felt very kind of under pressure.
38:42Cheers, thank you very much.
38:43Sure.
38:43I'm a bit more wired than he is.
38:49Do you think you're a bit much for him?
38:50Yeah.
38:52Yeah.
38:53I think I'm way too much for him, or anyone.
38:57I'll get you again, then.
38:59I've got it.
38:59I know you'll be like, no.
39:02No.
39:02So, would you like to see each other again romantically?
39:06I would.
39:10I'm going to say, I talked to you all lovely.
39:12I did, but I'm going to say no.
39:15Okay.
39:16I had a lot of fun.
39:18That's fine.
39:20But I had...
39:21If that's your decision.
39:22Yeah, no, look, I had a great time.
39:24I did have a great laugh, and thanks.
39:25Yeah, no, I did.
39:26No, thank you.
39:27I like the fucking leather jacket.
39:29The leather jacket.
39:30You sexy bitch.
39:31Come on.
39:38This is actually a really, like, big treat for me.
39:41So, I'm usually, like, really clean all the time.
39:43Yeah.
39:44But, like, when in Rome, but, yeah.
39:46I've lost six stones since 2020.
39:48Wow.
39:49Yeah.
39:50I think because once my, like, veterinary nursing career, like, was down the toilet, I was like,
39:55oh, well, if I'm not, you know, working towards my dream career, I'm going to work on my health.
40:01I think I just felt like I wasn't good enough.
40:04And, you know, you can lose lots of weight, but you really have to work on yourself.
40:09I actually ended up being quite sick.
40:11I was actually just, like, really malnutrient, like, nourished.
40:16Malnourished.
40:17So, like, I actually ended up fainting in work.
40:19Oh, God.
40:19Yeah.
40:20So, I was carted off in an ambulance.
40:22And, like, I didn't know at the time why.
40:24So, I'd be, like, step on the scale.
40:26Oh, I've lost weight.
40:27Not eating works.
40:29Next day you go again.
40:30And it just, and it's like, oh, I'll have an apple because, like, I'm really hungry.
40:35But, and then it became kind of like a game.
40:38It's like, how long can I go without eating anything?
40:41I actually lost the use of my legs.
40:45So, I couldn't walk for 24 hours.
40:47Oh, you said.
40:47Yeah.
40:48So, that's why I'm, like, super into sports.
40:50That must have been the scary one.
40:51Yeah.
40:51Yeah.
40:52But it was a turning point as well.
40:54Like, I was just battered my body, like, trying to lose weight.
40:58And there's obviously more to life than losing weight.
41:00Like, there's more to my being than losing weight.
41:02Yeah.
41:03My body was basically, you know, going, stop.
41:07Please stop this.
41:09This is your final warning.
41:10How do you feel you're doing now?
41:13That's how I got into, like, being really sporty.
41:15Yeah, yeah.
41:16Is, like, and threw myself into that.
41:18And I hired a coach.
41:19And he, like, taught me how to do things properly.
41:21And he's, like, semi-nutritionist as well.
41:24So, I would have to eat little and often.
41:28I'd go really quiet.
41:29And then they'd be like, Emma needs to eat.
41:31She has no personality.
41:35We made healthy progress with it.
41:37And now it's very much a part of who I am.
41:40And I have to say, it's completely changed my life.
41:43We have so much in common.
41:44It's like, what the fuck's going on?
41:45Really?
41:46Yeah, it's really freaky.
41:47They're from Louth.
41:49Uses she, they pronouns.
41:51I'm very conscious of that.
41:52And I don't know where it's going to go.
41:53But, like, delighted that they were the person I was put with.
41:56She's going inter-railing.
41:58For how long?
41:59For two weeks.
42:00Oh, yeah.
42:00But, like, I was like, go somewhere.
42:03I'm not.
42:04She's got a flight of course eight.
42:06Never mind.
42:07Bad planning.
42:08I know.
42:08Bad planning.
42:11Thanks very much, dude.
42:12See you later.
42:12I've had, like, depression for a long time.
42:18Yes.
42:18Diagnosed, like, 17 or something.
42:20In essence, probably even before that.
42:23I never let it define who I am.
42:26And I never talked about it that much.
42:28I didn't want to talk about it that much.
42:30Because I didn't want to upset anyone.
42:32If you don't mind me asking, obviously, you don't have to answer.
42:35Like, but, like, was there anything in particular that, like, triggered it?
42:38Or was there something or just happened?
42:41I only have myself to blame.
42:43Okay.
42:44Interesting answer.
42:45It's a bit weird.
42:46It's a bit weird as a teenager.
42:48Okay.
42:48You can't just say that.
42:51So, a little bullying I got was fully deserved.
42:55Oh, no.
42:56Don't say that.
42:58No one deserves bullying.
42:59I am much, much better.
43:02and myself and doing really well.
43:05Did you go to, like, therapy or anything?
43:07I have a really brilliant team down in Gori.
43:11Like, just the centre that I go to.
43:13Yeah.
43:13Now, I only see them once, twice a year.
43:17Wow.
43:18Which is a huge improvement for what it was.
43:21For the better, I don't recognise myself, so.
43:23Isn't it so nice to be able to say that, though?
43:25Yeah, yeah.
43:25Like, yeah, that's unreal.
43:27Like, I had to do therapy and stuff for, like, eating disorders
43:31and things like that.
43:32But, like, much like yourself, I can say it.
43:35You don't recognise that person.
43:37I think it's something to do with hitting your 30s.
43:39I really do.
43:40No, you're absolutely right.
43:41Yeah?
43:42You couldn't have said that any better.
43:43Like, people say, like, oh, when you hit 30s,
43:45like, you really just stop giving a fuck.
43:48And I remember being like, that's not going to be me.
43:50I'm always going to care.
43:51That's my motto.
43:53I just took my motto.
43:54I was like, I don't give a fuck.
43:55Did I say motto?
43:56Oh, no.
44:02I feel like that was programmed into our heads when we were younger.
44:04Yeah, because I don't think we could just say, no.
44:05You get the barber dresses.
44:06You get the pen dolls.
44:08When I was a fucking little Transformers, one of the girls.
44:10She's actually flying off to England tonight.
44:12And it's like, I want to bring her out for drinks afterwards.
44:14But I don't have that time now.
44:16Rock, paper, scissors, shoot.
44:18How did the date went?
44:32Good.
44:33OK, so split this one and then you split another one.
44:38Would you wait two weeks for me?
44:39Yeah.
44:40Would you like to see each other again romantically?
44:45Yeah.
44:48So far, I don't mind, whatever.
44:55Genuinely.
44:56Really?
44:57100%.
44:57So you don't mind going on a second date, no?
45:03I thought you were going to break my heart for a second.
45:06Now to go any further, I'm going to sign here for my house.
45:10Damn you.
45:11What's going on?
45:13Don't worry about it.
45:13I'll explain about the next date.
45:15OK.
45:15It was an absolute pleasure doing a business with you.
45:18It was weird.
45:20It was just like, I don't know.
45:22Things just bounced off each other.
45:24Yeah.
45:25Enjoy the rest of your day.
45:26Thanks so much.
45:27Pleasure, pleasure.
45:28Could have been worse.
45:28Could have been worse.
45:29Could have been better.
45:30Could have been better.
45:30Could have been better.
45:40Hello.
45:41You ever said what?
45:41He's a big farmer.
45:42He's a big farmer man.
45:44Cattle and stuff.
45:45I just thought she was amazing.
45:47Yeah, she was just like really stylish and very good looking.
45:52You love it.
45:53When I first saw him, I did think, oh, yeah, he's cool, he's handsome, yeah.
45:59But as I got talking to him more, like, Daphne was like, oh, yeah, no, he's lovely.
46:05Thank you very, very much.
46:06Oh, it was great.
46:07Thanks, he's a new year.
46:08It was cool.
46:09Yeah, see you guys.
46:11Bye now.
46:12Nice to meet you.
46:13Would you guys like to see each other again romantically?
46:18I would 100% love to go out on the second day with you.
46:22I think you're just so bubbly and, like, full of cranks, so you're top-dead gorgeous as well.
46:29What?
46:30I would also like to go in a second day.
46:32No way.
46:33But we have to go do an activity.
46:35Yeah.
46:35Yeah.
46:35Yeah.
46:36I agree with that.
46:37Yeah.
46:37Pink word.
46:38Welcome here to the year.
46:41What take is your fancy?
46:42Do you know anywhere in the book?
46:43I know everywhere in the book.
46:44Do you?
46:44Yeah.
46:45Oh, okay.
46:46Yeah.
46:46Show me a good time then.
46:47All right.
46:48It's crazy.
46:49It caught me hard at all.
46:50Stop.
46:52So, what did you like about each other?
46:55I like everything.
46:58Jesus.
46:59Yeah.
47:00He likes my shoes.
47:01My baby don't care for shoes My baby don't care for clothes
47:25My baby just cares for me
47:30Yeah.