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00:00To love everybody. This is the first state's restaurant. Let's have some fun a
00:09Place where anything what have you got yourself into is possible? Are you ready? I'm shaking myself. I'm not gonna
00:18Need some romance an instant attraction. Oh, you're gorgeous
00:24All of my women died, so don't get too close
00:29a
00:32Match made in heaven
00:35You are just a big tall drink of water. Aren't you or a
00:40Sudden shock to the senses. Oh, here we go
00:46None of these diners know what to expect
00:49I'm actually getting engaged tonight. Absolutely. I won't send you dick pics. You are nailing this date pop
00:56What happens next? Oh, no is up to them
01:02Come on to truth
01:13What is love oh
01:16Got it. I think love is second of hearts, but a flutter of butterflies
01:23Like real giddy and happy and having just real fun with each other and be more adorable
01:34Someone who will go out of their way to make the other person happy
01:40Love is
01:41Finding someone that makes it worth making the choice to spend the rest of your life with them
01:49Yeah that you can share the good days and bad days with
01:52Love is comfort. It's like feeling
01:56100% comfortable with another person and I guess if a person doesn't like that side of it and they're not the one for you. I
02:04Have the worst case of sailor mouth my half of my sentences will be censored
02:09As Becky herself might say good things come in small
02:15Packages on a scale of 1 to 10. I think I'd rate myself like an 8 or 9 out of 10
02:21I'm trying I'm trying I'm trying to be humble
02:25You know when people tell you
02:27Nice things that they think about you like that. You're bubbly or that you're like pretty or that you're fun to be around
02:34There's no point in really denying it after a certain point so you just kind of got to own it
02:40There's nothing intimidating about me. I mean, I'm 4 foot 9. How can you be intimidating when you're 4 foot 9?
02:47Hi, welcome. Hi your name, please Becky. Nice to meet you Becky. It's me too. I do get approached a lot like even like
02:55Walking around the street like I'll always have guys and girls coming up to me
03:00And where you from I'm from Kilkenny, okay, I was adopted from Thailand
03:06So you've been living in Kilkenny in my whole life. Yeah. Wow. My family's from Kilkenny
03:11They adopted me from Thailand when I was only 11 months old. So even at that point, I really don't consider myself Thai
03:17I'm more or less Irish. I
03:19Usually refer to myself as a spicy white boy. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing
03:24I really don't consider myself Thai. I'm more or less Irish. I usually refer to myself as a spicy white girl
03:31No, Kilkenny. I'm from Lea. So it's not far from it
03:36Leashes besides Kilkenny
03:38The prison is there nice electric picnic is what's where that's at Kim Kardashian stayed in a hotel there. That was a big deal
03:44They went to the cinema there
03:45Do you know Irish people get we get so excited at like an American celebrity like of course
03:55I
03:57Run is a gamer. So why do people assume he's a player recently?
04:03I've been told that I look like someone who loves to go and loves to party and just is really outgoing and stuff like that
04:09When in reality, I'm just not
04:14I'd love a relationship like I do kind of miss how it feels and having that someone
04:20But I like to do I like to spoil people I just miss kind of just spoiling someone
04:29That was smooth man, hello, sir, you know very very well what you're doing. How you doing your name?
04:34All right. Nice to meet you. I understand you. Where are you from?
04:40Thank you, I really like someone that's outgoing someone that's extrovert
04:44I think because I would consider myself an introvert. I really like tattoos
04:49Pearsons
04:50someone ideally who is
04:53Below my height around 5 to 5 tree
05:05What's your name?
05:07Becky Oh God, where'd you come from? Oh Kenny. Oh lovely. Yeah
05:13I've been single for about a year now and like it's fun and everything
05:19But like I don't know kind of sick of it now
05:23You know, so what do you do for work?
05:25I'm a personal officer in an air-conditioning company. Nice one. Yeah
05:30Yourself. I just finished a course in office admin
05:33So like a lot of payroll bookkeeping kind of stuff. How's that?
05:37It's fun, it's generally like because I'm really good with computers
05:41Yeah, so I'm like just really once I'm in front of a computer and I'm told to do a thing
05:44I just do it. Yeah, and it doesn't even take any brainpower, which is why I want to have it the same as that
05:49like I like
05:51Everybody asked me to fix their computers or just anything techie like
05:56I
06:05Listen I'm not everybody's cup of tea beauties in the eye of the beholder as they say
06:08So some people like me some people don't I don't want you to put me up with a an Armani model
06:12So I look like Shrek next to us. It's almost like
06:17Liam's just being modest looking this good takes a lot of work and a bit of foreign travel people don't think I'm from the
06:2540s they're like, oh, you know, you don't look in your 40s and sometimes they're like, oh then you're a real tea and I'm like
06:29No, they're from Turkey. How do you feel nervous but excited and hungry?
06:34Yes in the right place people also good. I think if you're not nervous
06:40That's worse. There's something wrong there. I mean, so I think those normal butterflies
06:45Nervousness sort of are a good thing. I'm nervous, but almost like an excited nervousness. Okay good. Yeah
06:52Too bad. You got butterflies a date about an hour ago, but they've selled. No, I'll go to get this beer
06:57And I made a settle a bit more. Well, this is a kill the butterflies. True. You don't kill the butterflies before it comes love
07:12Connor is often regarded as a ladies man
07:16It's a reputation. He could do without do you get chatted up? Sometimes my girls and I'm like
07:22Oh my god go away
07:26Not often though like the odd time like you would and you're just like, oh my god this needs to stop
07:31I need to try and try some gay vibes here. So they kind of catch this like
07:39Have you ever been in love no
07:42Never no, I've told people I love them, but I didn't mean it. I know it's bad like but I think it was just in the moment
07:52People I think just show that word out there and they don't mean it like I did I know you're looking in the mirror
08:02Connor Liam Liam, yes, I'm good. Yeah. Yeah, I'm too nervous. Yes, are you? Oh you bet? Yeah
08:08Yeah, nervous, but excited. Yeah. Yeah same
08:12Like I look at someone like oh, they're actually good-looking and I end up going with them and then I'm like, oh
08:17There's just something missing and I think it's the age. There you go. Cheers. Thank you
08:21You're very yeah color-coordinated here. I
08:26Definitely like older and
08:28Like I do be attracted to like guys you could be younger
08:31But then whenever I actually do be with them, I'm sick. No, I actually like older men. What do you do?
08:3834 34. Yeah, what did you the other way around 43? No, okay. Yeah
08:45So water like your hobbies and stuff
08:48Gaming okay, my number one. Mm-hmm
08:51What do you play?
08:53It depends what you wanna hear I play video games as well. So don't worry. You don't have to sugarcoat it for me
08:58What do you play? I?
09:00Okay, so here's the thing. Like I used to like play like stuff like Call of Duty. Yeah
09:05Warzone is it? Yeah, I've had a bit of warzone RHA. I've also played GTA 4 and 5
09:11I've only played GTA 5. I got to meet the guys from GTA 5 in March. Yeah at comic-con
09:17Was it here? Yeah, I was watching your date. How would I know? Okay, I think he's into her
09:22I wouldn't stop smiling to be honest. I wouldn't stop smiling
09:25It was it was at Dublin comic-con. Yeah, and I got to meet the three guys. I
09:30Cosplayed as one of the daughters of one. Oh, yeah. Yeah deadly. How was it? It was it was it was fun. Yeah
09:36Yeah, I've never been to one. I'd love to go to one
09:40There's one in August like me hands would be like, you know, I'd be put me have just yeah
09:45I won't be able to can I wouldn't be able to contain myself. There might still be tickets left
09:50Where's that? Yeah, you should totally go
09:56Yeah
09:59When I really like someone like I get very giggly I get I'm very smiley like I snort when I laugh when I
10:07You know, I really like someone I used to stream back in the day as well
10:12Yeah, I stream back in the day when I was like 16 17
10:15What would be your like your main like games right now? Yeah, I'm all combat one. Okay, that's fair. That's that's yeah
10:22I am I used to compete in that as well
10:25That's really cool. Yeah, I used to compete in that
10:29I'm trying to get back there again, but it's tough at work and stuff like that trying to get the time to practice
10:34I really want to get a gaming PC now a real you have one don't you?
10:42Sorry, can I just come to your house and watch you play video games like I'm like you're annoying little cousin in the back
10:51Hey
10:56So tell me about your
11:01Well, what do you want to know ask me any questions you won't know I don't even know what I'm
11:06asking
11:09I've been single seven years. Okay, so quite a long time
11:12I haven't been on that many dates in the past seven years. The last relationship was six years. Okay?
11:17Yeah, so, um, we have remained really good friends like, you know
11:21It didn't end for anything bad and then before that I was in a long-term relationship. So I was married. Okay?
11:27Come on, like it's not too mad. No. Yeah to a woman. Yeah, and I've two kids. Oh as well. Yeah, I
11:35Was in a relationship from I was 17 with a girl and we got married when I was 26
11:43We had a baby at 20 when I was 27 and then had another baby when I was 29
11:51Separated at about 29 as well
11:54Met someone a fella when I was I'm 30 and I was in a relationship then till I was 36 and then
12:01single from 36 till now
12:04So, yeah lots
12:06No, so yeah, so my life has been a bit like yeah. Yeah. I didn't come out. I was 30
12:12Yeah, I mean, so it's quite late on in life. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't overly difficult either
12:17It had to be done. So that's one thing that stayed in my head all the time
12:21It was almost like this is the right thing to do. So no matter how difficult that actually is
12:26It's the right thing for everybody. So that's what got me through
12:30Even my ex-wife I told her
12:33So initially she was okay
12:36And then we didn't get on well for a wee while because of that because we were in a long relationship
12:40I had to respect that and we got on really well now like everything's ground with the kids
12:44We're kind of a united team against them
12:52For a mortgage journey with EBS
13:00Do you find it hard to sell yourself? Yeah a little bit. Yeah, I'm a bit like, oh, I don't know
13:05I just want to be toot my own horn, but I love me
13:12And anyone that loves Michelle will need to feel the same way about her furry little friends
13:18I'm a bit like a bit wacky like a bit different like
13:23Obviously with the dogs and stuff, you know, I love to like I'm a dog mom
13:29So, yeah, that's the two of them they're
13:32Chilling in the Sun. This one is hero and this is Hoshi
13:37They're my absolute everything if you don't like dogs
13:40next
13:42No, that's a lady
13:47That's so strong, thank you so much
13:50You know, we go to
13:52Cafes get puppuccinos go on a nice walk. I love to match them
13:56You know accessorize them and stuff and then match my own accessories and we go out and we strut around the place
14:02I just want a real fun person, you know, someone who loves life and loves doing spontaneous things
14:10So my big one is dog lover
14:14Hero has this
14:16Collar really cute kind of like pom-pom style and then a little one for Hoshi as well
14:22They're covered in dog hair and then also got a necklace to match
14:28So we match so hopefully my match will like to match not like dogs love dogs
14:35There's a difference there. No, like if he's allergic to dogs, I'm gone. Oh god, you're definitely a dog lover
14:46I'm back
14:49Why do you 40 40
14:55Why do you think I was I'd have given you 28, oh, that's gorgeous. We're gonna go old and I was like
15:01Lovely girl. She was a lovely lovely girl. I am just a complete opposite
15:05I suppose of what I would see in a potential partner a little bit
15:11No
15:15But you're giving us a second spin, yeah, we give it a go, you know, it's no harm still looking for love
15:22Absolutely. Sure. Are we all a
15:25Year has passed since he was here last but Kevin hasn't changed at all. What you see is what you get with me
15:33From North Dublin. I'm from Killock. Oh, yeah, I love cuddle. Yeah, I was raised on cuddle. My kids were raised on cuddle
15:39Yeah
15:47Suppose I've been that long out of the game. I don't think I know how to chat someone up
16:02Okay, so how are you getting on
16:05Bit nervous. Yeah
16:08Yeah, we're here now, where's the action from Waterford? Okay. Well, you have a weak spot for accents
16:15Smiles very important. Obviously looks comes into it to yourself. I'm done. Oh, you're talking. Okay, you didn't have to travel too far
16:21So no, no, it's fine. I have to drive up. I
16:25Try to avoid the tolls because you know, I didn't want to go of course
16:27I went through the city and I was like, oh my god, I'm in a bus
16:31First of all, look, I'm here. I drive buses. Oh, no way. Okay, right?
16:36So you're just like oh she said bus lane. Yeah. Yeah. So look, you're the one I'm always giving out to
16:42I feel on top of my game now, like I feel ready now to like bring someone in
16:48I I do travel around a lot like, you know, I'd be confident enough driver
16:52Like I only went I'm only back from a holiday there and I went with the dogs. So what kind of don't you know?
16:57I've to Shiva, you know, you know the breeze. It's
17:01Like a Japanese. Yeah, so I'm two of those don't answer yourself. I do
17:07excellent
17:13I'm trying to take it easy on this because I didn't have breakfast. I haven't had any food
17:19Is it because I was just too nervous I was too nervous
17:24Yeah, but I used to be a really anxious person
17:27Since I'm about 10 years of age, I've always dealt with confidence problems. So now I'm kind of yeah
17:33I'm as happy as I've ever been at the minute me confidence at a high and I just
17:38Yeah, I'm just really happy in life at the minute to be honest and with happiness, you know
17:42I think confidence comes with that as well. Yeah, I did counseling for two years
17:46I'm only out of a few months. I've been going on and off since I was 12. Yeah
17:52How do you find it it's good, you know
17:55I feel like it's always a good thing to kind of keep up like at least for me
17:58I used to have lots of confidence issues and stuff. Where's that's kind of fixed now. Yeah, that's good. I
18:05Think I wear me heart me sleeve like when I'm going on dates or anything. I don't necessarily hide anything
18:09Like I don't like the high things. I
18:12Kind of like to lay it out on the table
18:14also
18:15tattoos
18:16Tell me about your tattoos you have way more than me. Yeah, this was my first ever tattoo. Oh, that's
18:23That's a song lyric. Oh nice. So it's a kuna matata when my days are blue. Oh nice one
18:28So whenever I get anxious nervous about yeah, I just remember no worries
18:32I'm a lot of my friends are introverts and you know, they always say that I bring the energy into the room
18:38You know and I help them feel a little bit more comfortable
18:41I only have two tattoos and it's this one which you've surely noticed
18:47And then there's
18:49Marriage with a gun. Yes. What made you get off because I've always been obsessed with the Simpsons
18:54Yeah, I'm just adult cartoons. Like I love the Simpsons family guys South Park. I can do a really good Butters impression
19:09That's brilliant, that's great
19:13What did you put down that you were looking for? Oh, here we go
19:19Looks are important like but it's not the be-all and end-all
19:22Do you know what I mean?
19:22Like someone who's a nice space like you're quite handsome. So tech
19:26My dread was coming here and just sitting with somebody that would have been like trying to pull a conversation out of them
19:31Yeah, but suppose in your job you conversate a lot. Oh, do you just do just do her and just a
19:37If I am on a date with someone that I'm just not
19:40Like fighting with her getting on with I just will not I'll just be like I can't even bothered
19:45Like I could be doing something Sarah and if I say you sit down
19:48I'm like, well, how are you and it's just like any plans for the weekend? It's like no and then they're on the phone. I'm like
19:54Done. Okay, that's me. So you take the lead from them. I
19:57Wouldn't keep trying things on you. Like like if you weren't shot to me, I'm just like
20:01I'm just like I'm just like I'm just like I'm just like
20:05I
20:08Show everything on my face and if you ask anybody that knows me they will say that and what do you want?
20:15Well, I said older. Okay, right? Yeah, I was like don't want someone he's bald
20:23Yeah, I want someone like that I want to live with like and like I do want a life partner
20:27Yeah, I want to come home to someone
20:29Like I'm in the middle of getting a mortgage and stuff so like I'm don't really want to like living on my own
20:38I'm Stephen I for a mortgage. Hopefully I'd say next year like well, that's my job. I have to work that I am
20:42I'm a mortgage and protection manager
20:46We'll have a little look I'll come back to you in a few minutes. All right
20:53So, what's your Collie's name
20:55Ollie
20:56Ollie the Collie
20:58We love a good ride. Yeah
21:01Don't mad. I love it
21:05Have Lucy she's kind of a little cross between a Yorkshire Terrier and
21:10She's really old does stop at you or is there more two dogs Lucy and Ollie Lucy and
21:18Lucy we rescued Oh lovely. She wasn't feeding the mother wasn't feeding her. So she's about two weeks
21:24No way, so I took her a bottle feather and two weeks I'm surprised you made it. Oh gosh two weeks
21:36Though I'd say you're her everything then well, I know if you fancy them
21:41You'll know it's it's the eyes
21:43You'll know how many compliments do you get on your eyes?
21:53No, cuz you're beautiful. Oh god
21:59Thank you, you don't get that a lot. I don't think so. No, I don't believe you. No, I like don't go on many dates
22:07I'm very very picky
22:10You have to have a little something for me to to let you in. Would you be the romantic type a little bit of romance?
22:18I'd like to think so, but I don't think I've ever
22:22Experienced experience. No, not that I can remember. All right, okay, you know
22:27I like to like plan things and I like to you know, take control and go right we're going here here and here
22:33But I don't think I've ever been whisked away as such
22:36Okay, I can't I can be very very random and spontaneous
22:41like
22:42Just throw a random scenario at me. So I could be sitting there with you and watching Friday night TV
22:51Let's go to Germany or you know, yes
22:55Excellent. Yeah. No, I could be very okay. I love that brilliant
23:00We're not in a position to do it with make it happen. Okay. Okay. I'm one of if I want something to happen
23:05It's gonna happen. I love that. Yeah, very tenacious. Okay, okay
23:09a
23:21Man of the soil, but not like that. We say I look like a proper culture. I'm actually quite civilized in a sense
23:31Welcome how are things? How are you? All good. Don't need to be nervous
23:35I don't know
23:37Nice to meet you. I think you're on how is everything? Yeah, just flying to say it is going as they say
23:42I think I probably just have a lot of enough confidence in myself not to be nice. I should be alright
23:50Hopefully no need to be worried
23:53We're gonna put you at the bar your first
23:56Drink one or two settlers. So yeah, you look dapper. You're ready. Yeah compliments to you look like I'm on my confirmation
24:05I'm hoping to find someone to settle down with and look towards the future
24:09Kind of sick of the single single bachelor life. Oh
24:1322
24:16All life ahead of you. Yeah, just good good. Thank you life
24:20I hate it think I think there's a bit of a hopeless romantic in me and I'd be able to pull out a few stops and
24:26Surprise people and what are the Kerry when like they're easy to talk to so
24:31Makes my life a lot easier than they're trying to carry a conversation
24:34I'm looking for some of the infectious personality someone similar to myself for the the same sense of humor
24:51Your name
24:54The dress is cool. Thank you. Yeah girl
24:58So we're ready for a bit of dating you are
25:05When is the last time you've been
25:12What kind of guy would you like to meet someone who's nice who's kind who's family-orientated
25:17If they're from a farming background, that's great. If they're not that's fine, too
25:21They've a beard I suppose that's that's nice too small well-kept beard
25:33Very beautiful
25:35Not a color here. We need this today. Yeah. So where are you from?
25:40Frank Kerry, how about yourself? I'm from Cork. Oh
25:43Christ
25:44That would be nice enough to say if they would like to the outdoors. Yeah, definitely. Yeah
25:48I'm a gardener
25:53Are you any good at cutting hedges
25:55Not bad. No, well, I think I'm alright, but my boss might have a different opinion on it
26:00So, all right, well, you can come and cut my hedges. That's great. Absolutely. No water
26:08And what was your last relationship two years ago, really? Yeah, we were together five years Wow. Yeah, that's a long time
26:16It is a long time. Yeah
26:18It was tough. Yeah, I
26:21Cried constantly for a good month
26:23I'd say and that's kind of what got me into counseling then to kind of deal with that first
26:27What kind of made you start going? I got bullied a lot in school
26:31Yeah, and then like a lot of things just over the years and then like a lot of the issues
26:37I was having ended up, you know being a result of I wasn't diagnosed with autism till I was 21
26:41Okay, so a lot of things were just undiagnosed autism
26:44That was a lot of my problems a lot of people wouldn't know that I'm actually autistic
26:50People, you know have this vision of autism in their head of like someone that's introverted doesn't really speak much doesn't leave their house
26:57And that's just not true. I go to like nightclubs every weekend. I go hanging out with friends
27:04I go to like loud events all the time. One guy was just like you don't look autistic
27:09You're so pretty and I was like I said, I was autistic not ugly
27:14I wasn't growing up with it
27:16Like that. Um, I didn't have many friends growing up
27:20you know because to be fair part of it is on me and I will say that now because I
27:27Was not as able to socialize as I am now. Yeah, like you could not hold a solid conversation with me
27:32I was always unabashedly myself. But the thing is I wasn't confident. I just lacked self-awareness. I
27:39was an eight-year-old a
27:42Kid the only Asian kid in my class who also had undiagnosed autism and that was just uh-huh
27:50You know, I was the main target for like bullies. Yeah, like I was always always unapologetically myself
27:56I never tried to change myself for any reason. Yeah, despite getting bullied. You see that's the thing
28:02That's I used to be like that
28:03I used to try I used to want to change just for people I've kind of realized recently that I need to stay
28:08True to myself, you know, I mean
28:10Because that's who I am
28:19Would you ever want kids
28:22Are you stuck?
28:24Okay, and then I think I got older. I used to babysit my nice nephews and I said
28:30My friends have kids and it's just like you can't they don't do anything
28:33I can't go here and I just don't like I haven't like I just like to be able to do whatever I want
28:37But at the same time if I was with someone they wanted to check kids, I'd be like, okay
28:43Let's think about this
28:45Give it time
28:47Yeah, I love them. But I swear to God they're hard work to teenagers like oh, yeah as a parent
28:52You're kind of go I'm losing them. Yeah
28:54Yeah, I said that to my mom I was like mom is this normal and she's like you all go through it
28:59Oh, yeah, everybody sure that age like you do you don't want to be your mates are more important
29:05Having kids has really changed my outlook on life and and who I am. It's the most
29:11Amazing experience in the world no matter how much to do my head in would you want to have four kids?
29:18You wouldn't want to have like I know you know
29:21What I have loved to have more than two kids. Yes, but that's just not high life worked out for me
29:27But at this point in my life being 43
29:29I couldn't have a newborn or I couldn't have a baby because again
29:32I've done my time with them to their teenagers now. They're starting to get their independence. No, it's my time
29:37Yeah to take the trips and do whatever and do bits and bobs, but no, I couldn't I like to live my life like
29:49To take long to come up
29:53You you didn't get your a stop in your van or so
29:56No, I've never been but I've I've heard it's a great place. It is great place for no care every dinner
30:02Oh, yeah, I know it can't be it's every dinner. Oh, no, no, it's not I was saying to my cousin the other day
30:07It's never care reading or open a story. Oh, absolutely. Yeah
30:13The choice of picking two means to be the care every dinner and a bowl of soup to go
30:20Have you been a single for that? Hey, I've been single for about a year kind of on and off
30:27I
30:29Kind of you know, like this is totally a thing with comfort zone. So I
30:34Was the same I said, yes, I'll get myself out there, you know, it's them. Yeah, they're good opportunities
30:41Something new change, you know, why not? You only live once so grass every single opportunity. I went I did the rose tree
30:49Really?
30:50Well, there's a rose water. I went for the cork rose
30:54Yeah
30:54I wasn't chosen as cork rose bush if I had such an amazing experience and I went day and then was five other girls to
31:00Support the actual cork rose. Oh my gosh. It was amazing like to actually be entry like an experience
31:07I'd say it's a great experience to go into the dorm and just watch it all
31:12Yeah, yeah, no mom was really shocked she thought I was gonna actually, you know collapse on stage what was your special talent first
31:19And so I didn't actually have any special talent
31:24Well, I like suppose I joked at my mom I was like, oh sure I can take some of these blood pressure because I was I'm
31:29Working in the pharmacy, but I mom's like, you know, maybe it maybe don't
31:35It's hard out there it really is
31:39So hard. Yeah, it's like
31:42It's grim. Yeah, it is. I have had two boyfriends
31:46I guess like one main for 14 years
31:50and then that
31:53Ended when you're out now as well. It's very hard to approach someone
31:59Married or you know, you don't know what their intentions are exactly. Were you expecting the ring? Yeah, it never happens
32:07Never happens
32:09And if I'm honest like if I was sitting there in a bar and I see you in a bar
32:13I don't know that she's stolen to my on my leg. I'd be
32:17You wouldn't I would
32:19Seriously. Yeah, honestly
32:22It was a rollercoaster. It really was and then, you know seeing people around town and they'd be like, how's life and I'd be like
32:29No, and oh, oh, sorry, and I'm like, no, it's fine
32:33Let's get over it together. And you know, it's but I've been like my family and friends
32:38Amazing so anyone going through that like it does get better
32:43It's hard to know that at the time, but Jesus it does get better. I wouldn't come up to you. Oh, yeah
32:51Yeah, I'd be the same yeah, I probably get one of my friends to check it out maybe
33:00Yeah
33:02But you do you know what the walks
33:09If only it was easy
33:14You'll tell anything in Dublin after this, um, I don't have anything planned. Yeah
33:21Why?
33:22Need a tour guide. Oh, yeah
33:25There's a really good pub. Yeah
33:33I
33:34Did you find that it was really fun? Yeah, he was really easy to talk to
33:39You're very easy to talk to I like that. Thank you. Well, I don't think I am
33:44I tried to be but and the moment I looked at his tattoos. I was like, okay. Okay, we have something here. Okay, great
33:52That's all cold
33:54What's good though? It's good. Yeah, I've been
33:57Sweating all day. It's just because I'm so not I was so nervous
34:00Really? Yeah
34:02Yeah, it was a good date. Yeah, the conversation was flowing, you know, there was no awkward pauses
34:08No, it's not nothing like that, which is my main worry
34:10Yeah, no, I thought was good day. Yeah, I'm happy. I'm happy with it
34:13What are we doing about the bill? Cuz I didn't expect it to be this much. I have
34:17very sure
34:20Are you are you super sure you don't want me to contribute like a little did you fancy him? Yeah
34:27And if we have a lot of things in common and he's and he's cute then if we go out later and buying you a drink
34:36I
34:37Think there was a bit of a spark there. Yeah, I think it's something to definitely explore. I think yeah
34:42Do you think you'd actually go to comic-con?
34:45I would love to yeah, so you should definitely get ticket
34:48What do you like to see each other again? You're going first
34:53romantically
34:56Um, I think so, yeah, yeah, yeah
35:05Do you fancy each other? Yeah. Yeah
35:14Thank you so much, thank you very much. Thank you
35:19How tall are you I'd like to say six four I'm four foot nine four foot nine look at the size of these heels
35:25That's what
35:28What's the word inch is that it? Yeah. Yeah
35:41Will you keep and Tugger again? Yes
35:55How are you doing? Yeah good. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, not too bad. How's it all going? Yeah, really good. Yeah
36:01Yeah, like I was nervous and all I can actually like yeah, it's good. He's a nice guy. He seems lovely. Yeah
36:07Yes, that's nice. Yeah, it's good because I was a bit wary about like so I was like, oh my god
36:11I'm gonna sit here for an hour and a half. I don't like somebody like
36:14So let's just yeah, see how it goes
36:17Why'd I turn around said yes. No. Oh, yeah
36:20So you think that you you do think it could be a yes or you think there's a potential for a spark on your side?
36:24Yeah, like I think he's nice
36:34So my granny lives on a dairy farm, so I've a big into you know
36:39I'm asking the cows and you can have two calves and everything really
36:43When I come home in the evenings, I have right in the farm
36:45So I'm with the cows I get any newborn calves out of the field. It's very hands-on full intense job
36:51So I definitely to be tired after but it's very enjoyable
36:54So have you ever been to a cattle marsh or a few times? All right to say
37:00It's an experience to be there. I used to do a bit with my uncle when I was younger
37:03I used to help him with the milkings and evenings and stuff like that. And then
37:07favorite job is probably feeding the cows
37:11Yeah, I used quite often I use fall over and pour a whole bucket of milk or myself
37:17That's the that's the joys of it too
37:21My uncle has a couple of show cows so I have
37:25Shown a couple when I was younger and stuff like that. That'll be a most adventurous thing. I've done in family
37:30I was king of the ring as I said
37:32I wasn't I like to think I was
37:35Had me all excited. I thought you know, like it's like
37:38Queen of the land
37:42I'm not that good. No, I'd say better than me now
37:45About that
37:50You've such a nice hair
37:51No, there's color in my hair. So at the ends, you know, I can see it, but it's really nice
37:56It's styled really well because on the sides don't talk to me Jesus
37:59You'll know all about grades when you get into your 40s seen the back of them and I was like, oh, yeah
38:03he's just nice looks good and then turned around and
38:08Yeah, he didn't really nice smile a nice teeth and everything and I was like, yeah, he's nice
38:13Mine is starting to go back a little bit. Oh, so it's my luck
38:18Carolek, I know I was thinking I'm going to Turkey and getting it. All right, why is oh, I don't know
38:25No, no, I might not my teeth on a couple of years ago
38:30Little spark there. Yeah, he's done. Well, I
38:34Haven't regretted it put it that way. Have you seen the horror stories?
38:38I'd love to get my teeth. Oh, yeah, you have nice teeth. Oh, I think this could go somewhere
38:45Well, thank you Cheers
38:47I'll get that. No, you're not. I'll go why just because I've enjoyed the day. This is why you're gonna get
39:00We're gonna split it. Yeah, perfect. Would you like to see each other again romantically?
39:07He asked can be around
39:11I'll answer if I would I would do
39:17Thank you
39:21He was quite open he was chatty he was bubbly
39:25There's just a bit of banter there, which is what I was looking for
39:27I didn't want somebody that you were trying to pull a conversation out of
39:32Gonna go for a drink. Yeah, why not?
39:38I
39:39Like old-school. Yeah, you know like tradition. Yeah, like slow dances and shit
39:44Whatever happened to them? Oh, I think I'm a little bit young for that now
39:50Okay, all right
39:5236 okay. How old are you?
39:56Go up a little bit north of 36. Okay. I'm 41
40:02That's not too much. That's great. She's
40:05Don't want to be 41
40:09Yeah, it is like if you said like, you know
40:18We are spring chickens live in life if you want to see me go on definitely a spring chicken
40:26Keep doing until me hip goes. Yeah
40:29I'm very old-fashioned in a lot of ways
40:31Like I still believe in chivalry
40:34It's like manners and chivalry and respect doesn't exist anymore. Whereas I still firmly believe in it
40:40I love traditional old-school stuff. You know that kind of way. Yeah. Yeah, I do as you say, I love an old slow dance
40:47I love a bit of intimacy
40:52It's dead but it's nice I like being a family man, I like being part of a unit
40:57It's it's the best thing in the world and I mean that's I suppose what most people are looking for
41:01Because I've got two daughters and a son as well
41:04Okay
41:05Yeah, I was married. I was married for 12 years and unfortunately that
41:10didn't work out in the end and
41:12been single I suppose
41:15Be seven or eight years now. How many did you say?
41:18Two or three Jim Oh
41:21Tree okay, right
41:23I have a son and two daughters and two dogs and a cat and two dogs and a cat and a grandson. Oh
41:30Wow
41:31Big family. Yeah. Yeah, obviously I wasn't happy when I found out at first was not happy at all
41:38But you know, he kind of he came along and fell in love with him when it's there
41:42Yeah, I should get mad I guess. Yeah, it's just one of those things. Yeah. Well look you did it so you can't come out
41:48That's exactly what he said
41:50That's exactly what he said
41:53What ages are they? So they're 20?
41:5617 15 it is one of the coolest jobs in the world pain of that. I
42:01Do really enjoy?
42:04That's what you got pleasure pleasure pleasure pleasure
42:12Jesus Christ is short is way too big for me
42:16Would you be
42:17more of a movie person or a
42:20Person that watch a series. I do like a good old series. There's nothing wrong with that
42:26And then I like I love like comedies romantic comedies and yeah
42:33Like the prince and the princess and the happy ever after
42:35You can't be the rom-com. I know absolutely can't you all want the fairytale ending like to know where the
42:42Happy ever after bush whether that exists or not. No, I don't know. So how long have you been single for?
42:48It's a good question
42:51Both I'd say a year and a half now. Have you been able to meet people in person there?
42:56Do you kind of yeah, I think I'm better off just getting off there
43:01Like I said even just going to sort of in stancing or something like that it's a great way to meet people
43:08I'd have a bit of Dutch courage on a night out usually and
43:12Well myself my friends usually it's a kind of once we tonight club. It's every man for himself. We're all off looking for someone
43:18We regroup and I say to take with it. I have a team talk about it after
43:23More or less. Yeah, it's a just dissect tonight and
43:27See you see who was looking who wasn't
43:29What would you look for in a person?
43:32kind
43:33genuine
43:35and we won't mess here and give you mixed signals and
43:39Just a nice person that you can have a laugh at
43:42Yeah, that's a great answer
43:48Yeah, I'll take that oh no, no, no, I don't know stop
43:53Always thank you
43:57Wow
43:59Just stolen
44:01Stolen
44:03Thank you so much, that was lovely
44:06Have a good night. Thank you. Do you think there was any kind of a spark there between you? I
44:13Thought there was anything yeah, I felt it was yeah, do you think she fancies you? I hope so. Oh
44:21Oh, are we here we are
44:25Fuck it. It's in these big thrones
44:27Really nice guy really easy to chatter
44:30Love the kind of like sparkle in his eyes. I love the dress by the way. Thank you. Thank you very much
44:36It was a it was
44:38Tough decision now. I kind of matched the chair snakeskin. You're gonna blend right in there. Would you like to see each other again?
44:50And
44:53The kids thing throws me, okay, I did get a shock when you said you had three kids
45:00Kids are like they scare me no matter what age they are. Yeah
45:05It just throws me like really. Yeah. Yeah
45:09Follow me. Oh, sorry. Thank you. Party. We didn't know where to go
45:15Let's do it I
45:17Just feel awful like we had such a good time. You're such a nice guy. You're so easy. Thank you very much. I
45:22Yeah
45:23But yeah, the kids thing is just a no for me. I
45:27Would have said yes
45:33You know no matter what age they are they're still like three kids like, you know
45:38He's had that bombs three times with this woman. I just freaks me out to be honest
45:43That was really fun, I have a blast it was a good time. Thank you so much for being you
45:50So that's what that feels like
45:54Thanks for a great anyway, thank you so much. It was really nice to meet you you too. Thanks so much
46:09How are we feeling
46:12Fairly good. No to be honest. I
46:14Happy with how it went anywhere like on your bucket list or anything you want to do
46:18I just do a small bit of traveling nothing too major. No, I
46:22Even just camping or something just yeah, it just expand my horizons in other words
46:27I I suppose I was happy that there was actually someone
46:30Who was compatible for me as well at the same time kind of a bit of relief as well that I?
46:35Door door during someone I'd love to kind of go to like America or like Australia or something that is on my bucket
46:41It's to get out to the outlets in American
46:44Yeah, we didn't read the place
46:48So guys the moment of truth
46:50Would you like to see each other again romantically?
46:55You can go first. Yeah. Yeah. Can you breathe now?
47:01Yeah
47:04She's so that she likes me
47:06The only thing I could have made a nicer as a company
47:10Yeah, it's trauma berries to absolutely
47:13Lovely smile. He's a lovely laugh. It's very hard to laugh
47:17Look like in fact just a minute. He starts. You're like, oh my gosh, I can feel my teeth. Thank you
47:20It's nice
47:30So do you fancy each other that's why yeah, yeah, it was a drop of scuppers, please
47:51I
47:59Hedges are very overgrown and corrects me and cut them
48:02I
48:15Any ideas where you might go for another taste just a bar a couple of drinks sort of get to know each other a bit better
48:21I
48:31What are you hoping for tonight? I love my life. Do you know anything about st. Valentine? I
48:37Know it's named after a st. Valentino eat up girl. She died on February 14th
48:42That's why everybody goes out for a nice meal
48:44I
48:48Doesn't like a bit of room us that cocktail looks sexy. No success
49:14You
49:44You