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00:00:00This morning has come, kissing your cheeks
00:00:17Swinging like the wind, going round and round
00:00:22This morning has come, smiling like this
00:00:41She is humming like this, she is waking everyone up
00:00:45With flowers in her hair, the birds are chirping
00:00:50Assalam-o-Alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan
00:00:55How are you? Are you all doing well?
00:00:58How is life going on? I ask you this everyday
00:01:02My younger son Balaj translates for me
00:01:06How is your life? He says how is the world going on
00:01:09He doesn't know the difference between life and the world
00:01:14So he is speaking in Urdu
00:01:17Today we will talk about daughters
00:01:20As a mother, we protect our daughters
00:01:29Actually we protect our sons as well
00:01:31Who they are sitting with, who they are waking up with
00:01:35They go and make friends with their cousins
00:01:39The reason behind making friends with your cousins is
00:01:47You know that they are from your family
00:01:49So your daughter doesn't get hurt
00:01:52We know the family background
00:01:55We have relatives and daughters
00:01:58So we don't get stressed about how they are meeting people
00:02:02We try to meet the parents of the girls in school
00:02:07We try to find out if the girl who is sitting with your daughter
00:02:11Is coming from this house
00:02:13Because you are conscious about your daughters
00:02:16After marriage, the environment and atmosphere
00:02:24That affects your daughters is their friends
00:02:27They learn good things from their friends
00:02:29And obviously they pick bad things from them
00:02:33Especially when the girls are growing up
00:02:36They have two paths
00:02:38No matter how strong your upbringing is
00:02:41If their company gets a little bad
00:02:44Then the track on which you have to run them
00:02:47As a parent, you are not able to run them
00:02:51Because you know this
00:02:53A lot of losses come from friends
00:02:57When you reach my age, you will realize
00:03:05That women are women's enemies
00:03:09This is true to some extent
00:03:11But in a lot of places
00:03:13As an experienced woman
00:03:16In a lot of places, women are women's best friends
00:03:20They are very supportive
00:03:22For example
00:03:25If we start with a woman's relationship
00:03:28A girl who wants to pursue her career
00:03:34Sometimes her mother-in-law takes care of her
00:03:37Helps her to study further
00:03:40Go for a job
00:03:42And usually her mother or sister supports her
00:03:49In this way, that woman is supportive for that girl
00:03:54But if you see
00:03:56A step-sister
00:03:58If someone knows that this man is married
00:04:02Despite that, she is close to him
00:04:04Knowing that I am ruining another woman's home
00:04:08Or if you are working together in the office
00:04:11Pulling each other's legs
00:04:13If you are studying in a university college
00:04:16And you like only one person
00:04:19There is negativity
00:04:21So sometimes it happens
00:04:23That women become women's enemies
00:04:25And in that enmity
00:04:27They harm her
00:04:29And sometimes we trust our female friends so blindly
00:04:33That we tell them every secret
00:04:35Without knowing how much they can harm you in the future
00:04:41In many homes you will see
00:04:44That the sister-in-law and mother-in-law destroy the house
00:04:47That is, there too she becomes a woman's enemy
00:04:50Of her daughter-in-law
00:04:52The house is destroyed
00:04:54Or sometimes the daughter-in-law separates the mother and son
00:04:57From her politics
00:05:01So in society
00:05:03In so many places you will see
00:05:06That a woman is a woman's enemy
00:05:08And you will see it in a few places
00:05:13If this woman has reached a certain level
00:05:17Then it is the help of another woman
00:05:20So focusing on both these things
00:05:23Is today's program
00:05:25What is our job?
00:05:27Our job is to warn you in a way
00:05:31Attention, alert
00:05:33Not that, danger alert
00:05:35Tell where we can save our girls
00:05:38From other girls
00:05:40Because the world is getting worse
00:05:42Earlier it might not have happened
00:05:44Or if it would have happened, it would not have been known
00:05:46But nowadays because of social media
00:05:48So many videos of best friends
00:05:51Their other best friends make it viral
00:05:54I mean we have seen tiktokers and many such celebrities
00:05:57Whose any such video
00:06:00Which is on screen
00:06:02Which is with people
00:06:04The scene was not going to come out
00:06:06Their friends
00:06:07Their passwords were with them
00:06:09They have humiliated them in the whole world
00:06:13So come
00:06:14I will bring many such cases in front of you
00:06:18Which will surprise you
00:06:22And when you hear all these cases
00:06:24Then automatically you will be alert
00:06:27You will be attentive in your mind
00:06:29That how much you should trust someone
00:06:32This is the game of life
00:06:33Stay with me after a short break
00:06:35Good morning Pakistan
00:06:40Welcome, welcome back
00:06:44Good morning Pakistan
00:06:45Today's topic is
00:06:47First of all put the heading on one side
00:06:49That women are the enemies of women
00:06:51And on the other side
00:06:53My team said that we only do this topic today
00:06:56That women are the enemies of women
00:06:57So I said no
00:06:58My life experience says that
00:07:00Sometimes women are very good friends of women
00:07:02And in elevating them
00:07:04In taking them somewhere
00:07:05Women are equal
00:07:08It is not like that
00:07:09Especially men have a perception
00:07:11That yes, women have jealousy
00:07:13And jealousy and anger in them
00:07:15But it is not like that
00:07:17Somewhere
00:07:18So I changed this topic a little
00:07:21That no, somewhere
00:07:23Women are very sincere friends of women
00:07:26So let's see
00:07:28In your life
00:07:30Which line are you in agreement with?
00:07:32We ask our celebrity guest
00:07:34Komal Aziz is with us
00:07:35Assalamualaikum
00:07:37Walaikumassalam
00:07:38How are you?
00:07:39I am fine
00:07:40I am worried
00:07:41It is a controversial question
00:07:42It is a strange question
00:07:43I mean
00:07:44There are two things
00:07:45It is possible that in your life
00:07:47One heading is applied
00:07:49Or the other heading is applied
00:07:51In my life both headings are applied
00:07:53I have not found a very hostile woman
00:07:55In my life so far
00:07:57She was very medium
00:07:59That there were phases in life
00:08:01So that's why
00:08:03I have kept both topics
00:08:05I will ask you what is the topic of your life
00:08:07My next guest is
00:08:09It is also very important to be an expert
00:08:11Why do women become enemies of women?
00:08:13There must be some history
00:08:15There must be something
00:08:17Which makes a person so negative
00:08:19That they pull the ground from under someone else
00:08:21Or remove the sky
00:08:23So Dr. Rabia Farooqui
00:08:25Clinical Psychologist
00:08:27Rabia Farooqui, sorry
00:08:29Clinical Psychologist is present with me
00:08:31Assalamualaikum
00:08:33Thank God
00:08:35So Komal let's start with you
00:08:37If I ask you a percentage in your life
00:08:39This heading that women are enemies of women
00:08:41And that women
00:08:43Elevate women very well
00:08:45Or are sincere friends
00:08:47You
00:08:49The experiences of your life
00:08:51What percentage will you say
00:08:53Which is more real
00:08:55I think
00:08:57In the last show I said that
00:08:59My whole life was a little stupid
00:09:01So I think
00:09:03Many times my best friends
00:09:05Were my enemies
00:09:07But I didn't know
00:09:09Because I was not aware
00:09:11And what I think
00:09:13As I am thinking
00:09:15The rest of the people are thinking
00:09:17We all are like this
00:09:19Many people are jealous
00:09:21They are jealous from inside
00:09:23They are projecting
00:09:25Their inner world is projecting on others
00:09:27So in my inner world
00:09:29There was always positivity for women
00:09:31So I always thought positive
00:09:33About all my friends
00:09:35And about the girls around me
00:09:37But many of them were not positive
00:09:39So if I say honestly
00:09:41My experience was not that good
00:09:43In life
00:09:45And maybe one reason was
00:09:47In school
00:09:49There were crushes of boys
00:09:51Oh yes
00:09:53Lovely girl
00:09:55Because of that, girls come to me a lot
00:09:57They used to come to me
00:09:59Because they used to have
00:10:01All the boys
00:10:03But it was not a sincere friendship
00:10:05It was because I was powerful
00:10:07In my school
00:10:09I was friendly with them
00:10:11They were inviting me
00:10:13But now
00:10:15They are not in my life
00:10:17If they are not
00:10:19It was very sad with me
00:10:21When my father died
00:10:23Many girls didn't come
00:10:25It shows that they were not your friends
00:10:27Whether they are in your good times or not
00:10:29If they are not in your bad times
00:10:31Then they are not yours
00:10:33After that experience
00:10:35I told you
00:10:37Like my company
00:10:39Because I am from America
00:10:41There is a lot of feminism in America
00:10:43Women support women
00:10:45Women support each other
00:10:47Boss, babes and all of that
00:10:49But when I came to Pakistan
00:10:51I said that I will also start a company
00:10:53In which I will empower women
00:10:55But when I tried to do that
00:10:57In my company
00:10:59My experience was
00:11:01Because I want to encourage women
00:11:03And I want to move forward
00:11:05So all the women should move forward with me
00:11:07Like you have supported me many times
00:11:09So I thought
00:11:11I should support my juniors
00:11:13But my experience
00:11:15Is not that good
00:11:17And I am very sad about it
00:11:19But again
00:11:21I have seen
00:11:23Women who are ahead of you
00:11:25And more successful than you
00:11:27They want to take you with them
00:11:29Especially if you are working hard
00:11:31Women who are
00:11:33Less successful than you
00:11:35Then they are
00:11:37Jealous
00:11:39And I can understand
00:11:41They think
00:11:43We are also working hard
00:11:45Why is she going ahead
00:11:47So they feel jealous
00:11:49So I have made a simple principle
00:11:51In my life
00:11:53I keep friendship with
00:11:55Hardworking and successful women
00:11:57Other than that
00:11:59I don't keep friendship
00:12:01So there is no jealousy
00:12:03I want to ask you
00:12:05Our perception
00:12:07Is different
00:12:09But if you ask men
00:12:11They will say
00:12:13Women don't get along
00:12:15They fight a lot
00:12:17But men
00:12:19When they sit and
00:12:21Discuss
00:12:23They say
00:12:25Men are better
00:12:27Than women
00:12:29They don't see
00:12:31Friendship
00:12:33What do you have to say
00:12:35About this
00:12:37If I ask about
00:12:39Men and women
00:12:41What is it
00:12:43Why do women
00:12:45Fight a lot
00:12:47First of all
00:12:49It is important to know
00:12:51There is no friend
00:12:53Or enemy
00:12:55You learn this
00:12:57From your culture
00:12:59From your family
00:13:01From your society
00:13:03Our society
00:13:05Is a patriarchal society
00:13:07Where men are favored
00:13:09Now things have changed
00:13:11But this has been going on
00:13:13From the beginning
00:13:15In families and society
00:13:17Now there is a power dynamic
00:13:19Men have more power
00:13:21So they are like
00:13:23The ruler
00:13:25Like Komal said
00:13:27It may go viral
00:13:29Komal
00:13:31But you said
00:13:33Because you were
00:13:35A crush in school
00:13:37Girls came to befriend you
00:13:39Because you were powerful
00:13:41You said it practically
00:13:43It happens
00:13:45And I picked it up from her
00:13:47Your sentence
00:13:49I am justifying
00:13:51Because you were a crush
00:13:53You got power
00:13:55And girls were attracted to you
00:13:57Yes
00:13:59So this is one reason
00:14:01And another reason
00:14:03You will be seen with a girl
00:14:05Who is already the center of attention
00:14:07So if I continue
00:14:09There is one group
00:14:11Who is powerful
00:14:13And there is another group
00:14:15Who is treated like a second class citizen
00:14:17So now
00:14:19One such group
00:14:21Needs resources
00:14:23For its survival
00:14:25So what will happen
00:14:27There will be competition
00:14:29The one who is favored
00:14:31Will get more resources
00:14:33For survival
00:14:35So there will be a fight
00:14:37I will get more favors
00:14:39So that the women around me
00:14:41Will be seen less
00:14:43Or if I malign them
00:14:45I will be seen better
00:14:47I will get more favors
00:14:49If you see
00:14:51The perspective of men
00:14:53Because they have power
00:14:55They know that we are united
00:14:57And we can be united
00:14:59And control them
00:15:01So if you are united
00:15:03So this is
00:15:05We don't think so consciously
00:15:07But we have learned
00:15:09From our society
00:15:11That men are more friendly
00:15:13Because through friendship
00:15:15They live with each other
00:15:17And make the women
00:15:19Fight each other
00:15:21That they fight each other
00:15:23For their resources
00:15:25And for survival
00:15:27They become enemies
00:15:29If there are limited resources
00:15:31They will only get
00:15:33Favors from men
00:15:35So this is why
00:15:37The mindset of women
00:15:39Is born from this
00:15:41Rabia you explained it very well
00:15:43I got goosebumps
00:15:45You explained it very well
00:15:47If I add a little
00:15:49You are right
00:15:51Men have power
00:15:53And women are competing
00:15:55For those resources
00:15:57If we go back a little
00:15:59Like you said
00:16:01If we go back before
00:16:03When we used to live in caves
00:16:05When there was no system of nations
00:16:07Women used to live in caves
00:16:09And take care of their children
00:16:11And men
00:16:13Because it is a hunter-gatherer society
00:16:15Men used to go out to hunt
00:16:17And women used to gather
00:16:19So from there
00:16:21Men have power
00:16:23So this is the nature
00:16:25You said that we are socialized
00:16:27If we go further
00:16:29Men are physically stronger
00:16:31If they are physically stronger
00:16:33They can go out and hunt
00:16:35Women are sitting at home
00:16:37Taking care of their children
00:16:39So from that time
00:16:41This competition was going on
00:16:43When this happened to me
00:16:45I started reading books
00:16:47Why is there so much jealousy
00:16:49So I realized
00:16:51Unfortunately because women are physically weak
00:16:53And men are physically
00:16:5517 times more testosterone than women
00:16:57So they are physically stronger
00:16:59And physically
00:17:01That's why they have more power
00:17:03Now things are changing
00:17:05Because now jobs are not physical labor
00:17:07Now it is mental
00:17:09The mind should be strong
00:17:11I think women are mentally stronger than men
00:17:13They have better multitasking
00:17:15The mind works
00:17:17Now this power
00:17:19Was with men
00:17:21Now it is slowly coming to women
00:17:23Social media has come
00:17:25You can do business online
00:17:27Women don't need strength
00:17:29They can do it
00:17:31Things are changing
00:17:33But I think evolution
00:17:35If we are gatherers in evolution
00:17:37And men are hunters
00:17:39Then somewhere
00:17:41We will have jealousy in our nature
00:17:43And it will take time to change
00:17:45It will take time
00:17:47There is a perspective
00:17:49That men are physically strong
00:17:51But now
00:17:53They are using their strength
00:17:55To control
00:17:57To protect
00:17:59To provide
00:18:01Nature has given them strength
00:18:03Your role is of protection and providing
00:18:05But if they change it
00:18:07And come to control
00:18:09This is such a beautiful sentence
00:18:11That power
00:18:13The concept of macho man
00:18:15And what attracts women
00:18:17Is that we will get protection
00:18:19But instead of protection
00:18:21It becomes control
00:18:23The element of control
00:18:27I have seen many women
00:18:29Praising men
00:18:31We have gone from many tracks
00:18:33But let me complete
00:18:35I have seen many women
00:18:37Praising their husbands
00:18:39They are dominating
00:18:41But they give respect and protection
00:18:43They don't show controlled behavior
00:18:45The woman who dreams
00:18:47Of macho man
00:18:49She wants to be controlled
00:18:51She wants to be protected
00:18:53That's why she watches
00:18:55Sometimes men misunderstand
00:18:57That my masculinity
00:19:01Let's go to our cases
00:19:03And see
00:19:05The experiences we have not gone through
00:19:07People have gone through
00:19:09And we will know
00:19:11That this also happens in the world
00:19:13We have Sana with us
00:19:15Hello Sana
00:19:17What will you tell us
00:19:19About your life experience
00:19:21I would like to share my experience
00:19:23With all of you
00:19:25The place where I used to work
00:19:27I had a friend colleague
00:19:29Her name was Erum
00:19:31She was a very good friend of mine
00:19:33We trusted each other a lot
00:19:35In terms of friendship
00:19:37We worked in the same firm for three years
00:19:39We both
00:19:41Joined there as juniors
00:19:43We were working
00:19:45In marketing
00:19:47My progress was very good
00:19:49All over the air
00:19:51So my promotion and increment
00:19:53Was very fast
00:19:55My friend didn't like this
00:19:57And I
00:19:59Started trusting her a lot
00:20:01Our friendship
00:20:03Was very good
00:20:05We had the same colleague in our office
00:20:07Her name was Uwais
00:20:09He was my junior
00:20:11But I had a good interaction with him
00:20:13He used to help me
00:20:15With a lot of things
00:20:17He used to discuss
00:20:19With me
00:20:21Whatever was his concern
00:20:23We had a good bonding
00:20:25In the office
00:20:27We all had a good bonding
00:20:29During this time
00:20:31I used to get a proposal
00:20:33It was a good proposal
00:20:35My parents considered it
00:20:37I got married there
00:20:39My friend was like my sister
00:20:41I introduced her as a sister
00:20:43In my family
00:20:45She was a part of our family
00:20:47We didn't even know
00:20:49That she was a friend
00:20:51Like my sisters
00:20:53Our bonding
00:20:55Was very good
00:20:57When I got married
00:20:59My husband was very good
00:21:01We had a good relationship
00:21:03Because
00:21:05My friend was very much
00:21:07Involved in our family
00:21:09My husband used to treat her
00:21:11Like his sister-in-law
00:21:13We used to go out together
00:21:15We used to get together
00:21:17He used to treat her very well
00:21:19One day
00:21:21My husband came back
00:21:23From the office
00:21:25He started shouting at me
00:21:27I was very worried
00:21:29That what happened
00:21:31That we are having a good married life
00:21:33Everything is going well
00:21:35I am working at home
00:21:37I am providing for my family
00:21:39Did I do something wrong
00:21:41That they are treating me like this
00:21:43He started
00:21:45Blaming me
00:21:47I was very worried
00:21:49That what happened
00:21:51Then he said
00:21:53I know everything
00:21:55That you go to the office
00:21:57I was shocked
00:21:59How did he say this
00:22:01He has never said this
00:22:03And we never had
00:22:05Anything
00:22:07Why did he say this
00:22:09Then he showed me some pictures
00:22:11I was very worried
00:22:13Because
00:22:15It looked like
00:22:17Someone took our pictures
00:22:19On purpose
00:22:21The way we
00:22:23Talk in the office
00:22:25The way our colleagues work together
00:22:27All those things
00:22:29Looked very
00:22:31Plotted
00:22:33I was very
00:22:35Worried
00:22:37Then
00:22:39Suddenly
00:22:41I was not able to justify my husband
00:22:43Because his attitude
00:22:45Was very bad
00:22:47I was very worried
00:22:49How to handle it
00:22:51Then we had a big fight
00:22:53Obviously
00:22:55Trust issues affect
00:22:57Your marriage
00:22:59My marriage
00:23:01Ended
00:23:03My husband
00:23:05Left me
00:23:07Because of this
00:23:09I was very worried
00:23:11I was in stress
00:23:13I was at my parents' house
00:23:15How did you know
00:23:17That all these things
00:23:19Were plotted by your friend
00:23:21Yes
00:23:23How did you know
00:23:25When I was at my parents' house
00:23:27We were separated
00:23:29We had a mutual friend
00:23:31Who used to live with us
00:23:33She used to live
00:23:35In the neighbourhood of my friend
00:23:37My husband
00:23:39Used to come and go
00:23:41When we got separated
00:23:43She told me
00:23:45That your husband is seen
00:23:47In this area
00:23:49With this girl
00:23:51When she told me
00:23:53I could not believe
00:23:55That this is the scenario
00:23:57She was my mutual friend
00:23:59I trusted her a lot
00:24:01She was like my sister
00:24:03When I got her to know
00:24:05My husband married her
00:24:07Gave her a separate house
00:24:09And was living with her
00:24:11Oh my God
00:24:13I was not able to understand
00:24:15What had happened to me
00:24:17How can I
00:24:19How can a person
00:24:21Break someone's trust
00:24:23That my friend
00:24:25Whom I introduced
00:24:27To my family
00:24:29Involved her in my family
00:24:31Made her meet her husband
00:24:33What did she do to me
00:24:35With my husband
00:24:37I am sad to hear this
00:24:39We are taking a short break
00:24:41When we come back
00:24:43We will discuss this topic
00:24:45Good morning Pakistan
00:24:51Good morning Pakistan
00:24:53New set
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00:25:01So congratulations to you
00:25:03To ARY for this
00:25:05Amazing new set
00:25:07I feel like I am in a picture
00:25:09I feel like I am in a picture
00:25:11I feel like I am in a picture
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00:25:19I am so impressed
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00:25:53You are energetic
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00:34:41His needs are attached to you. He is a friend of those needs.
00:34:43Exactly.
00:34:44Now, his needs, whether they are high or low,
00:34:47will affect his friendship with you.
00:34:49Then, one thing Komal said very well,
00:34:51that you should analyse,
00:34:52that your friend was behind you.
00:34:54Again, you are higher than him in promotion.
00:34:57Then, you got married first. It was a very good place.
00:35:00And you trusted him so blindly
00:35:01that you are sharing all your secrets with him.
00:35:03You let him in your house.
00:35:05So, you left yourself unprotected.
00:35:07When you don't protect yourself,
00:35:09such people are only looking for an opportunity.
00:35:11Exactly.
00:35:13The second story that we have,
00:35:17the caller who is in the confession box.
00:35:20Let's see what happened in her life.
00:35:22Erum is with us.
00:35:23Assalamualaikum.
00:35:24Yes, Erum.
00:35:26Assalamualaikum.
00:35:27Walaikumassalam.
00:35:29I would like to say that I don't know
00:35:32whether a woman is an enemy of another woman or a lover.
00:35:35But this story is of my own house.
00:35:38Of my aunt's daughter.
00:35:40Of my cousin sister.
00:35:42We used to live in one place.
00:35:46Two aunts.
00:35:48Out of which,
00:35:50I am not able to tell you. How do I tell you?
00:35:54But,
00:35:56we were two sisters.
00:35:58We were two aunt's daughters.
00:36:00My uncle passed away.
00:36:03My aunt shifted to our house.
00:36:06Upstairs and downstairs in our portions.
00:36:09We got married.
00:36:12Because of which...
00:36:20Okay, no problem.
00:36:23Take your time.
00:36:24If you are not able to speak,
00:36:26there is no problem.
00:36:28No problem.
00:36:35Yes.
00:36:36Okay, you take your time.
00:36:40I will go to Sabiha.
00:36:42Okay, is Sabiha here?
00:36:44Yes, Sabiha.
00:36:45Assalamualaikum.
00:36:46Walaikumassalam.
00:36:48Yes, my story is...
00:36:53We were childhood friends.
00:36:56We studied together in school,
00:36:58then college, then university.
00:37:00We used to live together in a family gathering.
00:37:03We used to come and go together.
00:37:04We were very close friends.
00:37:06I used to share my secrets with him.
00:37:15We were two siblings.
00:37:17He was my only brother and I was his only sister.
00:37:19I had a lot of blind trust on him.
00:37:25Because he was my only friend.
00:37:27He knew about my secret crush.
00:37:31He was no more.
00:37:34He was the only one who knew about it.
00:37:37I had heard that sisters-in-law come and separate them.
00:37:42So, I thought of getting my brother married to my friend.
00:37:46I talked to my family and my mother liked it too.
00:37:50So, my friend got married to my brother.
00:37:56He came to my house.
00:37:58My brother fulfilled all my wishes before I could say anything.
00:38:04He used to love me a lot.
00:38:08Even my parents didn't listen to me.
00:38:12He loved me a lot.
00:38:14When he got married to my friend,
00:38:16his behaviour changed a lot.
00:38:21He was very rude to me.
00:38:24He didn't talk to me for weeks.
00:38:27I was worried about his behaviour.
00:38:31I wanted to say something to him, but he refused.
00:38:35He became very rude.
00:38:37One day, we had a big fight about this.
00:38:43My brother shouted at me a lot.
00:38:48He abused me a lot.
00:38:50My friend knew about my secret.
00:38:55He said that he knew about all my misdeeds.
00:38:59I was so shocked that I couldn't say a word to my friend.
00:39:06I was so ashamed in front of my brother.
00:39:11I couldn't say anything.
00:39:12I was just looking at my friend and wondering what he did.
00:39:16So many things got complicated and he separated with my brother.
00:39:21My brother doesn't live with us anymore.
00:39:24I'm getting old.
00:39:27I told my mother not to get me married.
00:39:31If this continues, I don't know what she will do to me.
00:39:38I told my mother that I don't want to get married.
00:39:44That's not right.
00:39:47You can't spend your life alone.
00:39:50You have to be with your sister-in-law.
00:39:56I have seen in many households
00:39:58that the sisters-in-law speak about their brothers-in-law
00:40:02in their in-laws' house.
00:40:04They take revenge for their fights and arguments.
00:40:09I have seen this practically happening.
00:40:14What would you say about their life?
00:40:17We can say that her friend here had the same mindset
00:40:22that we were discussing in the beginning.
00:40:24She thought that the resources were limited.
00:40:27So she wanted to take the favour of the resource distributor.
00:40:31The way to take the favour is to ruin the competition in her eyes.
00:40:36She had this mindset.
00:40:39Again, her mistake was blind trust.
00:40:42Blind trust on a person who was not worthy of being trusted.
00:40:46I share this with my friends.
00:40:49These girls don't know how much we should share.
00:40:53They don't share with their mothers and sisters
00:40:56as much as they do with their friends.
00:40:57The girls should know what is the limit
00:41:02that they have to share with their friends.
00:41:06It's not necessary that all friends are like this.
00:41:08As you said in the beginning,
00:41:10it's valid that women uplift each other
00:41:14and are good friends.
00:41:15She said that she couldn't share with anyone at home.
00:41:21It means that in her family relationships,
00:41:24there was a distance and an emotionally cold environment.
00:41:31So she found a way to fill that gap.
00:41:35In such situations, when you are not aware
00:41:38and you are walking on automatic,
00:41:41we want to find a friend who can fill the gap.
00:41:48But because of automatic,
00:41:50you make relations with people
00:41:54who are exactly in the same pattern as your family.
00:41:59If there is a fight at home,
00:42:02you will see that your friends are also like that.
00:42:05Similarly, their behavior will be the same
00:42:07as what you face at home.
00:42:08Your attraction is towards them.
00:42:11Realizing that I want things that are different from what I have at home,
00:42:17I will have to do it with different people.
00:42:20My natural attraction is towards people
00:42:23who are in the same pattern as what I am already facing.
00:42:29Because the mind looks for the familiar,
00:42:32who is like me and who I know how to navigate.
00:42:36So it's possible that there is a similar environment at home.
00:42:40Her friend had similar traits.
00:42:43Obviously, she was younger and didn't know.
00:42:45You realize these things later when you become aware.
00:42:48The second thing is that she is not going to get married out of fear.
00:42:52This is also wrong.
00:42:53Like you said, she is catastrophizing.
00:42:56She is thinking about the worst possible scenario.
00:42:59It's not necessary that it will happen in reality.
00:43:01When you know a person's nature,
00:43:05your parents can also get involved.
00:43:07You can explain to them.
00:43:08You can control the damage beforehand.
00:43:10A husband and wife's relationship is so close
00:43:14that even if they are best friends,
00:43:17they won't be able to hide it.
00:43:20Even if they are sincere friends,
00:43:24but still, a husband and wife's relationship is such
00:43:28that the matter is revealed.
00:43:30Let's talk to your husband about your family.
00:43:33When you are newly married,
00:43:34you talk about your sisters and parents in a foolish manner
00:43:39which you shouldn't do.
00:43:41It's not that you are not sincere with your family.
00:43:44A lot of girls in their foolishness
00:43:47tell their husband everything about their family.
00:43:55I'm sure her sister-in-law has done the same.
00:43:58It's possible that she is sincere with her husband.
00:44:01It's possible that she is not such a negative friend.
00:44:05But it happens.
00:44:08I have also done so many foolish things.
00:44:10I told my husband about my parents' fight
00:44:12when I was newly married.
00:44:14After a few days, he started taunting me
00:44:16that I was behaving like my mother.
00:44:19Let's continue after a break.
00:44:30Welcome. Welcome back. Good morning, Pakistan.
00:44:33So, today we are going to talk about
00:44:35my one-sided heading which is against women.
00:44:38I can say it in a very dramatic way like a dialogue.
00:44:42On the other hand, I have experienced in my practical life
00:44:46that sometimes women elevate women.
00:44:51If I feel successful in my life,
00:44:57if my mother hadn't helped me,
00:44:59if my sisters hadn't helped me,
00:45:01or my mother-in-law, or my sister-in-law,
00:45:04or my colleagues, or my friends,
00:45:06or the women who are around me,
00:45:09if they hadn't helped me, I wouldn't be here today.
00:45:12If my house help hadn't cooked food for me,
00:45:16I wouldn't have elevated my career
00:45:20through a free mindset.
00:45:24So, in my life, I feel that
00:45:27women are sincere friends too.
00:45:30So, our last story was
00:45:33about a friend of ours who got married to her brother.
00:45:38And the secrets buried in her heart
00:45:42were revealed to her husband.
00:45:44And the bitter experience of the sister-in-law and her brother-in-law
00:45:49overpowered her friend's relationship.
00:45:53Right? That's what happened.
00:45:55We need to discuss that in the next episode.
00:45:58If Komal wants to add something, I can...
00:46:00I think we have discussed everything.
00:46:02And we concluded that
00:46:05she is being more negative
00:46:09about her friend.
00:46:10Let me tell you about this.
00:46:12We were talking to each other during the break.
00:46:15It was something different.
00:46:17I realized that such experiences will keep happening in your life
00:46:21and people will break your heart.
00:46:23Your friend will break your heart,
00:46:24your husband might break your heart,
00:46:26sometimes your family members will break your heart.
00:46:28Exactly.
00:46:29The way Rabiya said,
00:46:30what we do is,
00:46:32the relationship between a mother and a father,
00:46:36the relationship between a mother and a father,
00:46:38you repeat that in the future.
00:46:41The simple way to do that is,
00:46:43you should forgive your parents
00:46:45for the mistakes they have made
00:46:47or for the shortcomings they have made,
00:46:49like the lack of love,
00:46:50or the lack of protection or provision.
00:46:54We should forgive them.
00:46:56We should realize that our parents
00:46:59did their best,
00:47:01they did what they could do.
00:47:03And they couldn't do more.
00:47:05When we do this to our parents,
00:47:08we don't realize that we have some pain in our hearts
00:47:12for our mother, our father and our family.
00:47:15Komal, I have heard a lot of boys who can't do anything,
00:47:18saying this,
00:47:19if our father had earned properly,
00:47:22if our father had made property,
00:47:25we wouldn't have been in this condition.
00:47:26If they are losers in their lives,
00:47:30they blame their father for everything.
00:47:35They would have made it,
00:47:36but our uncle didn't do anything.
00:47:37He didn't do it.
00:47:39Similarly, girls,
00:47:41sometimes girls feel that their mother didn't give them love.
00:47:44Or she gave love to her brother,
00:47:46or she gave love to her brother,
00:47:47or she gave love to her daughter,
00:47:48or she gave love to her other sister,
00:47:49she was more beautiful,
00:47:51she was intelligent.
00:47:52So, the pain you have in your heart for your parents,
00:47:56you call that pain psychology.
00:47:59You recreate it in your other relationships.
00:48:02The simple way to do that is,
00:48:04if I tell you religiously,
00:48:05this is the religious way,
00:48:06which our religion also says,
00:48:07to forgive and to bear the pain.
00:48:10Forgive your family and your parents from the bottom of your heart.
00:48:15Apart from parents,
00:48:16if we are talking about Nand and Bawaj,
00:48:19in this relationship too,
00:48:22don't just forgive your parents,
00:48:24but your mother-in-law,
00:48:26your sister-in-law, your sisters-in-law,
00:48:27who might have been bitter at one point in their lives,
00:48:30but they won't be bitter for the rest of their lives.
00:48:33There will be a time when they might have hurt you,
00:48:37but they won't be able to hurt you for the rest of your life.
00:48:40So, if you forgive them in that time,
00:48:43then you will be able to move forward happily.
00:48:46Otherwise, you will make your life a living hell.
00:48:48Okay, and the crux of that is,
00:48:50again, in psychology and spirituality, it is called heart work.
00:48:53What you have to do in heart work is, you have to open your heart.
00:48:56They say, you have closed your heart.
00:48:58They say, I won't get married now.
00:49:01The real purpose of life is that,
00:49:04you will keep facing problems,
00:49:06but you won't close your heart.
00:49:09No matter how much pain you face,
00:49:11you have to cry for some time,
00:49:12and then you have to say,
00:49:14it's okay, life is still beautiful,
00:49:17and I will still move forward,
00:49:18and I have forgiven everyone.
00:49:20This is how you can move forward.
00:49:23So, let's move on to the next one.
00:49:25Hina is with us.
00:49:26Yes, greetings, Hina.
00:49:28Greetings.
00:49:29Hina, what will you tell us?
00:49:30My experience has changed a lot.
00:49:33I think, there can't be a better friend of a woman than a woman.
00:49:37Because, this is my own experience.
00:49:39When I got married and went to my in-laws' house,
00:49:43the girl who was in my neighbourhood,
00:49:44she also got married to me,
00:49:46after we got married.
00:49:48So, we had a very good understanding and friendship.
00:49:51We used to share everything about our in-laws' house with each other.
00:49:56Like, I used to send her whatever I used to cook.
00:49:59She used to send it to me. We had a very good friendship.
00:50:02After that, when I got married four years later,
00:50:04suddenly, my husband died in an accident.
00:50:07Oh.
00:50:08My children were very young.
00:50:09One of my children was one year old,
00:50:11and the other was two and a half years old.
00:50:13When my mourning period was over,
00:50:16I faced a lot of financial problems,
00:50:18because my family wasn't that strong.
00:50:21My brothers couldn't support me that much.
00:50:25They had their own children and a family.
00:50:28And there wasn't anyone in my in-laws' house
00:50:29whom I could depend on.
00:50:31So, I really needed a job at that time.
00:50:35And my children were so young that I couldn't go out.
00:50:39So, when I told my sister that I was facing financial problems,
00:50:43she excused me and said that she used to live in her in-laws' house
00:50:47and that she had her own problems.
00:50:49So, when my friend, who was also my neighbour,
00:50:52who lived in my in-laws' house,
00:50:54she told me that I shouldn't worry,
00:50:56that she would look after my children and that I should start a job.
00:51:00After that, I started a job because she told me to.
00:51:03And when I used to go to work,
00:51:05she used to take care of my children very well.
00:51:09She used to feed them, bathe them, and wash them.
00:51:12When I used to come home at two o'clock,
00:51:14my children used to get settled.
00:51:16And I didn't have to worry that I would be stressed.
00:51:20She has supported me so much
00:51:22that I feel that the best friend in the world can be a woman.
00:51:26And I have a very good experience, God willing,
00:51:29that a woman is not only a woman's enemy, but also a very good friend.
00:51:32That is why I am sitting here and talking to you today.
00:51:35And I really appreciate her a lot for this.
00:51:38My friend has supported me a lot.
00:51:40Praise be to God.
00:51:41Absolutely right.
00:51:43And based on this experience,
00:51:45I said that there are a lot of women in life who help you.
00:51:50For example, when my children were young,
00:51:52my mother was working.
00:51:54And when I started working,
00:51:57and I used to come here to work,
00:51:59the cook at my house, Iqbala,
00:52:02she has been with me for 19 years.
00:52:04And she cooks at our house.
00:52:05She comes in the morning and stays till evening.
00:52:07She takes care of the kitchen.
00:52:09But along with the kitchen,
00:52:11she has also started looking after the responsibilities of the house.
00:52:14My husband never felt that I was not at home.
00:52:18In the sense that food...
00:52:19Men have this problem,
00:52:21that they have to cook food and get it.
00:52:22So, the support that I have had after my mother,
00:52:27and if I have been able to pursue my career professionally in any way,
00:52:31then I give credit to her for that.
00:52:33She not only cooked food,
00:52:35or sometimes there used to be fights at home
00:52:38because of not giving her time or something like that.
00:52:40So, even in that, she used to help out.
00:52:43And if there was a fire, she used to put water in it.
00:52:47So, sometimes there are some people in your life
00:52:51with whom you don't have any relationship,
00:52:53but that relationship is built.
00:52:55And they support you.
00:52:57In your life as well.
00:52:59My interesting story is that
00:53:01I came to showbiz in such a way
00:53:04that I was studying in America.
00:53:05After studying, I was working there.
00:53:07And then I suddenly decided that I want to go to Pakistan
00:53:10and do acting.
00:53:11And I want to start my own business.
00:53:13I thought about it, and it was around nine years ago.
00:53:16So, I called all my friends,
00:53:19half English, half Indian, half Pakistani.
00:53:22I told them that I am leaving America.
00:53:25I am going back to Pakistan.
00:53:27They asked me if I had any connections,
00:53:29if I had any plans.
00:53:31I said no, I don't have any plans.
00:53:32I am just going and it will be done.
00:53:35And it was done.
00:53:37And I had a childhood friend who helped me.
00:53:40Her name is Saman.
00:53:42So, I called Saman on my way back from America.
00:53:45I told her that I saw you on Facebook
00:53:47that you are working in a showbiz.
00:53:49She said, yes, I am an AD.
00:53:50Okay, she was an AD.
00:53:52And she was studying Visual Studies from Karachi University.
00:53:54So, she worked as an AD for a while.
00:53:57I just told her once.
00:53:59She was such a nice girl.
00:54:00She went and worked with Saifi Hassan,
00:54:02who is a very big director.
00:54:05So, she called him and told him that she has a friend
00:54:07who is coming from America and she wants to act.
00:54:10It was such a coincidence that Saifi Hassan was making a soap
00:54:15and he wanted a fresh face in it.
00:54:17He asked me to send his pictures.
00:54:18I didn't have any pictures.
00:54:19They are not from Facebook.
00:54:20There was no portfolio.
00:54:21I took out the pictures from Facebook and sent them.
00:54:24Saifi Hassan said, you look good, just act and show us.
00:54:27I came back from America.
00:54:30And I gave my first audition.
00:54:32And I got cast.
00:54:33And I came in the lead in the soap.
00:54:35And after that, I got other things.
00:54:39So, it was because of this girl.
00:54:40I told her that I didn't have to follow up again and again.
00:54:44She opened this path for me.
00:54:45Absolutely.
00:54:46Actually, it happens that God makes paths.
00:54:49People choose those who become the means.
00:54:52So, if a woman thinks that because of me,
00:54:56because of my small reason,
00:54:59because I am getting support or I am elevating someone,
00:55:05if she thinks that God has made her a means,
00:55:08then this jealousy and all these things will end.
00:55:12I will add to this, Nida, that the way we are talking,
00:55:15let's understand this.
00:55:16And like in their story and the story we just heard,
00:55:20these are the women who understood that we can't change others.
00:55:24There are all kinds of people in the world.
00:55:26We can work on ourselves.
00:55:29We can decide that I want to be that woman
00:55:33who can help other women.
00:55:36Or I want to be like others.
00:55:38I want to understand that I shouldn't hurt anyone.
00:55:42And I should benefit as much as I can.
00:55:45And I should benefit genuinely without thinking about what I will get.
00:55:48If you deliberately practice this,
00:55:51that I should benefit someone,
00:55:53no matter what, you will feel so peaceful inside.
00:55:57You don't need to take sleeping pills at night.
00:56:00The peace that you have inside,
00:56:03which you don't get from your money and other things,
00:56:08that peace you get from this.
00:56:10I will give you a small tip.
00:56:12When I see in my company that someone's mental health is deteriorating,
00:56:16it's a very simple tip.
00:56:18What you have to do is take a pen and a paper.
00:56:21And you have to write a letter of forgiveness to the people
00:56:25who have mistreated you.
00:56:27I would say that you should try to start with the parents.
00:56:31Write to one father and one mother.
00:56:33After that, whoever has mistreated you,
00:56:35whether it's a friend or a sister-in-law, whatever the incidents are,
00:56:38write a letter to them.
00:56:39Write all your complaints to them.
00:56:42After that, write how much you have been hurt by them.
00:56:45The first paragraph is about complaints.
00:56:47Write how much you have been hurt in the second paragraph.
00:56:50Write in the third paragraph.
00:56:51I can understand how much you must have been hurt
00:56:55that you have hurt me so much.
00:56:57And I have forgiven you.
00:56:59Try to do this and better people will come in your life.
00:57:01I wrote a letter to my father when I used to go to college.
00:57:06I used to be very fond of taking a day off.
00:57:08At a certain time, when you are a teenager,
00:57:11you have to sleep, you don't have to wake up in the morning.
00:57:13My parents have always been very strict about my studies.
00:57:17I don't want to take a day off. I want to sleep early at night.
00:57:20My father used to be strict. My mother used to be strict.
00:57:23But my father used to know everything about us.
00:57:25I remember that I wrote a letter to my father in red pants.
00:57:29You don't let me take a day off, you don't do this.
00:57:30I wrote all my immature thoughts in a letter.
00:57:35My father also replied to me through a letter.
00:57:38I still remember that he said,
00:57:40I want you to be successful in life.
00:57:42If you stand on your feet, you will take a day off.
00:57:45I remember all those things.
00:57:47He also replied to me through a letter.
00:57:49And then, as I was telling you,
00:57:52I had so many doubts and I was thinking that I was not getting married.
00:57:56All those doubts were cleared.
00:57:58Because I was not able to understand his thoughts or his vision at that age.
00:58:04The way I asked him questions, he replied to me in the same way.
00:58:07So, sometimes your friends...
00:58:09Now, we talk through messages.
00:58:12So, communication is very important in relationships.
00:58:14Okay, in communication, the letter has science behind it.
00:58:18The science behind it is that when you write on a paper with your hands,
00:58:22it goes into our subconscious mind.
00:58:26It doesn't go through messages.
00:58:28So, the letters that used to be there in the olden days,
00:58:30or all the big personalities used to write diaries.
00:58:34So, writing a diary and writing a letter on a paper with your hands
00:58:38will make your relationships better. Try it.
00:58:41Basically, all the senses that are involved in something,
00:58:45when you write with your hands, your senses are involved.
00:58:49Then, the paper has a fragrance, it has a feel.
00:58:52Most of your senses are involved, which are not involved in messages.
00:58:57So, its impact is that much.
00:58:59We are taking a short break.
00:59:01Keep watching Good Morning Pakistan after the break.
00:59:12Welcome. Welcome back. Good morning, Pakistan.
00:59:14So, today we are talking about women being the enemy of women.
00:59:20And at times, women become very good friends with women
00:59:24and elevate them in their lives.
00:59:27So, during the break, we were talking so much
00:59:29that I get disconnected as to what we were talking about before the break.
00:59:34We were talking about forgiveness. We were talking about the letter.
00:59:36We heard a good story.
00:59:38Yes, we heard a good story.
00:59:41If she could do anything in her life,
00:59:45she was her friend to take care of her children.
00:59:47She didn't even have a blood relation with her.
00:59:49So, we heard a good story.
00:59:51Let's move on to the next story.
00:59:54Hina, greetings.
00:59:55Greetings.
00:59:56Yes, Hina.
00:59:57My problem is that I got married in my uncle's house.
01:00:01Okay.
01:00:02And my uncle's son chose me
01:00:07because my aunt wanted her daughter to marry my uncle's son.
01:00:11Okay.
01:00:12But when my uncle asked his son, he chose me.
01:00:16Okay.
01:00:16It's been six months since I got married.
01:00:18Alhamdulillah, my life was going very well.
01:00:21Yes.
01:00:22My husband was with me very well.
01:00:24Gradually, his temperament started changing.
01:00:27I started having weird dreams.
01:00:30I started having very bad dreams.
01:00:32And I started getting scared of the house.
01:00:35Weird things started coming out of the house.
01:00:37I didn't understand what was happening to me.
01:00:41Amulets were coming out of the pillow.
01:00:43Sometimes, needles were coming out of the jewelry box.
01:00:47And I couldn't understand what was happening to me.
01:00:51There were lemons and chillies on the door.
01:00:53I didn't understand what was happening.
01:00:55When I told my husband, he said,
01:00:57you are becoming more and more narcissistic day by day.
01:01:00But I want to explain to him that this is happening to me.
01:01:03Sometimes, I used to wake up in the middle of the night and start screaming.
01:01:07I used to get scared.
01:01:08He got very upset with me and sent me home.
01:01:12He said, you are becoming more and more narcissistic.
01:01:13First, get yourself treated.
01:01:15Then, come to me.
01:01:17I didn't know what to do.
01:01:19I told my parents.
01:01:21I told my mother that there are a lot of problems going on.
01:01:24I don't understand.
01:01:25I was really getting very disturbed.
01:01:28I mean, I was losing my senses.
01:01:30I was very disturbed day by day.
01:01:33I told my mother.
01:01:34My mother took me to a Maulvi.
01:01:37The Maulvi gave me money to study.
01:01:39He told me to study.
01:01:41He told my mother that there is someone who doesn't want to let me settle down.
01:01:48He wants me to come home and settle down.
01:01:52My mother said, who could it be?
01:01:55He said, there is someone close to you.
01:01:57I don't know who it is, but there is someone very close to you.
01:02:00I didn't understand who it could be.
01:02:03I think my mother was suspecting my aunt because there was no one close to us except my aunt.
01:02:07My mother didn't have any siblings.
01:02:09My father had only one sister.
01:02:11There was no one else.
01:02:13My husband told me about this marriage.
01:02:16My aunt wanted me to get Safiya married to him.
01:02:22But, of course, he liked me.
01:02:25My mother was 100% sure that my aunt was getting me married to him.
01:02:33But, we still couldn't believe that she was getting me married to him.
01:02:38One day, I felt the need to do something.
01:02:41I told my husband that he must be at the office.
01:02:44I told him that I will go and get something for him.
01:02:47When I went there, I saw my aunt hanging a lemon at the door.
01:02:52When I saw her, I was shocked.
01:02:54I asked her what she was doing.
01:02:55She told me that her friends ran away.
01:02:57I was sure that my aunt was doing this.
01:03:02I told my father-in-law, mother-in-law and my father-in-law.
01:03:08I also told my husband.
01:03:10Then, I realized that my aunt was doing all this.
01:03:14My aunt was behind all this.
01:03:16So, we started getting treatment.
01:03:19But, she became very quiet.
01:03:21She became so quiet that now I am happy in my house.
01:03:24I have gone to my house.
01:03:26I am not getting any response from there.
01:03:29But, I feel sad that she was ready to ruin my house to make her daughter's house.
01:03:35She didn't think that I am her real niece.
01:03:40She was ruining my house to make her daughter's house.
01:03:43But, I came to know about these things.
01:03:46Sometimes, parents' prayers come in handy.
01:03:49Otherwise, I would have been ruined if I didn't come to know about these things.
01:03:55This is a very strange thing.
01:03:57In many families, you have caught them red-handed and you have seen it.
01:04:02In many families, you hate each other because you assume that...
01:04:07...if something is happening to you, it is the person who is doing it.
01:04:11And, he is not doing it.
01:04:13But, your attitude towards him is so bad that you feel that...
01:04:17...if anything bad happens to you in life, it is because of magic.
01:04:21And, he is doing magic on you.
01:04:23Sometimes, you feel that what you think is the truth.
01:04:29You have seen it.
01:04:30But, in many families, you hate each other because...
01:04:34...you assume that he must have done magic on me.
01:04:39This is also a big loss.
01:04:42The thing that you are talking about is because...
01:04:45...there is already a belief that this is happening or this person is doing it.
01:04:51What you do is that you focus on the information...
01:04:55...that you have already assumed and you confirm it.
01:04:59And, you ignore all the other information.
01:05:03So, you control on the fact that you plus all the information.
01:05:08You don't focus on the information that confirms your assumption.
01:05:14Of course, he has solved the problem because he has caught it.
01:05:17But, in such situations where you don't know who is doing it and what is he doing...
01:05:22...you will do this to avoid the situation that your relations are bad.
01:05:27You will not doubt anyone.
01:05:29You are saving the information that you are getting against him.
01:05:32And, you ignore the information that is in his support and doesn't confirm your belief.
01:05:38Yes, that's it.
01:05:38Will you say something on this topic?
01:05:41I don't have much to say.
01:05:46Generally, my belief on this topic is that...
01:05:49...as he said, it was the blessings of parents.
01:05:52So, such things will always happen because there is good and bad in the world.
01:05:58And, whenever you get what others want, some people get jealous.
01:06:04The simple solution to that is the power of positive thinking.
01:06:07You should try to think positively.
01:06:10As he said, consider all the things.
01:06:12Don't just focus on the negative things. Focus on the positive things as well.
01:06:16In spirituality, we say that you should keep your energy and vibration high.
01:06:23How do you keep your energy and vibration high?
01:06:25Or, you should keep yourself and your character high.
01:06:28Iqbal also says that you should make yourself high.
01:06:31Before every destiny, God should ask his servant to tell him his fate.
01:06:36Iqbal also says that you should make yourself high.
01:06:39The way to make yourself high is to constantly feel the good emotions.
01:06:46This is a big break for black magic and jealousy.
01:06:50For all the negative things, negative emotions and negative things in life...
01:06:54...you should be positive.
01:06:56Because you are breaking the negative with the positive.
01:06:59You should be 10 times more positive than the negative.
01:07:02As you said, if you help someone...
01:07:06...you should find happiness in small things.
01:07:08Like these tea cups.
01:07:10Find happiness in these. Find happiness in the flowers.
01:07:12Be thankful to God.
01:07:14You should breathe in the small things that God has given you.
01:07:18You can breathe in peace.
01:07:20Your skin is good, your hair is good, you get two meals a day.
01:07:24You should be thankful for all of these.
01:07:26If you are very thankful, then what will you do?
01:07:29Iqbal says that you should make yourself high.
01:07:31You should make yourself high.
01:07:32You should make yourself so high that your prayers will be answered easily.
01:07:36And the jealous people and the negative people will not be able to reach you.
01:07:41You should be so high that they will not be able to reach you.
01:07:44Simple as that.
01:07:45Who is next? Samra, greetings.
01:07:48Greetings.
01:07:49Yes, Samra.
01:07:51I wanted to share with you that...
01:07:55...my sister is my enemy.
01:08:01Oh, this happens too.
01:08:02We are two sisters. I am younger and she is older.
01:08:07I always wanted to see the love in my sister's eyes.
01:08:12I express my love a lot.
01:08:15But I never got to see it in her eyes.
01:08:21I miss it a lot. Why does she do this to me?
01:08:25I enjoyed her wedding so much.
01:08:29I did everything for her with all my heart and soul.
01:08:32I expected her to do the same when I got married.
01:08:38I didn't understand it from the beginning.
01:08:41But when I grew up and understood it...
01:08:44...I am sad to say that she expressed a lot of hatred.
01:08:53My husband is very strong financially.
01:08:57When she got married, he was not financially strong.
01:09:02He didn't care for her as much as she used to when she came home.
01:09:06I always complained to her that she didn't take me out.
01:09:12She didn't buy me nice clothes and didn't take me shopping.
01:09:15I always complained to her.
01:09:19I used to explain to her that it happens.
01:09:25When I got married, he was very strong financially.
01:09:29My husband was very good looking.
01:09:31He came to me with a lot of love.
01:09:36My mother said that when my daughter is so worried...
01:09:40...it's good to have a good husband.
01:09:45But my sister didn't like it.
01:09:51She wanted it to be forbidden.
01:09:53She said that she didn't like it and people didn't understand it.
01:09:58But my mother didn't listen to her and accepted this relationship.
01:10:03When my sister or my husband take me out...
01:10:11...they express their feelings.
01:10:13When my in-laws came home...
01:10:15...they used to sit in front of everyone.
01:10:17In a house, the girls stay separately.
01:10:20In-laws have to be careful.
01:10:23Some say that Sidra and Sania cook very well.
01:10:27But they say that she doesn't cook at all.
01:10:31My husband used to say that she is very quiet.
01:10:35But she used to talk a lot at home.
01:10:37She used to say bad things about me in front of my in-laws.
01:10:41My husband and my in-laws look at me in a strange way.
01:10:47It makes me very worried.
01:10:50I have always seen this in their eyes.
01:10:54But my husband and I take care of each other.
01:10:58I take care of myself.
01:10:59I go to my mother's house when my sister is not at home.
01:11:02I prefer to go to my mother's house when my sister is not at home.
01:11:11But I have seen their hatred and jealousy very closely.
01:11:18It's not just about your marriage.
01:11:21You have seen it since childhood.
01:11:23They have this jealousy factor in their nature.
01:11:29It's not just with you.
01:11:30Their nature is like this.
01:11:31They must be like this with their in-laws.
01:11:33They must be like this with their sisters-in-law.
01:11:35Because their nature is like this.
01:11:37Your mother knew about the nature of your daughters.
01:11:42That's why she didn't listen to you when you got married.
01:11:45Because no one can know a better daughter than a mother.
01:11:49Do you have anything to say about this?
01:11:52I have come up with a very good solution.
01:11:55Because her sister is getting triggered when she sees him.
01:11:58She is feeling less and less of him.
01:12:01I have come up with a very good solution.
01:12:03When she is not at home, she visits her husband.
01:12:06This is a good solution.
01:12:07This is a good solution.
01:12:09But this is such a close relationship that you can't ignore it.
01:12:11You can't ignore it.
01:12:12You will have to face each other.
01:12:14You will have to meet each other.
01:12:16Most of the people criticize when they get such a response from you.
01:12:25If you get nervous, you get worried,
01:12:27you get worried, they will criticize even more.
01:12:31Control your response.
01:12:33Either try to understand that this is their nature.
01:12:37It is not about me.
01:12:38Ignore it.
01:12:39She says this, she says that to everyone.
01:12:41Or you can answer in a funny way.
01:12:45For example, she said that she didn't cook at home.
01:12:48You can laugh and say that you used to do everything.
01:12:52Now you are not there.
01:12:53So you ended their negativity there.
01:12:56And if you can't respond like this,
01:12:58then try not to express your worries openly.
01:13:02In some time, they will see that you are not getting a response.
01:13:05You are not getting a reaction.
01:13:07Then they will reduce this thing.
01:13:09One more thing.
01:13:10Obviously, daughters get married in different families.
01:13:15And some get married in a rich family.
01:13:16There are some who always live a difficult life.
01:13:20So the rich people should also reduce their showbiz.
01:13:26When new people come to us, people go crazy.
01:13:31Their showbiz is getting over.
01:13:32So they should talk a little bit.
01:13:35Then forget that you are going to your sister's house.
01:13:37Or you are going to your mother's house.
01:13:39Be a little careful in your conversation.
01:13:41So that no one else is hurt by your showbiz.
01:13:45So that no one else feels bad.
01:13:48That you are showing off that I bought you so expensive.
01:13:51Or they have given you so much.
01:13:52Because every husband is different.
01:13:55Everyone has different facilities in life.
01:13:59Some have more love.
01:14:01Some have more money.
01:14:03Not everyone gets everything.
01:14:05So it has also been seen here.
01:14:06If the sisters have gone to a good family.
01:14:09Then their showbiz doesn't end in front of the sisters.
01:14:12So they should also keep a little control.
01:14:15Because of you, someone else...
01:14:18Who knows, you are hurt by their bitter words.
01:14:23Who knows, you don't even know.
01:14:25And unknowingly, you also say something bitter.
01:14:28And that hurts them.
01:14:33That's when their jealousy comes out in bitterness.
01:14:39Think about it.
01:14:40Like they said, we should also look at ourselves.
01:14:44What are we doing?
01:14:45A small break.
01:14:46After the break, keep watching Good Morning Pakistan.
01:14:55Welcome. Welcome back to Good Morning Pakistan.
01:14:58Today we are talking about women being the enemy of women.
01:15:01And there are many such women.
01:15:04Who support you so much in life.
01:15:07Whether it's your mother, sister, mother-in-law.
01:15:10Or a sister-in-law, a best friend, a neighbor.
01:15:14Or your helping hand.
01:15:17Or your colleague.
01:15:18It's not that there are only negative things in the world.
01:15:21There are also positive things.
01:15:22That's why the world is still going on.
01:15:23And there is no end to it.
01:15:25So we were talking about that.
01:15:26Let's move on to the next story.
01:15:28And we have Erum with us.
01:15:31Assalamualaikum, Erum.
01:15:32Walaikumassalam.
01:15:34Yes.
01:15:35My brother got married before me.
01:15:38Five years ago.
01:15:39Right.
01:15:39Then I got married.
01:15:41So God blessed me with a child.
01:15:44And my brother and sister-in-law didn't have children.
01:15:46Okay.
01:15:47When my sister-in-law got married, she had a very good bonding with me.
01:15:50She used to talk to me about everything.
01:15:52I used to go to my mother's house.
01:15:54I used to live with my mother.
01:15:55She was very nice.
01:15:56Even after marriage, she used to live with me very well.
01:15:59Yes.
01:15:59I got married.
01:16:00My first child was Ali.
01:16:02Okay.
01:16:03So whenever she did something good, she welcomed me very well.
01:16:06She did everything.
01:16:07Then her jealousy kept increasing.
01:16:10That I don't have a child.
01:16:12And she has a child.
01:16:14And when she comes here, she is given full protocol.
01:16:17Like her husband, my brother.
01:16:19Yes.
01:16:20He spills his uncle's life on the child.
01:16:22And his grandmother is also after him.
01:16:24And my sister-in-law couldn't tolerate this.
01:16:26She kept getting jealous of me.
01:16:30Okay.
01:16:31One day, I went to my mother's house.
01:16:33She was also sitting there.
01:16:34We were talking.
01:16:36There was a tank in the courtyard.
01:16:38The water tank.
01:16:39Yes.
01:16:40That was the tank.
01:16:41She opened the lid of the tank.
01:16:44And she kept the ball near the tank.
01:16:47And she said to my son, Ali.
01:16:49Do one thing.
01:16:50Let's see who runs ahead of us.
01:16:52And who picks up the ball and brings it.
01:16:55And as soon as he ran to pick up the ball.
01:16:58Ali fell into the tank.
01:17:01Alhamdulillah.
01:17:02By God's grace, there was no water for 15 days.
01:17:06And there was very little water in the tank.
01:17:08Suddenly he fell.
01:17:10And there was no sound.
01:17:11And after a while, I went here and there.
01:17:14When my brother came home.
01:17:16The door opened randomly.
01:17:18And my brother came inside.
01:17:19So I said, Ali, Ali.
01:17:21When I started calling out.
01:17:23My brother said, where are you?
01:17:24I said, where is Ali?
01:17:25He was playing with the ball here.
01:17:26He was here with his sister-in-law.
01:17:28So as soon as he saw the tank moved.
01:17:30And he saw a puddle in it.
01:17:31So my brother quickly jumped.
01:17:33And my brother took my son out.
01:17:35In this way, Alhamdulillah.
01:17:37Allah saved my son's life.
01:17:39Many days passed.
01:17:40Time passed.
01:17:41Passed.
01:17:42The housemaid.
01:17:44The housemaid.
01:17:45She told my mother one day.
01:17:48She said, Aunty, tell your sister-in-law.
01:17:51When your sister-in-law goes to her parents' house.
01:17:53You should come when she comes.
01:17:55So my mother asked, why are you saying this?
01:17:57She said, I am telling you.
01:17:59You are sensible.
01:18:00You should understand.
01:18:03So my mother said, tell me the whole story.
01:18:05What is the story?
01:18:07She said, no, no.
01:18:09Many days passed.
01:18:11It was an old story.
01:18:12So one day, the housemaid told my mother.
01:18:15She said, I saw it.
01:18:16If I had told you, your sister-in-law wouldn't have accused me.
01:18:22She said, we will give you to the police.
01:18:24We will accuse you of theft.
01:18:26It won't be good for you.
01:18:27We will fire you.
01:18:29My sister-in-law did such a thing.
01:18:32My real sister-in-law.
01:18:33There was a time when we had such a good bonding.
01:18:36We used to eat together.
01:18:38We used to go shopping together.
01:18:40But because she didn't have children.
01:18:43She had that hatred in her heart.
01:18:46She took it out on my son.
01:18:49Oh God.
01:18:51You are absolutely right.
01:18:52It happens.
01:18:52I am surprised.
01:18:54If something happens to the child of someone who is not your own.
01:18:59The heart is shaken.
01:19:01A woman's heart is very soft.
01:19:04But there was a veil of jealousy and jealousy.
01:19:07She couldn't even see that he was the child of her sister-in-law.
01:19:14This is very negative.
01:19:18Does it make a person so bitter?
01:19:22Does this kind of sadness make a person so bitter?
01:19:25Yes, it can.
01:19:26I would like to say this from the perspective of your program.
01:19:31If a person goes to this level to kill an innocent child.
01:19:36Then it is not normal.
01:19:37It is a disease.
01:19:39A disease needs treatment.
01:19:41You stay at home.
01:19:42It is a mental illness.
01:19:44Yes, it is a mental illness.
01:19:45Your jealousy and jealousy has increased so much.
01:19:48That it has overcome your ability to think and understand.
01:19:53Now you are mentally ill.
01:19:55And the patient needs treatment.
01:19:58In such cases, where it has become so extreme.
01:20:00That they are on the verge of death.
01:20:02Then her family should think.
01:20:05That they should get her treated.
01:20:07Sometimes it happens that the aunt does a lot of things.
01:20:10She spreads a lot of negativity in the family.
01:20:13In fact, there was an aunt in my house.
01:20:15Who filled my sister-in-law and mother-in-law's mind with so much.
01:20:19And she used to talk to me in a different way.
01:20:21At that age, I did not understand.
01:20:23When I matured, I said that this is their job.
01:20:28But the sister-in-law left the child in the tank.
01:20:33If the child had fallen and the sister-in-law had picked him up.
01:20:37Then it would have been understood that she did not do it intentionally.
01:20:40She was playing with the child and he fell.
01:20:42But she left him and went.
01:20:44It is better to die.
01:20:45So there it is proven that the sister-in-law had intentionally.
01:20:50Planned this whole plot for her.
01:20:54Okay, so they need treatment first of all.
01:20:56If we look at it legally, it is also a crime.
01:20:59Now here the family matters come up.
01:21:01That they want to take such an internal matter into law.
01:21:04Or they don't want to take it.
01:21:06But at least treatment is very important.
01:21:08Without treatment, this person is for someone else's child.
01:21:12In the future, the same feelings can divert towards themselves.
01:21:15That they become so sensitive and deprived.
01:21:19That they come to take their own life.
01:21:20Because sometimes we have also seen.
01:21:22And especially, I was reading a news in the newspaper.
01:21:25And it is also seen a lot in the West.
01:21:28That a woman becomes mentally ill.
01:21:30And she kills her small children.
01:21:32In frustration, on her husband's anger.
01:21:35We have seen a lot of such news.
01:21:38That women do this.
01:21:40If they are mentally ill.
01:21:42Absolutely, if you are mentally ill.
01:21:44Then if you are not intervening.
01:21:46If you are not getting treatment.
01:21:48Then it can go to any extent.
01:21:50It can also be cured, if a miracle happens.
01:21:52But your responsibility is.
01:21:54That you take them for treatment.
01:21:56To the professional, to the psychiatrist, to the psychologist.
01:21:59Because he needs treatment.
01:22:01Okay, if you look at this case too.
01:22:03There was a very viral case.
01:22:06A mother-in-law and a sister-in-law together.
01:22:08Slaughtered their daughter-in-law.
01:22:10Took out her child.
01:22:11Husband and wife had a lot of love.
01:22:13There was a lot of love in Saudi Arabia.
01:22:15It was a viral news.
01:22:18And that 7 to 8 month pregnant daughter-in-law.
01:22:23Mother-in-law slaughtered her.
01:22:24And together with the people.
01:22:26And her body parts were put in five different places.
01:22:30At that time, reading this, the mind is amazed.
01:22:34That jealousy, jealousy and all these things.
01:22:37Are there in the world.
01:22:38Absolutely.
01:22:39So the mentally ill mother-in-law.
01:22:43Who did such a horrible thing.
01:22:46Just because the son's money.
01:22:48The love of the son was spreading.
01:22:50And the jealousy factor was developing so much.
01:22:53That she did this.
01:22:54Okay, for that I will also say.
01:22:55That one thing is about treatment.
01:22:56But you know that in our society.
01:22:58People consider treatment to be very taboo.
01:23:00And will not do it at all.
01:23:02And will try to suppress this somehow.
01:23:05So in that, you have to protect yourself.
01:23:09You have to protect yourself.
01:23:10You have to protect your family.
01:23:11And for that, if you have to separate the house.
01:23:13Or if you have to go no contact.
01:23:17Then you go.
01:23:18Because it takes a lot of time in treatment.
01:23:20And I am sorry to say.
01:23:21Often treatment does not work.
01:23:23Absolutely.
01:23:23Right.
01:23:24So from such a person who has shown you so much danger.
01:23:27So you should keep a lot of distance from him.
01:23:33Yes, absolutely.
01:23:34You should not take any risk.
01:23:35Because you see that poor girl's daughter.
01:23:40She had a two and a half year old baby.
01:23:42She came and slept like this.
01:23:46And she made him unconscious.
01:23:48And they slaughtered him.
01:23:50They killed him.
01:23:52The child saw it.
01:23:53It was in front of the child.
01:23:54No, no, I think the child.
01:23:55Maybe it was in the other room.
01:23:56I don't know.
01:23:57I don't know the whole story.
01:23:58But when I saw this.
01:23:59I got goosebumps.
01:24:01That one is mother-in-law.
01:24:03And on top of that aunt.
01:24:05Aunt.
01:24:05Real aunt.
01:24:06So this is really.
01:24:10Today's program.
01:24:11Here one heading.
01:24:13That a woman is the enemy of a woman.
01:24:16But it should not go in so much negativity.
01:24:19Today in the morning show.
01:24:20So I kept it that way.
01:24:21That after ten, you get two people like this.
01:24:24That they are on the side of positivity.
01:24:28Thank you so much Komal.
01:24:29You also shared your experiences.
01:24:32Shared your wisdom.
01:24:35And thank you doctor.
01:24:37That you explained with facts.
01:24:41So this was our program for today.
01:24:43And as we told you through talks.
01:24:47That how you can separate yourself.
01:24:49From such negative people.
01:24:51How you can save your life.
01:24:52How you can save the quality of your life.
01:24:55For that you have to be a little cautious.
01:24:58Don't trust your close ones so blindly.
01:25:01Even if it's a woman.
01:25:04Good morning Pakistan.
01:25:05Take good care of yourself.
01:25:06And live long.
01:25:08Allah Hafiz.