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00:00Man wants to be, wants to have kids but don't want to be a father
00:30Wait, wait, wait, you want to...
00:32There's no way, right?
00:34You want to...
00:43Hi guys, welcome back to Perempuan Podcast for Perempuan Sahaja
00:47So today, I'm bringing a guest that...
00:51Wow!
00:53For me, it's wow, right?
00:55There are fans at the side
00:57Wow!
00:59This is all paid for
01:01Okay, welcome Takah Suiko
01:04Welcome, welcome, welcome
01:05Thank you, thank you, thank you
01:06How are you? Are you okay?
01:08I'm okay
01:09Mentally, I try
01:11Okay, I'm okay, I'm okay
01:12But you're sick
01:13I'm okay
01:14But...
01:15I'm okay
01:17Okay, so...
01:18Do you know what our topic is today?
01:20No
01:21Have you ever seen a woman?
01:22I'm a woman, I'm not cute
01:25No
01:26Start the podcast
01:28Okay, so basically, in this women's podcast
01:31We're going to have a girl's talk
01:33So, in the previous episode, we've invited a few artists
01:38To talk about women's topics
01:42Right?
01:43So, do we have to be fierce too?
01:44No
01:45Huh?
01:46The people who are invited have to be fierce?
01:47Huh?
01:48Wait
01:49Wow, what a bunch of honor
01:51Huh?
01:52I have to be fierce too
01:54You don't have to be fierce
01:55Yeah, that's how it is
01:57Seriously?
01:58Huh?
01:59Oh, so that's how you filter the list?
02:01The list?
02:02You have to be fierce?
02:04You have to be fierce
02:05Okay, that's a secret
02:06A secret
02:07Okay, so do you know what our topic is today?
02:09No
02:10Huh?
02:11No
02:12You don't know?
02:13Because I...
02:14No, okay, okay
02:15So, our topic today is about women's rights
02:19Oh yeah
02:20Yes
02:21Women's rights are huge
02:23But it can be for jobs
02:26Hmm
02:27Marriage
02:28Hmm
02:29What else? Women's rights
02:30Umm
02:32Life
02:33Life, yes
02:34In school
02:35Hmm
02:36Hmm
02:37Okay, so I have a segment
02:40Where I will take questions from curious cats
02:43And then I pick randomly
02:45I will read and we will discuss about it
02:47Okay
02:48Okay
02:49Alright, so
02:50Umm
02:51Oh, wait
02:52Do you know what went viral last week?
02:54What?
02:55Because
02:56A man said
02:57What do you bring to the table?
03:02What kind of man is this?
03:04Oh my god
03:05Okay, tell me
03:07Who is this man?
03:08I don't know
03:09There's a random man on TikTok
03:11Damn, okay
03:12Because the story is like this
03:14He said, okay fine
03:15Women really demand
03:17Men want to pay like this
03:19Like this
03:20But
03:21In return
03:22What did the woman bring to the table?
03:24Like this
03:25I don't know
03:26What is your opinion about this?
03:27Oh my god
03:28What did the woman bring to the table?
03:34Bismillah, Bismillah, Bismillah
03:35Bismillah, bismillah, bismillah
03:36Bismillah, bismillah, bismillah
03:37Oh, I should have sat down earlier
03:39Umm
03:40We should have
03:41No, so
03:42Okay, I
03:43The one, the one
03:44I
03:45Okay, I
03:46I'm honest on TikTok
03:47I only have content about Palestine
03:49Yes
03:50Stupid protest
03:51With
03:52At some point
03:53Bear versus man
03:55You know
03:56You choose the bear or the man
03:58Already so many people
03:59Choose the bear
04:00Right?
04:01Because it's like
04:02Very competitive
04:04So when
04:05When asked this question
04:07What?
04:08What do we bring to the table?
04:09Yes
04:10Like
04:12Okay
04:14Where do I start?
04:15Where do I start?
04:17I think
04:19We can say it like this
04:20Like
04:21I saw again
04:22I saw another TikTok
04:23Which is like
04:25Okay, everyone is in the same line
04:28It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman
04:29Okay
04:30All races, all religions
04:33Then
04:35Take a step forward
04:37If you were born in a middle class family
04:39Take a step forward if you're a man
04:41Take a step forward if you don't have mental illness
04:44Okay
04:45Take a step backward
04:46If you come from a broken family
04:48So based on that
04:49Like
04:50So everyone follows their path
04:52Right?
04:53So from there
04:54We can see
04:55Their starting point
04:56Okay
04:57So
04:58To relate that to this question
05:00Is
05:01We women
05:03Since birth
05:04Or at least
05:05Our society
05:07We were raised
05:09Two or three steps backward
05:13So to chase them back
05:15What do we bring to the table?
05:17We bring our effort
05:20That you don't have
05:22That you weren't raised with
05:24You know
05:25You weren't raised with
05:26Like
05:27You can't go out at night
05:29You know
05:30Women can't go out at night
05:31Women can't
05:32If a woman goes out
05:33She has to be careful
05:34Right
05:35Like
05:36If a man
05:37Men's children
05:38Like
05:39Parents will tell them
05:42Go out and take care of yourself
05:43That's it
05:44But if a woman
05:45Like
05:46Who are you going out with?
05:47Who are you going out with?
05:48Who are your friends?
05:49Where are you going?
05:50Why are you dressed like that?
05:51Why are you dressed like that?
05:52She has a lot of questions
05:53Every question
05:54Is like
05:55One step backward
05:57So like
05:58What women bring to the table
06:00Is
06:01I think
06:02Our effort
06:03And actually
06:06How
06:08Because we have
06:09Effort
06:11We don't need men
06:13Because we can
06:14Achieve what we want
06:15Do you understand?
06:16Right
06:17Right
06:18So we need
06:19Men
06:20Who needs men
06:21Only need men
06:22To
06:23Like
06:25Because it's
06:27It's a
06:28Desire
06:29Not a need
06:30Right
06:31Right
06:32Men need
06:34Women
06:35Women want men
06:37Oh my god
06:38Do you understand?
06:39Wow
06:40Do you understand?
06:41You see the difference?
06:42Yes
06:43It's between a need and a want
06:44Right
06:45It's a long answer
06:46Right
06:47But
06:48If you look at today
06:49Men want women to be independent
06:52But like you said
06:53When a woman is independent
06:54She's like
06:56She's
06:57What do you call it?
06:58She has stepped on things
06:59That she couldn't do before
07:00So she has reached this stage
07:02Then suddenly
07:03She demands this man
07:04Okay
07:05You have to pay me higher
07:07Then the man is noisy
07:08Don't you feel like
07:11Do you want to throw up?
07:12Yes
07:13Always
07:14Right?
07:15Yes
07:16That's why
07:18If you can't
07:19With a woman of that level
07:20Don't look for her
07:22That's right
07:23That's why I said wow
07:24Because
07:25Minah is like
07:26You guys like to play games
07:28I like to play games too
07:29But
07:30Let's say that woman
07:31Has reached level 59
07:33Because she's
07:34Looking for that man
07:35But that man
07:36Level
07:3727
07:38Sorry
07:3927
07:40I want this level 59
07:41So this level 59
07:42If she wants to
07:44Be with this level 27
07:46She can't
07:47Enter a difficult dungeon
07:48Right?
07:49That's right
07:50She has to
07:51Like when we play Pokemon
07:52We can't go to a dungeon
07:53Pokemon level 59
07:55We have to play
07:56A dungeon level
07:57Pokemon level 29
07:59Level 27
08:00That this man can
08:01Fight
08:02So by being with a
08:05A man who
08:07At least doesn't want to make an effort
08:09He wants what's done
08:10He doesn't want to make an effort
08:12That's like
08:13It's tiring
08:14We've already
08:15We've already started
08:16Later than others
08:17Then we have to
08:19Have to
08:20One
08:21Can wait for you
08:23But
08:24Like
08:25Don't bring us
08:26Down to
08:27Dungeon level 27
08:28Understand?
08:29Understand?
08:30Understand?
08:31I just played the game
08:33I didn't play the game
08:35Okay so like
08:36If
08:38Do you believe
08:39With the sentence
08:41Difficult, easy, together
08:42Do you believe?
08:43Do you agree?
08:44I agree
08:45Because
08:46But if you come from
08:47Okay for example
08:48You're already
08:49Like this level
08:50The man just
08:51Half you
08:52A little below
08:53Understand?
08:54Then he said let's go
08:55Difficult, easy, together
08:56Are you okay?
08:57Okay back to
08:58The man level 27
09:00And the woman level 59
09:02If the man is level 27
09:03He said to the woman
09:04I want to stay
09:05I want to stay at this level
09:06I want to
09:07Explore
09:08Dungeon
09:09Level 27
09:10I don't want to stay
09:11Level 59
09:12Difficult
09:13Then
09:14Then the mindset
09:15Is different
09:16When the mindset
09:17Is different
09:18It's like
09:19It's not the same
09:20Actually
09:21Like people say
09:22The same is
09:23In terms of money
09:24And wealth
09:25Right
09:26But the same
09:27For me
09:28From
09:29In terms of
09:30Thinking
09:31If like
09:32Level 27
09:33He said
09:34I want
09:35I want
09:36With you
09:38But wait
09:39For me
09:40Go through the dungeons first
09:41But I have an aim
09:42Okay
09:43Dungeon 27
09:44Then dungeon 29
09:45Then like that
09:46So he's like
09:47He doesn't have the effort
09:48He shows his effort
09:50So the
09:51The woman level 29
09:54Sorry
09:55This is like the best
09:56I can easily use it
09:57This analogy
09:58So like
09:59The 59
10:00You can wait for the 27
10:01Right
10:02It's not age guys
10:03Level
10:04You guys think wrong
10:05Like
10:06No
10:07It's not age
10:08Level
10:09So back to
10:10What do you bring on the table
10:11Right
10:12Yeah
10:13You don't agree right
10:14Like
10:15I don't agree
10:16I also feel like
10:17Why
10:18We have to compare
10:19Compare
10:20Right
10:21Right
10:22Right
10:23So
10:24We
10:25Go to the first
10:26Curious card
10:27The first
10:28I'm pregnant
10:29Oh
10:30My workplace
10:31Actually
10:32When I started
10:33I want to get married
10:34He's noisy
10:35But
10:36My job is just walking
10:37No problem
10:38Okay
10:39And after marriage
10:40They always say
10:41You don't get pregnant
10:42But
10:43I'm pregnant after 2 years
10:44And my boss is noisy
10:45Because he's afraid
10:46To take a lot of leave
10:47Whereas
10:48All this time
10:49I work
10:50I rarely take a leave
10:51So when I want to apply
10:52Mutual leave
10:53They say
10:54Why take so long
10:55You can start working
10:56Right away
10:57After that
10:58They say
10:59You can take a leave
11:00But they will cut the salary
11:03Why
11:04Why is it so hard
11:05For a woman
11:06To get her own rights
11:07At work
11:08Before I open
11:09My story about my salary
11:10With a man
11:11Who pays the same salary
11:12As me
11:13It's different
11:18Okay
11:19How
11:20What do you think
11:23What do you think
11:26I think
11:27Maybe because
11:28I'm not married yet
11:29So I feel like
11:30I understand
11:32Okay
11:34This
11:35Is like
11:37Something that
11:38Because I used to live in Japan
11:40So
11:41There's a culture in Japan
11:43Oh really
11:44You studied in Japan
11:45Yes
11:46I studied in Japan
11:47In Japan
11:48There's a culture
11:49When a woman
11:50Is married
11:52She
11:53Will usually stay at home
11:55She will quit her job
11:56No matter how far
11:57She's gotten
11:58She will quit her job
12:01To take care of the family
12:02For
12:03Her
12:04Children
12:06So
12:07How
12:08Oh my god
12:09I hate this so much
12:10Because
12:11It's like
12:15Because we are
12:16Raised
12:18In the world of patriarchy
12:20People won't notice
12:21But
12:22If it's like
12:23Imagination
12:24Imagination
12:25If this world
12:26Is the world of patriarchy
12:27The first thing
12:28That will be in the office
12:29Is
12:30Daycare
12:31Daycare
12:32And
12:33Mothers
12:34Who are
12:35What
12:36Daycare and
12:37Emergency room
12:38Probably
12:39For
12:40Women who are pregnant
12:41That's the first thing
12:42And not many
12:43Companies
12:44Have those things
12:45Because
12:46The existence
12:47Of
12:48Workforce
12:49Since long ago
12:50It started with men
12:51Really
12:52Like the school system
12:53What we teach
12:54At the school
12:55Is to
12:56Make a workforce
12:57That works in the factory
12:58That was
12:59That was why
13:01So
13:02When
13:03We
13:04Get that kind of education
13:07We leave school
13:08We will go to
13:09That kind of job
13:10Like
13:11We just go to work
13:12They don't think
13:13In terms of
13:14What
13:15Humanity
13:17Their workers
13:20They become
13:21Inhumane
13:22They become
13:23You are just
13:24A
13:25Screw and bolt
13:26In the system
13:27In the machine
13:29So
13:30My opinion is
13:33Even the worst
13:34In Japan
13:35My friend
13:36Got
13:37Maternity leave
13:38For a year
13:39In Japan?
13:40In Japan
13:41Fully paid
13:42At least the company
13:43One company
13:44And that's like
13:45A few companies
13:46Actually
13:47Okay
13:48Because that can be the norm
13:49Because
13:50One thing
13:51They really want
13:52If they have children
13:53The government will pay
13:54Because
13:55They are
13:56A dwindling population
13:57They have more
13:58Older population
13:59So
14:00Population
14:01Like
14:02If anyone
14:03Have children
14:04Please
14:05Give us money
14:06So
14:07Check incentive
14:08That's why
14:09They encourage
14:10Maternity
14:11I'm not sure
14:12About maternity
14:13But maternity
14:14Is one year leave
14:15Then
14:16If you want to continue
14:17Maybe
14:18Half salary
14:19Fully paid
14:20Maternity
14:21Leave
14:22But
14:23They are
14:24Very
14:25They
14:26Don't
14:27Give
14:28Children
14:29Since they were young
14:30By the mother
14:31Not like
14:32The care
14:33That they take
14:34So
14:35Malaysia
14:36I don't know
14:373 months leave?
14:38Huh?
14:39Malaysia?
14:403 months I think
14:41I don't know
14:422 or 3 months
14:43But sad
14:44Basically sad
14:45Then
14:46Maternity leave
14:47Can't get
14:48Not all things
14:49Mom can do
14:50Mom
14:51Is struggling
14:52Even though
14:53She can hire
14:54Confinement lady
14:55But
14:56Like
14:57The child
14:58Can't be
14:59The mother
15:00Can't be
15:01The child
15:02Of the father
15:03Right
15:04So
15:05That's why
15:06Sad
15:07Pity
15:08So
15:09If it's like this
15:10I think
15:11It's better
15:12To find
15:13A new job
15:14Yes
15:15Find a new job
15:16If
15:17You want to get married
15:18You can't
15:19Right?
15:20Yes
15:21So
15:22Do you have
15:23Experience
15:24People
15:25Hugging men
15:26Always
15:27Even though
15:28I'm a freelancer
15:29And musician
15:30Basically
15:31I've seen
15:32In
15:34Not industry
15:35Scene
15:36The independent scene
15:39A lot of gigs
15:40That
15:41Prioritize
15:43Men bands
15:45Why?
15:46What's the reason?
15:48Because they said
15:49Like
15:50Okay
15:51Their reason is
15:52Men bands
15:53Umm
15:54More
15:55Like
15:56They have more experience
15:57When they play
15:58It's more
15:59Terrifying
16:00But because
16:01They give opportunities
16:03Because they're men
16:04Do you understand?
16:05Because like
16:06Women
16:07I can safely say
16:09Shows
16:10With more women
16:12Usually
16:13Even
16:14Women's day
16:15Women's day
16:16They'll be like
16:17All female lineup
16:18And other times
16:20When women want to play
16:21It's like
16:22We don't have enough practice
16:24And practice
16:25Band
16:26Like
16:27Band practice
16:28Not in jamming room
16:29No
16:30Practice is
16:31In front of audience
16:33That is the actual practice
16:35Because you interact with audience
16:37And that's how you improve
16:38Your stage presence
16:40For example
16:41It's heavy
16:42It's raining
16:44They get that
16:45Because
16:46They get that
16:47Because
16:48They always get
16:49Welcome
16:51To perform
16:52True
16:53I understand
16:54Emotion
16:55Like K-pop
16:56K-pop
16:57All of a sudden
16:58K-pop
16:59People used to be men
17:00Because
17:01They think
17:02Men
17:03Men's band
17:04Like
17:05Many fans
17:06So they'll sell more men
17:07Really?
17:09True
17:10Damn
17:12But BTS and Blackpink
17:13Like
17:14Same
17:15Same
17:16But Blackpink
17:17Like worldwide
17:18Or BTS
17:19I don't know
17:20I think
17:21In Korea
17:22Maybe
17:23Men's group
17:24Like
17:26They'll push
17:27I think
17:28There's a company
17:29That I used to watch
17:30They'll push men
17:31Women
17:32Like
17:33As usual
17:34So it actually happened
17:35Here too
17:36Yeah
17:39But there's a lot
17:40I think
17:41Female singers
17:42Like
17:43Female bands
17:44With talent
17:45But they're
17:46Not given a chance
17:47Yes
17:48That's the problem
17:49Because
17:50Female bands
17:51Are not given a chance
17:53Because
17:54They want to fill
17:55The line-up
17:56With male bands
17:57Like
17:58There's a lot
17:59Female bands
18:00Even if
18:01You want to call
18:02Female bands
18:03It's hard
18:04You mean
18:05The bands are mixed
18:06Yes
18:07Mixed
18:08That's hard too
18:09Like
18:10Wait
18:11It can't be
18:12It can't be
18:13The same line-up
18:14It's tiring
18:17Although
18:19But
18:20There's a lot
18:21Of new people
18:24That are mixed
18:25That are mixed
18:26In the scene
18:28But they're not given a chance
18:30Because they want to call
18:31Male bands
18:32That are established
18:33That's right
18:34I noticed
18:35I noticed too
18:36No wonder there's a lot
18:37Of male bands out there
18:38Yeah
18:40I'm tired
18:41Okay
18:43Okay
18:44Let's move
18:45To the next
18:46Curious Cat
18:48Okay
18:49This is about marriage
18:51Happily divorced
18:53Okay
18:57Okay
18:58About marriage
18:59Okay
19:06Okay
19:07Okay
19:08Alright
19:11As a wife
19:12I shouldn't be sad
19:13But I feel sad too
19:15Before fasting
19:16I asked my husband
19:17To go to this place
19:18With my son
19:19He gave me a lot of reasons
19:21He said he could go
19:22To that place
19:23With his friends
19:24That's twice
19:25He said
19:26If he goes with his friends
19:27He'll just bring his body
19:29If he brings me
19:30I'll have to go out
19:33The problem is
19:34When I want to have fun
19:35With my friends
19:36I can't
19:37Divorce
19:38Divorce
19:39It's not over yet
19:41Stay at home
19:42Take care of my son
19:43He can
19:45He can
19:46Go out
19:47Have fun
19:48With his friends
19:49So
19:50Live as a husband
19:51For your friends
19:52Put your wife
19:53At the bottom
19:56Okay
19:57There's
19:58There's this saying
19:59Again
20:00On Tiktok
20:01What is it?
20:02It's like
20:03Man
20:04Wants to be
20:06Wants to have kids
20:08But don't want to be a father
20:11Gas
20:13Surf
20:14Burn
20:16But that's
20:17Like
20:18Because
20:19Their
20:20Their
20:21If I can say it
20:22Rough
20:23Can
20:24Don't think
20:25Don't think
20:26Sorry guys
20:28But it's true
20:29Like
20:30The one
20:31The one who gives birth
20:32The one who carries
20:33The child
20:34Nine months
20:35Women
20:36Right?
20:37Right
20:38The one who faces
20:39Back pain
20:40Hormones
20:41Postpartum
20:42Women
20:43Again
20:44The one who takes care
20:45Of their children
20:47Wow
20:48I'm so proud
20:49You can go out
20:50And have fun
20:51Have fun
20:52Wait
20:53Wait
20:54You have kids
20:55Damn
20:56There's no way
20:57You have kids
20:58Duh
21:01But
21:02You know
21:03Like
21:04Do we have
21:05Women
21:06Who have kids
21:07Go play with them
21:08Rarely
21:09No
21:10Even if they bring
21:11They bring their kids
21:12Yes
21:13I've never seen a father
21:14So that's like
21:16Do you think
21:17You can do this
21:18Because you have free time
21:20It's more like
21:21You're not being a dad
21:23Right
21:24You're not a father
21:25But a
21:26Like
21:27Useless human
21:28I will say it
21:29Useless human
21:30Who doesn't think
21:31That
21:32Other people
21:33Who
21:34Make you have free time
21:36Other people
21:37Who
21:38Who clean the house
21:41Who prepares clothes
21:43Who prepares food
21:45Right
21:46So that you have free time
21:49Because
21:50I don't know
21:51If you've been to your
21:52Friends' house
21:53Or not
21:54Their
21:55House
21:56I don't know
21:57Can you agree
21:58The men here
21:59But I don't know
22:01Like
22:02Don't smile
22:03Wait
22:04Even my ex
22:05When I wasn't there
22:06That house
22:07Sorry
22:08But
22:09It's the truth
22:10Like
22:11They didn't throw away the trash
22:12I don't think
22:13I have to teach them
22:15They're not being taught
22:16That's why
22:17Right
22:18That's why
22:19Again
22:20The education
22:21Of this house
22:22From a young age
22:23It has to be from a young age
22:24Right
22:25Mom, dad
22:26Mom and dad
22:27Have to teach
22:28Boys and girls
22:29To take care of the house
22:30Right
22:31Do you know
22:32Like
22:33Let's say
22:34If she sees her dad
22:35Always going out
22:36With friends
22:37Not taking her to eat
22:38Everything else
22:39Her mom does
22:40When her son grows up
22:41He'll do the same
22:42To his wife
22:43Right
22:44Yes
22:45Yes
22:46Oh my god
22:47Yes, that's right
22:48That's right
22:50Hmm
22:52So what now
22:53What now
22:54Divorce, right
22:56But
22:57How
22:59Oh my god
23:00You're mad
23:02First step
23:03Couples therapy
23:05Second step
23:06If she doesn't want it
23:07Divorce
23:08To be honest
23:10From
23:11For example
23:12She has a son
23:14As of right now
23:15She actually has two sons
23:17Her husband
23:18Yes
23:19Understand
23:20Instead of having to take care of her husband
23:21Who doesn't know where he's going
23:23It's better for me to take care of my son
23:24That's right
23:25Settle
23:26That's right
23:27It hurts even more
23:28When she wants to go with her friend
23:29She says
23:30Oh, if I go with my friend
23:31I'll only bring my body
23:32If I bring it with you
23:33I'll have to go out
23:34That's it
23:35Oh
23:36I cannot be too
23:37She has a harder word
23:38But it's like
23:39Hmm
23:40Is it true
23:41Like
23:42Why
23:43How can you
23:44How can you think like that
23:45That's right
23:46That's right
23:47This is her behavior
23:48Behavior
23:49Oh
23:50Okay
23:51You just want to get married
23:52Then you want to have fun
23:53It's important before getting married
23:54Before getting married
23:55Instead of doing HIV test
23:56That's right
23:57You have to do HIV test
23:58With the doctor
23:59That's right
24:00You have to do HIV test
24:01With the doctor
24:02That's right
24:03You have to do HIV test
24:04With the doctor
24:05With the marriage course
24:06That's right
24:07Marriage course
24:08Oh my God
24:09HIV test and marriage course
24:10You don't have to
24:11You don't have to do this
24:12One
24:13Both of you have to go to therapy
24:14Check both of your head
24:15Check both of your head
24:16Because if it's not compatible
24:17It will be like this
24:18That's right
24:19The second
24:20You have to make sure
24:21That the man
24:22Understands the responsibility
24:23As a husband
24:24And a father
24:25That's right
24:26If he wants to be a father
24:27Because if your behavior is like that
24:28You don't want to be a father
24:29That's right
24:30You better be like
24:31Dengs
24:32Dengs
24:33Dengs
24:34Dengs
24:35Dengs
24:36Dual income
24:37No kids
24:38That's right
24:39So just Dengs
24:40That's it
24:41Many men now
24:42They think
24:43You want to marry me
24:44What is the price?
24:4510K
24:46Take it
24:48So
24:49I already gave that
24:50I already gave food
24:51I already gave food
24:52Enough money
24:53Then I leave
24:54To have fun
24:55Oh my God
24:56Usually like that
24:57What do you bring on the table?
24:58What do you bring on the table?
24:59What do you bring on the table?
25:00What do you bring on the table?
25:01Yeah
25:02Okay
25:03Last question
25:04Last
25:05Last
25:06Look
25:07Oh this about
25:08What do you bring on the table
25:09The thing that has been discussed
25:10Does everyone understand
25:13What are you Vivian?
25:14You want to marry
25:15Why need to compare
25:16Who pay more
25:17Who pays less
25:18Is not a man
25:19Responsible
25:20To compensate
25:21A woman
25:22If you're not able
25:23To compensate a woman
25:24Find a woman
25:25Who can receive
25:26What you offer
25:27Burnt
25:28Really
25:29Really
25:30This is
25:31These are
25:32It's like...
25:34Hmm...
25:35Yeah, that's right.
25:36Yeah, that's right.
25:37What are you talking about?
25:39That's right.
25:40That statement is very accurate.
25:42That's right.
25:43So, wait a minute.
25:44Like, in a marriage,
25:46what do you think is the right of a woman
25:48that she should get,
25:49but a lot of women don't get?
25:51Oh, a lot.
25:53A lot is actually crazy.
25:55It's written in the Qur'an itself.
25:57But the man is married four times.
26:00That's what he thinks.
26:01That's my right.
26:02That's what he thinks.
26:03That's my friend.
26:04He studies with this Ustaz.
26:08He told me.
26:09I don't study.
26:10He studies with Tafsir and all that.
26:13Okay.
26:14So, he explained to me.
26:15How?
26:16About nuqshus.
26:17Okay.
26:18In what we always hear,
26:20in the Sharia court,
26:22it's like this.
26:23If a woman commits nuqshus,
26:25a man...
26:26How?
26:27Shit.
26:28If a woman commits nuqshus,
26:30a man can ask for a divorce.
26:32But a man can also commit nuqshus.
26:35Which is, a man can...
26:38Nuqshus is when a woman
26:40goes out without permission,
26:42goes out to do anything
26:44that involves nuqshus.
26:46I don't remember what nuqshus is.
26:47But what nuqshus is,
26:49a man can actually do nuqshus.
26:50And a woman can ask for a divorce.
26:52Is this one of the couple,
26:55an artist who made a woman
26:57file nuqshus to her husband?
26:59Oh, which artist?
27:01Not me.
27:02I'm a fast track.
27:04There's a fast track, guys.
27:05A fast track to divorce.
27:066 hours to settle.
27:09Okay, I don't know.
27:10But, that's it.
27:11So, it means that a woman
27:13can also file nuqshus.
27:15A woman can file nuqshus.
27:16But the problem with
27:17what we've heard
27:18about the Sharia court,
27:19is that they're like
27:21putting pressure on men.
27:24I don't know why.
27:25It's like,
27:28I'm just mumbling.
27:29But,
27:30going back to what was it?
27:32The rights of a wife.
27:33The rights of a wife in a marriage.
27:35Like, I'll give you another example.
27:37Aishah Ijanan.
27:39Sorry for the name.
27:40But, what Aishah Ijanan did,
27:42was something that
27:44every wife needs to know,
27:45even though her husband
27:46allegedly won't marry again.
27:48Allegedly,
27:49her husband won't marry again.
27:50Because,
27:51what he did was,
27:52he demanded,
27:53as soon as
27:54he knew,
27:57as soon as he knew,
27:58or as soon as they registered,
27:59like Fatin and Alif registered,
28:02Aishah demanded
28:04the right
28:05of her husband's property.
28:08Which means,
28:09for example,
28:10Alif Tiga,
28:11has received
28:1210,000 rupiahs
28:13every month.
28:14Okay.
28:15Before she married
28:16Fatin.
28:17Is it Fatin?
28:18Before she married Fatin.
28:19So,
28:20after she married Fatin,
28:21she demanded
28:23from the court.
28:24The court said,
28:25like,
28:26Aishah Ijanan
28:27deserves the 10,000 rupiahs.
28:28Fully to her.
28:29So,
28:30for Fatin's responsibility,
28:31she has to find another money.
28:32Hmm.
28:33Isn't the 10,000 rupiahs
28:34divided into two?
28:35No.
28:36Ah, that's what
28:37the men out there
28:38forgot.
28:39This is what
28:40the men out there,
28:41the wives,
28:42for the first time,
28:43for the first time,
28:44need to remember.
28:46If I'm not mistaken,
28:47that's what
28:48he did.
28:49So,
28:50if,
28:51um,
28:52if you want to marry Dato,
28:53you have to marry Dato,
28:54right?
28:55So,
28:56the first wife is Dato.
28:57Then,
28:58Dato has, like,
28:591 million rupiahs a month,
29:00right?
29:01She gives us
29:021 million rupiahs a month.
29:03Then,
29:04if she wants to marry again,
29:05she can.
29:06But I get 1 million rupiahs a month.
29:07You can't give
29:081 million rupiahs
29:09to the second wife,
29:10second,
29:11third,
29:12fourth wife.
29:13You can't.
29:14Hmm.
29:15But you have to go to court.
29:16You have to have that procedure.
29:17That's what Aishah Ijanan did
29:19There's a lot more
29:20about the wife.
29:21But,
29:22and even in the Quran.
29:24I don't remember.
29:25I don't know.
29:26But,
29:27for us,
29:28to be,
29:29a marriage course,
29:30we should know that.
29:32But of course,
29:33we don't know.
29:34True.
29:35We're stuck in that.
29:37That's it.
29:38There's a lot
29:39about women.
29:40And that,
29:41seriously,
29:42I found out for the first time.
29:43Me too,
29:44from my friend.
29:45So,
29:46there's a lot more
29:47that we don't know.
29:48Yes.
29:50Guys,
29:52we support us, guys.
29:53True.
29:54Okay,
29:55about that,
29:56you have a message
29:57for the women out there
29:58who don't get their rights.
30:00It doesn't matter if it's
30:01a marriage,
30:02a job,
30:05who don't get their rights.
30:06Hmm.
30:11Google is your best friend.
30:13In a,
30:14in a,
30:15in a very empowering way.
30:17I mean,
30:18if you think,
30:21should I,
30:22should I get all of this?
30:24Is this all I should get?
30:27In life,
30:28you should Google that.
30:30For example,
30:31rights,
30:32jobs,
30:33maybe there are
30:34rights,
30:35rights that can,
30:36rights that can,
30:37that can
30:38save
30:39that,
30:41that earlier,
30:42that,
30:43that boss,
30:44maybe there are rights
30:45that you can,
30:46that you can sue that boss.
30:48Google is your friend.
30:50Hmm.
30:51In all the knowledge.
30:52Like,
30:53the wife's rights,
30:54Google.
30:55The workers' rights,
30:56Google.
30:57True.
30:58The people's rights,
31:00Google.
31:02That's right.
31:04Alright,
31:05so we have reached
31:06the end of,
31:08it's been a while, right?
31:09Yeah, it's been a while.
31:10It's been a while.
31:12There are many rights
31:13that I don't know about.
31:14I don't know.
31:15Oh, Taka, can you share?
31:16The rights of the creator?
31:17Oh, I don't have it.
31:18I don't have it.
31:19I don't have it.
31:20I don't know.
31:21I just heard the story.
31:22I don't know.
31:23Alright,
31:24so,
31:25oh, Taka,
31:26I heard you have a single
31:29that just came out, right?
31:30I have an album.
31:31An album?
31:32Yeah.
31:33Okay.
31:34Okay.
31:35Do you want to spend a little?
31:36Spend what?
31:37Spend a little.
31:39It's expensive.
31:41Let me check my pocket.
31:42How much is it?
31:45I don't want to spend.
31:46I don't want to spend.
31:47Okay.
31:48Alright.
31:49Free Palestine, guys.
31:50Open Rafa crossing.
31:55Okay.
31:56Thank you so much, Taka,
31:57for coming.
31:58Thank you.
31:59Thank you.
32:00Alright.
32:01So, if you want to know more
32:02about the next topic
32:05for next week,
32:06you can comment below, okay?
32:15Alright.
32:16Bye.
32:17Bye.
32:18Bye.
32:19Bye.
32:20Bye.
32:21Bye.